How it feels
When it feels unseen
Words that often leave people feeling unseen. Pick one that sounds familiar.
- Why does “anyway, listen to what happened to me…” hurt so much?
- Why does “arre, leave it, it'll get done!” hurt so much?
- Why does “arre, you're the planner, you book it!” hurt so much?
- Why does “being the reliable one should count for something” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “beta, you talk to him” hurt so much?
- Why does “did you even study?” hurt so much?
- Why does “good people should get good things” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “HBD! Party kab hai?” hurt so much?
- Why does “Hm? Were you saying something?” hurt so much?
- Why does “honest people shouldn't come last” weigh on me so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “I have to be the strong one”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I shouldn't want more”?
- Why does “if I'm kind, people should be kind back” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “it was a team effort, na?” hurt so much?
- Why does “just make something simple, na” hurt so much?
- Why does “let me handle the baby” hurt so much?
- Why does “maybe next cycle, okay?” hurt so much?
- Why does “my boss should ask for my opinion” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should give me credit for my work” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should say thank you sometimes” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should treat everyone in the team the same” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my colleagues should credit me for my part” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should be loyal to me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should notice when I go the extra mile” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should treat us like the family it says we are” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my eldest should look out for the younger ones” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should remember what I've done for them” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should share the hosting fairly” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should sit down and eat together” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should value what I do at home” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should ask how I'm doing” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should make the plans for once” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should notice the effort I put in” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should reach out first sometimes” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should remember my birthday” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my grown-up kids should ask for my advice” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my in-laws should appreciate what I bring to the family” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should call me every week” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should remember my birthday without a reminder” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should reply to my messages” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should work as hard at school as I did” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my neighbours should help out when asked” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my neighbours should return what they borrow” weigh on me so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “my opinion doesn't really count”?
- Why does “my parents should help more with my kids” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should tell me how they really feel” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should ask about my day” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should notice when I make an effort” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should notice when I'm tired” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should plan things for us sometimes” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should remember what matters to me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should say thanks for what I do” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should share the chores fairly” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should show affection in small ways” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my sibling should include me in their life” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my sibling should see how much I do for them” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my siblings should share the load at home” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my siblings should visit our parents as often as I do” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my sister should help more with Mum” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my tutor should see that I'm trying” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my workplace should notice the quiet workers too” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “nobody replied to your message” hurt so much?
- Why does “oh, didn't anyone tell you?” hurt so much?
- Why does “oh, it was just a last-minute plan” hurt so much?
- Why does “people should remember my name” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “people should say thank you” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “something came up” hurt so much?
- Why does “sorry yaar, been so busy!” hurt so much?
- Why does “sorry, just to jump in here…” hurt so much?
- Why does “study harder” hurt so much?
- Why does “what do you know?” hurt so much?
- Why does “where's the chai?” hurt so much?
- Why does “you do it, you're better at it” hurt so much?
- Why does “you just got lucky” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're earning well, you pay” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're right there, you handle it” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're so good at this” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're so lazy” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're too strict” hurt so much?