Everyday words, looked at closely
Why does it hurt so much?
Everyday words people hear, and the rules we quietly carry, looked at closely. Pick one that sounds familiar.
By where you hear it
- Age & growing up6 pages
- Being a parent9 pages
- Being heard9 pages
- Beliefs40 pages
- Belonging2 pages
- Belonging & identity14 pages
- Blame9 pages
- Body comments17 pages
- Body & looks4 pages
- Career & comparison11 pages
- Comparisons1 page
- Daily life31 pages
- Dating & closeness8 pages
- Expectations272 pages
- Family talk30 pages
- Friends21 pages
- Health & care9 pages
- In-laws9 pages
- Marriage & settling down7 pages
- Money talk7 pages
- Online21 pages
- Put-downs14 pages
- Self-worth10 pages
- Studies2 pages
- Studies & results5 pages
- Work31 pages
By how it feels
Everything here
- Why does “a good child would care for them at home” hurt so much?
- Why does “a good daughter-in-law would…” hurt so much?
- Why does “a good degree should lead to a good career” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “act your age” hurt so much?
- Why does “actually, can we change one small thing?” hurt so much?
- Why does “admin removed you” hurt so much?
- Why does “after everything we've done for you” hurt so much?
- Why does “Already posted! You look fine in it, relax” hurt so much?
- Why does “any minute now, they'll see I'm winging it” hurt so much?
- Why does “any update on this?” hurt so much?
- Why does “anyway, listen to what happened to me…” hurt so much?
- Why does “are you even feeding them?” hurt so much?
- Why does “are you even listening?” hurt so much?
- Why does “are you not interested in anyone?” hurt so much?
- Why does “are you sure?” hurt so much?
- Why does “arre, everyone saw that!” hurt so much?
- Why does “arre, I was just about to do it!” hurt so much?
- Why does “arre, leave it, it'll get done!” hurt so much?
- Why does “arre, where did you disappear?” hurt so much?
- Why does “arre, you should have told me!” hurt so much?
- Why does “arre, you're the planner, you book it!” hurt so much?
- Why does “arre, you've become so healthy!” hurt so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “asking for help means I've failed”?
- Why do I keep thinking “asking for what I want is rude”?
- Why does “at your age I was already…” hurt so much?
- Why does “at your age, you should know better” hurt so much?
- Why does “be a man” hurt so much?
- Why does “be the first to like this” hurt so much?
- Why does “being older should mean I'm taken seriously” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “being the reliable one should count for something” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “beta, why didn't you reply in the family group?” hurt so much?
- Why does “beta, you talk to him” hurt so much?
- Why does “bro, do you even know what you're talking about?” hurt so much?
- Why does “but you look fine to me” hurt so much?
- Why does “by now, I should have…” hurt so much?
- Why does “can we postpone?” hurt so much?
- Why does “can you just take this?” hurt so much?
- Why does “can you lend me some money?” hurt so much?
- Why does “can't you read the sign?” hurt so much?
- Why does “can't you see I'm busy?” hurt so much?
- Why does “come back tomorrow” hurt so much?
- Why does “come on yaar, just this once” hurt so much?
- Why does “could you explain the issue from the start?” hurt so much?
- Why does “Delete this. Nobody wants to see it” hurt so much?
- Why does “did you eat?” hurt so much?
- Why does “did you even read the brief?” hurt so much?
- Why does “did you even study?” hurt so much?
- Why does “did you hear what they were saying about you?” hurt so much?
- Why does “did you listen to my voice note?” hurt so much?
- Why does “do you even eat?” hurt so much?
- Why does “don't be so negative” hurt so much?
- Why does “don't be so picky” hurt so much?
- Why does “don't go in now, his mood is off” hurt so much?
- Why does “don't tell anyone you're unwell” hurt so much?
- Why does “drivers should let me merge into their lane” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “everyone else looks so happy online” hurt so much?
- Why does “everyone else manages, why can't you?” hurt so much?
- Why does “everyone's coming to ours this year!” hurt so much?
- Why does “everyone's further along than you” hurt so much?
- Why does “everyone's here, only you're missing!” hurt so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “everything has to go to plan”?
- Why does “first time here, huh?” hurt so much?
- Why does “from Monday, your shift starts at six” hurt so much?
- Why does “get over it already” hurt so much?
- Why does “go back to where you came from” hurt so much?
- Why does “good people should get good things” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “got a sec?” hurt so much?
- Why does “grow up” hurt so much?
- Why does “haan, haan, I heard you!” hurt so much?
- Why does “haha, you had to be there” hurt so much?
- Why does “hard conversations should go the way I rehearsed them” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “have you put on weight?” hurt so much?
- Why does “have you tried this?” hurt so much?
- Why does “HBD! Party kab hai?” hurt so much?
- Why does “he earns double what you do” hurt so much?
- Why does “hi parents, has everyone submitted already?” hurt so much?
- Why does “Hm? Were you saying something?” hurt so much?
- Why does “honest people shouldn't come last” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “how many days are you here for?” hurt so much?
- Why does “how much did you get?” hurt so much?
- Why does “hurry up!” hurt so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “I can only rely on myself”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I can relax once everything is done”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I can't change my mind now”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I have to be sure before I decide”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I have to be the strong one”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I have to do it perfectly, or not at all”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I have to earn my place”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I have to fit in to be accepted”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I have to have it all figured out”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I have to look like I've got it together”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I have to make my parents' sacrifices worth it”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I have to prove them wrong”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I have to reply straight away”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I must never make mistakes”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I need everyone to like me”?
- Why does “I should be doing something useful” hurt so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “I should be over it by now”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I should have known better”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I shouldn't get angry”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I shouldn't want more”?
- Why does “I told you so” hurt so much?
- Why does “I was counting on you” hurt so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “I'll be happy once I get there”?
- Why does “I'll just check your work” hurt so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “I'm behind where I should be”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I'm just not built for that”?
- Why do I keep thinking “I'm not good enough”?
- Why does “I'm so disappointed in you” hurt so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “I'm too sensitive”?
- Why do I keep thinking “if I change, I'm forgetting where I come from”?
- Why does “if I do the right thing, things should work out” weigh on me so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “if I don't do it, it won't get done”?
- Why do I keep thinking “if I rest, I'm lazy”?
- Why does “if I wait my turn, my turn should come” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “if I'm kind, people should be kind back” weigh on me so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “if I'm not the best, I've failed”?
- Why do I keep thinking “if we disagree, we can't be close”?
- Why does “in my day, kids listened” hurt so much?
- Why does “in our house we do it this way” hurt so much?
- Why does “is it really urgent?” hurt so much?
- Why does “is it really worth it, staying over there?” hurt so much?
- Why does “is that a real job?” hurt so much?
- Why does “is that all you did?” hurt so much?
- Why does “is that all you scored?” hurt so much?
- Why does “is that how you raise a child?” hurt so much?
- Why does “it was a team effort, na?” hurt so much?
- Why does “it was working fine this morning” hurt so much?
- Why does “it's all about who you know here” hurt so much?
- Why does “it's all in the folder” hurt so much?
- Why does “it's all in your head” hurt so much?
- Why does “it's late here, beta” hurt so much?
- Why does “it's not all about you” hurt so much?
- Why does “it's not just your flat, you know” hurt so much?
- Why does “it's only till eleven, please adjust” hurt so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “it's too late for me to start now”?
- Why does “jaldi, I need it in ten minutes” hurt so much?
- Why does “just adjust, don't make it a big deal” hurt so much?
- Why does “just five minutes, almost there!” hurt so much?
- Why does “just make something simple, na” hurt so much?
- Why does “just one more story, then I'll stop” hurt so much?
- Why does “keep your voice down” hurt so much?
- Why does “kuch bhi chalega, you guys decide” hurt so much?
- Why does “Later! I'll do my homework later!” hurt so much?
- Why does “learn to drive!” hurt so much?
- Why does “leaving already?” hurt so much?
- Why does “let me explain it from the basics” hurt so much?
- Why does “let me handle the baby” hurt so much?
- Why does “let's circle back on this next week” hurt so much?
- Why does “life should be easier once I get there” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “life should be fair” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “life should reward hard work” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “life should slow down at some point” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “long story, you weren't here for it” hurt so much?
- Why does “look at your cousin” hurt so much?
- Why does “look what I found!” hurt so much?
- Why does “look where he is now” hurt so much?
- Why does “loyalty should be returned” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “maybe next cycle, okay?” hurt so much?
- Why does “money doesn't grow on trees” hurt so much?
- Why does “move in, move in, there's space inside!” hurt so much?
- Why does “moving to a new city should be a fresh start” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “mummy-Papa are coming for a month” hurt so much?
- Why does “must be nice to afford that” hurt so much?
- Why does “my best friend should take my side” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should ask for my opinion” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should back me up in front of clients” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should be someone I can look up to” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should believe I can do my job” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should give clear instructions” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should give me credit for my work” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should give me work that helps me grow” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should keep the promises they make me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should keep their bad moods out of the office” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should know what I'm actually good at” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should let me do things my own way” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should let me take time off without a fuss” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should notice how hard I work” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should protect my time from useless meetings” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should remember what we talked about” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should say thank you sometimes” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should see what I could become” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should stand up for me when things go wrong” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should stand up for our team” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should tell me about changes before everyone else” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should tell me things early, not at review time” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should tell me where I stand” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should treat everyone in the team the same” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss should understand my situation” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my boss shouldn't message me after work hours” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my brother should call me more” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my child should come back home after studying abroad” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my child should follow the career I hoped for them” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my child should take over the family business” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my child's school should keep me informed” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my child's teacher should give them more attention” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my children should come home for the holidays” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my children should get along with each other” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my children should have a better life than I had” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my coach should pick me for the team” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my colleagues should be straightforward with me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my colleagues should cover for me when I'm away” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my colleagues should credit me for my part” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my colleagues should hand work over properly” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my colleagues should include me at lunch” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my colleagues should keep gossip out of work” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my colleagues should offer help without me asking” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my colleagues should pull their weight” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my colleagues should reply on time” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my colleagues should share what they know” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my colleagues should take my ideas seriously” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my colleagues shouldn't talk over me in meetings” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should ask us before changing everything” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should be clear about what my job is” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should be flexible about how I work” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should be loyal to me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should care about people, not just results” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should give me what I need to do my job” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should invest in my growth” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should keep a good team together” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should keep the promises it made when I joined” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should let me finish what I started” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should listen to its staff” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should make room for new ideas” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should notice when I go the extra mile” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should promote from within” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should respect my weekends” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should reward the people who stay” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should run reviews fairly” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should treat every team the same” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my company should treat us like the family it says we are” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my cousins should include me in their plans” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my elder sibling should guide me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my eldest should look out for the younger ones” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should accept that I live abroad” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should ask before coming to stay” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should ask how I'm doing, not just what I'm doing” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should back me up in front of others” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should be proud of where I've got to” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should be there for my big days” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should come and see where I live now” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should come together at festival time” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should keep my private things private” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should let me make my own decisions” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should let old fights go” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should listen when I speak” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should make my friends feel welcome” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should notice when I'm not okay” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should pay for my studies” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should remember what I've done for them” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should share the hosting fairly” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should sit down and eat together” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should stop discussing my life in the group chat” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should support my career change” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should talk things through instead of going quiet” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family should value what I do at home” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my family shouldn't take sides in every disagreement” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should apologise properly when they hurt me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should ask how I'm doing” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should be happy for me when things go well” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should be honest with me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should call me when they're back in town” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should come and visit since I moved” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should get me without me explaining” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should invite me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should keep our yearly trip going” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should keep what I tell them to themselves” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should loop me in when they make plans” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should make the plans for once” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should make time for me even when they're busy” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should notice the effort I put in” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should reach out first sometimes” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should remember my birthday” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should reply to my messages” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should show up when they say they will” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should stay close when their lives change” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should take the advice they ask me for” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends should understand I have less time now” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends shouldn't cancel at the last minute” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends shouldn't talk about me behind my back” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my friends shouldn't turn my news into theirs” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my grown-up kids should ask for my advice” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my grown-up kids should be standing on their own by now” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my in-laws should accept me as I am” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my in-laws should appreciate what I bring to the family” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my in-laws should call before they come over” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my in-laws should get to know the real me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my in-laws should give me time to learn their ways” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my in-laws should include me in family decisions” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my in-laws should let us make our own decisions” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my in-laws should respect how we raise our kids” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my in-laws should respect my family as much as theirs” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my in-laws should stop comparing me with others” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my in-laws shouldn't expect me to change my whole routine” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should be polite to our relatives” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should call me every week” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should come to me when something's wrong” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should help around the house without being asked” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should keep their own room tidy” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should listen the first time I ask” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should live close to us” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should make me proud in front of others” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should put their phones away at dinner” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should remember my birthday without a reminder” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should reply to my messages” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should take care of me when I'm old” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should take my side in a family argument” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should tell me what's going on in their lives” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my kids should work as hard at school as I did” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my manager should fight for my promotion” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my manager should take an interest in my development” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my neighbours should be friendlier to my kids” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my neighbours should help out when asked” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my neighbours should include us in local get-togethers” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my neighbours should keep it down at night” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my neighbours should keep the shared areas clean” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my neighbours should keep their dog quiet” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my neighbours should park properly” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my neighbours should return what they borrow” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my neighbours should say hello” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my neighbours should tell us before building work starts” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my neighbours shouldn't complain about every little thing” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my old friends should stay close even though I moved abroad” weigh on me so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “my opinion doesn't really count”?
- Why does “my parents should accept my friends” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should ask about my life, not just my results” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should be easier to talk to” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should be happy with what I've achieved” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should be the grandparents I imagined” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should have been around more when I was young” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should have let me make my own mistakes” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should have saved for my future” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should help more with my kids” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should just listen without fixing it” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should let me choose my career” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should like the person I've become” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should say "I love you" out loud” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should say sorry when they're wrong” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should see that I'm an adult now” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should show up for my big moments” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should stay out of my decisions” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should stop comparing me with my cousins” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should stop telling me how to live” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should tell me how they really feel” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should tell me they're proud of me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should treat all of us the same” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should trust my judgement by now” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should understand how hard my job is” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my parents should understand the choices I make” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should ask about my day” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should be on time when it matters” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should be there for my big days” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should be warm with my family” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should get along with my friends” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should listen without fixing” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should make plans with my friends too” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should make time for us” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should notice when I make an effort” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should notice when I'm tired” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should plan things for us sometimes” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should put the phone down at dinner” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should remember what matters to me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should say sorry first sometimes” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should say thanks for what I do” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should share the chores fairly” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should show affection in small ways” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should support my work” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my partner should try things I enjoy” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my professor should reply to my emails” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my qualifications should be enough to get the job” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my relatives should stop asking about my plans” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my relatives should treat my kids like the other grandkids” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my school should have prepared me for real life” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my sibling and I should be as close as we were” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my sibling should be happy for my wins” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my sibling should include me in their life” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my sibling should keep what I tell them between us” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my sibling should see how much I do for them” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my sibling should stop competing with me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my siblings should share the load at home” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my siblings should visit our parents as often as I do” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my sister should help more with Mum” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my teacher should explain it again until I get it” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my teacher should have believed in me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my teacher shouldn't have favourites” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my teachers should have noticed me when I was quiet” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my teachers should have pushed me harder” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my teenagers should want to spend time with me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my things should just work when I need them” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my tutor should see that I'm trying” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my twenties should be the best years of my life” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my weekends should feel like a real break” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my workplace should give new people a proper start” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my workplace should give us notice before changes” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my workplace should make meetings worth the time” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my workplace should notice the quiet workers too” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my workplace should value doing it properly over fast” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my workplace should value experience” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “my younger sibling should respect me” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “nobody replied to your message” hurt so much?
- Why does “not bad, but it's not like home, na?” hurt so much?
- Why does “now that you're home, dinner is at nine” hurt so much?
- Why does “oh no, was it your birthday yesterday?” hurt so much?
- Why does “oh, didn't anyone tell you?” hurt so much?
- Why does “oh, I was just cleaning up my follows” hurt so much?
- Why does “oh, it was just a last-minute plan” hurt so much?
- Why does “ok” hurt so much?
- Why does “once I get the new job, I should feel settled” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “our holidays should be perfect” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “our son could have married anyone” hurt so much?
- Why does “oye, can't you see?” hurt so much?
- Why does “people are starting to talk” hurt so much?
- Why does “people at a new job should make the new person feel welcome” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “people should be on time” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “people should clean up after themselves” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “people should give me time while I'm still learning” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “people should hold the door” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “people should keep their word” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “people should offer their seat to those who need it” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “people should put their phones away when you're talking” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “people should remember my name” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “people should say sorry when they bump into you” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “people should say thank you” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “people should use headphones in public” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “people should wait their turn in the queue” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “per my last email…” hurt so much?
- Why does “put me down as a maybe” hurt so much?
- Why does “relax, it's just a joke!” hurt so much?
- Why does “relax, it's not a big deal” hurt so much?
- Why does “say it properly” hurt so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “saying no is selfish”?
- Why does “Seen. No reply” hurt so much?
- Why does “settled yet?” hurt so much?
- Why does “she's so lucky to have a child like you” hurt so much?
- Why does “shop staff should be polite to customers” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “should you be eating that?” hurt so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “showing my feelings makes me weak”?
- Why does “Shut up. Nobody asked you” hurt so much?
- Why does “so which one is home now?” hurt so much?
- Why does “so, loving the new city?” hurt so much?
- Why does “so, what are you doing these days?” hurt so much?
- Why does “something came up” hurt so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “sooner or later, they'll find me out”?
- Why does “sorry to bother you, but…” hurt so much?
- Why does “sorry yaar, been so busy!” hurt so much?
- Why does “sorry you feel that way” hurt so much?
- Why does “sorry, just to jump in here…” hurt so much?
- Why does “speak English” hurt so much?
- Why does “starting over should be easier than this” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “still at that job?” hurt so much?
- Why does “still single?” hurt so much?
- Why does “Stop crying. Stop being so weak” hurt so much?
- Why does “stop making excuses” hurt so much?
- Why does “study harder” hurt so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “talking about my wins is showing off”?
- Why does “teachers should grade everyone fairly” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “thanks, but it's a no this time” hurt so much?
- Why does “that's not how we do it here” hurt so much?
- Why does “that's not my problem” hurt so much?
- Why does “that's nothing, wait till you hear mine” hurt so much?
- Why does “that's so cringe” hurt so much?
- Why does “the elders in my family should hear the younger ones out” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “the rules should apply to everyone” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “the world should be kinder than it is” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “there's nothing wrong with you” hurt so much?
- Why does “things should go back to how they were” weigh on me so much?
- Why does “tomorrow, for real this time” hurt so much?
- Why does “tomorrow's Monday, na?” hurt so much?
- Why does “try this, na” hurt so much?
- Why does “two seconds, only asking something!” hurt so much?
- Why does “two weeks here and you still don't know this?” hurt so much?
- Why does “umm… I think this wasn't meant for this group?” hurt so much?
- Why does “wait your turn” hurt so much?
- Why does “wait, I thought you were handling this?” hurt so much?
- Why does “wait, you two don't talk anymore?” hurt so much?
- Why does “we don't talk about all this at home” hurt so much?
- Why does “we made a new group” hurt so much?
- Why does “we tried that already” hurt so much?
- Why does “we'll put you on video for the cake!” hurt so much?
- Why does “we're all family here” hurt so much?
- Why does “we're only saying this for your own good” hurt so much?
- Why does “we've found someone for you” hurt so much?
- Why does “what are you doing at the gym?” hurt so much?
- Why does “what do you know?” hurt so much?
- Why does “what if the other one was better?” hurt so much?
- Why does “what will people say?” hurt so much?
- Why does “what will you do with that degree?” hurt so much?
- Why does “what's that supposed to mean?” hurt so much?
- Why does “what's wrong with your skin?” hurt so much?
- Why does “what's your package?” hurt so much?
- Why does “whatever happened to your guitar classes?” hurt so much?
- Why does “when are you getting married?” hurt so much?
- Why do I keep thinking “when others do well, I fall behind”?
- Why do I keep thinking “when things go well, I wait for the catch”?
- Why does “when's the good news?” hurt so much?
- Why does “when's the promotion?” hurt so much?
- Why does “where are you really from?” hurt so much?
- Why does “where did you keep it last?” hurt so much?
- Why does “where's the chai?” hurt so much?
- Why does “which rank did you get?” hurt so much?
- Why does “who do you think you are?” hurt so much?
- Why does “who raised you?” hurt so much?
- Why does “who taught you to cook like that?” hurt so much?
- Why does “who will marry you looking like that?” hurt so much?
- Why does “whose side are you on?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why are the dishes still in the sink?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why are you so quiet?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why are you so stingy?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why are you still single?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why aren't you more ambitious?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why can't you just be normal?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why can't you just do it properly?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why can't you just take a compliment?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why can't you look more like your sister?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why did you even say that?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why did you say no?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why did you switch careers?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why didn't you like my post?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why do you care?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why do you have to be so difficult?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why don't you go out more?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why is everyone else getting this faster?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why not engineering or medicine?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why weren't you online?” hurt so much?
- Why does “why would you post that?” hurt so much?
- Why does “yaar, what should I do now?” hurt so much?
- Why does “you always do this” hurt so much?
- Why does “you can't wear that with your figure” hurt so much?
- Why does “you did exactly this last time too” hurt so much?
- Why does “you did so well, for once” hurt so much?
- Why does “you do it, you're better at it” hurt so much?
- Why does “you don't look like you're from here” hurt so much?
- Why does “you have 37 new notifications” hurt so much?
- Why does “you just got lucky” hurt so much?
- Why does “you know how to do this, right?” hurt so much?
- Why does “you know me, I'm always late!” hurt so much?
- Why does “you look so much older” hurt so much?
- Why does “you look tired” hurt so much?
- Why does “you never call” hurt so much?
- Why does “you should have gone abroad” hurt so much?
- Why does “you should have left earlier” hurt so much?
- Why does “you should just be more confident” hurt so much?
- Why does “you should just…” hurt so much?
- Why does “you should put yourself out there” hurt so much?
- Why does “you spend too much” hurt so much?
- Why does “you talk too much” hurt so much?
- Why does “you think you're better than us” hurt so much?
- Why does “you won't understand” hurt so much?
- Why does “you'd look so much better if you…” hurt so much?
- Why does “you'll learn how we do things” hurt so much?
- Why does “you'll understand when you're older” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're always falling sick” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're always on your phone” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're coming to the wedding, na?” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're earning well, you pay” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're embarrassing us” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're fat” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're going bald” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're going to finish all that?” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're in the way” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're just jealous” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're just like your father” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're not Indian enough” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're not one of us” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're only average” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're overthinking it” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're right there, you handle it” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're so dark” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're so dramatic” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're so good at this” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're so lazy” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're so picky” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're so selfish” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're so short” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're so skinny” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're so slow” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're so ugly” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're so ungrateful” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're spoiling them” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're stupid” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're too much” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're too old for that” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're too sensitive” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're too strict” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're too young to know” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're useless” hurt so much?
- Why does “you're wasting your talent” hurt so much?
- Why does “you've become so Westernised” hurt so much?
- Why does “you've changed our son” hurt so much?
- Why does “you've changed” hurt so much?
- Why does “you've lost weight, well done!” hurt so much?
- Why does “you've made it!” hurt so much?
- Why does “you've met expectations this year” hurt so much?
- Why does “you've never dated?” hurt so much?
- Why does “your accent is funny” hurt so much?
- Why does “your cousin got in first try” hurt so much?
- Why does “your mum told us everything, beta” hurt so much?
- Why does “your order has been delivered” hurt so much?
- Why does “your time is running out” hurt so much?