Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Wapas aana apni ek nijee chinta bhi laata hai.
Maa-baap ke mann mein bachche ki ek tasveer tangi rehti hai, un saalon ki jab wo roz aankhon ke saamne tha.
Ghar ke niyamon ke neeche apni ek manyata baith sakti hai: “Yahan shaanti rakhni hai toh wahi bankar rehna hoga jo jaane se pehle tha.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Purani aadaton mein laut jaana, aur phir khud se thoda chidna
- Har niyam chupchaap maan lena aur apne shehar lautne ke din ginna
- Kisi chhoti baat par zor se ad jaana, aur shaam bhar bura lagna
- Saans lene ko zyadatar waqt ghar se bahar rehna
- Ghar par purane jaisa aur baaki sab jagah naye jaisa banakar rehna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Nau baje khana, phir pandrah saal
Bareilly mein ghar laute pehla hafta, Gurgaon mein chaar saal apne flat ke baad. Laptop purani study table par rakha hai, bagal mein school ki trophy. Aath baje mummy rasoi se awaaz deti hain, “Ab ghar par ho toh khana nau baje hai. Aur kahin jao toh bata kar jana.” Aap kehte ho “haan-haan, theek hai,” aur khud ko phir pandrah saal ka mehsoos karte ho.
Shaanti ke liye purana banna
Seedhi baat: ghar ka niyam is baat ka faisla nahi ki aap kitne bade hue hain, aur ghar lautna haar nahi. Par aise palon se ek niyam ban jaata hai, jo aapka apna ho jaata hai: “Shaanti rakhni hai toh wahi bankar rehna hoga jo jaane se pehle tha.” Ye tameez jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: jo aap bane, use darwaze ke bahar intezaar karata hai.
Chhota banna tameez kyun lagta hai
Aisa niyam hum isliye pakadte hain kyunki hum unse pyaar karte hain, aur kamre, khane aur swagat ke shukraguzaar hain. Chup rehna kam se kam itna farz lagta hai. Shayad pehle kabhi ghar mein asehmati se toofan utha tha. Jo bhi ho, ghar mein shaanti chahna bewaqoofi nahi. Wo bina jhagde wahan apna hone ki chaah se aata hai. Ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Darwaze par intezaar karta bada roop
Niyam chhoti-chhoti cheezein leta hai. Der raat ke phone ka zikr band ho jaata hai. Nayi aadat chhipa li jaati hai taaki koi poochhe nahi. Khane ki table par raay nigal li jaati hai, phir raat ko purane pankhe ke neeche dohrayi jaati hai. Aaj ka bada roop kisi doosre shehar ka lagne lagta hai. Bechaini aur shukraguzaari saath aati hain, phir bechaini par apradh-bodh.
Kya chhota bane rehna layak hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: is niyam ko pakde rehne se ghar zyada ghar laga, ya aap usmein bas chhote hote gaye? Aapke maa-baap usi se mil rahe hain jiske saath wo barson pehle rahe the. Mauka mile toh shayad ummeed se zyada dhal jayein. Thoda rukkar sochiye. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna aapki shaanti ki us keemat ke layak hai?
Bade bhi, aur ghar par bhi
Chhodne ka matlab unke niyam ansune karna, ya ye dikhana ki har niyam fit baithta hai, nahi. Matlab ye ki aap nau baje ke khane par bade roop mein baith sakte ho. Dal par halke se koi raay, apni ek aadat jo bas reh jaye. Shuruaat chhoti, ek shaam se. Wahin se kuch chain lautta hai: bade bhi, aur ghar par bhi.
If living back home ever comes with threats, being hurt or frightened, or someone keeping your money, phone or papers from you, that is not everyday house rules and is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleShaanti rakhni hai toh purana wala bankar rehna hoga.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleAaj jo hoon, usi ke saath ghar par rehne ki jagah hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Apni zindagi ki ek chhoti aadat aaj bhi chalne dijiye
- Din 2
Chhotapan lage toh mann mein kahiye: ye pandrah saal wala main hai
- Din 3
Ghar ki ek baat dekhiye jo aaj chupchaap achhi lagi
Is par baat karni hai?
“Ghar ka kaun-sa purana niyam sunte hi aapko sabse chhota kar deta hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Pyaar se kaha gaya ghar ka niyam, phir bhi chubhta hua #
Bareilly ke ghar mein mummy thaali laga rahi hain, papa raat ko gate dekh rahe hain, dadi ab bhi bachpan wale naam se bulati hain. “Ab ghar par ho toh khana nau baje hai.” “Kahin jao toh bata kar jana.” Zyadatar ye bade pyaar se kaha jaata hai, jaise kuch badla hi na ho.
Aur ek tarah se kuch badla bhi nahi: wahi steel ke glass, wahi takht, cooker ki wahi seeti. Badla toh aapka waqt hai. Gurgaon mein apni chaabi, apne time aur apne chhote-chhote faislon ke saal darwaze par khade hain, samajh nahi paa rahe ki kahan baithein.
Wapas aane ke baad ghar ka kaun-sa niyam aakhri baar achanak chubha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sunte hi, jawab dene se pehle, aapke andar kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Jawab se pehle hi awaaz chhoti kyun ho jaati hai #
Kisi ki awaaz apne aap dheemi ho jaati hai, ya school wala munh phulana bina bulaye laut aata hai. Koi “haan-haan, theek hai” keh deta hai aur andar kuch akad jaata hai. Koi chid jaata hai, aur uske theek peeche apradh-bodh. Isme zaroorat se zyada nazuk hone jaisa kuch nahi.
Purane ghar mein purani aadatein baithi rehti hain. Wahi kamre, wahi khushboo, wahi awaazein, aur barson pehle seekhi chaal bina pata chale laut aati hai. Bada-sa insaan bachpan ki rasoi mein ghuse, toh ek pal ko phir pandrah saal ka lagne lagta hai.
Pichhli baar ghar ka koi purana niyam suna, toh aapki body kya karne lagi: chup hona, palatkar bolna, hanskar taal dena?Is par baat kijiye ›
Usse kya pata chalta hai ki us pal aapka kaun-sa roop saamne aaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ye aaj ke aap se nahi, purane aap se baat karta hai #
Nau baje ka khana aam taur par dekhbhaal aur dincharya ki baat hai. Par jo kuch saal akele raha ho, use ye ek chupchaap sandesh jaisa lag sakta hai: yahan phir bachcha laut aaya. Niyam chhoti umar ke naap ka hai, aur use thamaye jaane par lagta hai ki usi naap mein wapas samet diye gaye.
Wapas aana apni ek nijee chinta bhi laata hai. Kai log mann mein maante hain ki ghar tab lautte hain jab kahin kuch ban nahi paya, chahe lautna samajhdari ka faisla raha ho. Isliye chhota-sa niyam usi jagah dab jaata hai jo pehle se dukhti thi.
Niyam ko aur uske peeche ke matlab ko alag karke dekhein, toh zyada kisme chubhta hai: waqt mein, ya is ehsaas mein ki aapko aapki umar se chhota samjha ja raha hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab purana ghar bheetar se bolne lage #
Wahan kuch din raho toh ek awaaz shuru ho jaati hai. “Is umar mein ye sab?” “Sab ulta ho gaya.” “Chup raho, unka ghar hai.” “Bade banne chale the, kya hua?” Ye lines aksar ghar mein koi nahi bolta.
Ye bheetar se, aapki apni awaaz mein aati hain, raat ko purane palang par, chhat ke pankhe ke neeche. Isiliye in par sawaal uthana mushkil hai: ye kisi mood ki tarah nahi, apni zindagi ke sach ki tarah lagti hain.
Us ghar mein sabse zyada bajne wali line likhein, toh wo kiski awaaz mein hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur kya wo aaj ke aapke baare mein bol rahi hai, ya us purane roop ke baare mein jiske paas koi aur raasta nahi tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Gharwalon ko wo roop yaad rehta hai jise unhone pala #
Maa-baap ke mann mein bachche ki ek tasveer tangi rehti hai, un saalon ki jab wo roz aankhon ke saamne tha. Bachcha bahar chala jaata hai, tasveer wahin rehti hai, kyunki bada hona un jagahon par hua jo wo dekh nahi sakte the.
Isliye jab koi ghar lautta hai, ghar pehle us tasveer se milta hai. Niyam, fikrein aur ghar ke naam sab usi purane roop ke hain. Bahut se gharon mein wajah control nahi hoti, wajah wo pyaar hota hai jo abhi aaj tak pahuncha nahi.
Aapke gharwalon ko aapka kaun-sa roop sabse saaf yaad hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur aaj ki aapki kaun-si baatein unse ab tak mili hi nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche chupchaap baith jaane wala ek niyam #
Ghar ke niyamon ke neeche apni ek manyata baith sakti hai: “Yahan shaanti rakhni hai toh wahi bankar rehna hoga jo jaane se pehle tha.” Kuch logon mein iska teekha roop hota hai: “Ghar wapas aana yaani kahin haar jaana.”
Aisi manyata manyata jaisi lagti hi nahi. Wo tameez jaisi lagti hai, jaise farsh farsh lagta hai, aur isiliye ise kabhi-kabhi bahar nikalkar dhoop mein dekh lena theek hai.
Pehla niyam kehta hai, fit hone ko chhote ho jao. Doosra kehta hai, ek samajhdar aur pyaar bhare faisle par sharminda raho.
Inmein se kaun-sa aapke zyada kareeb hai, aur kya wo ghar ke har kamre mein fit baithta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Chhota bane rehne ki keemat, din-ba-din #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai apni zindagi ke kuch hisse chhipana: der raat ka phone, koi nayi aadat, koi dost jisse gharwale mile nahi. Kuch log khane ki table par apni raay bolna chhod dete hain, kyunki purana roop nibhana naye ki safai dene se aasaan hai.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Din bhar apni umar se chhote bankar raho, toh aaj ka bada roop kisi doosre shehar ka lagne lagta hai. Bechaini aur shukraguzaari saath-saath chalti hain, aur phir bechaini wale hisse par bhi apradh-bodh.
Ye kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Ek saath do naap mein jeena thakata hai.
Ab tak isne kya liya: koi dabayi hui raay, koi chhooti aadat, koi weekend jo kahin aur hone ke intezaar mein beeta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, purana roop nibhate hue #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “shaanti ke liye purana banna hai” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad khane par roki gayi koi raay, kisi dost ka ghar na bulaya jaana, nayi aadat jo chupke se nibhayi ja rahi hai. Shayad chhat par liya phone, aur shaam apne shehar ke mahine ginte hue.
Yahan kisi cheez ka abhi jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer jab chahein rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya hai: baatein, yojanaayein, apne tak rakhi gayi cheezein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhte hue, agar kuch, toh aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Do bade log, ek purani rasoi #
Lautne ko doosri tarah bhi dekha ja sakta hai: peeche ka kadam nahi, balki do badon ke beech naya intezaam, jinka ateet saajha hai. Aapke maa-baap bhi us waqt se bade ho gaye hain jab aap aakhri baar yahan rahe the. Wo bhi aapke naye roop ke hisaab se dhal rahe hain, aur ghar par ab pehle jitna akele raaj nahi raha.
Is nazar se nau baje ka khana aapke baare mein niyam kam, us aadat ka hissa zyada lag sakta hai jisne aapke peeche unke din baandhe rakhe. Unke liye uska matlab bane, iske liye zaroori nahi ki wo aapka poora timetable ban jaye.
Agar koi dost yahi wapasi bataye, toh kya aap use peeche jaana kahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Apne shabdon mein use kya kahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par kya dikhta hai #
Ghar ke kuch aam dinon ko dhyaan se dekhein, toh kuch ko dikhta hai ki nayi lay dikh jaye toh gharwale ummeed se zyada jhuk jaate hain. Hafte mein ek baar der wala khana, kisi aadat par kandhe uchaka dena. Purani tasveer dheere-dheere update ho rahi hai.
Kuch ko komal cheezein dikhti hain jo bina dhyaan diye chhoot rahi thin: bina maange aayi chai, chhat par shaam ki baithak, un logon ke beech hona jo aapko sabse pehle se jaante hain.
Beete hafte ghar par kahan sabse zyada purana roop lauta, aur kahan naya roop chupchaap phir bhi dikh gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Bade ho chuke hain, ye saabit karna zaroori nahi #
Sulah ka matlab har purana niyam bina bole maan lena nahi, na ye dikhana ki ghar bilkul fit baithta hai. Matlab ye ki niyam is par kam bolein ki aap khud ko kya maante hain, aur bada roop apna ghar banne tak intezaar na kare.
Kuch ko halka lagta hai jab wo saabit karna chhod dete hain. Saabit karne mein taakat jaati hai aur har chhota niyam imtihaan ban jaata hai. Aaj jo hain wahi shaanti se, pyaar se bane rehna behas jeetne se kam thakata hai.
Nau baje ke khane par bade roop mein baithna kaisa lagega, bina kisi ke pehle kahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “sab ulta ho gaya” ya “yahan purana hi bankar rehna hai” baar-baar baj raha hai, toh usse seedhe ladna zaroori nahi. Kuch log ek sachchi line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Ghar maa-baap ka hai, aur main jo kuch ban chuka hoon wo mere saath aaya hai.”
Ye abhi sach lagna zaroori nahi. Bas purani line se zyada sahi ho. Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki dheere se aur baar-baar kahi jaye, toh ye us jagah ka thoda hissa le leti hai jahan chhota padna baitha rehta tha.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jismein shukraguzaari bhi ho aur bada roop bhi, bina ek ko chune?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein bas neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har purane niyam par behas, “main bada ho gaya hoon” wala bhashan ya chuppi wala dharna nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, us par muskuraya ja sakta hai, aur jaane diya ja sakta hai, jaise bachpan ka naam koi har baar nahi sudharta.
Ye apne ko de dena nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki taakat kin chhoti baaton par lage, aur kuch log kehte hain isse un cheezon ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai jo zyada mayne rakhti hain: kaam, dost aur gharwalon ke saath ke aasaan pal.
Ek shaam ke liye kisi niyam ko rehne dene ka matlab ye nahi ki wo hamesha theek hai, ya bechaini galat thi. Bas itna ki wo aaj poore din ko rangne ki zaroorat nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Ghar ab bhi unka ghar hai, par uske andar aap aaj wale roop mein reh sakte hain.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: dal par halke se koi raay rakh dena, apni ek aadat jo ghar ka hissa ban jaye, ya nau baje ka khana jo curfew ki jagah saath jaisa lage.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, toh baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Jis pal chhotapan lage, mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, pandrah saal wala main”
- Apni zindagi ki ek chhoti aadat aaj bhi chalne dijiye, bas apne liye
- Ghar ka koi ek kona chuniye aur use thoda apna bana lijiye
- Jab purani awaaz kahe “sab ulta ho gaya”, toh poochhiye: kiske hisaab se ulta?
- Aaj ghar ki ek aisi baat dekhiye jo chupchaap achhi lagi
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Ghar ka kaun-sa purana niyam sunte hi aapko sabse chhota kar deta hai?
- Ghar se bahar jo bane, uska kaun-sa hissa yahan sabse zyada yaad aata hai?
- Aapke gharwale aaj ke aapke baare mein abhi kya nahi jaante?
- Jis aam din ye niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar ye thoda halka ho, toh sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?