“abhi bimar hone ka time nahi hai” itna kyun chubhta hai?

Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka

Ye calendar kiska hai? #

“Abhi” kisi aur ki tay ki hui deadline hai, aksar apne hafte ki fikr mein. Dheere se dekhein to ye kisi thake hue insaan ka dabaav nikal sakta hai, jo aapke baare mein jaayaz niyam ki tarah bol diya gaya.

Isme kisi ke sharir ya mushkil din mein kya karna chahiye, is baare mein kuch nahi kaha ja raha. Sawaal ye nahi hai. Sawaal ye hai ki kya aapke mushkil dinon ko har kisi ke plan ke hisaab se fit hona padega, aur timing kiski tay hogi.

Agar koi kareebi dost bataye ki usse yahi kaha gaya, to ghar lautte waqt aap usse kya kehna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ise jaldi pehchanna

Palatkar dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #

Kuch log us pal ko dobara dekhte hain to sunte hain ki vaakya mein kitna hissa bolne wale ki apni deadline ka tha, aur unke baare mein kitna kam. Jis busy hafte se wo aaya, uske saath rakhkar dekhein to wo pehli baar jaisa nahi lagta.

Kuch ye bhi dekhte hain ki kisne calendar kabhi nahi ginaa. Wo colleague jo kehta hai “dekh lenge, aap waqt lijiye,” ya wo rishtedaar jo plan se pehle poochta hai “kya chahiye?” Ye awaazein pehle se thi, bas timetable se dheemi.

Aapki zindagi mein kaun hai jo mushkil din ko sirf mushkil din rehne deta hai, aur uske saath kamra kaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Isse sulah

Sabke hisaab se schedule banana zaroori nahi #

Sulah ka matlab ye nahi ki timing aapki galti thi, na ye ki baat chubhi nahi. Matlab bas itna ki ek insaan ka ek vaakya ye tay karna band kar de ki aapke bure dinon ko kab hone ki ijaazat hai.

Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo sabke liye calendar sambhalna chhod dete hain. Us kaam ki finish line nahi hai, kyunki hamesha koi aur event aane wala hai, aur jab tak wo chalta hai har mushkil din ke saath maafi aati hai.

Kuch log kehte rahenge, aur kisi ko unhein manana nahi padta.

Agar ek aam subah maafi tab tak ruki rahe jab tak sachmuch kuch galat na ho, to wo kaisi hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ek zyada sachcha vaakya

Timing ke baare mein ek sachcha vaakya #

Agar “abhi nahi” barson se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladna zaroori nahi. Kuch log iski jagah ye line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Mushkil din jeene ka hissa hai, aur wo calendar se ijaazat nahi maangta.”

Ye sach mehsoos ho, zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jo kuch log pehankar dekhte hain, aur kuch paate hain ki meeting se pehle ya mushkil call ke baad chupchaap keh lene par wo purane niyam ki thodi jagah le leti hai.

Apni timing ke baare mein aapka apna sachcha vaakya kaisa hoga, aapke apne shabdon mein, jise kisi ki manzoori na chahiye?Is par baat kijiye ›

Kya rehne dein

Thoda-sa diary ke paas hi chhoot sakta hai #

Har “abhi” ko waada, mazaak ya dabakar chalne ka plan nahi chahiye. Kuch ko bas dekh liya jaaye, pal bhar mehsoos kar liya jaaye, aur rakh diya jaaye, jaise hafta beetne par deewar ke calendar ka panna phaad dena.

Iska matlab haar maanna nahi. Iska matlab chunna hai ki dhyaan kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain ki isse un dinon aur logon ke liye jagah bachti hai jo sachmuch unke hain.

Aaj raat calendar ka dabaav diary ke paas chhod dene se wo jaayaz nahi ho jaata, na kuch tay hota hai. Bas itna ki use agli meeting, agle family khane ya agli subah tak saath chalna nahi padega.

Agar yeh dheela pade

Aur agar niyam zara dheela pade #

Bas ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki “abhi nahi” wala niyam thoda dheema ho. Mushkil din sirf mushkil din reh sakta hai.

Chhoti cheezein kaafi hain: seedhe shabdon mein bheja ek message, plan ko waisa batana jaisa wo asal mein hai, ya ek waada thodi der bina kiye rehne dena.

Isme se kisi ko kuch batana zaroori nahi. Jo bhi ubhre, wo aapka hai aur gaur karne laayak, chaahe kitna bhi chhota. Ise theek se dekhna chahein to chat ek tap door hai.

Sabse pehle kya alag lagega, zara-sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›

Niyam ke dheele padne ka aapka pehla chhota nishaan kya ho sakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›