Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Cousin ki rank unhi mehfilon mein chalkar aati hai jinmein aap jaate hain, toh tulna dohrayi jaati hai, kabhi saalon tak.
Cousin aksar saath-saath naape jaate hue bade hote hain: ek umar, ek hi chhuttiyan, wahi rishtedaar dekhte hue ki kaun pehle chala, kaun pehle padha, kaun kisme avval.
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Aage rahoon tabhi meri ginti hai,” ya “Mere parivaar mein koi na koi hamesha mujhse behtar kar raha hota hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Cousin ko zor se badhai dena, taaki baat jaldi nikal jaaye
- Hanskar taal dena: “Haan, wo toh shuru se hi hoshiyaar hain”
- Chupke se cousin ka nateeja dekhkar pata kar lena ki faasla kitna hai
- Aise function se door rehna jahan cousin se mulaqat hogi, ya der se pahunchna
- Vaakya ko kai din dohrana, har baar behtar jawab dete hue
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Sagai mein cousin ki rank
Result ke baad ka parivaarik khaana, Vadodara mein kisi ki sagai ka party plot. Mausi dal parosate hue sabke saamne kehti hain, “Tumhare cousin ki rank tumse achhi aayi hai.” Har chammach pal bhar ruk jaata hai. Aap muskurakar koi shisht baat kehte ho aur khaate rehte ho. Baad mein lift ya ghar ke raaste mein vaakya phir chalta hai. Cousin se apnapan hai, aur isiliye samjhana aur mushkil hai ki aaj pet itna bhaari kyun hai.
Aage rahoon tabhi ginti hai
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Aaspaas walon se aage rahoon, tabhi meri ginti hai.” Ye rank list ke chalan jaisa lagta hai, seedha hisaab, aur zyadatar log sar hila dete hain. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: do alag saalon ko daud bana deta hai aur aapke result ko aapke baare mein faisla, chahe aapne daudne ki haami bhari ho ya nahi.
Tulna kyun chipak jaati hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki parivaar sach mein tulna karte hain, aur rank list alag dikhne ko inaam deti hai. Bahut se log is niyam ka koi roop sunkar bade hote hain, aur tab uska matlab banta tha. Shayad cousin bachpan se naape jaate rahe. Shayad is number ke liye bahut mehnat ki. Tulna ki parwaah mehnat ke dikhne ki chaah se aati hai. Use narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har tulna ka wazan
Har tulna thoda wazan jodti hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aap mehsoos karte ho. Family group ko shak ki nazar se sarsari taur par dekhne lagte ho. Cousin ka naam aate hi tan jaate ho. Apni zindagi ke sawaal ka jawab cousin ki zindagi se dete ho, aur apni pehchaan ek list ki jagah jitni reh jaati hai, jo kisi aur ke haath mein hai.
Kya scoreboard iske layak?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: is niyam ko pakde rehne se apne result ke saath mann kabhi zyada sthir hua? Ya aise insaan ke bagal mein, jo shayad aapko sach mein pasand hai, zyadatar bas ghata hua laga? Do rank do din ke do paper hain, do keematein nahi. Jawab sirf aap de sakte hain, aur koi jawab galat nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna us keemat ke layak hai?
Aapka number, bas aapka
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aapka result aapke liye maayne nahi rakhta, ya cousin ki kaamyaabi kuch nahi. Matlab ye ki tulna ab tay nahi karti ki aap khud ko kaise dekhein. Aapke saal mein asli cheezein thin jo kisi list mein nahi dikhtin. Wo aapki hain. Ye ek baar mein nahi hota, hona bhi nahi chahiye. Kuch chain tab lautta hai jab aapka number bas aapka number ho.
If a result at home is ever met with threats, being hurt, or anger that frightens you, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleAage rahoon tabhi meri ginti hai.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMeri rank meri hai. Cousin ki unki apni.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Is saal ki ek baat bataiye jo kisi list mein nahi dikhti
- Kadam 2
Is saal jo kuch seekhkar achha laga, usmein se ek cheez yaad kijiye
- Kadam 3
Aaj ek chhoti cheez kijiye jo aapko bas achhi lagti hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Cousin ka naam liye jaane ke baad ke second mein kamra kya kar raha tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Ek cousin ka naam, aapke number ke bagal mein #
Vadodara ke party plot mein kisi ki sagai hai, haath mein ice-cream ka cup hai, aur Mausi is baat ka intezaar kar rahi thin: “Tumhare cousin ki rank tumse achhi aayi hai.” Kabhi ye tyohaar ke khaane par kahi jaati hai, kabhi videsh se video call par, kabhi kisi ke flat ke bahar.
Ye ek saans mein, mausam ki tarah kahi jaati hai. Par do logon ko aamne-saamne rakh deti hai jinhone kabhi naape jaane ki haami nahi bhari, aur har sunne wala mann mein hisaab laga leta hai. Cousin paimana ban jaata hai, chahe usne ye kaam maanga ho ya nahi.
Kuch logon ko wo vaakya saalon baad bhi lehje samet yaad rehta hai.
Cousin ka naam is tarah pehli baar sunte waqt aap kahan khade the, aur aaspaas aur kaun sun raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Wo muskaan jo apne aap aa jaati hai #
Kuch logon ka chehra faisla karne se pehle hi ek shisht muskaan mein dhal jaata hai. Koi chup ho jaata hai, chai dhoondhne lagta hai, ya “achha hai, badhai” thoda jaldi bol deta hai. Mann ke pakadne se pehle sharir jawab de chuka hota hai.
Jiske saath bade hue, uske bagal mein naapa jaana jaldi lagta hai, kyunki tulna usse hai jo ghar ke qisse, birthday, purani photos sab jaanta hai. Khade hone ki koi tatasth jagah nahi bachti.
Inmein se kisi pehli pratikriya ko safai ki zaroorat nahi.
Pehle second mein aapne chehre aur haathon ka kya kiya, aur uske baad munh se kya nikla?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Taraazu ke doosre palde par ek naam #
Ye baat ek insaan ko uske saamne rakhti hai jo usi parivaar ki table par baithta hai. Rank ek sthiti hai, aur sthiti baaki sthitiyon ke bagal mein hi hoti hai. Yahan doosri sthiti ka ek chehra hai, ek ghar ka naam hai, aur har function mein ek kursi.
Kisi anjaan ki rank bas ek number hai. Cousin ki rank unhi mehfilon mein chalkar aati hai jinmein aap jaate hain, toh tulna dohrayi jaati hai, kabhi saalon tak. Har baar sunne wale use aapse thoda zyada pakka yaad rakhte hain.
Dono numberon ke peeche alag school, alag ghar, alag saal hain.
Agar tulna unke baare mein poochhti, numberon ke baare mein nahi, toh kaun sa farq aap sabse pehle batana chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab cousin mann mein rehne lage #
Ye line baar-baar suno toh apne aap chalne lagti hai. “Unhone kar dikhaya, main kyun nahi?” “Sab yahi soch rahe honge.” Kabhi cousin ka naam aaye bina hi shuru ho jaati hai.
Rishtedaar ghar chale jaate hain, par cousin ki maujoodgi kamre mein reh jaati hai: kisi ke phone mein uski photo, family group mein uska college, teen exclamation marks ke saath forward hua uska result. Tulna aapki apni awaaz mein chalti rehti hai.
Bheetar ki awaaz aksar kisi asli insaan ka lehja udhaar le leti hai.
“Unka behtar raha” aapke sar mein kiski awaaz mein bolta hai, aur ye pehli baar kab unhi jaisa laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kai logon ke liye paimana bachpan se bana #
Cousin aksar saath-saath naape jaate hue bade hote hain: ek umar, ek hi chhuttiyan, wahi rishtedaar dekhte hue ki kaun pehle chala, kaun pehle padha, kaun kisme avval. Kuch logon ke liye kisi bade nateeje se bahut pehle hi cousin ke bagal mein rakha jaana shuru ho gaya.
Kuch parivaaron mein ye pyaar ka atpata roop tha, ye kehne ka tareeka ki “hum sab dekh rahe hain, hamein parwaah hai.” Kuch mein bachchon ke baare mein baat karne ka aam dhang. Wajah jo bhi ho, bachcha chupchaap ye nishkarsh nikal sakta hai ki dekhe jaane ka matlab naape jaana hai.
Kuch log wo pehli baar bata sakte hain jab cousin ka naam unke baare mein kisi vaakya mein aaya.
Aapke saath ye kab hua, aur tab aap kis baat par garv kar rahe the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche-neeche baithta ek chup niyam #
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Aage rahoon tabhi meri ginti hai,” ya “Mere parivaar mein koi na koi hamesha mujhse behtar kar raha hota hai.” Kuch log naram roop dhote hain: “Unke barabar na ho sake, toh chup rehna behtar.”
Aisi maanyata maanyata jaisi lagti nahi. Ye ghar kaise chalta hai, uski samajh jaisi lagti hai, jaise andhere mein seedhiyon ki jagah pata hoti hai. Isiliye kabhi-kabhi ise din ki roshni mein dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko shuruaati saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi.
Aaj ki zindagi mein “aage rahoon tabhi meri ginti hai” kahan ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kahan nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Tulna dhone ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai agle family function se darna, family group kholte hue pet kasna, ya cousin ki achhi khabar sunkar khushi ke saath-saath khud ka qad ghatta lagna. Kuch log iski wajah se ek sachchi dosti ko door rakhte hain.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Jab kisi aur ka number aapke baare mein har vaakya ki shuruaat kare, toh aapka apna saal ankaha reh jaata hai: jo subject achha laga, jo dost bana, jo aakhirkaar samajh aaya. Samay ke saath bahut kuch ankaha jama hota hai.
Ye kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Ek hi tulna baar-baar sunna asli taakat maangta hai.
Pichhle ek saal mein cousin wali tulna ne kya liya: mehfilein, dosti, ya achhi baatein jo aapne batayi hi nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, cousin ke bagal mein khade #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, jab “aage rahoon tabhi meri ginti hai” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ki cheez nahi.
Shayad mute kiya hua family group, cousin ki profile kholkar band ki hui, ghar se phone jiska pehla sawaal kisi aur ki khabar ka hai. Kuch jaana-pehchana hoga, kuch bilkul nahi.
Yahan abhi kisi cheez ka jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer jab chahein kinare rakh sakte hain.
Usmein kya hai: messages, tulnayein, wo baatein jinse katrakar nikla jaata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us aam Tuesday ko dekhte hue aapko kuch khaas dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Do number, do alag saal #
Rank bas itna batati hai ki bahut se paperon mein ek set kahan pahuncha. Ye kam batati hai ki kisne kaun sa school padha, us mausam mein ghar par kya chal raha tha, kaise padhai ki, kya pasand hai. Do cousin ki rank do zindagiyon ki do jaankariyan hain.
Cousin aisa insaan ho sakta hai jo aapko pasand hai, aur tulna phir bhi chubh sakti hai. Dono sach hain. Kai logon ko sthir lagta hai ye dekhna ki vaakya numberon ke baare mein hai, kisi rishtedaar ke bagal mein apni keemat ke baare mein nahi.
Sochiye aage kisi function mein ghar ke kisi chhote se kaha ja raha hai ki wo kisi se peeche hai.
Us chhote ko aap sabse pehle kya sunana chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Jab log us pal ko dheema karke dekhte hain, toh dikhta hai ki baat teen second ki thi aur baatcheet aage badh gayi, jabki dhona kai din chala. Kehna aur dhona, dono ka size bahut alag hai.
Kuch ko wo log dikhte hain jo tulna nahi kar rahe the: Dadi jinhone poochha ki kya khaya, Chacha jinhone kisi shauk ke baare mein poochha, dost jisne poochha ki aakhri paper kaisa laga. Wo awaazein bhi kamre mein thin, bas dheemi.
Function mein dheemi awaazein aasaani se chhoot jaati hain.
Ghar mein kisne number ke alawa kuch aur poochha, aur wo kya jaanna chahte the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Ghar ka scoreboard jeetna zaroori nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye dikhana nahi ki cousin ka number kuch nahi, ya baat chubhi nahi. Matlab bas itna ki tulna ka is par kam chale ki aap kin mehfilon mein jaayein aur shaam kaisi lage.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo us ek jawab ko khojna chhod dete hain jo saari tulnayein khatam kar de. Wo khoj shayad hi poori hoti hai, kyunki har function mein ek aur Mausi hai, aur khoj cousin ko har kamre ke beech mein rakhe rehti hai.
Kuch log tulna karte rahenge aur unhein badalna zaroori nahi.
Kaisa lagega family function agar cousin ki rank ko ek dostana vaakya mile aur baaki shaam doosri baaton ki ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “aage rahoon tabhi meri ginti hai” saalon se andar baj raha hai, toh usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaye ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Do log, do saal, do rank list.”
Ye abhi sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jise kuch log aazmate hain, aur kuch ko lagta hai ki kisi jamaavde se pehle dheere se keh dene par wo purane vaakya ki thodi jagah le leti hai.
Sachche vaakya ko sahi hona hai, prabhavshaali nahi.
Aapke apne shabdon mein aapke aur cousin ke baare mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jise kisi ki manzoori nahi chahiye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein bas neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har tulna ko behtar jawab, palatwaar ya agli shaadi ka plan nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur lambe din ke aakhir mein darwaze par rakhe bhaari bag ki tarah neeche rakha ja sakta hai.
Ye haar maanna nahi. Ye chunna hai ki taakat kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain ki isse us cousin ke liye jise wo sach mein pasand karte hain, aur apne saal ke un hisson ke liye jo achhe the, zyada jagah bachti hai.
Shaam bhar ke liye baat neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek thi, ya nipat chuki. Bas itna ki wo khaane, agle phone ya kal ke plan mein saath na chale.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar scoreboard thoda dheela pade #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema hai. Cousin ki rank ab bhi ek number hai, aur aapki apni aapki.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: bas yun hi cousin ko message bhejna, kisi function mein bachpan ki kisi baat par hansna, ya jaldi nikalne ke bajaye khaane tak rukna.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, toh baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya halka-sa alag lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi cousin wali tulna”
- Gaur kijiye ki kya zyada chubhta hai: number, ya aapki taraf mudte chehre
- Chupchaap khud se poochhiye: mere saal mein kya tha jo kisi list mein nahi dikhta?
- Ghar ke aise ek rishtedaar ko yaad kijiye jo result ka naam liye bina aapki zindagi poochhta hai
- Aaj ki ek chhoti-si cheez par dhyaan dijiye jo aapne chahi
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Cousin ka naam liye jaane ke baad ke second mein kamra kya kar raha tha?
- Aapke apne saal ke kis hisse ki kahani ka cousin se koi lena-dena nahi?
- “Tumse behtar” sunkar sabse pehle kiski awaaz yaad aati hai, aur kyun?
- Jis aam din tulna zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar scoreboard thoda dheela pade, toh sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?