Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Anishchitata aksar mood se zyada bhaari padti hai.
Bahut logon ne pehli naukri se bahut pehle kamre ka mizaaj padhna seekh liya tha.
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Mera din tabhi theek hoga jab unka mood theek hoga.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Kuch bhi kehne se pehle unka chehra aur message dekhna
- Har sawaal roke rakhna, kisi behtar pal ke intezaar mein jo kam hi aata hai
- Apni bheji pichhli mail dobara padhna, ki kahin kuch galat to nahi hua
- Zaroorat se zyada khush karna: zyada shisht, zyada tez, zyada saavdhaan
- Shaam chhah baje aisi raahat jaise bach nikle hon
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Phusphusahat aur chhutti ka form
Monday subah, Thiruvananthapuram ke Technopark ka ek office. Cousin ki shaadi ke liye aapka chhutti ka form taiyaar hai. Deepa bagal ki desk se jhukkar phusphusati hai, “Abhi andar mat jao, Sir ka mood off hai.” Sheeshe ke paar wo apni screen par bhaunhein chadhaye dikhte hain. Aap form wapas folder mein sarka dete ho. Poora din floor dheeme type karta hai, aur aapke kandhe kaanon ke paas chadhe rehte hain.
Mera din unke mood par tika
Pehle seedhi baat: kisi ka kharab mood aap par faisla nahi hai, aur use theek karna aapka kaam nahi. Par aise dinon se ek niyam ugta hai aur aapka ho jaata hai: “Mera din tabhi theek hoga jab unka mood theek hoga.” Ye samajhdaari jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapke sawaal, aapki raftaar aur aapki shaam us mausam ka intezaar karne lagti hain jo aapke haath mein nahi.
Mood padhna mehfooz kyun laga
Aisa niyam hum isliye pakadte hain kyunki mood padhne se kabhi mahaul shant rehta tha. Ye bahut insaani aadat hai, aur aam bhi. Shayad aap khane ki table par kisi ek ka chehra dekhte bade hue. Shayad office mein shanti banaye rakhna aapko zaroori lagta hai. Jo bhi ho, toofaan se bachna chahna kamzori nahi. Wo mehfooz feel karne ki chaah se aata hai. Ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har baadal wala din kya leta hai
Har baadlon bhara din kuch chhota-sa le jaata hai, itni chupchaap ki pakadna mushkil hai. Ek seedha message aap paanch baar likhte ho. Chhutti ka form hafte bhar draft mein pada rehta hai. Ek chhota jawab raat ko apni bheji mail dobara padhwata hai. Dheere-dheere bahut saari taakat ek chehra padhne mein chali jaati hai, aur jo kaam aap achha karte ho uske liye kam bachti hai.
Kya unka mausam dhona iske layak?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: is niyam ko pakde rehne se kya unka mood kabhi jaldi sudhra? Ya zyadatar aap sahme rahe, aur thake? Mood ke kai kaaran hote hain, aur zyadatar aapki desk ke paas bhi nahi aate. Yahan koi galat jawab nahi. Chahein to ek pal iske saath rukiye. Kya kisi aur ka mausam itni kasakar uthana us keemat ke layak hai jo aapka chain chukata hai?
Unka mausam, meri raftaar
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki mood sahi hain, ya ki aap kaam mein saavdhaani chhod dein. Matlab ye ki unka mausam unka rahe. Aap baadlon bhara din dekh sakte ho, ek samajhdaar chhatri saath rakh sakte ho, aur phir bhi apni raftaar se chal sakte ho. Shuruaat chhoti ho sakti hai: ek sawaal phir bhi poochh lena. Wahin se thoda chain lautta hai: aapka din phir se aapka lagne lagta hai.
If a boss's moods ever come with threats, being shouted at or frightened, or pay or papers held back, that is not okay and is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMera din tabhi theek hoga jab unka mood theek hoga.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleUnka mood unka mausam hai. Mera kaam phir bhi mera hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Kandhe chadhein to ek saans chhodte hue unhein girne dijiye
- Din 2
Unke mood ki parwah kiye bina aaj ka ek achha kaam mann mein ginye
- Din 3
Ghar jaate hue sochiye ki din ka mausam aap raste mein utaar rahe hain
Is par baat karni hai?
“Unke kuch kehne se pehle hi aapko unka mood kis cheez se pata chal jaata hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Ek phusphusahat jo mausam tay kar de #
Monday subah das baje Deepa aapki desk par jhukkar dheemi awaaz mein kehti hai: “Abhi andar mat jao, Sir ka mood off hai.” Aap ek sawaal, chhutti ka form aur dikhane wala draft liye baithe the. Ab wo sab folder mein chala jaata hai, aur poora floor thoda dheeme type karta lagta hai.
Kisi ne chillaya nahi. Aapke saath abhi kuch hua bhi nahi. Bas ek insaan ka chehra, ek chhota jawab, aadha band darwaaza tay karne laga hai ki aap kab poochh sakte hain, bol sakte hain ya saans chhod sakte hain. Din ka plan ek aise mood ke gird mud jaata hai jo aapka hai hi nahi.
Aakhri baar kab kisi ke mood ne baat karne se pehle hi aapka din badal diya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aap kya karne wale the, aur sunne ke baad kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Kandhe jo apne aap upar chadh jaate hain #
Kisi ke kandhe us insaan ke ghuste hi kas jaate hain, nazar jhat se uske chehre ka haal padh leti hai, aur achanak busy dikhne ka mann karta hai. Kisi ka pet ek shabd ke jawab par baith jaata hai. Koi ekdum shant aur shisht ho jaata hai. Ismein kuch bhi drama nahi hai.
Jiske haath mein hamara din hai, uska mood bhaampna ek purani, saavdhaan aadat hai, aur bahut log ise jaane bina hi karte hain. Sharir pehle mausam jaanchta hai. “Ye meri wajah se hai ya unki?” wali soch aksar thodi der baad aati hai.
Us pehli pratikriya se pata chal sakta hai ki aap kya bachana chah rahe the.
Jab aapko laga ki unka mood palat gaya hai, to aapke sharir ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Chup ho gaye, busy ban gaye, ya sochne lage ki kahin aapse kuch to nahi hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Kisi aur ka mood aapka din chalane lagta hai #
Manager ka mood isliye maayne rakhta hai ki aapka kaam, aapki chhutti aur aapka review uske haath mein hai. Jab mood ka andaaza na lage, to log din usi ke hisaab se banane lagte hain. Chubhan isi mein hai ki aapki apni raftaar ek aise mausam ke haath chali jaati hai jis par aapka bas nahi.
Anishchitata aksar mood se zyada bhaari padti hai. Ek jaise chidchide boss ke hisaab se to chala ja sakta hai. Par jo Monday ko hanskar mile aur Tuesday ko munh pher le, uske saath sab andaaze lagate rehte hain, aur din bhar andaaze lagana chupchaap thakata hai, bhale kuch bura na ho.
Isiliye desk par kahi gayi ek phusphusahat bhi chubh sakti hai, jabki wo insaan aapse kabhi seedhe rookha nahi hua.
Agar mood unka hai, to aapka din use kyun dhota hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab unka mood aapki galti jaisa lagne lage #
Phusphusahat baar-baar suno to ek awaaz ghar kar leti hai. “Maine kya kiya?” “Mujhse zaroor kuch kaha gaya hoga.” “Aaj chupchaap sir jhukakar baitho.” Ye ek chhote jawab, band darwaaze ya jaldi khatam hui meeting par chalu ho jaati hai.
Ho sakta hai manager ki apne boss se koi mushkil call hui ho, raat theek na kati ho, ghar ki koi chinta ho. Par wo vaakya chalta rehta hai, aur ab aapki apni awaaz mein. Isiliye pakadna kathin hai: ye unka mood nahi lagta, aapki zimmedari lagti hai.
Jab ye poochhti hai ki aapne kya galat kiya, to awaaz kiski hoti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki, ya wo jo kisi rasoi ya baithak mein bahut pehle mili thi, jahan kisi ka mood sabka kaam tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kai logon ke liye mood padhna bachpan mein shuru hua #
Bahut logon ne pehli naukri se bahut pehle kamre ka mizaaj padhna seekh liya tha. Darwaaze par Papa ke qadmon ki aahat, khane ki table par Mummy ki chuppi, kisi buzurg ke “hoon” ka lehja. Kuch gharon mein mood pehle se jaan lene ka matlab yahi tha ki shaam sabke liye shant rahe.
Kuch ghar kisi ek ke mausam par chalte the, aur wajahein alag thin: tension, paison ki chinta, thakaan, ya bas swabhav. Jo bachcha andar rakh leta hai wo ek chup-sa nishkarsh hai. Kuch soch lete hain ki koi naraaz hai to use theek karna mera kaam hai, ya kam se kam raste se hat jaana.
Sabse pehle aapne kiska mood padhna seekha, aur kitni chhoti umar mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aaj manager ka chehra dekhne ka aapka tareeka naya lagta hai, ya aisa kuch jo aap bahut pehle se karte aaye hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche-neeche banne wala ek chupchaap niyam #
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Mera din tabhi theek hoga jab unka mood theek hoga.” Kuch log iska teekha roop dhote hain: “Koi naraaz hai to shayad meri wajah se hai, to theek bhi mujhe hi karna hai.”
Aisi maanyataayein maanyata jaisi lagti hi nahi. Wo samajhdaari lagti hain, hawa ka rukh bhaampna, mahaul sambhalna, zameen jitni pakki, aur isiliye unhein kabhi-kabhi dhoop mein nikaalkar dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai: mood khatarnaak hain, to sabko shant rakho.
Ye kin jagahon par ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kin par isne chupke se sab par qabza kar liya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Unke mausam ko dhone ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai teen din tak ek sawaal dabaye rakhna, ek seedha message paanch baar likhna, ya chhutti ka form tab tak na bhejna jab tak pal theek na lage. Kuch log kuch maangna hi chhod dete hain, kyunki sahi mood dhoondhna apne aap mein ek kaam ban gaya hai.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Jab aapke kandhe kisi aur ke mausam ke peeche chalte hain, to apni raftaar kho jaati hai, aur jo kaam aap achha karte hain wo thoda sahamkar, saavdhaani se hota hai. Achhe din bhi udhaar ke lagte hain, jaise agla mood raste mein ho.
Ye kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Poore din mausam ki nigrani chalana thakata hai.
Pichhle saal iski keemat kya rahi: koi sawaal jo poochha nahi gaya, koi idea jo baad ke liye rakha gaya, koi shaam jo ek shabd ke jawab ko dohrate guzri?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, mausam dekhte hue #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “mera din tabhi theek hai jab unka mood theek hai” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ki nahi.
Shayad hafte bhar se draft mein pada chhutti ka form, kisi shant din ke liye rakha gaya ek achha idea, printer tak jaane se pehle cabin ke darwaaze par ek jhalak. Shayad apni desk par chupchaap khaya lunch, bas yun hi, ehtiyatan.
Yahan abhi kisi cheez ka jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer jab chahein neeche rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya hai: roke gaye sawaal, dobara likhe message, padhe gaye chehre?Is par baat kijiye ›
Use dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ye mausam asal mein kiska hai? #
Mood ke aam taur par kai kaaran hote hain: chhoota hua target, apne boss se call, ghar mein beemar bachcha, kam neend wali raat. Inmein se zyadatar aapki desk ke paas bhi nahi phatakte, bhale mood wahan tak pahunch jaye.
Aksar imaandaar jawab hota hai: bahut kam, ya kuch nahi. Jab kuch hota hai, wo aamtaur par chhota aur thos hota hai, aur chhoti thos cheez ko dekhna poore din ki sahmi hui taiyaari se kahin aasaan hai.
Poochhiye: aaj maine asal mein aisa kya kiya jisse ye samajh aaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek aur nazar: agar koi dost bataye ki uska manager subah se rookha raha, to kya aap maan lenge ki dost ne hi kuch kiya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aap sabse pehle aur kya sochenge, aur kya inmein se kuch yahan sach ho sakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Jab log kuch waqt mood note karte hain, to kuch ko dikhta hai ki kharab dinon ka apna dharra hai: mahine ka aakhir, koi khaas meeting, head office se aaya phone. Dharre ka aksar unse bahut kam lena-dena hota hai, aur isse mausam kam nijee lagne lagta hai.
Kuch ko din ke wo hisse dikhte hain jinhein mood ne chhua hi nahi: jo kaam achhe se nipta, wo saathi jiske saath lunch par hanse, wo task jo cabin ke chehre ki parwah kiye bina aaram se hua.
Haal mein kaam mein kya achha gaya, kisi ke mood se alag, aur agar use mausam jitni jagah dein to aapka din kaisa dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Unka mausam theek karne ki zaroorat nahi #
Sulah ka matlab mood pasand karna nahi, ya ye dikhana ki wo mahaul par asar nahi daalte. Matlab bas itna ki unka mausam aapki raftaar, aapke sawaalon aur aapki shaamon par kam chale, aur aap use apni list ka kaam maanna chhod dein.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo kisi aur ke mood ka andaaza lagana ya use sudharna chhod dete hain. Poore din kisi ka chehra padhna thakata hai, aur ghar jaane ke baad bhi wo insaan dimaag mein baitha rehta hai.
Is nigrani ko neeche rakhna kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaisa lagega agar aap mausam dekh lein, ek samajhdaar chhatri saath rakhein, aur phir bhi din bhar apni raftaar se chalein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “zaroor mujhse kuch hua hoga” barson se andar baj raha hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaay ek sachchi line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Unka mood unka hai. Mera kaam phir bhi mera hai.”
Ye shuru mein swabhavik lagna zaroori nahi. Ise bas purane vaakya se zyada sahi hona hai, aur kuch logon ko lagta hai ki dheere-dheere, baar-baar kehne se ye purani chinta ki thodi jagah le leta hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo mood ko gambhirta se le par use dhona aapka kaam na bana de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein bas neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har rookhe jawab ka matlab nikaalna, uske liye maafi maangna ya use sulajhana zaroori nahi. Kuch ko notice kiya ja sakta hai, ek pal feel kiya ja sakta hai, aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise baarish thamne par geeli chhatri darwaaze ke paas taang dete hain.
Ye haar maanna ya parwah na karna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki aapki taakat kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain isse us kaam ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai jismein maza aata hai, aur un saathiyon ke liye jinke saath baithna aasaan lagta hai.
Shaam bhar ke liye neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki mood sahi tha ya baat sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki kal ka mausam aaj raat ghar tak na chale.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Mood ab bhi aate-jaate hain, par khidki ke bahar ke mausam jaise lagte hain, aapke apne seene ke bheetar ke toofaan jaise nahi.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: kisi baadlon bhare din bhi poochha gaya ek sawaal, paanch draft ke bina bheja gaya message, ya aisi shaam jo ek shabd ke jawab ka matlab nikaalte na guzre.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Ye unka mausam hai, meri galti nahi”
- Kandhe chadhein to ek dheemi saans chhodte hue unhein girne dijiye
- Chupchaap khud se poochhiye: aaj maine asal mein kya kiya?
- Unke mood ki parwah kiye bina apne kiye ek achhe kaam par gaur kijiye
- Ghar jaate waqt sochiye ki din ka mausam aap raste mein utaar rahe hain
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Unke kuch kehne se pehle hi aapko unka mood kis cheez se pata chal jaata hai?
- Is naukri se bahut pehle aapne kin-kin ke mood padhna seekha?
- Sahi mood ke intezaar mein aap kya poochhna taalte rahe hain?
- Jis aam din ye niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar ye thoda halka ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?