Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye baat pakadne ko bahut kam chhodti hai.
Bahut log ek saaf vaade par bade hue: padho, mehnat karo, poochh hogi.
Neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Sahi logon se jaan-pehchaan nahi to mere kaam ki ginti nahi.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Har faisle se pehle dekhna ki kaun kisse baat kar raha hai
- Idea rakhna band kar dena, kyunki sab pehle se tay lagta hai
- Aise lunch aur gappshap mein khud ko dhakelna jo banawati lagte hain
- Dugni mehnat karna, is ummeed mein ki kaam ko nazarandaaz karna mushkil ho jaye
- Chupchaap kadwahat paal lena, aur kisi se kuch na kehna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Lunch, aur haath se gaya group
Friday dopahar, McLeod Ganj ka trekking office. Mail mein likha hai ki naya corporate group Rohit ko mila, jo Thursday ke lambe dinner mein maalik ke rishtedaar ke saath tha. Pitch ka zyadatar hissa aapne banaya tha. Neeche chai ki tapri par Arjun chammach ghumate hue kandhe uchkata hai: “Bhai, yahan sab jaan-pehchaan se chalta hai.” Pyaar se kehta hai. Aap sir hilate ho, aur hafte bhar ka kaam achanak bahut chhota lagta hai.
Ghere ke bahar kaam ki ginti nahi
Pehle seedhi baat: side-chat mein hua faisla aapke kaam par faisla nahi, aur aapki keemat ki sachchai bhi nahi. Par aise dinon se ek niyam ugta hai aur aapka ho jaata hai: “Sahi logon se jaan-pehchaan nahi to mere kaam ki ginti nahi.” Ye saaf dekhne jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapka har achha kaam bekaar lagne lagta hai.
Humne merit par bharosa kyun kiya
Hum aisa niyam isliye pakadte hain kyunki vaada tha ki mehnat kaafi hogi. Ye bahut insaani ummeed hai, aur aam bhi. Shayad ghar ka poora plan numbers aur merit par tiki thi. Shayad aap bas imaandaari se kaam karne mein yaqeen rakhte ho. Jo bhi ho, chahna ki kaam ki ginti ho, bholapan nahi. Wo insaaf ki chaah se aata hai. Ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har side-chat kya le jaati hai
Har side-chat kuch chhota-sa le jaati hai. Itni chupchaap ki pakadna mushkil hai. Aap idea rok lete ho kyunki tay hua-sa lage. Team lunch mein ginte ho ki kaun kiske saath baitha. Chai ka bulaava thukrate ho kyunki lage jaise koi khel khel rahe ho. Dheere-dheere jis kaam par garv tha wo invisible lagne lagta hai, aur Fridays ye decode karne mein jaate hain ki kisne kya tay kiya.
Kya ghere ko taakna is laayak hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya is niyam ko pakde rehne se kabhi aap kamre mein pahunche? Ya zyadatar bahar se dekhte aur thakte rahe? Kuch faisle sach mein jaan-pehchaan par chalte hain aur kuch nahi, aur aapka kaam dono halat mein asli hai. Isme koi galat jawab nahi. Thoda rukkar sochiye, chahein to. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna aapke chain ki keemat ke laayak hai?
Mere kaam ki ginti hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki politics insaaf wali hai, ya aap insaaf ki parwah chhod dein. Matlab ye ki ghera ab tay nahi karta ki aapke kaam ki keemat kya hai. Aap side-chat saaf dekh sakte ho aur phir bhi apni banayi pitch ka maza le sakte ho. Shuruaat chhoti ho sakti hai, ek baar mein ek pal, ek idea phir bhi bol dena. Wahin se thoda chain lautta hai: aapka kaam phir aapka lagta hai.
If work ever comes with threats, being shouted at or frightened, being watched, or pay or papers held back, that is not okay and is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleSahi logon se jaan-pehchaan nahi to mere kaam ki ginti nahi.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleKuch faisle jaan-pehchaan par chalte hain. Mere kaam ki ginti hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Office ke us ek insaan ko yaad kijiye jo aapke kaam ki qadar karta hai
- Din 2
Ghera zor se bole to ek dheemi saans bahar chhodiye
- Din 3
Aaj ke kaam ki ek cheez chuniye jisse aapko achha laga
Is par baat karni hai?
“Haal ka kaun sa faisla aise kamre mein hua laga jismein aap nahi the?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Kandhe uchkana, jo sab samjha deta hai #
Friday dopahar McLeod Ganj ke trekking office mein mail aaya: corporate group ki booking use mili jo Thursday ke dinner mein maalik ke rishtedaar ke saath baitha tha. Neeche chai ki tapri par Pankaj ne kandhe uchkaye: “Bhai, yahan sab jaan-pehchaan se chalta hai.” Salah ki tarah, apnepan se.
Ye baat samjhane ke liye kahi jaati hai, aur ek had tak samjha bhi deti hai. Par chupke se bhaari baat bhi keh deti hai: der raat tak banayi reports, chupchaap sudhare gaye bill, jo kisi ne notice nahi kiye, shayad us baatcheet se kam gine gaye jo aapke bina hui.
Kaam mein aakhri baar kab laga ki faisla kaam se zyada is par chala ki kaun kiske kareeb hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Wo faisla kis kamre mein hua, aur tab aap kahan the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Sochne se pehle thakaan ki ek giravat #
Kuch logon ko bhaari, sapaat-sa lagta hai, jaise hafte ki hawa nikal gayi. Kuch ko pehle gussa aata hai, phir tez thakaan. Kuch saathi ke saath hans lete hain aur bojh baad mein bus mein ya canteen ki line mein utarta hai. Isme bholapan kuch nahi.
Kaam mein insaaf zyadatar logon ke liye gehri aur tez baat hai. Jab niyam is par badalte lagein ki kisse dosti hai, to body pehle jaan leti hai, dimaag kuch tay kare usse pehle. “Kya mujhe bhi zyada dinner-lunch karne chahiye?” jaise sawaal thodi der baad aate hain.
Jab suna ki faisla kaise hua, to body ne kya kiya: gussa, thakaan, ya achanak kisi cheez se bahar hone ka ehsaas?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ye us baare mein kya batata hai jiski aap apne kaam se ummeed rakhte the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Mano kaam kabhi mudda tha hi nahi #
Zyadatar log is bharose ke saath kaam par aate hain ki mehnat aur hunar ki ginti hogi. Jab faisle dosti ke peeche chalte dikhein, to wo bharosa hil jaata hai. Chubhan is ehsaas ki hai ki jo khel aap achhe se khel rahe the, wo asli khel tha hi nahi.
Ye baat pakadne ko bahut kam chhodti hai. Bure review par kaam ho sakta hai. Band ghere ko chhuna mushkil lagta hai, aur mann sochne lagta hai ki sahi group, sahi chai, sahi gaadi mein lift na mile to kuch karna maayne rakhega bhi ya nahi.
Isiliye ek kandhe uchkana kadi feedback se zyada chubh sakta hai.
Agar faisle ka aapke kaam se kam aur kise kaun jaanta hai isse zyada lena-dena tha, to wo aapke kaam ke baare mein asal mein kya kehta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab kandhe uchkana andar se bolne lage #
Baar-baar suno to ye andar aa basta hai: “Main yahan koshish hi kyun karun?” “Main unmein se hoon hi nahi.” “Mujh jaison ko kaun chunta hai?” Ye tab chalu ho sakta hai jab paas se guzarte hi side-chat shaant ho jaye, ya meeting invite pehle se tay aaye.
Jis saathi ne kaha, wo Monday tak aage badh chuka hota hai, par vaakya chalta rehta hai, aur ab aapki apni awaaz mein. Isiliye pakadna mushkil hai: ab ye office ke baare mein kisi ki raay nahi lagti, aapke baare mein seedhi-saadi baat lagti hai.
Jab ye aapko bahar rakhta hai, to awaaz kiski hoti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki, ya kahin aur se uthayi hui, kisi school, kisi imaarat, kisi group se jahan kabhi laga ki aap shaamil nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Bahut logon ke liye merit hi sauda tha #
Bahut log ek saaf vaade par bade hue: padho, mehnat karo, poochh hogi. Rank padhkar sunayi jaati thi, number milaye jaate the, aur mehnat seedhe nateeje tak jaati dikhti thi. Kuch gharon ke liye wo vaada poore parivaar ki ummeed tha.
Kuch logon ne doosron ko pehchaan se aage badhte bhi dekha: kisi rishtedaar ka phone, sahi kaan mein ek baat, aur wajahein alag-alag hoti hain. Jo reh jaata hai wo bachcha chupchaap nikaalta hai. Kuch maan lete hain ki imaandaar raasta hi izzat ka raasta hai aur baaki sab beimaani.
Achha kaam hi kaafi hona chahiye, ye baat pehli baar kisne sikhayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur wo vaada aaj office mein jo dikhta hai usse kaise mel khaata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche banne wala ek chup-sa niyam #
Neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Sahi logon se jaan-pehchaan nahi to mere kaam ki ginti nahi.” Kuch log iska kada roop dhote hain: “Mujhe kisi ko jaanna hi kyun pade? Agar padta hai to poori jagah hi beimaan hai.”
Aisi maanyataein maanyata jaisi nahi lagtin. Ye bas ye dekh lena lagta hai ki cheezein kaise chalti hain, jaise farsh farsh lagta hai, aur isiliye inhein kabhi-kabhi nikalkar din ki roshni mein dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log ise shuruaati saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai: agar sirf ghere ki ginti hai, to uske bahar mera kaam bekaar.
Ye kin kamron mein ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kinmein kabhi nahi baitha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Bahar wale ke niyam ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai idea rok lena kyunki tay hua-sa lage, un saathiyon se bachna jo aasaani se pasand aa jaate, kyunki wo ghere ke lagein, ya har invite-list mein ishaare dhoondhna. Kuch log apne garv wale kaam ka maza kho dete hain, kyunki lagta hai wo kabhi dikhega nahi.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Jab har faisla politics lage, to kisi achhi khabar par yaqeen karna mushkil ho jaata hai. Jeet ittefaaq lagti hai, meetha bolna strategy lagta hai, aur office ki aam dosti aisa khel lagne lagti hai jismein aapne haami bhari hi nahi.
Kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Ghere ko bahar se dekhte rehna thakata hai.
Pichhle saal mein kya gaya: koi roka hua idea, koi dosti jo shuru nahi hui, koi shaam jo ye samajhne mein gayi ki kisne kisse kya kaha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, ghere ko taakte hue #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “ghere mein nahi to mere kaam ki ginti nahi” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad ek achha idea jo rok liya gaya kyunki faisla ho chuka lage, ek lunch-invite jo banawati laga isliye taal diya, team dinner mein ek nazar ki kaun kiske saath baitha. Shayad ek kaam jis par garv hai, chupchaap kiya aur kabhi zikr nahi hua.
Yahan abhi kisi cheez ka jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer ko kabhi bhi neeche rakha ja sakta hai.
Usmein kya hai: meetings, lunch, roke hue idea?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Jaan-pehchaan aur kaam #
Zyadatar offices mein rishte faislon ko aakaar dete hain, kabhi naainsaafi se aur kabhi bas isliye ki log us par bharosa karte hain jise paas se dekha hai. Dono baatein saath sach ho sakti hain, aur koi bhi aapke kaam ki quality par faisla nahi.
Kabhi sach mein dinner tha. Kabhi waqt tha, koi hunar jiska zikr nahi hua, ya kisi jaane-pehchane ke saath manager ka sukoon. Ye jaanna us ek badi kahani se aasaan hai jo poori jagah ke baare mein ho.
Poochhiye: is faisle ki asal wajah kya thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek aur nazar: agar dost kahe ki uska office jaan-pehchaan se chalta hai, to kya aap usse kahenge ki uska kaam bekaar hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aap chahenge wo un logon mein kya dekhe jo use pehle se jaante aur qadar karte hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par kya dikhta hai #
Jab log un faislon ko dheere se dekhte hain jo chubhe the, to kuch ko dikhta hai ki sab politics nahi the. Kuch saaf taur par the. Baaki ki wajahein bas kabhi batayi nahi gayi, aur kandhe uchkane ne khaali jagah sabse thakane wali kahani se bhar di.
Kuch ko wo log bhi dikhte hain jo pehle se un par bharosa karte hain: junior jo sabse pehle unke paas aata hai, teammate jo unke aankdon par yaqeen karta hai, client jo naam lekar maangta hai. Wo rishte bhi asli hain, kaam se khamoshi se bane.
Office mein kaun pehle se jaanta hai ki aap kya kar sakte hain, aur agar koi unse bas poochh le to wo aapke kaam ke baare mein kya kahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Poora khel jeetne ki zaroorat nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye manna nahi ki ye sahi hai, na ye dikhawa ki side-chat kuch tay nahi karti. Matlab bas itna ki ghera is par kam chale ki aap apne kaam ko kaise dekhein, aur hafte ka kitna hissa ye dekhne mein jaye ki kaun andar aur kaun bahar.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo is intezaar mein nahi rehte ki poora office sahi ho, tabhi kaam ka maza lein. Sahi system ka intezaar thaka deta hai, aur office chhodne ke baad bhi ghera sir mein rehta hai.
Kaisa lagega agar wo intezaar neeche rakh diya jaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaisa lagega achha kaam isliye karte rehna ki wo aapka hai, aur politics ko mausam ka ek hissa rehne dena, poora aasmaan nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “yahan mere kaam ki ginti nahi” mahinon se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iski jagah zyada sachcha vaakya rakhte hain: “Kuch faisle jaan-pehchaan par chalte hain. Mere kaam ki phir bhi ginti hai.”
Ise abhi swabhaavik lagna zaroori nahi. Bas purane se zyada sahi hona hai, aur kuch log paate hain ki chupchaap aur baar-baar kehne se wo us jagah ka thoda hissa le leta hai jo kandhe uchkane ne gher rakhi thi.
Aapke apne shabdon mein ek sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo politics ke baare mein imaandaar ho, par aapke kaam ki keemat usse tay na hone de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch baatein bas neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har side-chat ko decode karne ki zaroorat nahi, aur har faisle par kisne kise influence kiya ki theory nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise din ke aakhir mein I-card daraaz mein rakh dete hain.
Ye insaaf ki ummeed chhodna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki energy kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain isse us kaam ke liye jagah bachti hai jo unhein pasand hai, aur un saathiyon ke liye jinhein wo sach mein pasand karte hain, chahe wo kisi bhi ghere ke hon.
Aaj shaam ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo sahi tha, ya baat tay ho gayi. Bas itna ki Friday ka faisla poore weekend mein saath chalna zaroori nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam zara bhi dheela ho jaye #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Politics ab bhi hai, par wo office ka ek hissa lagti hai, aapke kaam ka paimana nahi.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: idea phir bhi bol dena, kisi saathi ke saath bas isliye chai ki wo achha lagta hai, ya Friday ki shaam jo ye ginne mein na jaye ki kisne kya tay kiya.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi jaan-pehchaan wali kahani”
- Chupchaap khud se poochhiye: is faisle ki asal wajah kya thi?
- Office ke ek aise insaan ko yaad kijiye jo aapke kaam ki qadar karta hai
- Is hafte ke ek aise kaam par dhyan dijiye jisse aapko achha laga
- Jab ghera zor se bole, to ek dheemi saans bahar chhodiye
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Haal ka kaun sa faisla aise kamre mein hua laga jismein aap nahi the?
- Sabse pehle kisne vaada kiya tha ki achha kaam hi kaafi hoga?
- Ghera aapko naainsaafi se zyada chubhta hai ya bahar hone ke ehsaas se?
- Jis aam din ye niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya rokkar rakhe hain?
- Agar ye niyam thoda dheela ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?