Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye isliye aur chubhti hai ki khel sabke saamne hota hai.
Kuch khiladiyon ke liye ye pehli baar khelne se shuru hui, jab team ka hissa hone ki khushi mili thi.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Meri mehnat poori hai, to mera naam aana chahiye,” ya “Achha coach use leta hai jo sabse zyada koshish karta hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Coach ko galat saabit karne ke liye aur zyada practice karna
- Koshish kam kar dena, kyunki ginti toh hoti nahi
- Chune gaye har khiladi se apni tulna karna
- Doston ke saamne aise dikhana jaise farq hi nahi padta
- Khel hi chhod dene ke baare mein sochna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
List mein aapka naam nahi
Indore ke club ke group mein Sunday ke match ki list aati hai. Aap use do baar padhte ho. Lagataar teesre hafte bhi aapka naam nahi. Aap jaldi aaye, der tak ruke, poori mehnat ki. Aap likhte ho “All the best, team!” aur angoothe ka nishaan, phir phone rakhkar bistar ke kinare baith jaate ho, khud ko anadekha aur ummeed par thoda sharminda mehsoos karte hue.
Coach ko aapko lena chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Coach ko mujhe team mein lena chahiye.” Ye jaayaz lagta hai. Mehnat gini jaani chahiye. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: khel ka aapka maza ek aadmi ke faislon se bandh jaata hai. Khelna ab saarthak lagega ya nahi, ye us par tik jaata hai ki coach kai baatein taul rahe hain jo shayad aapko kabhi dikhein bhi nahi: position, chaal, aur kaun kiske saath jamta hai.
Chuna jaana qadar jaisa kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki chuna jaana qadar jaisa lagta hai. Shayad aapko school ki wo qataar yaad ho jahan khade hokar chune jaane ka intezaar kiya tha. Shayad yahi khel wo jagah hai jahan aap sabse zinda mehsoos karte ho, aur khelna chahte ho, dekhna nahi. Chune jaane ki chaah ghamand nahi hai. Ye chahti hai ki mehnat mayne rakhe, aur ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Practice jo bhaari lagne lagi
Aapke naam ke bina har list practice ko thoda bhaari kar deti hai. Aap apne hunar par shak karne lagte ho. Practice mein bemann se haath-pair chalate ho. Chune gaye khiladiyon se kadvahat hone lagti hai. Dheere-dheere jo khel aapko pasand tha, wo aisa imtihaan lagta hai jismein aap baar-baar fail hote ho, aur jis maze ki wajah se aap club aaye the, wahi khone lagta hai.
Kya intezaar karna vajib hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochhiye: kya chune jaane ka intezaar karne se kabhi khel se zyada pyaar hua? Ya zyadatar wo bhaari hi laga? Coach aksar balance aur chaal dekhkar chunte hain, sirf hunar ya mehnat nahi. Kuch bhi ho, ek list aapki keemat ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadne mein aapko usse zyada jaata hai jitna milta hai.
Khel se dono haal mein pyaar
Chhodne ka matlab khelne ki chaah chhodna nahi hai. Iska matlab hai ki khel se aapka pyaar team-list par nirbhar na rahe. Aap practice ka maza le sakte ho, apne liye behtar ho sakte ho, aur sirf khelne ki khushi ke liye khel sakte ho, jaise pehle karte the. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: chune jayein ya na jayein, khel phir aapka hota hai, aur Sunday bas Sunday reh jaata hai.
Being frightened, singled out for who you are, or a coach who touches you in a way that feels wrong or asks for secrets or private messages, is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleCoach ko mujhe team mein lena chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleChunaav ho ya na ho, is khel se mera pyaar bana rah sakta hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Agli practice mein bas maze ke liye ek pal jeekar dekhiye
- Din 2
Is season ka ek hunar yaad kijiye jo aapne nikhara
- Din 3
Is weekend khel ke bahar ki ek pasandida cheez kijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Apna khel khelne ki aapki sabse pyaari yaad kya hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Club ke group mein lagi list #
Thursday ki practice ke baad Indore ke ground se nikalte hue club ke WhatsApp group mein Sunday ke match ki list aa jaati hai. Aap naam upar se neeche padhte ho, phir dobara. Jiske saath poora season khela, uska naam hai. Aapka nahi. Ghar lautte hue baat ban jaati hai: “Coach ko mujhe team mein lena chahiye.”
Kuch khiladiyon ke liye baat mehnat ke gine jaane ki hoti hai. Subah-subah office se pehle ki daud, dukhti taangein, akele ki extra practice: lagta hai in sabko milakar ek jagah banni chahiye thi. Jab nahi banti, to mehnat achanak bahut halki lagne lagti hai.
Koi aisa match yaad kijiye jismein khelkar aapko sachmuch maza aaya, chune jaane ki baat se alag.
Usmein kya itna achha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
List do baar padhna #
Kuch logon ka dil list tak pahunchte-pahunchte dhadakne lagta hai. Kuch ka chehra garam ho jaata hai aur phir ek sambhli hui khaali nazar aa jaati hai, taaki koi dekh na le ki baat kitni mayne rakhti hai.
Body mann se pehle jaan jaati hai: bag tak dheemi chaal, strap par zaroorat se kasi ungliyan, kisi saathi ke saath aisi hansi jo hansi nahi hai. Asli bhaavnayein aksar baad mein aati hain, ghar ke raaste mein ya bistar par.
Pichhli baar jab aapka naam nahi aaya tha, to sochne se pehle aapki body ne sabse pehle kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Mehnat ko apni jagah chahiye #
Team mein chune jaane ki chaah ke peechhe achhi wajahein hain. Team wo jagah hai jahan apnapan milta hai, khud ko aazmane ka mauka milta hai, aur pasand ka khel baaki logon ke saath khela jaata hai. Usse bahar reh jaana kisi zaroori cheez se bahar reh jaane jaisa lag sakta hai.
Ye isliye aur chubhti hai ki khel sabke saamne hota hai. List group mein sab dekhte hain, dost jaan jaate hain. Aur wajah aksar batayi nahi jaati, to mann khaali jagah ko sabse kadvi kahani se bhar deta hai.
Chune jaane se alag, maidan mein ball ke saath khelte hue aapko apne khel ki kaun si cheez sabse achhi lagti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Ghar ke raaste ki awaaz #
“Mujhmein hi kuch kami hai.” “Coach ke apne chahete hain.” “Itni mehnat ka kya faayda?” List lagne ke baad ye awaaz ghar ke raaste par bolti hai, aur agli practice mein phir.
Kuch khiladi dekhte hain ki ye awaaz kisi aisi baat ka matlab nikalne ki koshish kar rahi hai jo samjhayi nahi gayi. Wajah na jaanna mushkil hota hai, to awaaz sabse chubhne wali wajah uthakar usi ko pakad leti hai.
Jab ye awaaz bahar reh jaane ki wajah batati hai, to coach ke faisle ke baare mein wo asal mein kitna jaanti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Jagah ki chaah kahan se shuru hui #
Kuch khiladiyon ke liye ye pehli baar khelne se shuru hui, jab team ka hissa hone ki khushi mili thi. Chuna jaana usi cheez mein apnapan hone ki nishani ban gaya.
Kisi aur ke liye ye ghar se aayi: papa ya chacha jo khud khelte the, ya boundary ke paas se zor se taaliyan bajate the, ya har match ke baad poochhte the “Hua selection?” Ummeedein ek aadmi se doosre tak chalkar pahunch jaati hain.
Aapko apne khel ka chaska sabse pehle kisne lagaya, aur unhone aisa kya kiya ki aapko wo itna pasand aaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Mehnat aur inaam ka niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Meri mehnat poori hai, to mera naam aana chahiye,” ya “Achha coach use leta hai jo sabse zyada koshish karta hai.” Ummeed jaayaz hai. Par coach position, team ka balance, saamne wali team aur bhi kai cheezein dekhte hain jo khiladi ko dikhti nahi.
Niyam reh sakta hai. Uske paas ek aur baat bhi baith sakti hai: is baar nahi chuna gaya, ye is team, is match aur is coach ki yojana ke baare mein kuch kehta hai. Ye kisi khiladi par aakhri faisla nahi hai.
Mehnat aur inaam ka aapka niyam khel mein kahan theek baithta hai, aur kahan ek list ko poori kahani bana deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Bahar reh jaana kya chheen sakta hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai bina khushi ki practice, har match mein khatas, ya khel se pyaar hote hue bhi chupchaap use chhod dene ka faisla. Ek season mein ye khel ka ehsaas dheere-dheere badal sakta hai.
Ye apne baare mein nazariya bhi badal sakta hai. Agar list tay karne lage ki kaun kitna achha khiladi hai, to khel ki saari masti, hunar aur dostiyan ginti se bahar lagne lagti hain.
Pichhle season mein aapke khel ka kaun sa pal sabse zyada khushi wala raha, match ka ho ya practice ka?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Season dar season, notice board ke saamne #
Ise dekhne ka ek tareeka samjhiye, bhavishyavani nahi. Kai season baad ek nayi list lagti hai aur aap use do baar padhte ho, apna naam dhoondhte hue.
Shayad ek shaant khaana, darwaze ke paas rakha kit-bag, aur ek practice jismein mann nahi lag raha.
Ye dekhne ka tareeka hai, poorvanumaan nahi, aur jab chahein ise band kar sakte ho.
Us din ka baaki hissa kaisa beetta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ismein aapki nazar kis par thaharti hai, agar thaharti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
List ek din ka ek faisla hai #
Coach kai faisle aisi wajahon se lete hain jinka is baat se kam lena-dena hota hai ki koi kitni koshish karta hai: team ki banawat, saamne ki team ke khiladi, koi khaali jagah jo bharni hai. Bahut se bade khiladi bhi kabhi na kabhi bench par baithe hain.
Isse baat aasaan nahi ho jaati, aur chune jaane ki chaah jaayaz hai. Ho sakta hai list is match ki yojana ke baare mein zyada batati ho, aap aage kya ban sakte ho uske baare mein kam.
Agar aap is season ko apne khel-safar ka ek adhyay maanein, to agle adhyay mein kya chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Khel pehle se kya de raha hai #
List ke bawajood kuch cheezein paas hi ho sakti hain: practice ke dost, koi hunar jo kaafi nikhra hai, kisi achhe din achha khelne ka ehsaas, koi saathi jo har baar kehta hai “Wah, kya pass tha.”
Faisla ab bhi sahi na lage to theek hai; jagah ki chaah phir bhi jaayaz hai. Ye cheezein bhi aapke khel ka hissa hain, aur inhein dekhne ka matlab ummeed chhodna nahi.
Chune jayein ya na jayein, aapka khel aapko pehle se kya de raha hai jise aap is season mein zyada notice karna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Khel ko uske maze ke liye khelna #
Yahan chain ka matlab ye nahi ki aapko farq nahi padna chahiye. Bas ek list ka poore khel par kam dabdaba rahe. Chune jaane ke liye dard mein ya chot lekar practice karna, kam khaana ya body badalne ki koshish karna bhi jagah ki chaah ka hissa nahi hai; kisi bharose ke insaan ko ye sunaya ja sakta hai.
Itna chillaya jaana ki darr lagne lage, ye bhi kuch aur hai. Waise hi coach ya club mein koi aisa jo aapko galat tareeke se chhuye, raaz rakhne ko kahe, akele mein milne ya private message ke liye bulaye, ya aapki body par tippani kare.
Aap jo ho uski wajah se alag kiya jaana (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability ya aap kahan se aaye ho) bhi yahin aata hai. Coach ya team kitni bhi achhi ho, in sabko gambhirta se lena zaroori hai, aur kisi bharose ke insaan ko ye sunaya ja sakta hai.
Khel mein buniyadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “bahut zyada ummeed” nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi aur har khiladi ke liye bhi.
Agli practice ka kaun sa hissa aap sirf khel ki khaatir sabse zyada jeena chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
List wale dinon ke liye ek line #
“Coach ko mujhe team mein lena chahiye” ke baghal mein kuch khiladi ye rakhte hain: “Mujhe jagah chahiye thi, aur ye khel mujhe ab bhi pasand hai, aur mera khel nikharta ja raha hai.” Pehli line sach rehti hai. Doosri khushi ko nazar mein rakhti hai.
Shuru mein ye thodi banawati lag sakti hai. Kuch log chhoti line rakhte hain, jaise “Is baar nahi, hamesha nahi.” Kuch ko apne hi andaaz ke shabd mil jaate hain.
Aapki apni zyada sachchi line kya hogi, jo aapki ummeed aur khel ke liye aapka pyaar, dono ko saath rakhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
List board par hi reh sakti hai #
Har team-list ko ghar saath le jaana zaroori nahi. Use padha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur wahin chhoda ja sakta hai jahan wo lagi thi.
Chune jaane ki chaah reh sakti hai. Galat tareeke se chhua jaana, raaz ya private message maanga jaana, mazaak udaya jaana, dard mein khelne ko kaha jaana, body badalne ka dabaav, ya aap jo ho uski wajah se alag kiya jaana, ye kuch aur hai; ise gambhirta se lein, aur kisi bharose ke insaan ko sunayein.
List ko wahin chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo sahi thi. Iska matlab hai ki aapki shaam aapki rahe.
Aap uska kya karna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar list ka wazan thoda kam hota #
Usi din par lautiye, ummeed ab bhi hai par thodi dheeli. Aap list ek baar padhte ho. Phir practice par jaate ho, kyunki aapko khelna pasand hai, aur us ek cheez par kaam karte ho jismein aapko maza aata hai.
Kisi ke liye ye practice mein doston ke saath hansna hai. Kisi aur ke liye ek achha pass jo kisi ne notice nahi kiya, par aapne kiya.
Jo bhi saamne aaya, wo aapka hai, rakhiye. Aage, is ummeed se chain banane par ek nazar, aur us par jo pehle se maujood hai.
Kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapka apna pehla ishaara kaisa hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Aaj ki practice mein jo ek cheez achhi hui, use notice karna
- Kisi aise khiladi ko yaad karna jise aap sarahte ho aur jo kabhi bahar raha tha
- Dekhna ki awaaz kab ek list ko aakhri faisla bana deti hai
- Apne aakhri achhe match ka sabse badhiya pal aankhon ke saamne laana
- Mann mein naam lena ki apne khel ki kaun si baat aapko pasand hai
Chupchaap, nijee aur apni marzi se. Ek kaafi hai.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
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