“ghar mein hi kyun ghuse rehte ho, bahar niklo!” itna kyun chubhta hai?

Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka

Zyada kisse, aur kiski ginti se? #

Jab number ka naam liya jaata hai, to pata chal sakta hai ki wo kisi aur ki zindagi se udhaar liya hai, uski naukri, energy aur apne Thursdays ke saath.

Ghar par waqt mein bahut kuch aata hai: padhna, hafte bhar ka khaana, doosre time zone mein rehti dadi se lambi call, koi hunar, koi course, ya bhaari hafte ke baad seedha aaram. Zindagi ki ginti agar bahar bitayi raaton mein ho, to inmein se kuch nahi aata.

“Zyada” ko koi shuruaati number chahiye: pichhle mahine se zyada, flatmate se zyada, ya cousin ki photo se lagne wale andaaze se zyada?Is par baat kijiye ›

Agar aap kisi sach mein jaanne ko utsuk insaan ko apni pichhli khaali shaam batayein, to aap chahenge wo kya samjhe?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ise jaldi pehchanna

Dobara dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #

Jab kuch log us pal ko dheere-dheere dohrate hain, to dekhte hain ki sawaal chalte-chalte poocha gaya tha, kisi aur baat ke raaste mein, aur unhone use poochne wale se kahin zyada der apne sir mein jawab diya.

Kuch ko wo log dikhte hain jinhein apni shaamein jaisi hain waisi pasand hain: wo dost jo kitaabon ki sifarishein badalta hai, wo uncle jo match par baat karne phone karte hain, wo padosan jo kuch garam-sa plate mein rakh jaati hain. Wo log shuru se the, sawaal se bas thode shaant.

Aapki zindagi mein kaun aapki shaamon ke baare mein isliye poochta hai ki wo sach mein jaanna chahta hai, aur aap dono aam taur par kya baatein karte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›

Isse sulah

Vyast hafta saabit karne ki zaroorat nahi #

Sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki aapki shaamein badalni chahiye, ya ye dikhana ki sawaal laga nahi. Matlab bas itna ki ek sawaal is par kam kahe ki khaali shaam kaisi lage, hafta kaise bataya jaye, aur agla phone kaisa jaye.

Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo bahar bitayi raaton ki mann ki diary rakhna band kar dete hain, jo saboot ke taur par dikhane ke liye taiyaar rehti thi. Wo diary kabhi poori nahi bharti, kyunki sawaal ne kabhi nahi bataya ki kaafi kitna hai, aur har shaant Saturday mein poochne wale ko baithaye rakhti hai.

Kuch kamre sach mein nahi sunenge, aur unhein aazmana zaroori nahi.

Kaisa lagega agar sawaal usi ke paas rahe jisne poocha, aur aapki shaamein sirf aapko jawab dein?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ek zyada sachcha vaakya

Ek shaant shaam ke liye sachcha vaakya #

Agar “mujhe aur bahar hona chahiye” kuch samay se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaay ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Shaam meri hai, kaise bitaoon ye main tay karoon, kisi ko dikhana zaroori nahi.”

Ye abhi sach lagna zaroori nahi. Kuch log ise aazmate hain, aur kuch dekhte hain ki Friday ki shaam ghar par dheere se kehne par ye purane sawaal ki thodi jagah lene lagti hai.

Aapke apne shabdon mein, apni raftaar se, aap apna waqt kaise bitana pasand karte ho, is par sachcha vaakya kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›

Kya rehne dein

Kuch baatein seedhe ek taraf rakhi ja sakti hain #

Har “bahar kyun nahi nikalte?” ko poora jawab, saboot ka calendar ya zyada vyast hone ka plan nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai aur ek taraf rakha ja sakta hai, jaise darwaaze par pada parcha seedha raddi mein jaata hai.

Ye haar maanna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki dhyaan kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain ki isse un shaamon ke liye zyada bachta hai jinka sach mein maza lete ho, chahe bahar hon ya ghar par.

Aaj shaam sawaal ko ek taraf rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek tha ya baat sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki use aaj ke baaki hisse mein saath nahi aana padega, na film mein, na ghar ki call mein, na agle khaali Saturday mein.

Agar yeh dheela pade

Aur agar ginti thodi bhi dheeli ho jaye #

Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Shaam jaise bhi beete, beete, koi report nahi bharni.

Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: phone dekhe bina film ka maza lena, koi nyota isliye chunna ki wo achha laga, ya Monday ko “poore weekend kitaabein hi padhin” seedhe-seedhe keh dena.

Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, chahe kitna bhi chhota lage. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.

Jis din koi aapki shaamein nahi gin raha, us din sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Aapki apni pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›