Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Bilkul aakhir mein kisi chhooti cheez ka pata chalna beinsaafi lagta hai, kyunki shuru mein batayi nahi gayi thi.
Bahut logon ne bachpan mein suna ki achhi taiyaari musibat ko door rakhti hai.
Neeche ek niyam baith sakta hai: “Baar-baar gadbad ho rahi hai to mujhse kuch chhoot raha hoga.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Har chakkar ki pichhli raat file baar-baar jaanchna
- Khidki par sir hilana, phir bahar nikalkar bujh-sa jaana
- Ek baar awaaz oonchi karna, phir chinta karna ki kaam aur dheema ho gaya hoga
- Chakkaron ki ginti bhool jaana, aur kisi ko batana band kar dena ki kitne hue
- Ghar par kisi par jhalla padna, jisne bas poochha tha ki kaam hua ya nahi
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Teesra chakkar, ek signature baaki
Muzaffarpur mein university ke daftar mein Tuesday ki subah. Nayi naukri ke liye marksheet ka verification chahiye, aur ye teesra chakkar hai, chhutti ka teesra aadha din. Dheeme pankhe ke neeche lohe ki bench par do ghante, file seene se chipki. Khidki par babu kaagaz palatkar kehta hai: “Ek signature baaki hai. Kal aaiye, sahab aaj nahi hain.”
Mujhse kuch chhoot raha hoga
Pehle seedhi baat: jis signature ka kisi ne zikr nahi kiya, wo aap par faisla nahi hai, aur teen chakkar aapko laparwah nahi banate. Par aisi subahon se ek niyam ug sakta hai, aur wo aapka ho jaata hai: “Baar-baar gadbad ho rahi hai to mujhse kuch chhoot raha hoga.” Ye saleeqe jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: unki process ki har kami aapki kami ban jaati hai.
Taiyaari mein itni suraksha kyun lagti hai
Hum aisa niyam isliye pakadte hain ki taiyaari aksar musibat ko door rakhti aayi hai. Ye bahut insaani chaah hai, aur aam hai. Shayad maa-baap imtihaan se pehle har raat basta dekhte the. Shayad log hamesha aap par bharosa karte aaye ki sab vyavasthit hoga. Sahi karne ki chaah sanak nahi. Ye saksham mehsoos karne ki chaah se aati hai. Ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Aadhi raat ko jaanchi file
To aap file der raat phir dekhte ho, page-page. Agli chhutti se hafton pehle darte ho. Bench par haath kaagazon ko kasakar thaame rehte hain. Har lautaye gaye chakkar ke baad ek dheemi awaaz poochhti hai ki ye kaise chhoota, aur ek sapaat thakaan ghar tak saath aati hai. Dheere-dheere ek certificate is baat ka imtihaan lagne lagta hai ki aap apni zindagi sambhal paate ho ya nahi.
Kya khud ko dosh dena sahi hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: kya ye niyam pakadne se kabhi chhoota signature prakat hua? Ya zyadatar chakkaron ke upar dosh hi juda? Jo bataya gaya tha, wo sab lekar aap gaye. List badalti rahi, aur wo hissa kabhi aapka nahi tha. Yahan koi galat jawab nahi. Chahein to ek pal rukiye. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna us keemat ke layak hai jo ye maangta hai?
Har chakkar mera pahunchna tha
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki chakkar lagwana theek hai, ya aapka waqt mayne nahi rakhta. Matlab ye ki unka analikha kadam aapki nakaami banna zaroori nahi. File ek baar bandhiye, bench par dheele haathon se baithiye, aur yaad rakhiye: har chakkar mera pahunchna tha. Chhoti shuruaat bhi chalegi. Yahin se kuch chain lautta hai: file phir bas kaagaz ban jaati hai.
If anyone at an office threatens you, holds your papers to pressure you, or asks for money to move things along, that is not everyday and is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBaar-baar gadbad ho to mujhse kuch chhoot raha hoga.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleJo bataya gaya tha, wo saath tha. Har chakkar mera pahunchna tha.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
File ek baar bandhiye, aur use kaafi maniye
- Din 2
Bench par kaagazon par pakad dheeli kijiye
- Din 3
Chakkar ke baad ek cheez ginie jo aap lekar gaye the
Is par baat karni hai?
“Jo system aapne banaya hi nahi, usmein gadbad ho to apni galti kyun lagti hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Ek khidki, teen chakkar, do lafz #
Seene se chipki plastic ki file, har page saleeqe se, copy ki bhi copy. Lohe ki bench par dheeme pankhe ke neeche lamba intezaar. Phir khidki, kaagazon par ek sarsari nazar, aur sapaat awaaz: “Ek signature baaki hai. Kal aaiye, sahab aaj nahi hain.”
Muzaffarpur mein university ke daftar se marksheet verify hoti hai, bijli bill mein naam badalna, bachche ke naye school ka form. Kaam ek subah ka tha. Ab ye teesra chakkar hai, chhutti ka teesra aadha din, aur har baar ek aur cheez nikal aati hai jo pehle kisi ne batayi hi nahi.
Kisi kaagaz ne aapko aakhri baar kab aise chakkar katwaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Wo kisliye tha, kitne chakkar lage, aur khidki ki kaun si ghadi bahar nikalkar bhi aapke saath rahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Khidki par chehra kyun tapne lagta hai #
Bahut se log un shabdon ke pehle second mein ye mehsoos karte hain: chehra garam, gala kasa hua, file thaame baahon mein achanak bhaaripan. Koi chup hokar sir hila deta hai; koi shabdon ko tezi se uthta mehsoos karta hai aur nigal jaata hai. Ise zyada react karna nahi kehte.
Jis chakkar se kuch khatam hona tha wo abhi-abhi ek aur chakkar ban gaya, aur sheeshe ke paar baithe insaan ke paas saari chaabiyan hain. Aise phanse aur bebas hone ko body emergency maan leti hai, chahe mamla ek signature ka hi ho.
“Kal aaiye” sunkar aapki body ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur bahar sadak tak wapsi mein pehla khayal kya tha: unke baare mein, din ke baare mein, ya apne baare mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ye aapki mehnat ko mita deta hai #
“Kal aaiye” ek subah ki mehnat ko shoonya kar deta hai. Line, chhutti, ghar par teen baar jaanchi file, sab do shabdon mein gaayab. Sabse zyada chubhti aksar deri nahi hoti, balki ye ehsaas ki mehnat ginti hi nahi gayi.
Bilkul aakhir mein kisi chhooti cheez ka pata chalna beinsaafi lagta hai, kyunki shuru mein batayi nahi gayi thi. Phir kai log gussa andar mod lete hain aur har page dobara khangalte hain, jaise unhein koi aisa niyam pata hona chahiye tha jo kahin likha nahi tha.
Agar pehle din kisi ne saaf list pakda di hoti, to chakkar kaise lagte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Zyada kis baat ne chubhaya: waqt, analikha niyam, ya ye ehsaas ki taiyaari behtar honi chahiye thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab khidki andar se bolne lage #
Kuch chakkaron ke baad ye awaaz andar aa basti hai. “Mujhe check kar lena chahiye tha.” “Ye mujhse kaise chhoot gaya?” “Ek seedha-sa kaam kyun nahi ho paata?” Ye pichhli raat hi shuru ho sakti hai, jab chauthi baar kaagaz bistar par phailaye jaate hain.
Babu ne uske baad sau files dekh leen, par aapke sir mein review chalti rehti hai, aur ab wo unki process ki nahi, aapki taiyaari ki hai. Isi wajah se ye pakad mein nahi aati: ye zimmedari jaisi lagti hai, jabki aksar us niyam ka dosh dhona hai jo kisi ne bataya nahi.
Jab ye kehti hai ki aapko pata hona chahiye tha, to kiski awaaz jaisi lagti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki apni, ya bahut pehle kisi ki di hui, jisne aapka basta kholkar kuch kam paya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Bahuton ke liye taiyaari hi imtihaan thi #
Bahut logon ne bachpan mein suna ki achhi taiyaari musibat ko door rakhti hai. Imtihaan se pehle ki raat maa-baap ne basta check kiya hoga, ya kaha hoga ki kuch bhool jaana laparwahi ki nishani hai, ittefaaq ki nahi.
Kuch bachchon ne aise palon se seekha ki jab kuch gadbad ho, to sabse pehle apni taiyaari dekho. Ye aadat kai jagah kaam aati hai, aur ek chup-sa yakeen bhi chhod sakti hai ki har kami aapki kami hai, kisi aur ke system ke bheetar bhi.
Koi chhooti cheez pehli baar kab aapki galti lagne lagi, aur basta kaun dekhta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya wahi ehsaas aaj sarkari counter ya daftar ki khidki par laut aata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Ek chup niyam jo file do baar bandhwata hai #
Neeche ek niyam baith sakta hai: “Baar-baar gadbad ho rahi hai to mujhse kuch chhoot raha hoga.” Uska judwa utna hi thakau hai: “Taiyaari poori hoti to itna waqt na lagta.” Kuch log narm roop rakhte hain: “Baaki log toh ek chakkar mein kar lete hain.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte hi nahi. Ve saleeqe jaise lagte hain, aur isiliye inhein dekhna chahiye. Ve chupke se ek akele insaan se maangte hain ki wo us system ka har analikha kadam jaane, jise uska apna staff bhi poori tarah na jaanta ho.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan tak dhoondh lete hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah ise dekha ja sakta hai: agar har kami meri kami hai, to har atirikt chakkar meri nakaami hai.
Ye ab kin daftaron mein fit baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Faltu chakkaron ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai benchon par kharch hue aadhe dino ki chhuttiyan, der raat tak jaanchi file, ya seedhe-se kaam ko mahinon taalna kyunki chakkaron ka sochna hi bhaari lagta hai. Kuch log apne haq ki cheezein maangna chhod dete hain, kyunki maangne mein bahut mehnat lagti hai.
Ek chupchaap keemat bhi hai. Jab har lautaya gaya form apni galti lage, to thakaan chakkaron se gehri ho jaati hai. Ek chhota, bujha-sa ehsaas aa sakta hai ki main qaabil nahi, jabki kami us process mein thi jo kisi ne samjhayi nahi.
Kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Us system ka bojh dhona thakata hai jo aapke hisaab se bana hi nahi.
Pichhle saal isne kya liya: intezaar ke kamron mein gayi chhuttiyan, koi kaam jo adhoora raha, koi shaam jo apni hi samajh par shak karte beeti?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Do baar jaanchi file, paanch saal aur #
Ek aam hafta sochiye, jab “gadbad hui to mujhse kuch chhoota” tez hai. Bas ek tasveer hai dekhne ki, theek karne ki nahi.
Shayad bistar par baar-baar bandhi-kholi gayi file, hafton se satati aadhe din ki chhutti, ek kaam jo taala gaya kyunki chakkar imtihaan jaise lage. Shayad aapke naam ki koi chhoti cheez bina maange reh gayi, kyunki maangna bahut bhaari laga.
Abhi iska koi jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer jab chahein rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya-kya hai: form, daftar, lines, chakkaron ki pichhli raatein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Use dekhkar aapko, agar kuch bhi, kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Chooka kya, kiske muqable? #
“Mujhse kuch chhoota hoga” ko dheere se dekha ja sakta hai, jaise ek imaandaar dost dekhe. Ek signature jo kisi list mein nahi tha, ek form jo pichhle mahine badla, ek sahab jo aaye hi nahi. Ye aapki file mein le jaane ki cheezein nahi thin.
Ye dekhna bhi madad karta hai ki aap kya lekar gaye. Aap gaye, line mein lage, wo har page liya jo bataya gaya tha, aur phir laute. Har chakkar kisi zaroori cheez ke liye aapka aana tha. Jo process apne hi kadam chhipaye, wo aapki parwah ke baare mein kam batati hai.
Chhoota kya, theek-theek?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek aur tareeka: agar koi dost kehta ki ek certificate ke liye teen chakkar lage, to kya aap use laparwah maante?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ya maante ki use aisi bhoolbhulaiya mein bheja gaya jiska naqsha kisi ne nahi banaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par kya dikhta hai #
Kaagazon ke chakkar ko palatkar dekhne par bahut log paate hain ki har chakkar kisi nayi cheez par atka, ek hi cheez par do baar nahi. Aam taur par iska matlab hai ki list badalti rahi, ye nahi ki ve baar-baar galat karte rahe.
Kuch log paate hain ki aakhir mein kaam ho gaya. Certificate aaya, naam badla, form aage gaya. Chakkar lambe aur thakau the, par ve lagan ka saboot the, laparwahi ka nahi.
Pichhle chakkar ko is nazar se dekhein to chakkar-dar-chakkar aap kya karte rahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur chhoote hue signature ke saath us lagan ko bhi gina jaye, to kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Unke chhoote kadam ka bojh dhona zaroori nahi #
Chain ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki chakkar sahi the, ya aapka waqt mayne nahi rakhta. Matlab bas ye ki unke analikhe niyam ko din par, aur bahar sadak tak lautte hue aap khud ko kitna saksham mehsoos karte hain is par, kam haq mile.
Kuch log paate hain ki har lautaye gaye form ko apni taiyaari ka imtihaan maanna chhodne par halka lagta hai. Process utna hi waqt leti hai jitna leti hai, dosh ke saath ya uske bina.
Agla chakkar pichhle ko dhoye bina lagana kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sahi-si chhoti cheez rakhna, ki kaam ho jaye, aur chhoote kadam ko us system ke paas rehne dena jisne use kabhi likha nahi, to kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Lohe ki bench ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “mujhse hamesha kuch chhoot jaata hai” barson se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladna zaroori nahi. Kuch log ek sachcha vaakya taiyaar rakhte hain: “Jo bataya gaya tha, wo sab saath tha. Unki list badalti rahi.”
Ye abhi sach na bhi lage. Ise bas purane vaakya se zyada sateek hona hai, aur kuch log paate hain ki pankhe ke neeche bench par chupchaap kehne se purane vaakya ki thodi jagah ye le leta hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo thakaan ke baare mein imaandaar ho par unke chhoote kadam ko aap par faisla na bana de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Ismein se kuch bas neeche rakha ja sakta hai #
Har lautaye gaye form par neend udane wali jaanch, kya-kya karna chahiye tha ki list, ya ye kahani ki main in cheezon mein kachcha hoon, zaroori nahi. Kuch ko dekh liya jaye, ek pal mehsoos kar liya jaye, aur ghar pahunchkar file ki tarah almaari mein rakh diya jaye.
Ye laparwahi nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki urja kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain ki isse din ke baaki hisse ke liye jagah bachti hai: ek dhang ka khaana, ghar ke log, wo cheez jiske liye kaagaz the.
Aaj shaam ke liye rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki baat theek thi, ya nipat gayi. Bas itna ki khidki ko aaj baaki har cheez mein saath nahi aana.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam zara dheela pade #
Sochiye, bas tasveer ki tarah, ki niyam ek paydaan dheema ho gaya. Kaam ho jaana ab bhi mayne rakhta hai, par chhoota signature unka analikha kadam hai, aapki laparwahi ka saboot nahi.
Chhoti cheezein bhi kaafi hain: file ek baar bandhkar chhod dena, pet mein gaanth ki jagah bench par chai ke saath intezaar, ya daftar se bina replay ke bahar nikalna.
Isme se kuch kisi se kehna zaroori nahi. Jo bhi ubhre, aapka hai, aur dekhne layak hai. Theek se dekhna ho, to chat bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Khidki par mann mein naam dijiye: “Unka chhoota kadam, mera nahi”
- Bench par file ghutne par aaram se rakhiye aur pakad dheeli kijiye
- Sadak par lautne se pehle ek baar dheere se saans chhodiye
- Har chakkar ke baad ek cheez ginie jo aap lekar gaye the
- Wo ek waqt yaad kijiye jab form pehli baar mein nikal gaya tha, use bhi ginie
Chhote, nijee aur sab vaikalpik. Agle chakkar mein jo ho sake, wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Jo system aapne banaya hi nahi, usmein gadbad ho to apni galti kyun lagti hai?
- Us kaagaz ka aapke liye, kaagaz se pare, kya matlab tha?
- Kisne sikhaya ki taiyaar rehna musibat ko door rakhta hai?
- Jis din ye niyam tez ho, us aam din mein aap kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar ye thoda dheela pade, to aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?