Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Gharwalon ke sawaal aksar khone se zyada bhaari padte hain.
Bahut gharon mein ek bachche par thappa lag jaata hai: “Ye toh hai hi bhulakkad.”
Andar hi andar ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Samajhdaar insaan ki cheezein hamesha uske haath mein hoti hain,” ya “Kuch khoya, matlab main laparwah hoon.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Wahi teen jagahein baar-baar dekhna, har baar aur tez
- Jo poochhe ki kahan rakha tha, usi par jhalla jaana: “Pata hota toh poochhta?”
- Kisi par ilzaam lagana ki usne hataya, phir wahin milna jahan khud rakha tha
- Uske bina nikal jaana, aur din bhar chidhe rehna
- Bahar hanskar taal dena, aur andar chupchaap chhota mehsoos karna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Paune chhe, cab neeche, passport gayab
Delhi, subah paune chhe. Airport ki cab neeche khadi hai, driver teesri baar phone kar raha hai, “Bhaiya, do minute.” Suitcase bed par khula hai aur passport gayab. Rasoi se mummy ki awaaz aati hai, “Aakhri baar kahan rakha tha? Sir gardan se juda na hota toh wo bhi kahin rakh aate.” Chehra garam ho jaata hai. Passport pichhli trip wale bag ki zip mein milta hai, aur chubhan airport tak cab mein saath baithti hai.
Samajhdaar log kuch nahi khote
Pehle seedhi baat: ain waqt par passport na milne se aap laparwah nahi ho jaate, aur ye ek bade insaan ke taur par aap par koi faisla nahi hai. Par us lambi saans ke neeche ek niyam ug sakta hai, aur wo aapka ban jaata hai: “Samajhdaar insaan ki cheezein hamesha haath mein hoti hain.” Ye saleeqe jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har khoyi cheez aapke khilaf saboot ban jaati hai.
Saleeqa bharose jaisa kyun lagta hai
Hum aisa niyam isliye pakadte hain kyunki saleeqe se rehna bharose jaisa laga hai. Shayad aap ghar ke “bhulakkad” the, jiska tiffin khoya aur har relative ke saamne uski baat hui. Shayad aaj aap par bahut kuch tika hai, aur chookna jokhim lagta hai. Apni cheezein haath mein rakhna chahna nakhra nahi. Ye taiyar rehne aur gambhirta se liye jaane ki chaah se aata hai. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Paanch minute, poori subah khatti
Keemat chupchaap dikhti hai. Paanch khoye minute poori subah khatti kar dete hain. Aap nikalne se pehle teen baar bag jaanchte ho, darwaaze par jebein thapthapate ho, “Sab rakha hai, sab rakha hai,” aur jo “Phir se?” poochhe us par jhallate ho. Cheez milne ke bahut baad tak sir mein daant chalti rehti hai. Ek chhoti paheli kachehri ban jaati hai, aur din ka chain passport ke saath kho jaata hai.
Kya jebein thapthapana iske laayak hai?
Imaandaari se khud se poochhiye: kya is niyam ko pakde rehne se kabhi koi cheez jaldi mili? Ya zyadatar isne dhoondhne ke upar ek chubhan aur jod di? Zyadatar subah sab apni jagah hota hai, aur wo subahein kabhi ginee nahi jaatin. Bhare dimaag se kabhi-kabhi cheezein khoti hain. Yahan koi galat jawab nahi hai. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna us keemat ke laayak hai jo aapke chain se jaati hai?
Khoyi cheez bas cheez hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap cheezon ki parwah chhod dein, ya rasoi se aayi wo lambi saans theek thi. Matlab ye hai ki khoya passport bas khoya passport ho sakta hai. Aap ek saans bhar ruk sakte ho, phir aaram se dekh sakte ho, aur bina kisi faisle ke use dhoondh sakte ho. Shuruaat chhoti ho sakti hai, ek baar mein ek dhoondhna. Wahin se kuch chain lautta hai: aapki subahein imtihaan nahi rehtin.
If someone takes or hides your phone, keys, money or papers so you can't leave or manage on your own, or you feel frightened at home, that is not everyday and is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleSamajhdaar insaan ki cheezein hamesha uske haath mein hoti hain.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleKabhi-kabhi cheezein khoti hain, aur aksar mil bhi jaati hain.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Kuch na mile, to pehle ek saans bhar rukiye
- Din 2
Paanch jagah tezi se nahi, ek jagah aaram se dekhiye
- Din 3
Aaj raat ek cheez ginie jo theek wahin thi jahan rakhi thi
Is par baat karni hai?
“Jab pata chala ki cheez gayab hai, tab aap kahan nikalne wale the?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Wo sawaal jo kabhi kaam nahi aata #
Subah paune chhe, Delhi ka chhota-sa flat. Cab neeche khadi hai, suitcase bed par khula hai, aur passport gayab. Aap teesri baar wahi daraaz kholte ho, aur rasoi se wo awaaz aati hai jo shayad har ghar mein aati hai: “Aakhri baar kahan rakha tha?”
Kaha madad ke liye jaata hai, par madad kam hi hoti hai. Pata hota toh khota hi kyun. Saath mein aksar kuch aur bhi aata hai: “Sir gardan se juda na hota toh wo bhi kahin rakh aate,” ya papa ki lambi saans, “Har baar yahi hota hai.” Dhoondhna chalta rehta hai, bas ab koi dekh bhi raha hota hai.
Aakhri baar kab poora kamra ulat-palat kiya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us waqt aap kahan nikalne wale the, kaun dekh raha tha, aur zyada chubha kya: khoyi hui cheez, ya wo sawaal?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Dhoondhna itni jaldi bechain kyun ho jaata hai #
Pehli baar bag tatolna aaram se hota hai. Doosri baar thoda tez. Teesri baar tak saans chhoti ho jaati hai aur haath aankhon se tez chalne lagte hain. Kuch log badbadakar kadam dohrate hain, “Kal raat yahin toh rakha tha,” kuch ekdum chup ho jaate hain. Isme kuch bhi bewakoofi nahi.
Jab ain waqt par koi zaroori cheez na mile, to sharir ise achanak taiyar na hone jaisa padhta hai, aur raftaar badha deta hai. Ajeeb baat ye ki raftaar se dhoondhna aur bigadta hai: hadbadayi aankh bed par pade passport ko seedha dekhkar bhi nahi dekh paati.
Pichhli baar kuch khoya to aapke sharir ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aap tez hue, zor se bole, ya chup ho gaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur jab kisi aur ne poochhna shuru kiya ki kahan rakha tha, to dhoondhna kaise badla?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Baat taiyar rehne ki hai, aur dikhne ki #
Kuch khona isliye chubhta hai ki wo apni cheezein apne haath mein hone ka ehsaas chheen leta hai. Ek chhoti-si cheez poori subah rok sakti hai, aur der sabko dikhti hai. Bahut logon ko ye pakde jaane jaisa lagta hai, jaise ek passport ne sabko bata diya ki unse kuch sambhalta nahi.
Gharwalon ke sawaal aksar khone se zyada bhaari padte hain. “Phir se?” aur “Dhyaan kahan rehta hai tumhara?” laparwahi par faisle jaise sunayi dete hain, chahe hadbadi mein hi kahe gaye hon, aur dhoondhna sabke saamne chal rahi ek chhoti kachehri ban jaata hai.
Agar aap akele hote, to ye dhoondhna kitna bada lagta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur wo sawaal aapse asal mein kya sabit karwana chahte the: ki aap dhyaan rakhte ho, bade ho gaye ho, apni cheezein sambhal sakte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo passport ko kami bana deti hai #
Cheez mil jaane ke baad, pichhli trip wale bag ki zip mein ya akhbaar ke neeche, ek dheemi awaaz shuru ho sakti hai: “Mere saath hamesha yahi hota hai.” “Ek cheez nahi sambhalti mujhse.” “Zaahir hai, usi din khoyi jis din zaroorat thi.”
Ye seedhi imaandaari jaisi lagti hai, isiliye is par yaqeen karna aasaan hai. Par dekhiye ye ek chhoti-si baat ke saath kya karti hai. Passport bag mein tha. Awaaz use aapke poore swabhaav ki kahani bana deti hai, aur un sau dinon ki baat shayad hi karti hai jab kuch nahi khoya.
Jab ye “hamesha yahi” kehti hai, to kiski awaaz udhaar leti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki apni, ya wo jo kabhi rasoi se aati thi jab school ka basta nahi milta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Bahut log ghar ke bhulakkad bana diye gaye #
Bahut gharon mein ek bachche par thappa lag jaata hai: “Ye toh hai hi bhulakkad.” School mein chhoota tiffin, barsaat ka doosra chhata, wo geometry box jo kabhi lauta hi nahi. Har cheez kahani mein judti gayi, aur kahani rishtedaaron ke saamne hanste-hanste sunayi jaati rahi.
Aisa thappa chhaton ke maayne khatam hone ke baad bhi chipka reh sakta hai. Kuch log chupchaap maan lete hain ki unka dhyaan bikhra rehta hai, aur har khoyi chaabi ise pakka karti hai. Kuch log nikalne se pehle bag chaar-chaar baar jaanchne lagte hain, taaki wo thappa phir kabhi na lage.
Kuch khona pehli baar kab aapke khilaf ek nishaan jaisa lagne laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya ghar mein koi tha jiski lambi saans aaj bhi sunayi deti hai jab jeb khaali nikalti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Ek chupchaap niyam jis par shayad aap chal rahe ho #
Andar hi andar ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Samajhdaar insaan ki cheezein hamesha uske haath mein hoti hain,” ya “Kuch khoya, matlab main laparwah hoon.” Kuch logon mein dono chupchaap saath chalti hain.
Aisi maanyataayein maanyata jaisi lagti hi nahi. Lagta hai bas yahi pata hai ki bado ko kaisa hona chahiye, aur isiliye unhein kisi aisi subah nikalkar dekhna theek hai jab kuch khoya na ho.
Is niyam ka apna tark hai: agar aap kabhi apni cheezon ke bina na pakde jaayein, to koi aapko bhulakkad nahi keh sakta. Kuch log ise bachpan se jodte hain, kuch nahi.
Ye niyam kahan ab bhi kaam aata hai, aur kahan ek khoyi chaabi ko kachehri bana deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Is niyam ko dhone ki keemat #
Paanch khoye minute poori subah khatti kar sakte hain. Passport haath mein, cab chal padi, par chidh saath baithi hai: airport ki line mein, flight mein, agli baatcheet mein. Kuch log cheez mil jaane ke bahut baad tak khud par sakht rehte hain.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai: baar-baar jaanchna. Darwaaze par jebein thapthapana, “Sab rakha hai, sab rakha hai,” passport dekhne ke liye ek baar aur bag kholna. Jab kuch khona kisi kami ka saboot lage, to kuch log apni hi cheezon ke saath kabhi poori tarah chain se nahi reh paate.
Ye kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Ek thappe se har waqt bachte rehna thaka deta hai.
Haal mein iski keemat kya rahi: gharwalon par jhallahat, hadbadi mein nikalna, ya us cheez par ghante bhar ka gussa jo das minute mein mil gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, har jeb thapthapate hue #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “samajhdaar insaan kabhi kuch nahi khota” zor se bol raha ho. Usmein kya hai: jaanchna, jaldbaazi, chhota-sa gussa, “Phir se?” ki halki chubhan. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad nikalne se pehle teen baar jaancha bag, pehle se rakhi cheez ke liye andar ka ek aur chakkar, charger par ghar ke kisi par jhallahat, ek shaam jo chupchaap khud ko bhulakkad kehte beeti. Shayad ek shaant subah jo kabhi poori tarah aati hi nahi.
Yahan kisi cheez ka abhi jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer jab chahein neeche rakh sakte hain.
Ise dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Cheezein khona bhari-poori zindagi ka hissa hai #
Lagbhag har koi cheezein khota hai, aur bhaagdaud wale log shayad zyada, kyunki unka dhyaan chaabiyon se kahin zyada cheezon mein bata hota hai. Khoya charger aksar batata hai ki dimaag mein kitna kuch chal raha tha, ye nahi ki insaan ke taur par aapki keemat kya hai.
Jawab aksar hota hai: zyadatar baar. Ek dhoondhna yaad reh jaata hai, wo bahut-si shaant subahein, jab sab apni jagah tha, ginee hi nahi jaatin.
Khud se poochhiye: is mahine kitni baar zaroorat ke waqt cheez theek aapke paas thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek aur nazar: agar kisi dost ka phone station nikalne se pehle na mile, to kya aap use laparwah kahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ya bas gadde ke neeche saath dhoondhenge aur kahenge, “Arre, sabke saath hota hai”?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par kya dikhta hai #
Jab log yaad mein us dhoondhne ko dheema karke dekhte hain, to bahuton ko dikhta hai ki cheez kisi bhaari din khoyi thi: der raat ki packing, bhaagti subah, ek saath teen kaam. Khoya passport aksar bhare hue dimaag ka nishaan tha, khaali ka nahi.
Kuch ko dikhta hai ki chubhan ka kitna hissa dekhne walon se aaya. Akele mein khoyi cheez ek chhoti paheli hai. Koi poochh raha ho “kahan rakha tha?”, to wahi bade hone ka imtihaan ban jaati hai, aur bechaini un wajahon se aati hai jinka passport se khaas lena-dena nahi.
Pichhli us subah ko yaad kijiye jab kuch khoya tha.
Us din dimaag mein kya chal raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur bhaaripan kitna dhoondhne se aaya, aur kitna isse ki dhoondhna aapke baare mein kya kehta laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Khaali nikli jeb se sulah #
Sulah ka matlab ye nahi ki cheezein kahan hain iski parwah chhod dein. Matlab ye ki khoyi chaabi bas khoyi chaabi rahe: suljhane laayak ek jhanjhat, is par faisla nahi ki aap zindagi kaise chalate ho, na gharwalon ke saamne chhota mehsoos karne ki wajah.
Kuch logon ko dhoondhna tab shaant lagta hai jab wo ek pal rukte hain. Ek saans, hadbadi ko baithne dena, phir dekhna. Mummy “Agar maine dhoondh liya toh?” kehkar isiliye ek nazar mein dhoondh leti hain: unki aankh shaant hoti hai, aur subah uske saath nahi khoti.
Kaisa lagega agar “kahan rakha tha?” ko bas ek sawaal rehne dein, aur mann hi mann uska jawab dein: “Abhi pata nahi, aur koi baat nahi”?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “mujhse kuch nahi sambhalta” saalon se andar baj raha hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaye ek sachcha vaakya taiyar rakhte hain: “Kabhi-kabhi cheezein khoti hain, aur aksar mil bhi jaati hain.”
Iska abhi sach lagna zaroori nahi. Bas purane wale se zyada sahi hona kaafi hai, aur kuch logon ko lagta hai ki dhoondhte-dhoondhte ise dheere se kehne par haath itne dheeme ho jaate hain ki aankhein theek se dekh paati hain.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo khoyi cheezon ke baare mein imaandaar ho par un sab dinon ko na mitaye jab kuch nahi khoya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein bas neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har khoyi cheez ke liye poori jaanch, naya system ya “ab se ek jagah rakhunga” wali qasam zaroori nahi. Kuch cheezein mil sakti hain, wapas rakhi ja sakti hain, aur chhodi ja sakti hain, jaise scooter ki chaabi darwaaze ke paas wali khoonti par taangkar nikal jaate hain.
Ye laparwahi nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki aapki taaqat kahan lage. Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki dhoondhne ke baad ki daant chhodne se din ke liye, aur un logon ke liye jinse milne wo bhaag rahe the, zyada jagah bachti hai.
Ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki rasoi se aaya sawaal madadgaar tha, ya bhulakkad wala thappa sahi tha. Bas itna ki dhoondhna aaj baaki har cheez mein aapke peeche-peeche na aaye.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Cheezein ab bhi kabhi-kabhi khoti hain, par khoya passport bas khoya passport hai, kisi cheez ka saboot nahi.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: khud par lambi saans ki jagah kandhe uchka dena, aaram se kiya gaya dhoondhna, “Kahan rakha tha?” ka jawab jhallahat ki jagah halki muskaan se, “Mil jayega, mummy.”
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Us bhaagti subah sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Kuch khoye to dhoondhne se pehle ek saans bhar rukiye
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Passport khoya hai, main nahi”
- Paanch jagah jaldi-jaldi ke bajaye ek jagah aaram se dekhiye
- Jab mil jaaye, to dekhiye kahan tha, bina kisi faisle ke
- Bas ek baar ginie ki is hafte kitni subah sab apni jagah tha
Chhote, personal aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Jab pata chala ki cheez gayab hai, tab aap kahan nikalne wale the?
- Zyada kya chubhta hai: khoyi cheez, ya ye poochha jaana ki kahan rakhi thi?
- Sabse pehle kisne kaha ki aap cheezein kho dete ho, aur kya aap ab bhi maante ho?
- Jis aam din ye niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar ye thoda halka ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?