Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Comments wahin rehte hain jahan koi bhi padh le, aur ek ki hansi un sabki hansi jaisi lag sakti hai jinhone post dekhi par kuch nahi kaha.
Kuch logon ke liye ye school ke galiyare ki goonj hai: zor se pasand kiya gaya koi gaana, kisi shauq par pada nickname, shaadi-byaah ke function mein kisi bhai-behen ka sunaya kissa jis par sab hans pade.
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Log kya sochenge, usi se tay hota hai ki main kya pasand karoon,” ya “Yahan surakshit rehne ke liye sabke jaisa dikhna padta hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Post jaldi se delete kar dena, isse pehle ki aur log dekhein
- Post rehne dena aur beparwah banna, phir raat ko chupke se comments dekhna
- Pehle khud hi us par joke maarkar jawab de dena
- Post karte rehna, par sirf aisi surakshit cheezein jin par koi hans na sake
- Us shauq ko online dikhana band kar dena, par andar se use pyaar karte rehna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Chhat par purana gaana gaate hue
Raipur mein Friday ki shaam. Hostel ki chhat par Kishore Kumar ka purana gaana gaate hue aapne maze mein ek reel daali. Dost ka comment aaya: “Kitna cringe hai yaar.” Neeche hanste emoji. Aap screen dekhte rahe, chehra tapta raha, phir reel delete kar di. Poori raat wahi pal dobara chalta raha, aur ajeeb tarah se beparda mehsoos hua.
Kabhi bewakoof na dikhoon
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Mujhe kabhi bewakoof nahi dikhna chahiye.” Ye khud ko bachane jaisa lagta hai, aur bahut log ise bina soche nibhate hain. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapke khilande hisse ko band kar deta hai. Gaana, naachna, josh dikhana, sab cringe dikhne ke dar ki chhalni se guzarta hai.
Hansi ka nishana banna kyun chubhta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki hansi ka nishana banna gehra chubh sakta hai. Bahut log is niyam ka koi roop lekar bade hote hain, aur us waqt ye aksar theek bhi tha. Shaayad school mein chidhaya gaya, ya doosron ko online troll hote dekha. Sharmindagi se bachna bewakoofi nahi hai. Wo apnaye jaane ki chaah se aata hai, aur ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Har comment ke saath chhote hote jaana
Har “cringe” wala comment aapko thoda chhota kar jaata hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par andar mehsoos hota hai. Dheere-dheere sab judta jaata hai. Jo cheezein pasand thin, delete hone lagti hain. Josh dabne lagta hai. Sirf chamkayi, sambhali hui cheezein share hoti hain. Mazedaar, khushi wala hissa chhup jaata hai, aur zindagi thodi feeki aur satark lagne lagti hai.
Bewakoof na dikhna kya itna zaroori?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: kya bewakoof dikhne se bachte rehne ne kabhi aapko zyada azaad mehsoos karaya? Ya zyadatar mazedaar hisson ko chhupaya? Lagbhag har kisi ko kuch aisa pasand hai jo kisi aur ko cringe lagta hai. Ek hansta chehra iska paimana nahi ki aapki khushi share karne laayak hai. Kya is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna iske laayak hai?
Aapki khushi ki keemat zyada hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki sab kuch post karein. Matlab ye ki cringe shabd tay na kare ki aapko kya pasand hai. Aap rasoi mein gaa sakte ho, purane gaanon par naach sakte ho, aur khushi bachaye rakh sakte ho. Pehle kuch aur badalne ki zaroorat nahi. Wahin se kuch chain lautta hai: khilanda hissa phir jeene lagta hai, aur josh aapka hi rehta hai.
If posts are used to mock, threaten or frighten you again and again, or to shut you out on purpose, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMujhe kabhi bewakoof nahi dikhna chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMeri khushi ki keemat hanste chehre se zyada hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Ek pasandida gaana bas apne liye gaaiye ya naachiye
- Din 2
Aisi ek cheez pehchaniye jo pasand hai, bhale doosron ko atpati lage
- Din 3
Jab cringe shabd goonje, ek dheemi saans lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Pehle hanste jawab se pehle wale minute mein aapko usmein kya achha lag raha tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Jis cheez se pyaar tha, uske neeche ek shabd #
Raipur mein hostel ki chhat par Kishore Kumar ka purana gaana gaate hue banayi reel, kisi purani film par likha lamba caption, Friday raat ka dance. Neeche comment: “Kitna cringe hai yaar.” Kuch hanste emoji, aur koi dost use story par lagakar apni tippani jod deta hai.
Shabd chhota hai aur type karne mein aasaan. Wo ye nahi batata ki kya galat tha, bas ye ki kuch galat tha aur baaki logon ne bhi dekh liya. Kabhi ye chhote-chhote jawabon ki ladi banakar aata hai, har ek dobara padhne mein aasaan.
Apni kisi cheez ke neeche ye shabd aakhri baar kahan dekha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapne kya daala tha, aur comment dobara kholne mein kitni der lagi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Screen shaant, chehra garam #
Kuch log batate hain ki pet mein kuch baith gaya, gaal tapne lage, angootha post ke upar tika raha par kuch daba nahi paaya. Kuch kamre mein akele screen par hans dete hain, jaise koi unhein padhte hue dekh raha ho.
Sabke saamne hansi ka nishana banna bahut tez sanket hai, aur bahut log sochne se pehle react karte hain: delete karne ki daud, safai dene ki, ya palatkar joke maarne ki. Dheeme, sambhale khayal aksar raat ko, bahut baad mein aate hain.
Wo pehli harkat batati hai ki daali hui cheez kitna maayne rakhti thi.
Screen dekhne ke baad pehle minute mein aapne kya kiya: scroll karke aage badh gaye, dobara padha, kisi ko dikhaya, ya delete ki taraf haath gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ye post par nahi, pasand par nishaan lagata hai #
“Awaaz thodi bigdi hai” video ke baare mein hai. “Cringe” video ko chhodkar use chunne wale par ungli rakhta hai, jaise khulkar kuch pasand karna hi galti thi. Dimaag doosra matlab pehle se zyada zor se sunta hai.
Ye sabke saamne bhi hota hai. Comments wahin rehte hain jahan koi bhi padh le, aur ek ki hansi un sabki hansi jaisi lag sakti hai jinhone post dekhi par kuch nahi kaha. Chup dekhne walon ko bhi mann hi mann haami mein gin liya jaata hai.
Agar shabd kisi ek cheez ke baare mein hota, to wo cheez kya hoti?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur kya wahi cheez us wajah jaisi hai jiske liye aapne ise share kiya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab comment caption likhne lage #
Baar-baar dekho to ye andar bas jaata hai. “Mat daal, cringe lagega.” “Kaun dekhega ye?” “Koi normal photo daal de, safe rahega.” Kabhi draft kisi aur ke dekhne se pehle hi delete ho jaata hai.
Hansne wale agli cheez par ja chuke, par jaanch ab andar hoti hai, theek share karne ke waqt. Kyunki ye achhe taste jaisi sunayi deti hai, ise sachchi pasand se alag pehchanna mushkil ho jaata hai.
Post karne se pehle jab awaaz kehti hai “Cringe hai,” to wo kiski hoti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki apni, ya kisi khaas group chat, kisi khaas hansi, kisi khaas saal se udhaar li hui?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Hansi udne ki ek purani goonj #
Kuch logon ke liye ye school ke galiyare ki goonj hai: zor se pasand kiya gaya koi gaana, kisi shauq par pada nickname, shaadi-byaah ke function mein kisi bhai-behen ka sunaya kissa jis par sab hans pade. Screen nayi hai, ehsaas bahut purana ho sakta hai.
Kuch toliyan bina kahe tay kar leti hain ki kya pasand karna theek hai aur kitna. Yuva chupchaap ye nateeja nikaal sakta hai ki josh tab sabse surakshit hai jab wo kamre ke mizaaj se mel khaye, aur khulkar pasand karte dikhna jokhim hai.
Jo cheez pasand thi, wo pasand karne laayak thi ya nahi, ye parakhna aapne pehli baar kab seekha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aaspaas kaun tha, aur hansi kaisi sunayi di thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche baithne wala ek chupchaap niyam #
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Log kya sochenge, usi se tay hota hai ki main kya pasand karoon,” ya “Yahan surakshit rehne ke liye sabke jaisa dikhna padta hai.” Iska aur dheema roop: “Jo sach mein pasand hai wo dikhaya, to log hansenge.”
Aisi maanyataein maanyata jaisi lagti nahi. Samajhdaari jaisi lagti hain, jaise pata hona ki party mein kaun sa gaana nahi bajana. Isiliye inhein kabhi-kabhi bahar nikaalkar dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai: josh dikhane par hansi mili, to josh chhupao.
Ye kin kamron mein ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Saal bhar mein ye shabd kya le jaata hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai ki shauq offline reh jaayein, kavita draft mein padi rahe, gaane wali awaaz bas gaadi mein sunayi de. Kuch log apni sabse pyaari cheez share karna usse pyaar chhodne se bahut pehle chhod dete hain, aur doston ko pata hi nahi chalta ki wo thi.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Har post ko kisi kaalpanik hansi se jaanchne mein waqt aur dhyaan lagta hai, aur share karna imtihaan ban sakta hai. Achha response khushi ki jagah raahat deta hai, aur agli post pehle se jokhim lagti hai.
Ye kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Hansi ka intezaar karte rehna thakane wala kaam hai.
Pichhle saal iski keemat kya rahi: koi video jo kabhi post nahi hua, koi shauq jo bataya nahi, koi dost jise wahi pasand aata aur pata nahi chala?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, sambhal-sambhalkar post karte hue #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “Jo pasand hai wo dikhaya to log hansenge” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ki cheez nahi.
Shaayad record hua par kabhi na bheja video, caption jo itna badla ki lagbhag kuch nahi bolta, doston ke saath gaadi mein pasandida gaana aage badha dena, sone se pehle do baar dekha comment section. Kuch jaana-pehchana lage, kuch bilkul nahi.
Tasveer mein kisi cheez ka aaj jawab nahi chahiye, aur ise jab chahein neeche rakh sakte hain.
Usmein kya hai: posts, drafts, offline rakhi cheezein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Cringe, magar kiske liye? #
“Cringe” ke liye koi chahiye jo sihar uthe. Ek group ke kuch log, ek shaam, ek mood.
Jis post par ek jagah hansi mili, wahi kisi aur ko theek waisi lagi ho sakti hai jiski use talaash thi: wahi purani film pasand karne wala anjaan, wahi gaane gaane wala videsh mein baitha koi bhai. Ek comment section ka taste har jagah ka taste nahi hota.
Jab darshakon ka naam liya jaaye, to kya wo sab hain, ya ek khaas din ke kuch khaas log?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek aur tareeka: agar kisi dost ne wahi video usi khushi se daala hota, to aap kya sochte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya ye shabd zehan mein aata bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dobara dekhne par kya dikhta hai #
Jab kuch log dinon baad post par lautte hain, to wahi dekhte hain jo asal mein wahan hai: ek gaana, ek dance, kisi pasandida cheez par likha lamba caption.
Kuch ko wo jawab dikhte hain jo hans nahi rahe the: ek chup like, kisi ka message ki use bhi wo pasand hai. Kabhi wo hamesha wahin the aur shor mein dab gaye, aur kabhi hansi sach mein us kamre ki sabse oonchi awaaz thi.
Hanste jawabon ke bagal mein rakhkar wo kya dikhata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Baaki jawabon mein se kaun sa aapki yaaddaasht mein chup ho gaya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar wo hansi jitna oonchha hota, to post ke baare mein kya kehta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Comment section jeetna zaroori nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki wo cringe tha, ya dikhawa karna ki hansi chubhi nahi. Bas itna ki jawabon ki ek ladi ka is par kam chale ki aap aage kya share karein aur kismein khushi paayein.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo dimaag mein sahi jawab gadhna chhod dete hain. Wo jawab kabhi poora nahi hota, kyunki hamesha kuch aur jodne ko bachta hai, aur wo shaam ke beech mein hansne wale group ko baithaye rakhta hai.
Kuch jagahein, online bhi aur offline bhi, sach mein meharbaan nahi hongi, aur unhein baar-baar aazmane ki zaroorat nahi.
Kaisa lagega agar wo shabd unhin ka rahe, aur jo cheez aapko pasand thi wo aapki?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “Main cringe hoon” kuch waqt se andar baj raha hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iski jagah ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Kuch logon ne meri pasand par hansa. Wo taste ki baat hai, meri nahi.”
Ye shuru mein sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jo kuch log aazmate hain, aur kuch paate hain ki chupchaap aur baar-baar kahi jaaye to purane shabd ki jagah thodi gher leti hai, khaaskar kuch naya daalne se theek pehle.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo hansi ke baare mein imaandaar ho, par use tay na karne de ki aapko kya pasand karna hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch baatein bas neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har hanste jawab ko jawab, delete, ya agli baar sambhalkar daalne ka plan nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur phone ki tarah ulta rakha ja sakta hai.
Ye haar maanna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki dhyaan kahan jaaye, aur kuch log kehte hain isse cheez ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai: gaane, dance, film aur unke saath maza lene walon ke liye.
Shaam bhar ke liye comments neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek the, ya baat suljh gayi. Bas itna ki wo raat bhar, agle gaane ya agli cheez tak, saath na chalein.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema hai. Hansi ab bhi aa sakti hai, par wo ek group ka taste hai, aapki pasand par faisla nahi.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: ghar par zor se gaaya gaana, ek dost ko bheja video jise wahi pasand hai, ya lunch par maafi maange bina bataya gaya koi shauq.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai, chahe kitna bhi chhota lage. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi cringe wala shabd”
- Chupchaap khud se poochhiye: cringe, magar kiske liye, aur kis shaam?
- Gaur kijiye ki kya zyada zor se laga: comment, ya use apne dimaag mein dohrana
- Aisi ek jagah sochiye jahan wahi shauq bas maze se pasand kiya jaata hai
- Aaj ki ek chhoti-si cheez par dhyaan dijiye jo aapne chaahi, chahe kitni bhi chhoti
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Pehle hanste jawab se pehle wale minute mein aapko usmein kya achha lag raha tha?
- Kiska hansta jawab aapne sabse zyada baar padha, aur wahi kyun?
- Aapne jawab mein kya likhne ki sochi, aur kis cheez ne ungliyan rok din?
- Jis aam din cringe wala niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar hansi thodi kam maayne rakhti, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhta?