“kuch gadbad hai kya tumhare saath?” itna kyun chubhta hai?

Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka

Alag raftaar, kami nahi #

Zindagiyan kai wajahon se alag raftaar se chalti hain: chunav, waqt, halaat, seedha ittefaaq. Jo taalika ek parivaar ko jame, wo doosre ko bayaan na kare. Sawaal aam raftaar ko paimana maanta hai aur baaki sab ko bhatkaav.

Ek aur nazar ye ki sawaal ne kya kabhi poochha hi nahi: kya achha chal raha hai, kya chaaha ja raha hai, kya socha ja raha hai. Usne sirf ek khaali jagah dekhi, aur baaki sab panne se bahar chhod diya.

Agar sawaal poochhta ki zindagi ka ye daur kaisa raha, to aapke jawab ka pehla sachcha vaakya kya hota?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ise jaldi pehchanna

Dobara dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #

Jab kuch log sawaal ko gaur se dekhte hain, to paate hain ki wo na jaanne ki jagah se aaya tha. Kehne wale ko wajahein pata hi nahi thin, aur usne khaali jagah ko andaaze se bhar diya. Chinta ka roop pehna andaaza bahut pakka sunayi de sakta hai.

Kuch ko wo log dikhte hain jinhone ye kabhi poochha hi nahi: ek dost jo hafte ki baat sunna chahta hai, ek colleague jo jaise hain waise maanta hai. Unke aaspaas kuch samjhana nahi padta, aur wo sahajta mehsoos hoti thi.

Kiske saath kuch samjhana nahi padta, aur wo aisa kya karte hain jisse aisa hota hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Isse sulah

Ilzaam ka jawab dena zaroori nahi #

Sawaal se sulah ka matlab ye saabit karna nahi ki kuch galat nahi, na hi poori wajahein ginana. Matlab ye ki “gadbad” shabd ka is par kam dakhal ho ki kisi ko kaise dekha jaye, nijee taur par bhi.

Kuch logon ko halka tab lagta hai jab wo sawaal ko jhuthlane ya use maanne ki koshish chhod dete hain. Dono use kamre ke beech mein rakhte hain. Agar koi baar-baar bahut dabaav daale, to wo gambhirta se lene layak hai, aur baat ko chupchaap nikal jaane dena theek hai.

Tyohaar ka khana kaisa lagega agar sawaal bas paas se guzar jaye, aur aapke paas bhari thaali aur achhi jagah ho?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ek zyada sachcha vaakya

Is khane ke liye ek sachchi line #

Agar “Shayad wajah main hi hoon” kuch samay se chal raha hai, to usse joojhne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iski jagah ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Meri zindagi apni raftaar se chal rahi hai, aur isme koi kami nahi.”

Aisi line pehle akdi hui lag sakti hai. Kuch log phir bhi use aazmate hain, aur kuch paate hain ki parivaarik jamghat se pehle chupchaap kahi jaye to sawaal ki garmi thodi utar jaati hai.

Apni raftaar ke baare mein aapke shabdon mein sachchi line kya hogi, jise kisi ko kuch saabit na karna pade?Is par baat kijiye ›

Kya rehne dein

Sawaal table par hi reh sakta hai #

Har “Kuch gadbad hai kya?” ko bachav, wajahon ki list ya chatur jawab nahi chahiye. Sawaal suna ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur khaali glasson ke saath table par chhoda ja sakta hai, us coat ki tarah jise koi lene nahi aaya.

Ye badtameezi nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki din ki taaqat kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain isse jamghat ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai: khana, cousins ke qisse, balcony mein dopahar ki dhoop.

Sawaal ko abhi neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek tha ya baat sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki use ghar tak peecha nahi karna aur raat bhar jagaye nahi rakhna.

Agar yeh dheela pade

Aur agar khoj thodi shaant ho #

Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Sawaal tab bhi aa sakta hai, aur ek Monday tab bhi apne aap mein poora din reh sakta hai.

Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: bina dohraye ek shaam, apni wajahon se liya faisla, ek parivaarik khana jisme sawaal chipke bina guzar jaye.

Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.

Agar “Jo nahi hua, uski wajah shayad main hi hoon” thoda dheela ho, to sabse pehle kya alag lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›

Hafte ka sabse chhota kaun sa pal hoga jab aapko lagega ki khoj ruk gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›