Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye sabse mushkil edit pehle maangta hai.
Kuch ghar raftaar se chalte the, aur wajhein alag hain: kaam, kai bachche, lambe din.
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Kehne mein der lage, to wo bahut zyada hai,” ya “Mere poore roop ke liye kisi ke paas jagah nahi.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Atak jaana, kyunki har line kuch zaroori chhod deti hai
- Patla par sachcha sentence bol dena aur turant pachhtana
- “Chhodo, koi khaas baat nahi” kehkar baat khatam kar dena
- Tez bolna, poori kahani ek saans mein thoons dena
- Baad mein text mein lamba message lekar lautna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Rajpur Road ka corridor
Dehradun, Rajpur Road ke office ki lift ke paas ka corridor. Mahine bhar se ek bhaari baat aapke paas hai: team ka kaam double ho gaya hai aur deadlines takra rahi hain. Meetings ke beech boss milte hain, aap shuru karte ho. Doosre sentence ke beech mein sunayi deta hai, “Ek line mein bolo.” Aap kehte ho “Kaam thoda zyada hai.” Wo sir hilakar aage badh jaate hain. Asli baat wahin reh jaati hai.
Zyada lamba matlab bahut zyada
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Kehne mein der lage, to wo bahut zyada hai.” Ye karyakushalta jaisa lagta hai. Bahut samajhdaar log isi se chalte hain. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapki zaroorat ka paimana aapke saar ki lambai bana deta hai. Baat kya hai, ye poochhne ki jagah aap poochhte ho ki wo fit hoti hai ya nahi, aur wo shayad hi hoti hai.
Humne sankshipt rehna kyun seekha
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki humne sankshipt rehna seekha. Bahut log vyast bado ke beech pale aur chhote roop mein maahir ho gaye. Shayad aap wo bachche the jinhein cooker ki seeti se pehle teen sentence milte the. Shayad aap kisi ke din par bojh nahi banna chahte. Sunne mein aasaan rehna chahna galat nahi, ye parwah se aata hai. Ise narmi chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Har nichod ki katai
Har nichod aur thoda kaat deta hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aap mehsoos karte ho. Dheere-dheere ye jama hota hai. Badi khabar headline banakar nikalti hai. Aaspaas ke logon ko aapki zindagi ki rooprekha pata hai, uska aakaar nahi. Aap “Lambi kahani hai” kehkar chhod dete ho, aur lamba roop zyadatar ankaha aapke paas rehta hai.
Kya ye nichodna iske laayak hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochhiye: kya ek line mein nichodne se kabhi laga ki baat samjhi gayi? Ya zyadatar asli baat darwaaze ke bahar reh gayi? Ek line se zyada kehne ko hona is baat ka hissa hai ki kuch asli kehne ko hai, aur isme maafi jaisa kuch nahi. Chahein to is par thoda rukiye. Kya is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna theek hai?
Darwaaza banti ek line
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki har baatcheet mein poori kahani chahiye. Matlab ye hai ki ek line darwaaza ho sakti hai. Aap dheere se keh sakte ho, “Baat badi hai, kabhi kuch minute chahiye,” aur jawab ka kya karna hai, khud tay kar sakte ho. Pehle kuch aur badalna zaroori nahi. Sukoon wahin se lautta hai: chhoti line, aur uske peechhe lambi.
If being cut short comes with being shouted at, threatened or frightened whenever you try to explain, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleKehne mein der lage, to wo bahut zyada hai.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleEk line darwaaza ho sakti hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Aisi ek line chuniye jo baaki ki or ishara kare
- Din 2
Mann mein kahiye: “Mujhe das minute kabhi chahiye honge”
- Din 3
Gaur kijiye ki kaun sa hissa aap kehne wale the
Is par baat karni hai?
“Jab ek line maangi gayi, tab aap kya kehna chah rahe the?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Jab badi baat intezaar mein ho #
Lift ke paas boss, cooker ke paas mummy, chappal pehente papa, ghadi dekhta koi dost. Aapne kai hisson wali baat shuru ki hai, aur jawab jaldi aata hai: “Ek line mein bolo.” Kabhi-kabhi saath mein “Seedhe mudde par aao.”
Aksar ye maang jaayaz hoti hai. Unhein kahani se pehle headline chahiye, aur chhota roop sach mein pachana aasaan hai. Jo chubhta hai, wo ye ki aap jo laaye hain, uske kai pehlu hain, aur sentence mein sirf ek ki gunjaish hai.
Aakhri baar kab ek line mein bolne ko kaha gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Baat kya thi, aur usme se kitni sama paayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Shuruaati kuch second #
Kuch log atak jaate hain, kyunki ek line chunne ka matlab hai baaki chhodna. Kuch aisa sentence bol dete hain jo sach hai par patla hai. Kuch kehte hain “chhodo, kuch khaas nahi,” aur saamne wale ke chehre par raahat utarte dekhte hain.
Body aksar soch se pehle jawab deti hai: ruki hui saans, adhoore sentences ki bauchhaar, ehsaas ki jo kehna tha wo sab qatar mein hai aur ek tang darwaaze se kuch nahi nikal raha. Jaise poora ghar ek bag mein bharne ko kaha gaya ho.
Pichhli baar aapne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek line chuni, chhod diya, ya aur tez bole?Is par baat kijiye ›
Uske agle second mein body ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Baat ka aakaar hi masla ban jaata hai #
Tippani vyaavhaarik maang jaisi lagti hai, par mann use aakaar par faisle ki tarah sunta hai: ek line se lambi ho to bahut zyada hogi. Kisi cheez ka wazan hamesha uske saar ki lambai nahi hota.
Ye sabse mushkil edit pehle maangta hai. Ek line chunne ka matlab hai tay karna ki asli hissa kaun sa hai, aur aksar aap yahi anishchit lekar aaye the. Jawab maanga gaya, jabki ho sakta hai ki sawaal hi nahi mila ho.
Agar aapko das minute milte, to shuruaat kahan se karte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Wo kaun sa hissa hai jo ek line mein nahi aata?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab editor andar aa baithe #
Baar-baar sunne ke baad ek editor sir mein bas jaata hai aur bolne se pehle kaatne lagta hai: “Mudde par aao.” “Poori Ramayan koi nahi sunna chahta.” “Chhota rakho.” Wo sunne wale ke poochhne se pehle hi sentence chhaant deta hai, aur kabhi-kabhi ehsaas bhi.
Jisne kaha wo aage badh chuka hai, par editor chhaantta rehta hai, aur ab ye aapki apni samajhdaari lagti hai. Isiliye pakadna mushkil hai: ab ye kisi ka schedule nahi lagta, is baat ka tathya lagta hai ki aap kitni jagah gheerte ho.
Editor kiski awaaz hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki apni, ya us ghar se mili hui jahan lamba roop kabhi swagat mein nahi tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ne ye bachpan mein suna #
Ye bachpan ki yaad ho sakti hai: chulhe par cooker aur mummy ka “Chhota-sa bata, beta, seeti aane wali hai,” staff-room ke darwaaze par qatar lagaye khade teacher, aisa ghar jahan jiske paas sabse kam waqt tha, wo sabki kahaniyon ki raftaar tay karta tha.
Kuch ghar raftaar se chalte the, aur wajhein alag hain: kaam, kai bachche, lambe din. Bachcha chupchaap ye nateeja nikaal leta hai ki lambi kahani sunana bojh daalna hai, aur bolne ka sabse surakshit tareeka wahi hai jo ek saans mein aa jaaye.
Bachpan mein kisne aapse kam mein baat khatam karne ko kaha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sune jaane ke liye aapne kya chhodna seekha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche-neeche banne wala ek chupchaap niyam #
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Kehne mein der lage, to wo bahut zyada hai,” ya “Mere poore roop ke liye kisi ke paas jagah nahi.” Kuch log halka roop dhote hain: “Mujhe itna chhota ho jaana chahiye ki sama jaaun.”
Aisi maanyataayein maanyata jaisi nahi lagtin. Wo karyakushalta jaisi lagti hain, saleeqe jaisi, aur isiliye unhein kabhi-kabhi bahar nikaalkar dhoop mein dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai: jo ek line mein nahi aata, use kehna nahi chahiye.
Ye kahan ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kahan nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Nichodne ki saal bhar ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai headline banakar nikli khabar jiski koi kahani nahi, bade faisle jinka aakaar aaspaas kisi ko pata nahi, aur “lambi kahani hai” kehkar use wahin chhod dene ki aadat.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai: bahut compress karna. Jab kisi cheez ka poora roop baar-baar ek line mein katta hai, to kuch log khud lamba roop bhoolne lagte hain, aur sabse zaroori logon ke saamne bhi sirf rooprekha mein jaane jaate hain.
Kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Kahani ko sikodna bahut maangta hai.
Pichhle saal iski keemat kya rahi: koi zaroori detail jo chhoot gayi, samjhane ka koi mauka, koi kareebi jo headline ke star par reh gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, chhote roop mein #
Kisi aam Monday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “Kehne mein der lage to wo bahut zyada hai” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad 11 baje ki stand-up jahan aap headline bolkar details daba lete ho, ghar ka phone jisme asli khabar ek upvaakya mein nikal gayi, aadha kaatkar bheja gaya message. Shayad kabhi theek se samjhane ka irada, jo kisi dhundhle baad par tal gaya.
Yahan abhi kisi cheez ka jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer ko jab chahein rakha ja sakta hai.
Usme kya hai: kaam, baatein, chhaanti ya chhodi gayi cheezein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Use dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ek line darwaaza bhi ho sakti hai #
Chhoti line aur poori kahani ek-doosre ke ulte nahi. Line darwaaza ho sakti hai: ek sachcha sentence jo bataye ki baat kis baare mein hai, aur kahani peechhe intezaar kare uske liye jo andar aana chahe.
Jo ek line maange, ho sakta hai wo naqsha maang raha ho, ilaake se inkaar nahi kar raha. Aisi line chunna kaam aa sakta hai jo ishara kare: “Baat kaam ki hai, aur bhaari hai. Kabhi das minute chahiye.” Line baaki sunne ke liye waqt maangti hai.
Ek aur tareeka: koi dost koi badi baat lekar aaya aur aapke paas do minute the.
Baaki ke baare mein aap chahte ki wo kya kahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Jab log us pal ko dheere-dheere dekhte hain, to kai ko dikhta hai ki jo ek line unhone chuni, wo shayad hi wo thi jiski unhein sabse zyada parwah thi. Kehne mein aasaan hissa pehle gaya, aur mushkil wala peechhe reh gaya.
Kuch ko dikhta hai ki sentence kuch khaas jagahon se aata hai: lift ke paas, corridor mein, parking mein. Kuch sunne wale sair par ya khaane par sach mein dheeme padte hain. Kuch ko dekhna kaam aata hai ki poore roop ka swagat kahan hai.
Aur aapki zindagi mein kaun hai jo poochhta hai “Phir?”
Us din aapne kya chhoda?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Bag mein samane ki zaroorat nahi #
Sulah ka matlab har baar sankshipt rakhne ki maang ko thukrana nahi, na ye maan lena ki busy log laparwah hain. Matlab ye hai ki kisi baat ke poore roop ko rehne ka haq hai, aur sentence ye tay kam kare ki aap kitne bade ho sakte ho.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo line ko poora sach maanna chhodkar use lambe sach ka darwaaza maanne lagte hain. Kuch pal sach mein ek hi line sambhal paate hain, aur zyada thoonsna zaroori nahi.
Kaisa lagega agar jab line hi fit baithe, to wahi kahein, aur baaki uske liye rakhein jiske paas uske liye jagah hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha sentence #
Agar “Kehne mein der lage to wo bahut zyada hai” saalon se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log ek sachcha sentence rakhte hain: “Iske kai hisse hain. Ek line bas pehla hissa hai.”
Ye pehli baar mein sach lagna zaroori nahi. Bas purane se zyada sahi ho. Kuch log paate hain ki dheere se aur baar-baar kehne par ye purane sentence ki thodi jagah le leta hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha sentence kya hoga, jo sunne wale ke waqt ka bhi samman kare aur aapki apni kahani ka bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein bas neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har sankshep ki maang ko jawab, lambe roop ki safai ya badhiya saar nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise safar ke baad bhaari bag farsh par rakh dete hain.
Ye haar maanna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki aapki taaqat kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain isse un sunne walon ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai jinke paas waqt hai, aur kahani ke un hisson ke liye jo unke liye sabse maayne rakhte hain.
Shaam bhar ke liye neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki lamba roop ginti mein nahi tha, ya sulajh gaya. Bas itna ki wo aaj baaki har baatcheet mein saath na chale.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Chhoti line ab bhi chhoti line hai, par uske peechhe lambe roop ko rehne ki ijaazat hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: baaki ki or ishara karne wali line, kisi ehsaas ko is jaanch ke bina mehsoos karna ki wo fit hoga ya nahi, ya ek shaam kahani ko uski poori lambai mein palatte hue.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Editor jab kaate, to use pehchaniye aur chupchaap naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi chhantai”
- Aisi line chuniye jo baaki ki or ishara kare, jaise “Baat badi hai, kuch waqt chahiye”
- Gaur kijiye ki kaun sa hissa aap kehne wale the par nahi kaha
- Aise ek insaan par gaur kijiye jo poochhta hai “Phir?”
- Apni kahani ki ek cheez par dhyaan dijiye jo bilkul aapki hai
Chhote, niji aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
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