Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Wo ishaara deta hai ki jawab kisi cheez se taula jayega, shayad poochhne wale ki ummeed se, shayad unke hisaab se aam naap se.
Kuch gharon mein sharir ki baat mausam ki tarah hoti thi: chaukhat se naap li jaati, cousins se milayi jaati, har baar milne par darj hoti.
Kuch logon ko ek niyam banta sunayi deta hai: “Mera sharir logon ki ummeed ke naap ka hona chahiye,” ya “Mujhe kaise naapa gaya, usse tay hota hai mera swagat.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Jaldi se number bata dena aur baat aage badha dena
- Kisi aur se pehle khud hi us par mazaak kar dena
- “Kyun poochh rahe hain?” keh dena aur baad mein atpata lagna
- Bina chahe seedhe khade ho jaana, ya thoda jhuk jaana
- Chup ho jaana aur baad mein poora qissa dohrana
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Rishtedaar ka sawaal
Nagpur mein cousin ki shaadi ka reception. Saalon baad mile ek rishtedaar aapko upar se neeche dekhte hain, phir poochhte hain, “Height kitni hai, poore-poore?” Kai log sunne mud jaate hain. Aap number batate ho aur saath mein mazaak jod dete ho. Par baaki dopahar aap nape hue mehsoos karte ho, jaise sharir ko nateeje ki tarah padh diya gaya ho, aur group photo mein kahan khade hon, ye sochte rehte ho.
Sharir ummeed ke naap ka ho
Pehle seedhi baat: height par sawaal poochhne wale ki jigyasa bol rahi hai, aapki qadr ke baare mein koi tathya nahi. Par usse ek niyam ug sakta hai, aur wo aapka ban jaata hai: “Mera sharir logon ki ummeed ke naap ka hona chahiye.” Kai log ise bina soche jeete hain. Ye samajhdaari jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har kamre se aapko number dilwata hai.
Swagat kyun mayne rakhta hai
Hum aisa niyam isliye pakadte hain ki swagat achha lagta hai, aur kamra sabse pehle sharir hi dekhta hai. Ye sabse aam ummeedon mein se hai, bahut insaani chaah. Shayad ghar mein aisi tippaniyan aam thi. Shayad aap bas ek aasaan dopahar chahte ho. Jo bhi ho, pyaar se apnaye jaane ki chaah kamzori nahi. Wo apnapan chahne se aati hai, aur use narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har sawaal ka wazan
Har aisa sawaal thoda wazan jodta hai. Wo dheere-dheere jamta hai, isliye pakadna mushkil hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aapko mehsoos hota hai. Aap pichhli qatar chunte ho. Photo se hat jaate ho. Sochte ho agla kya poochhega. Jo jigyasa lagi thi wo naap jaisi lagne lagti hai, aur jamavda fitting room jaisa.
Kya naap mein khara utarna zaroori hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: kya is niyam ko pakadne se koi kamra kabhi aasaan laga? Ya zyadatar bolne se pehle hi padh diye jaane ka ehsaas raha? Aapki qadr kabhi kisi number ki nahi thi. Chahein to iske saath ek pal baithiye. Bina dosh ke, narmi se poochhna theek hai. Yahan koi galat jawab nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna us keemat ke layak hai jo ye maangta hai?
Insaan, koi aankda nahi
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki rishtedaar ka irada bura tha, ya behas karni hai. Matlab ye hai ki ek number tay nahi karta ki aap kamre mein kaise khade hon. Aap seedhe ya halke se jawab de sakte ho, aur baat kisi pasandida cheez par mod sakte ho. Pehle kuch aur badalna zaroori nahi. Yahin thoda chain lautta hai: aap function mein ek insaan rehte ho, list ka ek aankda nahi.
Being mocked, threatened, hurt or frightened over your body is not okay and is worth taking seriously; someone you trust can help.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMera sharir logon ki ummeed ke naap ka hona chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMeri qadr kabhi kisi number ki nahi thi.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Poochhe jaane par ek aasaan line mein jawab dijiye
- Kadam 2
Aise ek insaan ko dekhiye jo zindagi ki baat karta hai, sharir ki nahi
- Kadam 3
Aaj ek cheez sirf isliye chuniye ki aapka mann hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Us sawaal ne peeche kya chhoda jo ek jaldi wala jawab nahi dhak paya?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Ek aankda, jaise koi khabar ho #
Nagpur mein cousin ki shaadi ka reception, Dharampeth ke lawn mein. Saalon baad mile ek rishtedaar upar se neeche dekhte hain aur poochhte hain, “Height kitni hai, poore-poore?” Bhauhein uthi hain, jaise kad koi chaunkane wali baat ho jise abhi tay karna hai. Aaspaas ke log mudkar sunne lagte hain.
Kabhi ye seedhi jigyasa hoti hai, aur poochhne ki wajahein alag-alag hoti hain. Par “poore-poore” aur uske saath aayi nazar sharir ke ek naap ko chhoti-si ghoshna bana deti hai, aur paas khade sab log us par raay bana sakte hain.
Aakhri baar kab aapki height zor se poochhi gayi, aur aaspaas aur kaun sun raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Shuru ke kuch second #
Kisi ko ek jhatke se kasaav lagta hai, ya bina soche peeth seedhi ho jaati hai. Koi naap ke saath mazaak jod deta hai, kandhe uchkakar “kaafi hai” keh deta hai, ya sawaal ulatkar poochh leta hai. Ye sab ho sakta hai, aur kisi ko samjhana nahi padta.
Sharir ke baare mein sawaal sabse pehle sharir mein hi baithta hai. Sochna baad mein aata hai, ghar lautte hue, ki ek seedhe-se naap ne aisa ehsaas kyun chhoda jo us vaakya mein fit nahi baithta.
Sawaal ke baad pehle second mein, koi jawab nikalne se pehle, aapke andar kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Wo sawaal jo sharir ko aankda bana deta hai #
Height ek saada tathya hai, aur use batana ya rakhna aapki marzi hai. Jab use ticket ke daam ki tarah maanga jaata hai, to lagta hai jaise taraazu par chadhakar padh diya gaya ho. Sawaal chhota lagta hai, par apne saath darshak le aata hai.
“Poore-poore” chupchaap kaam karta hai. Wo ishaara deta hai ki jawab kisi cheez se taula jayega, shayad poochhne wale ki ummeed se, shayad unke hisaab se aam naap se. Irada ho ya na ho, lagta hai number ke baad ek faisla intezaar kar raha hai.
Aapke baare mein ek tathya doosron ke saamne maanga gaya, aur reaction pehle se taiyaar thi.
Agar baat aapki height se shuru na hoti, to aap chahte ki baatcheet kis baare mein hoti?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab sawaal aapke peeche-peeche chalta hai #
Baar-baar sunne par wo andar ghar kar leta hai. Kuch logon ke liye wo apne aap laut aata hai, qatar mein, photo mein, un kamron mein jahan sab khade hain, usi ki awaaz mein jisne pehli baar poochha tha. Wo ek tathya ki jaanch jaisa lagta hai, par usmein kisi aur ka feeta laga hai.
Jaani-pehchani awaaz mein aane ki wajah se wo apna khayal lagne lagta hai, party mein thamaya gaya vaakya nahi. Poochhne wala doosri khabron par badh gaya, aur sawaal group photo mein ruka raha.
Jab bheed mein sawaal lautta hai, to kiski awaaz mein, aur kis kamre se aata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ke liye height hamesha ghar ki khabar thi #
“Dekho, kitna badh gaya.” “Ye kis par gaya hai?” Kuch gharon mein sharir ki baat mausam ki tarah hoti thi: chaukhat se naap li jaati, cousins se milayi jaati, har baar milne par darj hoti. Isme chot pahunchane ka irada kam hi hota tha, aur samjhaya shayad hi kabhi jaata tha.
Aise barson se jo reh sakta hai wo ye halka ehsaas hai ki aapka sharir aisi cheez hai jise doosre naap sakte hain, aur ek number aapke bolne se pehle achha ya bura ho sakta hai. Iski jad samajh aati hai. Ye bas un kamron se lambi jee sakti hai jahan ye seekhi gayi.
Pehli baar kab dhyan gaya ki aapki height baatcheet ka mudda hai, aur ise aam taur par kaun chheda karta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Aise sawaal ke baad ek chupchaap bana niyam #
Kuch logon ko ek niyam banta sunayi deta hai: “Mera sharir logon ki ummeed ke naap ka hona chahiye,” ya “Mujhe kaise naapa gaya, usse tay hota hai mera swagat.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte hi nahi. Wo cheezein chalne ke tareeke ki samajh jaise lagte hain, jaise ye jaanna ki kaun sa rishtedaar kaun sa sawaal poochhta hai. Isiliye unhein kabhi-kabhar ujaale mein nikaalkar dekh lena theek rehta hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ki jad bachpan mein paate hain, kuch nahi. Dono soorat mein use dekha ja sakta hai.
Kya aisa koi niyam aapke saath baithta hai, ya thoda, ya bilkul nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Wo kin kamron mein aaj bhi baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Naapte rehna chupchaap kya le jaata hai #
Wo photo, qataron, mulaqaton aur bas kisi kamre mein khade hone ke seedhe anubhav tak pahunch sakta hai. Kuch log tay karne lagte hain ki kahan khade hon, kya pehnein, ya jayein bhi ya nahi, aur ek seedha-sa nikalna chhoti-si planning ban jaata hai.
Ek khamosh keemat aur bhi hai. Jab sharir baat ka mudda raha ho, to dhyan ka ek hissa is par tika rehta hai ki agli baar log kya dekhenge. Saal bhar mein ye aise jamavde ban sakte hain jinmein aadha kaan agle sawaal par raha.
Ye kamzori nahi hai. Doosron ka feeta dhone mein sachmuch mehnat lagti hai.
Haal mein us sawaal ne aapse kya liya, agar liya ho: koi photo, koi mulaqat, ya koi aasaan shaam?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Ek aam Friday, jab naap tez ho #
Ek aam Friday sochiye, jis din “mera sharir ummeed ke naap ka hona chahiye” tez baj raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ke liye ek tasveer hai, theek karne ke liye kuch nahi.
Shayad peeche ki seat chunna, lift mein akele jaana, plan wale message ka jawab na dena. Usmein bahut kuch ho sakta hai ya bahut kam; tasveer ka koi sahi roop nahi hai, aur usmein kuch bhi bhavishyavaani nahi.
Yahan abhi kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi.
Aise Friday mein kya-kya bhara hai: aana-jaana, meeting, group photo, shaam ka plan, aur wo cheezein jo chupchaap chhod di gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us niyam ke tez hone wale aam Friday ko sochein to kya dikhta hai, agar kuch dikhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Poore-poore kya, aur kiske liye? #
Sawaal ko dheere se dekhein to wo aksar poochhne wale ke baare mein nikalta hai: unki hairani, unka andaaza, unki "aam" ki tasveer. Height kisi ke din, kaam, hansi-mazaak ya doosron se bartaav ke baare mein kuch nahi batati.
Sharir ghar, ilaake aur peedhi ke hisaab se alag hote hain, aur jo ek jagah khaas lagta hai, doosri jagah kisi ka dhyan bhi nahi jaata. Ek tippani us kamre ke baare mein bahut kuch keh jaati hai jahan kahi gayi, aur jisse kahi gayi uske baare mein kam.
Agar kisi dost se ghar ke function mein yahi poochha jaata, to aap chahte ki unke aaspaas ke log iski jagah kya dekhein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Us pal ko dheere se dekhne par kya dikhta hai #
Kuch log us pal ko dheere se dohrate hain to dekhte hain ki sawaal kitna chhota tha. Kuch second lage, aur dhone mein poori dopahar. Saath rakhkar dekhein to poochhna aur dhona bahut alag naap ke hain.
Kuch log unhein yaad karte hain jo height ka zikr kabhi nahi karte, kisi taraf se nahi: wo dost jo nayi job ke baare mein poochhta hai, wo colleague jo raay maangta hai, wo chhota cousin jise bas khelna hai. Wo pehle se wahin the, aksar zyada chupchaap.
Aapki zindagi mein kaun hai jo aapke sharir ke siwa har cheez par baat karta hai, aur wo baatein kahan jaati hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Sawaal ka matlab tay karna zaroori nahi #
Sulah ka matlab sawaal se sehmat hona nahi, use thukrana bhi nahi, chahe wo jaise bhi laga ho. Matlab bas itna ki ek sawaal ko photo par, kis aayojan mein haan kehna hai is par, aur baaki din kaisa lagega is par kam haq mile.
Kuch logon ko tab halka lagta hai jab wo ye hisaab chhod dete hain ki poochhne wale ka matlab kya tha aur kaun sa jawab unhein santusht karta. Ye paheli shayad hi kabhi khatam hoti hai, aur kisi aur ki jigyasa kamre ke beechobeech baithi rehti hai.
Sawaal ko poochhne wale ka vaakya rehne dena, jo ek baar ek kamre mein kaha gaya aur agle kamre tak peeche nahi aaya, usmein kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne layak ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar sawaal kaafi waqt se laut raha hai, to usse seedhe behas ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iski jagah ek vaakya taiyaar rakhte hain: “Wo ek insaan ki jigyasa thi, mera paimana nahi.”
Ye abhi sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jo kuch log aazmate hain, aur kuch paate hain ki kabhi-kabhi chupchaap kehne se kisi aur ke sawaal aur kamre ke beech thodi jagah ban jaati hai.
Us sawaal ke baare mein aapka apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, aisa jo jo hua uske baare mein sahi ho aur jiske liye poochhne wale ki haami zaroori na ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch baatein darwaze par chhoot sakti hain #
Har sawaal ko sateek jawab, safai ya agli baar ki yojana nahi chahiye. Kuch baatein dekhi ja sakti hain, ek pal mehsoos ki ja sakti hain, aur rakh di ja sakti hain, jaise andar jaane se pehle chappalein darwaze par utaar di jayein.
Ye haar maanna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki taaqat kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain ki isse un baaton ke liye jagah bachti hai jinke liye wo aaye the, aur un logon ke liye jinke saath aasaani lagti hai.
Sawaal ko ek shaam ke liye rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek tha ya baat khatam hui. Matlab bas itna ki use agle jamavde, agli photo ya aaj ke baaki waqt ke saath chalna zaroori nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam ek paayedaan dheela pad jaye #
Sochiye, sirf tasveer ki tarah, ki niyam ek paayedaan dheema hai. Qatar bas qatar ho sakti hai, aur photo bas ek din ki yaad jisme log hain.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: ghar ka aisa function jisme baat sabki khabron par rahe, aasaan saath wale outing ko haan, ya aisi shaam jisme sawaal dobara na baje.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehna zaroori nahi. Jo bhi uthe, wo aapka hai aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar aap ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Jis din niyam ek paayedaan dheema ho, us din pehle kya alag lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, naapne wala sawaal phir aa gaya”
- Dekhiye kya zyada tez hai: shabd ya aaspaas ke chehre
- Chupchaap poochhiye: ye kiska mamla hai, aur poochha kisne?
- Aise ek insaan ko yaad kijiye jisne aapki height par kabhi baat nahi ki
- Aaj ek cheez gaur se dekhiye jo aapne sirf isliye ki ki mann kiya
Chhoti, nijee aur sab apni marzi ki. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Us sawaal ne peeche kya chhoda jo ek jaldi wala jawab nahi dhak paya?
- Jab aapki height baat bani, tab kaun sun raha tha?
- Kaun aapse kabhi aapke sharir ka zikr kiye bina baat karta hai?
- Agar sawaal aapke liye tez ho jaye, to us waqt aaspaas kya hota hai?
- Agar wo thoda dheela pade, to aap sabse pehle kya notice karenge?