Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jis baat par bas na chale, us par parkha jaana usse zyada chubhta hai jis par chale.
Kai log aise gharon mein bade hue jahan der hona kirdaar ki nishani maana jaata tha.
Neeche ek niyam baith sakta hai: “Theek se plan karoon to pahunchne ka time mere haath mein hai,” aur uska teekha judwa, “Late hua toh maine koshish hi kam ki.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Aur jaldi nikalte jaana, jab tak subahon mein jagah hi na bache
- Har kuch second mein map dekhna, jaise dekhne se gaadiyan khisak jayengi
- Lambi safai aur jaam ki kahani ke saath maafi maangte hue pahunchna
- Driver, horn ya ghar par jo pehle bole, us par jhalla padna
- Taane par chup rehna, aur lautte hue use dohrate rehna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Tolichowki par ruki cab
Monday ki subah, Hyderabad. Aap saadhe nau baje ki meeting ke liye aath baje nikle, Mehdipatnam se Gachibowli tak. Tolichowki ke paas cab ruk jaati hai. Har taraf horn, map laal ho raha hai. Driver kandhe uchkata hai, “Kya karein, poora jaam hai.” Aap nau bajkar bawan minute par ghuste ho, shirt paseene se chipki hui, aur manager bina nazar uthaye kehta hai, “Thoda jaldi nikalna chahiye tha na?”
Sadak qaabu karo, warna fail
Pehle saaf baat: jaam mein phansi sadak aapka faisla nahi hai, aur “jaldi nikalna chahiye tha” thande office ki kursi se kehna aasaan hai. Par aisi subahon se ek niyam ug sakta hai, jo aapka ho jaata hai: “Theek se plan karoon to pahunchne ka time mere haath mein hai.” Ye zimmedaari jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: raaste ki har red light apni naakaami lagne lagti hai.
Waqt par pahunchna bharosa kyun lagta
Aisa niyam hum isliye pakadte hain kyunki waqt par pahunchna bharose ke laayak insaan hone jaisa lagta hai. Ye bahut insaani chaah hai, aur aam bhi. Shayad aap aise ghar mein bade hue jahan koi bees minute pehle chaabi lekar darwaze par khada rehta tha. Shayad kabhi der hone ki keemat bhaari padi thi. Waqt par apni baat rakhna sanak nahi. Wo bharose ki chaah se aata hai, aur use narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Jaam ka intezaar karti subahein
To aap aur jaldi nikalte ho, phir aur jaldi. Naashta cab ki pichhli seat par hota hai. Aap har tees second mein map dekhte ho, jaise dekhne se gaadiyan hil jayengi. Doosre signal tak jabda kas jaata hai. Aap maafi maangte hue aur thakan liye pahunchte ho, aur pehla ghanta use jhaadne mein jaata hai. Shaam ki wapsi ki drive bhi pehle se kasi rehti hai.
Kya ghadi se daudna sahi sauda?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: is niyam ko pakde rehne se sadak kabhi jaldi khuli? Ya zyadatar har jaam aapke naam ka imtihaan ban gaya? Aaj subah hazaaron log usi traffic mein baithe the, sadak ne aapko alag se nahi chuna. Yahan koi galat jawab nahi. Ek pal is par rukiye. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna aapki subahon ki keemat ke laayak hai?
Sadak ko sadak rehne do
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki waqt par pahunchne ki parwaah khatam, ya taana sahi tha. Matlab ye ki sadak sadak rahe. Aap samajhdaar waqt par nikal sakte ho, ek signal par phone ulta rakh sakte ho, aur caron ke beech chalta phool wala dekh sakte ho. Shuruaat chhoti ho sakti hai, ek jaam se. Yahin se thodi shaanti lautti hai: pahunchna aap par faisla nahi reh jaata.
If a manager threatens your job, shouts at you, or anyone frightens or hurts you over lateness, that is not everyday and is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana rulePlan theek ho to pahunchna mere qaabu mein hai.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleWaqt par nikalna mere haath mein tha. Sadak sadak hai, faisla nahi.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Ek red light par kandhe dheele chhodiye
- Din 2
Ek signal tak phone ulta rakh dijiye
- Din 3
Aaj khidki ke bahar koi ek cheez dekhiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aap kis taraf bhaag rahe the, aur doosri taraf kise intezaar karte socha tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Jaam mein phansi sadak, aur darwaze par ek vaakya #
Kisi bhi Monday ho sakta hai. Aap waqt se pehle nikle, aur Mehdipatnam se Gachibowli ke beech kahin sadak bas ruk jaati hai. Har taraf horn, map ka rang orange se laal, cab wala sheeshe mein kandhe uchkata hai: “Kya karein, poora jaam hai.”
Phir aap chalis minute late pahunchte ho, maafi maangte hue, aur koi bina nazar uthaye kehta hai: “Thoda jaldi nikalna chahiye tha na?” Chand shabd. Hazaaron logon ki saajha sadak ko wo sirf aapki galti bana dete hain.
Aakhri baar waqt par nikalkar bhi kab late pahunche the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaun intezaar kar raha tha, usne kya kaha, aur zyada der kya tika: sadak par bitaya ghanta, ya darwaze ka wo vaakya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Dimaag se pehle sharir kyun kas jaata hai #
Kai log sabse pehle ye notice karte hain: steering ya bag par pakad kas gayi, jabda bhinch gaya, phone baar-baar dekha ja raha hai jaise ghadi mann badal legi. Saans chhoti ho jaati hai. Isme kuch drama nahi.
Phans jaane ka matlab hai ki din ki raftaar aapke haath se nikal gayi, aur sharir ise ladne ki cheez samajhta hai. Ladne ko kuch hai nahi, to taaqat kandhon mein baith jaati hai aur baad mein chidchidahat banakar nikal sakti hai.
Jab traffic thap hua tha, sharir ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur darwaze par taana aaya to kasaav dheela hua, ya ek paydaan aur chadh gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Wo is baare mein kya batata hai ki us subah ka aapke liye kya matlab tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Saajhi sadak ko nijee galti bana deta hai #
“Jaldi nikalna chahiye tha” salah jaisa lagta hai, par aata tabhi hai jab kuch kiya nahi ja sakta. Ye sabke liye jaam hui sadak ko ek insaan ki planning ki chook bana deta hai. Traffic sabka tha, ilzaam sirf aap par.
Jis baat par bas na chale, us par parkha jaana usse zyada chubhta hai jis par chale. Ghante bhar baithe rehne ke baad ye sunna aisa lagta hai ki waqt par nikalne ki mehnat ginni hi nahi gayi, aur ghadi ke alawa kisi ko kuch dikhta hi nahi.
Agar vaakya aapke baare mein nahi, sadak ke baare mein hota, to kaisa sunayi deta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur us subah ka kaun sa hissa aap chahte the ki bolne se pehle koi dekhta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab taana saath-saath chalne lage #
Kuch subahon ke baad vaakya gaadi mein aapke saath baithne lagta hai. “Jaldi nikalna chahiye tha.” “Phir wahi late-lateefi.” “Sabko lagta hoga mujhe time manage karna nahi aata.” Traffic shuru hone se pehle, ghar ki seedhiyon par bhi ye chalu ho sakta hai.
Kehne wala dopahar tak bhool jaata hai, par awaaz ghadi dekhti rehti hai. Isiliye pakad mein nahi aati: ye ab unka taana nahi lagta. Ye samajhdaari lagti hai, aur apne baare mein seedhi sachchai.
Ye aapko planning behtar banane ko kehti hai to kiski awaaz mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki apni, ya kisi ki jo bahut pehle chaabi lekar darwaze par intezaar mein khada tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kai logon ke liye ghadi hamesha dekh rahi thi #
Kai log aise gharon mein bade hue jahan der hona kirdaar ki nishani maana jaata tha. Shayad koi bada bees minute pehle chaabi lekar darwaze par khada rehta, ya koi teacher jo late aane wale bachche ko class ke peeche khada kar deta.
Aise palon se bahut bachche seekhte hain ki waqt zimmedaari ki pariksha hai. Bus jo nahi aayi, lift jo atak gayi, sadak jo bhar gayi, inki ginti kam hoti thi; baat bas ye thi ki aap theek waqt par pahunche ya nahi.
Der hona pehli baar kab sharm ki baat lagne laga, aur ghadi par nazar aam taur par kiski rehti thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aaj traffic rukta hai to wahi chehra yaad aata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Ek chupchaap niyam jo driver ki seat par baith sakta hai #
Neeche ek niyam baith sakta hai: “Theek se plan karoon to pahunchne ka time mere haath mein hai,” aur uska teekha judwa, “Late hua toh maine koshish hi kam ki.” Kuch logon mein narm roop hota hai: “Time par pahunchna hi bharose ki pehchaan hai.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte nahi. Bade hone jaise lagte hain, isiliye barson bina jaanche chal jaate hain. Ye wo maangte hain jo koi de nahi sakta, kyunki kitni bhi planning ruki bus ya band flyover nahi hila sakti.
Kuch log aise niyam ko shuruaati saal tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai: agar der ka matlab main fail, to sadak mere qaabu mein honi chahiye.
Ye kin subahon mein ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kin mein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ye niyam subahon se kya leta hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai bees minute ki drive ke liye chalis minute pehle nikalna, cab ki pichhli seat par naashta, ya aadha ghanta parking mein baithna kyunki bahut jaldi pahunch gaye. Kuch log sheher ke doosre chhor ki shaam ki planning ko na kehne lagte hain, kyunki wo safar pariksha lagta hai.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Jab har jaam apni naakaami lage, to traffic ke andar ka waqt do baar kho jaata hai: ek baar sadak ko, phir sadak ki chinta ko. Gaana, dost ko call, khidki aur bahar ki gali, barson tak nazar se chhoot sakte hain.
Ye kamzori se nahi. Poore sheher ka traffic apne kandhe par uthana thakata hai.
Pichhle saal iski keemat kya rahi: koi subah jo pehle se thaki hui shuru hui, koi shaam ka plan jo chupchaap chhoot gaya, koi gussa jo asal mein ghar mein kisi par tha hi nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, ghadi se daudte hue #
Kisi aam kaamkaaji din ki tasveer banaiye, jab “Late hua toh main fail” zor se baj raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad har saal pandrah minute pehle ka alarm, har signal par map, darwaza khulne se pehle taiyaar maafi. Shayad sheher ke doosre chhor ka dinner na keh diya gaya, kyunki wahan ka safar hi kirdaar ki pariksha lagta hai.
Yahan abhi kisi cheez ka jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer ko jab chahein neeche rakha ja sakta hai.
Usmein kya hai: alarm, drive, kaam ki pehli baatein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Use dekhkar aapko kya dikhta hai, agar kuch?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kisse jaldi, aakhir? #
“Jaldi nikalna chahiye tha” ko aaram se dekha ja sakta hai, jaise koi sachcha dost dekhta. Zyadatar dinon mein aap jab nikle the wo bahut hota.
Ye bhi notice karne layak hai ki baat kitna kam jaanti hai. Use chaurahe ke haadse ka nahi pata, na mode gaye buson ka, na do baar cancel hui cab ka. Use bas wo minute dikhta hai jab aap andar aaye, aur ek minute kisi ko parakhne ke liye bahut chhoti khidki hai.
Kisse jaldi, aakhir?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us waqt se jo kisi aur din kaafi hota?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek aur nazar: koi colleague usi jaam ke baad bheega hua der se aata, to aap usse pehle kya kehna chahte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya “jaldi nikalna chahiye tha” zehan mein bhi aata, ya kuch narm nikalta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Jab log pichhle mahine ke safar palatkar dekhte hain, to kai ko dikhta hai ki der wali subahein wahi thin jab bahar kuch badla tha: baarish, kisi juloos ki rukavat, sadak ka kaam, flyover par koi kharab gaadi. Planning zyadatar wahi thi.
Kuch ko dikhta hai ki waqt par pahunchne wali subahein kitni kam ginni jaati hain. Jin pachaas dinon safar theek raha wo bina soche nikal jaate hain, aur ek der wali subah hafte bhar dhoyi jaati hai. Sar ka record kisi aur ke record se kahin sakht hai.
Pichhle mahine ki saari subahein ginein, sirf der wali nahi, to imaandaar record kaisa dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur aapke aane-jaane ka itna sakht record asal mein kisne rakha hai, agar kisi ne rakha hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Sadak ko sadak rehne dena #
Isse sulah ka matlab ye nahi ki der kabhi maayne nahi rakhti, ya taana sahi tha. Matlab ye ki traffic ko traffic rehne diya jaye: mausam, gaadiyon ki ginti, caron se bhara sheher, aapki parwaah ka paimana nahi.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo jaam se behes karna chhodte hain. Gaadiyon ko chupchaap dhakka dete hue baithe rehna thakata hai aur pahunchne ka waqt nahi badalta.
Usi jaam mein bina behes ke baithna kaisa hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaisa lagega agar uchit-sa hissa rakhein, yaani samajhdaar waqt par nikalna, aur wo hissa chhod dein jo kehta hai ki sadak aap par faisla hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Pichhli seat ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “jaldi nikalna chahiye tha” barson se saath chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladna zaroori nahi. Kuch log iski jagah ek sachcha vaakya taiyaar rakhte hain: “Waqt par nikalna mere haath mein tha. Sadak ke apne irade the.”
Iska abhi sach lagna zaroori nahi. Bas purane se zyada sahi ho, aur kuch paate hain ki agli red light par dheere se kehne par purane vaakya ki thodi jagah ye le leta hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo nikalne ke waqt ke baare mein imaandaar ho, par poore sheher ke traffic ko apni galti banakar na dhoye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein bas neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har der se pahunchne ko lambi safai, bechain rehearsal ya aur pehle ka alarm nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal feel kiya ja sakta hai, aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise aakhir mein pahunchkar bag desk par rakh dete hain.
Ye laparwahi nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki taaqat kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain isse din ke pehle ghante, us kaam aur un logon ke liye jagah bachti hai jo darwaze par garmjoshi se milte hain.
Aaj ke liye is baat ko neeche rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki taana sahi tha, ya baat nipat gayi. Bas itna ki shaam ke traffic mein bhi ye aapke saath ghar na laute.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema hai. Waqt par pahunchna ab bhi maayne rakhta hai, par jaam jaam hai, faisla nahi.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: Gachibowli flyover par ek gaana poora sunna, der se pahunchne par lambi safai ki jagah ek seedha sorry, ya sheher ke doosre chhor ke plan ko haan kehna.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Gaadi mein sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Gaadi ruke to mann mein kahiye: “Ye traffic hai, imtihaan nahi”
- Ek signal tak phone ulta rakh dijiye aur ghadi ko apne bina chalne dijiye
- Khidki ke bahar koi ek cheez dekhiye: phool wala, koi board, aasmaan
- Red light par ek baar saans chhodte hue kandhe dheele kijiye
- Is mahine ki ek subah yaad kijiye jab safar theek raha, aur use ginne dijiye
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi ke. Agle safar mein jo aasaan lage, wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aap kis taraf bhaag rahe the, aur doosri taraf kise intezaar karte socha tha?
- Der se pahunchne ki sochte hain to kiska chehra saamne aata hai?
- Agar jaam kisi ki galti na hota, to aap kya feel karte?
- Jis aam din ye niyam zor se bole, aap kitna pehle nikalte hain, aur uski keemat kya hai?
- Agar ye thoda halka ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?