Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Kuch logon ko galtiyan sahi hui baaton se zyada saaf yaad rehti hain.
Kuch gharon mein maanak bahut oonche the, aur wajahein alag-alag ho sakti hain: aage ki fikr, apne dabaav, bachche ke liye sabse achha chaahna.
Aksar “mujhse koi galti nahi honi chahiye” ke neeche ek aur shaant niyam baitha hota hai: “Agar kuch galat hua to log mujhe kam samjhenge,” ya “Ek chook meri asliyat dikha deti hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Kaam taiyaar hone ke baad bhi baar-baar jaanchna
- Nayi cheezon se bachna, jahan chook ki gunjaish zyada hai
- Kuch bigadne se pehle hi “sorry” bol dena
- Chhoti chookein chhupakar akele chupchaap sudhaar lena
- Ek chook ko dinon tak dohrana, jab baaki sab bhool chuke hon
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Doosri line mein ek typo
Thursday ki shaam, Pune, Hinjewadi ka office. Aapne client ko zaroori mail bheja, aur tabhi doosri line mein typo dikh gaya. Pet baith gaya. Aapne use chhe baar padha, maafi ka draft likha, mitaya, phir doosra likha. Ghante bhar baad bhi wahi dimaag mein hai, jabki abhi kisi ne jawab tak nahi diya, aur poori shaam ek chhote-se akshar par atki hai.
Kabhi galti nahi karni
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Mujhse koi galti nahi honi chahiye.” Ye oonche maanak aur parwaah jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har chhoti chook ko aafat bana deta hai. Typo laparwahi ka saboot lagta hai, bhoola kaam nakaami ka, aur aap galti sudharne se zyada taaqat usse darne mein laga dete ho.
Galti itni mehngi kyun lagi
Hum ye niyam isliye pakadte hain kyunki kabhi galti ki keemat badi lagi thi. Bahut se log kisi na kisi roop mein ye niyam seekhte hain, aur us waqt iska matlab banta tha. Shayad school ya ghar mein chook par naraazgi ya nirasha mili. Shayad seekha ki saavdhaan rehna mehfooz rakhta hai. Theek karne ki chaah nasamjhi nahi hai. Wo bharose aur hifaazat ki chaah se aati hai, aur use dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Chhoti chook par bada alarm
Har chhoti chook par bada alarm baj jaata hai, aur dheere-dheere sab judta jaata hai. Aap har cheez baar-baar jaanchte ho. Naye kaam se bachte ho ki kahin galat na ho jaye. Raat ko purani chookein dohrate ho. Chook ke darr mein kaam se zyada waqt aur taaqat lagne lagti hai, aur achhe kaam ki tasalli kam hi milti hai.
Kabhi na chookna, kya vaajib hai?
Imaandaari se khud se puchhiye: kya galtiyon se darne se kabhi wo ruki hain? Ya zyada-tar har galti bahut badi lagne lagi hai? Galtiyan sab karte hain, roz, jinhein aap sabse zyada maante ho wo bhi, aur zyada-tar chookein minuton mein sudhar jaati hain. Ek typo aapki parwaah ya hunar ka paimana nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna us keemat ke layak hai?
Sudharkar aage badh jaana
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki kaam ki parwaah chhoot jaye. Matlab ye ki chhoti chook ka aafat hona zaroori nahi. Aap use dekh sakte ho, zaroorat ho to sudhar sakte ho, aur aage badh sakte ho. Pehle kuch aur badalna zaroori nahi. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: aapki taaqat kaam mein lagti hai, har sambhav chook ki paharedaari mein nahi.
If mistakes at home or at work are ever met with threats, shouting that frightens you, or being hurt, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMujhse koi galti nahi honi chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleGaltiyan hoti hain. Unhein sudharkar aage badha ja sakta hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Mail ek baar padhiye, bhejiye, aur jaane dijiye
- Din 2
Aaj ek chhoti chook par gaur kijiye, aur us par muskuraiye
- Din 3
Khud se kahiye: chook sabse hoti hai, roz
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kaun si chook aap ab bhi dohrate ho, aur uske aas-paas kya hua tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Ek niyam jo chupchaap dohraya jaata hai #
“Mujhse koi galti nahi honi chahiye.” Mann hi mann kaha jaata hai, jab client ko bheja mail chauthi baar khulta hai. Ya bachche ka school form aakhri baar dekhte hue. Ya raat ko meeting ki ek galat baat baar-baar yaad karte hue.
Ye kadvi nahi lagti. Ye saleeqe wali lagti hai: “Bas ek baar aur dekh lo.” Isiliye barson tak kisi ki nazar nahi jaati. Bahar se ye zimmedaari jaisi dikhti hai, aur andar se sirf bhaari lagti hai.
Aakhri baar kab aapne kisi theek-thaak cheez ko dobara jaancha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us waqt mann mein kaun sa darr baitha tha ki agar chook nikli to kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Chook dikhte hi pet mein dhakka #
Kuch logon ko bheje hue message mein typo dikhte hi chehra garam lagta hai. Manager kahe “zara aana” to pet baith jaata hai. Mann karta hai koi kuch kahe, usse pehle hi “sorry” bol dein.
Kuch log kehte hain ki poora sharir tan jaata hai, jaise chhoti-si chook koi bada khatra ho. Ye sochne se pehle hota hai. Isiliye ek galat spelling kuch second ke liye kisi kinare par khade hone jaisi lagti hai.
Chook dikhne ke baad ke pehle palon mein aapka sharir kya karta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Wo us waqt kitni badi lagti hai, aur asal mein kitni badi thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Chhoti chook itni badi kyun lagti hai #
Is yaqeen ke saath galti sirf galti nahi rehti. Use ek nishaani ki tarah padha jaata hai: laparwahi ki, kaabil na hone ki, kuch aur bhi badi baat ki. Isliye pratikriya nishaani ke hisaab se hoti hai, chook ke aakaar ke hisaab se nahi.
Kuch logon ko galtiyan sahi hui baaton se zyada saaf yaad rehti hain. Saalon purana koi galat jawab aaj bhi poori tarah dikh jaata hai, jabki sahi jawabon ka koi nishaan nahi bachta.
Isiliye ye darr bada vaajib lagta hai.
Agar is yaqeen se puchhein ki galti aakhir kya saabit karegi, to wo kya kahega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur kya wahi saboot aap kisi aur ke liye maan lete?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo hisaab rakhti hai #
“Itni laparwahi kaise ho gayi?” “Sabne dekh liya hoga.” “Mujhe toh pehle se pata hona chahiye tha.” Ye awaaz kisi sakht par insaafpasand teacher jaisi lagti hai, aur chhoti-si chook hote hi saamne aa jaati hai.
Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki ye lamba hisaab rakhti hai. Ek chook ke saath paanch purani chookein, saalon purani, saboot ki tarah qatar mein lag jaati hain. Ek typo poore muqadme mein badal jaata hai.
Ye hisaab padhte hue ye kiski awaaz jaisi lagti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya aap kisi dost ki waisi hi chook par usse isi lehje mein baat karte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Ye niyam aksar kahan se shuru hota hai #
Kuch logon mein ye un jagahon se ugta hai jahan galti ka daam chukana padta tha: copy par laal pen ka gola, glass girne par teekhi daant, class mein padhkar sunaye gaye number, ya aisa ghar jahan ek galat jawab poori shaam ka tanaav ban jaata tha.
Kuch gharon mein maanak bahut oonche the, aur wajahein alag-alag ho sakti hain: aage ki fikr, apne dabaav, bachche ke liye sabse achha chaahna. Bachcha chupchaap ye nateeja nikal sakta hai ki galti se musibat aati hai, to galti karo hi mat. Kuch log apna niyam aise barson tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi.
Galti karna kab pehli baar seekhne ka hissa nahi, khatra lagne laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us waqt aas-paas kaun tha, aur usne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Saavdhaani ke neeche ka niyam #
Aksar “mujhse koi galti nahi honi chahiye” ke neeche ek aur shaant niyam baitha hota hai: “Agar kuch galat hua to log mujhe kam samjhenge,” ya “Ek chook meri asliyat dikha deti hai.” Pehla vaakya sunayi deta hai; neeche wala niyam gaadi chalata hai.
Aise niyam baat ki tarah nahi, tathya ki tarah lagte hain, jaise zameen zameen lagti hai. Ye jaan lena ki ye niyam hai, aur kahin se seekha gaya hai, kai baar ise nayi nazar se dekhne ki shuruaat banta hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan ke saalon se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise aaj ke kaam, logon aur mauko ke saath dekha ja sakta hai.
Ye ab kin kamron mein fit baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Har cheez sahi karne ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai paanch baje tak taiyaar kaam ko raat tak jaanchte rehna, naya role thukrana kyunki seekhne ka daur bahut kathin lagta hai, ya meeting mein sawaal na puchhna kyunki shayad wo bewakoofi bhara nikle.
Isse seekhna bahut mushkil lagne lagta hai, kyunki seekhne mein sahi hone se pehle galat hona shamil hai. Kuch log kehte hain ki lagataar jaanchna apne aap mein thaka deta hai, aur achha kaam hone par raahat milti hai, garv nahi.
Kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Ye us niyam ka wazan hai jise koi nibha nahi sakta.
Pichhle saal iski keemat kya rahi: koi hunar jo aazmaya nahi, koi sawaal jo puchha nahi, koi shaam jo ek chhoti baat dobara jaanchne mein chali gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Kuch saal baad ka ek aam Tuesday #
Ek aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, kuch saal baad ka, us din ka jab “mujhse koi galti nahi honi chahiye” zor se baj rahi ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad bhejne se pehle dobara padha gaya mail, call se pehle jaanchi gayi slide, rasoi ki table par bhara hua form, koi nayi recipe jo dekhkar “phir kabhi” ke liye save ho gayi. Shayad ek cheez jo ek baar padhkar bhej di gayi. Bas din, jaisa chalta hai.
Yahan abhi kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur sahi kuch dekhna bhi zaroori nahi.
Usmein kya hai: kaam, baatein, jo aazmaya nahi gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Tuesday ko dekhkar, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Galti asal mein kya batati hai #
Galti ek pal ke baare mein jaankari hai: ye kadam chhoot gaya, ye shabd galat tha, ye andaza nahi laga. Wo poore insaan ke baare mein jaankari nahi hai, jaise tyre puncture hona poori gaadi ke baare mein kuch nahi kehta.
Bahut se hunar kuch had tak galtiyon se bante hain. Jo log kisi cheez mein maahir hue, unhone pehle use kai baar galat kiya tha, aur kai log apni galtiyon ko hi wo hissa batate hain jinse sabse zyada seekha.
Pichhli chook ke baare mein puchhkar dekhiye: usne theek-theek kya bataya, is kaam aur is din ke baare mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur aisi hi chook par kisi sahkarmi se aap kya kehte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dobara dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Jin chookon ko log ab bhi dohrate hain, unhein gaur se dekhein to kuch ko dikhta hai ki asli nuksaan chhota tha aur sudhar gaya. Kabhi-kabhi sach mein kuch nuksaan hua bhi. Dono haal mein chook andar din khatam hone ke baad bhi sabse zor se bolti rehti hai.
Kuch log ye bhi sochte hain ki baar-baar jaanchna unhein sachmuch surakshit karta hai, ya zyada-tar din ko lamba kheenchta hai.
Haal mein us atirikt jaanch mein asal mein kya pakda gaya, aur usmein kitna waqt laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaun si chook aap sabse lambe waqt se dho rahe ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Uske baad asal mein kya hua, aur aaj aapke alawa kitne logon ko wo yaad hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Pehle bedaag banna zaroori nahi #
Is yaqeen se sulah ka matlab kaam ko theek se karne ki parwaah chhodna nahi hai. Parwaah theek hai. Matlab ye ki galti faisla na rahe, aur wapas ek aisi baat ban jaye jo hui aur sudhari ja sakti hai.
Purana darr peechhe ke shor ki tarah reh sakta hai, aur phir bhi mail ek baar padhkar bheja ja sakta hai, sawaal puchha ja sakta hai, nayi cheez aazmayi ja sakti hai. Kuch logon ko ye pakka bharosa aane ka intezaar karne se aasaan lagta hai.
Kaisa lagega agar darr saath aaye, par har cheez ko do baar jaanchne na diya jaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Is hafte ka kaun sa kaam alag hota, agar ek saavdhaan nazar kaafi maan li jaati?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
“Mujhse koi galti nahi honi chahiye” se seedhe ulajhne ki jagah, kuch log ek sachchi line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Galtiyan sabse hoti hain, mujhse bhi, aur unhein sudhara ja sakta hai.” Purani line se seedhi takkar lena zaroori nahi.
Ye shuru mein sach lagna zaroori nahi. Bas purani se zyada sateek honi chahiye, aur kuch log paate hain ki baar-baar kehne par nayi line us jagah ka thoda hissa le leti hai jo purani gheri thi.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo sateek ho par laparwahi na sikhaye, aur aapke kaam karne ke dhang par baithta ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch chookein bas rakh di ja sakti hain #
Har chook ka aadhi raat ko postmortem zaroori nahi. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, jahan sudhar sakti hain wahan sudhara ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur rakh diya ja sakta hai. Sabak saza ban jaye, usse pehle dohrana ruk sakta hai.
Ye laparwahi nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki aapki taaqat kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain isse agli cheez ke liye jagah bachti hai, wahi jise wo sachmuch sahi karna chahenge.
Kisi chook ko shaam bhar ke liye rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek thi, ya baat nipat gayi. Bas itna ki aaj use baaki har cheez mein saath nahi chalna.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema hai. Galti ab bhi achhi nahi lagti, par wo faisle se zyada galti jaisi padhi jaati hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: ek baar padhkar bheja message, typo par muskura dena, use dohrane ki jagah, ya bina backup plan ke nayi recipe aazmana.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch cheezein jo logon ko kaam ki lagti hain #
- Chook ho to puchhiye: ye is kaam ke baare mein theek-theek kya batati hai?
- Aaj ek chhota, bina jokhim wala message ek baar padhkar bhej dijiye
- Awaaz purani chook laye to mann mein kahiye: phir wahi hisaab
- Ek aisi cheez sochiye jo aapne galti karke seekhi
- Aaj kisi aur ki ek chhoti chook par gaur kijiye, aur apni raay uske baare mein
Chhote aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kaun si chook aap ab bhi dohrate ho, aur uske aas-paas kya hua tha?
- Galat hone ka darr aapke yahan sabse zyada kahan dikhta hai?
- Chook ke baad pehle kya aata hai: sharm, darr, gussa, ya kuch aur?
- Jis aam din ye niyam zor se bole, aap kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar ye thoda halka ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?