Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Marks pehle ek din ke ek paper ki jaankari hote hain.
Aksar niyam ek kahani ke saath aaya: ek Papa ya Mummy jinhein padhne ka mauka nahi mila, ek rishtedaar jinke liye result se darwaze khule, ek ghar jahan school hi akeli bharose ki seedhi thi.
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Meri keemat utni hai jitne mere marks,” ya “Marks kaafi oonche hon, tabhi aaram kar sakta hai koi.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Marksheet chhupakar rakhna ya khabar taiyaar rakhna, marks ke hisaab se
- Zor se haami bharna, aur shak apne paas rakhna
- Der raat tak padhna, taaki koi na keh sake ki koshish nahi ki
- School ke bahar ki kisi baat ka zikr na karna, ki kahin wo unke khilaaf na jaye
- Exam ke mausam mein chup rehna aur khaane ki mez ki baaton se bachna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Har session goonjta niyam
Sunday ki shaam hai, Monday ko test. Papa Hindi ka akhbaar padh rahe hain, Mummy rasoi mein hain aur cooker ki seeti baj rahi hai, aur wahi ek vaakya flat mein chhaunk ki khushboo ki tarah tairta hai: “Marks hi sab kuch hain.” Aap kitaab phir kholte ho, halaanki aankhein wo panna pehle padh chuki hain. Ek khaali ghanta aata hai aur aap use le nahi paate. Wo wahin rakha hai, un paison ki tarah jinhein kharchne ki ijaazat nahi.
Meri keemat utni jitne marks
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Meri keemat utni hai jitne mere marks.” Ye school ke chalne ka tareeka lagta hai. Upar se seedhi sachchai-sa, aur zyadatar log haami bhar denge. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har test ko poore insaan par faisla bana deta hai, aur har khaali shaam ko ek qarz, jise chukaye bina uska maza nahi liya ja sakta.
Ye niyam kyun chipak jaata hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki kai jagah marks se darwaze khulte hain, aur parivar aksar pyaar aur fikr se ye niyam bolte hain. Bahut log iska koi roop lekar bade hote hain, aur us waqt wo samajh mein aata tha. Shayad aapke parivar mein kisi ko bahut kam mauke mile. Nateejon ki parwah surakshit zindagi ki chaah se aati hai, aur use narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har dohrav ka wazan
Har baar dohrane par wazan badhta hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aapko mehsoos hota hai. Aaram mein apradhbodh aa jaata hai. Shauq daraaz mein chale jaate hain. Aap ek chhoti khushi chhupa lete ho ki kahin wo barbaad waqt na samjhi jaye, aur aap kaun ho, ye dheere-dheere utna hi reh jaata hai jitna ek chhapi sheet par sama jaye. Aap chalte rehte ho, par pehle se kam sukoon ke saath.
Kya ye niyam iske layak?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya ye niyam pakde rehne se kabhi apne kaam mein zyada sukoon mila? Ya zyadatar kaam, aur baaki sab, bhaari aur door lagne laga? Marks ek din ke ek paper ka bayaan hain. Jawab sirf aap de sakte ho, aur koi jawab galat nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna us keemat ke layak hai jo ye maangta hai?
Marksheet se kahin zyada
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aage ke liye marks maayne nahi rakhte. Matlab ye hai ki marksheet aapke poore wajood ka bayaan nahi degi. Aapne jo seekha, jo dekha aur jo dostiyan banayin, wo kisi list mein nahi dikhtin, aur wo aapki hain. Ye ekdam se nahi hota, aur zaroori bhi nahi. Kuch chain lautta hai jab marks bas jaankari ka ek tukda reh jaate hain.
If a result at home is ever met with threats, being hurt, or anger that frightens you, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMeri keemat utni hai jitne mere marks.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMarks paper ke baare mein batate hain. Main poora insaan hoon.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Is session ki ek cheez ka naam lijiye jo test mein nahi poochhi gayi
- Kadam 2
Ek khaali ghanta lijiye aur use khaali hi rehne dijiye
- Kadam 3
Aaj ek chhota kaam kijiye jo aapko bas achha lagta hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Jab aapne pehli baar ye niyam suna, tab ghar mein kya chal raha tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Wo niyam jo ghar mein rehta hai #
Wo ek tarah se fridge ke darwaze par chipka hai, chahe kisi ne likha na ho. Unit test se pehle nashte par, school jaati gaadi mein, Dadi ke phone par: “Marks hi sab kuch hain.” Kuch ghar ise har session mein ek baar kehte hain, kuch har hafte, aur kuch ko kehna hi nahi padta kyunki ghar pehle se usi par chalta hai.
Ye gaali nahi hai, aur theek-theek salaah bhi nahi. Ye ghar ka niyam hai, shanti se kaha gaya, jaise duniya aisi hi bani ho. Aur itne sapaat dhang se kaha jaata hai ki isse behes karna, ya ise notice karna bhi, mushkil ho sakta hai.
Kuch log wo pehla pal aur wo kamra bata sakte hain jab unhone ise sach mein suna.
Jab ye niyam aapko zor se kaha gaya tab aap kahan the, aur kehne wala kaun tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Jawab se pehle ki jakdan #
Jab niyam ka zikr aata hai, chahe halka-sa, to kisi ki chhaati ya jabda kas jaata hai. Koi apne aap sar hila deta hai, jaise jaane-pehchane signboard par hilate hain. Koi chup ho jaata hai aur chup hi rehta hai.
Saikdon baar suna hua niyam kisi bhi vichar se tez chalta hai. Body lehje ka jawab pehle de deti hai, mann shabdon ko taule usse pehle, aur taulna, agar hota hai, baad mein hota hai, bus mein ya bistar par.
Inmein se kisi pehli pratikriya ko samjhane ki zaroorat nahi.
Pichhli baar jab aapke aaspaas ye niyam kaha gaya, tab aapne kya kiya, aur agle ek minute mein kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ek number se sab kuch dhone ko kehna #
Niyam zindagi ka ek hissa leta hai, wo jiske marks milte hain, aur use poora ghoshit kar deta hai. Insaan jo kuch aur hai, jaise jigyasu, mazaakiya, bharosemand, dayalu, haath ka hunar, wo sab chupchaap frame se bahar kar diya jaata hai.
Ye marks ka matlab bhi badal deta hai. Marks pehle ek din ke ek paper ki jaankari hote hain. Niyam bankar dohraye jayein to ghar mein insaan ki keemat ka paimana ban jaate hain, aur har test par wo atirikt wazan tanga rehta hai.
Niyam ke andar aksar sachcha pyaar hota hai, aur aage ki sachchi fikr. Dono saath sach ho sakte hain.
Aapke wo hisse jo marksheet par kabhi nahi aate, unmein se kaun sa aap chahte hain ki koi dekhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab niyam andar aa jaye #
Baar-baar suno to ye khud ko dohrane lagta hai. “Kya ye kaafi achha hai?” “Achhe marks nahi to kuch ginta nahi jayega.” “Revision karne ke bajaye mujhe ismein maza kyun aa raha hai?” Kabhi ye tab shuru ho jaata hai jab kuch check bhi nahi hua.
Jinhone kaha wo doosre kamre mein hon, ya doosre shehar mein, par niyam aapki apni awaaz mein chalta rehta hai: Sunday ki dopahar, khel ke beech, chhutti ke pehle din, chupchaap jodta hua ki kya nahi hua.
Bheetar ki awaazein aksar kisi asli insaan ka lehja udhaar leti hain.
Aapke sar mein “achhe marks nahi to kuch ginta nahi jayega” kiski awaaz mein bolta hai, aur pehli baar kab suna?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kai logon ko ye niyam virasat mein mila #
Aksar niyam ek kahani ke saath aaya: ek Papa ya Mummy jinhein padhne ka mauka nahi mila, ek rishtedaar jinke liye result se darwaze khule, ek ghar jahan school hi akeli bharose ki seedhi thi. Niyam bachche ki dekhbhal ke tareeke ke roop mein aaya.
Kuch gharon mein ye narmi se kaha gaya, kuch mein sakhti se, aur wajahein ghar-ghar mein alag hain. Bachche ke mann mein chupchaap ek nateeja reh sakta hai: pyaar, suraksha ya aaram ki ijaazat marksheet par tiki hai.
Kuch log us saal ka naam le sakte hain jab niyam tez hua.
Ghar mein marks kab mukhya baat bane, aur us waqt aaspaas kya chal raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche-neeche banne wala ek chupchaap niyam #
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Meri keemat utni hai jitne mere marks,” ya “Marks kaafi oonche hon, tabhi aaram kar sakta hai koi.” Kuch log iska naram roop dhote hain: “Achhe marks dikha na sakein to kuch bhi na dikhana behtar hai.”
Aisi maanyata maanyata jaisi lagti hi nahi. Wo aise dikhti hai ki duniya bas aisi hai, jaise ye ki aag garm hoti hai. Isiliye ise kabhi-kabhi bahar nikaalkar dhoop mein dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan se jodte hain, kuch nahi.
Aaj ki zindagi mein “meri keemat utni hai jitne mere marks” kahan ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kahan nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ye niyam uthane ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai khaali shaam ka maza na le paana, kisi ke poochne par ki school kaisa chal raha hai pet mein dhak hona, ya koi shauq chhupana kyunki uske marks nahi ban sakte. Kuch log nayi cheezein aazmana hi chhod dete hain, ki kahin usmein turant achha karna na aaye to.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Jab ek hi paimana sab chalata hai, to jigyasa simatkar sirf test wali cheezon tak reh jaati hai. Jo vishay kabhi dilchasp tha, wo nipatane wali list ban jaata hai, aur chhutti ka din qarz lagta hai.
Ye kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Aise niyam ke neeche rehna bhi mehnat maangta hai.
Pichhle ek saal mein isne aapse kya liya: aaram, dostiyan, wo cheezein jo pasand thin aur chupchaap chhoot gayin?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, marksheet ke hisaab se jeene ke #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “meri keemat utni hai jitne mere marks” andar zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad apradhbodh ke saath bitaya gaya ek khaali ghanta, daraaz mein rakha shauq, ghar se aaya phone jiska pehla sawaal marks ka hai. Kuch jaana-pehchana ho sakta hai, kuch bilkul nahi.
Yahan kisi cheez ka abhi jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer ko jab chahein kinare rakh sakte hain.
Usmein kya hai: message, jaanch-padtaal, taala hua aaram?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us aam Tuesday ko dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Jaankari hai, faisla nahi #
Marks bas itna batate hain ki ek din sawaalon ka ek set ek jaanchne wale ya ek marking scheme ke hisaab se kaisa gaya. Ye bahut kam batata hai ki koi kaise sochta hai, kis baare mein jigyasu hai, logon se kaise pesh aata hai, ya aage kya bana aur seekh sakta hai.
Niyam dohrane wale aksar bachche ka bhala chahte hain: suraksha, vikalp, izzat. Kai logon ko ye zyada tikaau lagta hai ki ichha ko naapne wali chhadi se alag dekhein. Ichha sachchi ho sakti hai, jabki chhadi adhoori hai.
Sochiye koi chhota bachcha aapki table par pehli baar ye niyam sun raha hai.
Pehla test ghar aane se pehle aap use kya sunana chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Jab kuch log dheeme hokar dekhte hain, to dikhta hai ki niyam ko kabhi is baat se parkha nahi gaya ki unhein asal mein kya yaad hai. Bahut kam ko apni pasandida class marks se yaad hai. Unhein teacher ki awaaz yaad hai, dost ka mazaak, wo din jab kuch aakhir samajh aaya.
Kuch ko wo log dikhte hain jinhone ise nahi dohraya: Dadi jinhone poochha khaana khaya, ek dost jisne kisi khel ke baare mein poochha, ek Bua jinhone kaha, “Tere haath mein hunar hai, beta.” Wo awaazein bhi thin, bas dheemi.
Exam ke mausam mein dheemi awaazein aasaani se chhoot jaati hain.
Aapki zindagi mein kisne aapmein kuch aisa qeemti maana jo marksheet par nahi aata, aur wo kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Niyam se behes jeetna zaroori nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye dikhana nahi ki aage ke liye marks maayne nahi rakhte, ya niyam kabhi pyaar se nahi kaha gaya. Matlab bas itna ki shaam kaisi lage aur din ka kitna hissa aapka rahe, is par niyam ka kam chale.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo behes jeetne ki koshish chhod dete hain. Wo behes shayad hi khatam hoti hai, kyunki har session naye marks laata hai aur purana niyam phir aa jaata hai, aur behes niyam ko ghar ke beech mein bithaye rakhti hai.
Kuch ghar aage bhi yahi kehte rahenge, aur unhein badalna aapka kaam nahi.
Ek aam Sunday kaisa lagega agar marks ko unka apna ek ghanta mile aur baaki din bas ek din ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “meri keemat utni hai jitne mere marks” saalon se andar baj raha hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaye ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Marks paper ko naapte hain. Mujhe nahi.”
Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki ye shuru mein sach lagna zaroori nahi, aur kisi exam mein jaate hue ya family khaane se pehle dheere se kahi gayi ye line purani line ki thodi jagah le leti hai. Kuch ko aisa nahi lagta, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein marks ke baare mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jise kisi aur ki manzoori na chahiye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein bas neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Niyam ki har punaravritti ko jawab, palatkar baat ya plan nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise school se lautkar bhaari bag darwaze ke paas rakh dete hain.
Ye haar maanna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki aapki taakat kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain isse un vishayon ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai jo unhein pasand hain, aur un logon ke liye jo unke baare mein poochte hain.
Shaam bhar ke liye niyam ko neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek tha, ya baat suljh gayi. Bas itna ki wo aaj khaane ki mez, agle phone ya kal ki planning mein saath na chale.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam ek darja dheela ho #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Marks ab bhi hain, aur aapki mehnat bhi.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: bina gine ek khaali shaam le lena, kisi dost ko batana ki kisi vishay mein asal mein kya mazedaar tha, ya daraaz wali cheez ko das minute ke liye utha lena.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi marks wala niyam”
- Gaur kijiye ki zyada kis par dabaav padta hai: niyam par, ya uske baad ki chuppi par
- Chupchaap khud se poochiye: mujhe kya seekhna achha laga jiska koi number nahi tha?
- Aise ek insaan ko yaad kijiye jo nateeje se pare aapmein kuch qeemti dekhta hai
- Aaj ki ek chhoti-si cheez par dhyaan dijiye jo aapne chaahi, chahe kitni bhi chhoti
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Jab aapne pehli baar ye niyam suna, tab ghar mein kya chal raha tha?
- Aapko kaun si cheez pasand hai jo kisi marksheet par kabhi nahi aati?
- “Marks hi sab kuch hain” sunte hi sabse pehle kiska naam yaad aata hai, aur wahi kyun?
- Jis aam din ye niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar niyam thoda dheela ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?