Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Shuru karne ka matlab nausikhiya hona bhi hai, aur nausikhiya hone ka matlab kuch waqt cheezein kharab karna.
Aisa dekhne wala bachcha tay kar sakta hai ki koshish karke kam padte dikhne se behtar hai koshish hi na karna.
Aksar is yaqeen ke neeche ek chupchaap baitha niyam hota hai: “Adhoori koshish mere baare mein kuch bura kehti hai,” ya “Galtiyan dikhati hain ki main iske laayak nahi.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Sahi waqt, sahi saamaan, sahi mood ka intezaar karte rehna
- Pehla kadam baar-baar dohrana, aur doosre tak kabhi na pahunchna
- Ek din chhootte hi poori aadat chhod dena
- Doosron ke saamne seekhne se bachna, sirf akele abhyaas karna
- Sab kuch khud kar lena, kyunki aur koi theek se nahi karta
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Teen stroke, phir brush neeche
Indore mein Sunday ki shaam. Mahinon se aap painting shuru karna chahte the. Brush, rang, canvas sab kharid liya. Aaj aakhir baithe, teen stroke lagaye, tay kiya ki bura lag raha hai, aur sab almari mein rakh diya. Sofe par sapaat-sa mann liye baithe ho, khaali canvas usi deewar se tika hai jahan wo barsaat se pada hai. Ye ehsaas ummeed se zyada der tikta hai.
Ekdum sahi, ya bilkul nahi
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Ya to ekdum sahi, ya bilkul nahi.” Ye oonche paimane jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: shuru karne se pehle hi rok deta hai. Har naya shauq, kaam ya plan pehli koshish mein shaandaar hona chahiye, aur jab nahi hota to chhod diya jaata hai, isliye sudharne ka mauqa hi nahi milta.
Achha karne par taareef kyun mili
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki kabhi achha karne par taareef aur sukoon mila. Bahut se log is niyam ka koi roop lekar bade hote hain, aur us waqt uska matlab bhi banta tha. Shayad aap hoshiyar wale the, jisse sab sahi ki ummeed rehti thi. Shayad ghar mein koshish se zyada galti dikhti thi. Achha karna chaahna ghamand nahi hai. Ye sakshham mehsoos karne ki chaah se aata hai, aur narmi ka haqdaar hai.
Chhodi gayi shuruaaton ki kheej
Har chhodi gayi shuruaat thodi kheej chhod jaati hai. Dheere-dheere sab jama hota hai. Almariyan aadhi shuru ki cheezon se bharti hain. Aap kaam tab tak taalte ho jab tak sab sahi na lage. Jo jaldi nahi aata, usse bachte ho. Koshish ki khushi kho jaati hai, aur bas un kaamon ki lambi list bachti hai jo karne the par kabhi shuru nahi hue.
Kya perfect shuru na karne laayak hai?
Imaandaari se poochiye: kya perfect ka intezaar karne se koi kaam kabhi poora hua? Ya zyadatar cheezein almari mein hi rahin? Har hunarmand shuru mein anaadi tha, aur zyadatar achha kaam kai adhoori koshishon se nikalta hai. Kacchi pehli koshish aapki rachna ki maap nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna uski keemat ke laayak hai?
Kaccha hi sahi, shuru to karna
Chhodne ka matlab parwah chhodna nahi. Matlab ye ki kacchi pehli koshish ko hone ki ijaazat mile. Aap angadh kuch rang sakte ho aur chalte reh sakte ho. Cheezein “kaafi achhe” par poori kar sakte ho. Pehle kuch aur badalna zaroori nahi. Ye ek baar mein nahi hota. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: kuch banane ka maza wapas aata hai, aur sudharne ko jagah milti hai.
If anyone punishes, threatens or frightens you over small mistakes or unfinished things, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleYa to ekdum sahi, ya bilkul nahi.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleKaafi achha bhi chalta hai. Kaccha shuru karna theek hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Ek kaam jaan-boojhkar kaccha kijiye, aur muskuraiye
- Din 2
Kisi project par das minute bina parkhe dijiye
- Din 3
Ek chhota kaam “kaafi achhe” par poora kijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Abhi aapke paas kya aadha pada hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Wo niyam jo kaam shuru hone se pehle rok de #
“Ya to ekdum sahi, ya bilkul nahi.” Aadhe range kamre ko dekhte hue mann mein yahi chalta hai. Ya nauven din chhooti bhasha wali app par, ek chhoote hafte ke baad band pade gym par, ya us draft par jo bheja nahi gaya kyunki abhi theek nahi bana.
Ye oonche paimane jaisa lagta hai, aur log uski taareef bhi karte hain. Isiliye ye chhipa rehta hai: bahar se parwah dikhti hai, andar aksar atke hone ka ehsaas hota hai.
Abhi kya aadha pada hai, kisi drawer mein, kisi folder mein, kamre ke kisi kone mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Uske liye “aage badhne laayak achha” kab gina jayega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Jab sab kuch sahi nahi rehta, tab ka jhatka #
Kuch logon ko ye achanak girne jaisa lagta hai: koi silsila toota, pehli line mein galti hui, sketch bigad gaya. Taakat nikal jaati hai, kandhe jhuk jaate hain, aur ek dheemi awaaz kehti hai “bigad gaya sab.”
Kuch ke liye toota silsila toota hua plan hai, sab ya kuch nahi. Gym ka ek chhoota din poori aadat khatam kar sakta hai: is niyam mein “lagbhag” wali koi setting nahi, to chhoti chook bhi ant jaisi lagti hai.
Jis pal kuch perfect nahi rehta, aapki body kya karti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur use aage chalane ki chaah ka kya hota hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ye parwah jaisa lagta hai, isliye jaancha nahi jaata #
Cheezein achhe se karna chaahna ek asli taakat hai. Dikkat vaakya ke doosre hisse mein hai, “ya bilkul nahi”. Ye oonche paimane ko darwaaza bana deta hai: jo use paar na kar sake, wo shuru hi nahi hota, ya beech mein chhoot jaata hai.
Shuru karne ka matlab nausikhiya hona bhi hai, aur nausikhiya hone ka matlab kuch waqt cheezein kharab karna. Is niyam se jeene wale ke liye wo daur bahut bhaari ho sakta hai, aur kai kaam theek wahin ruk jaate hain jahan seekhna shuru hota.
Aapki zindagi mein “bilkul nahi” kahan jeeta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar “abhi ke liye kaafi achha” ki ijaazat hoti to us cheez ka kya hota?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo kehti hai, Monday se theek se #
“Jo theek se nahi ho sakta, use karna hi kyun.” “Ab kya faayda, bigaad chuke.” “Ab Monday se, theek se.” Awaaz samajhdaar lagti hai, zimmedaar bhi, aur aksar kisi chhoti chook ke theek baad sabse tez bolti hai.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki wo sabse sakht baatein beech ke hisse ke liye rakhti hai: course ke aadhe mein, aadat ke kuch hafte baad, teesre draft par. Shuruaat romanchak thi, ant door dikhta hai, aur awaaz theek usi khaai mein bolti hai.
“Monday se theek se” kehne wali ye awaaz kiski tarah sunayi deti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya ye aapka apna achhe kaam ka paimana hai, ya kuch purana?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Aksar ye kahan se shuru hota hai #
Kuch logon mein ye un barson mein ugta hai jab galtiyan bahut dikhti thin: laal nishaan, class mein padhkar sunaye gaye number, koi rishtedaar jisne lagbhag poore number wali copy mein wahi ek galat jawab pakda, koi teacher jo sirf bedaag taiyaar kaam ki taareef karta tha.
Aisa dekhne wala bachcha tay kar sakta hai ki koshish karke kam padte dikhne se behtar hai koshish hi na karna. Kuch log is niyam ko aise barson tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi, aur dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Kab pehli baar adhoori koshish koshish na karne se zyada buri lagi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us waqt kaun ya kya dekh raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Niyam ke neeche ka niyam #
Aksar is yaqeen ke neeche ek chupchaap baitha niyam hota hai: “Adhoori koshish mere baare mein kuch bura kehti hai,” ya “Galtiyan dikhati hain ki main iske laayak nahi.” Pehla vaakya kaam ke baare mein hai. Neeche wala niyam is baare mein hai ki kaam karne wale ke baare mein wo kya kehta hai.
Aise niyam tathya lagte hain, yaqeen nahi. Agar kabhi galtiyon par daant ya sharmindagi mili ho, to unse poori tarah bachna mehfooz rehne ka tareeka lag sakta hai, bhale kam karna pade, aur isiliye niyam tika rehta hai.
Kuch log ise bachpan tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi. Dono haal mein ise ek-ek kaam par dekha ja sakta hai.
Ye kin kamron mein ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
“Bilkul nahi” chupchaap kya chheenta hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai kone mein rakha guitar, paise dekar shuru kiya aur ruka hua course, notes app mein barson se pada business ka idea, flat jismein kabhi theek se base nahi kyunki furniture abhi sahi nahi, kisi purane dost ko na bheja gaya message.
Iska matlab wahan zaroorat se zyada karna bhi ho sakta hai jahan kuch chhoda nahi ja sakta: report ko bedaag banane ke liye der tak rukna, kisi ka hissa dobara karna, sabse zyada parwah karne wale bane rehna. Kuch log batate hain ki ek hi zindagi ke alag-alag konon mein wo atke bhi hain aur thake bhi.
Pichhle saal isne kya liya: pehli dagmagaahat par chhoota shauq, kisi ke saamne kabhi na seekha hua hunar, ya ek shaam jo pehle se theek cheez ko chamkane mein gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Kuch saal baad ka ek aam Tuesday #
Kuch saal baad ka ek aam Tuesday sochiye, us din ka jab “Ekdum sahi, ya bilkul nahi” zor se baj raha hai. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, sudhaarne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad lunch se pehle ek aur baar chamkaya gaya office ka draft, khuli ya band padi bhasha wali app, kone mein guitar, aadha ranga kamra, darwaaze ke paas gym ka bag. Shayad kisi cheez ko diye gaye das kacche minute. Bas din, jaisa chalta hai.
Yahan kisi cheez ko abhi jawab nahi chahiye, aur koi sahi cheez dekhne ko nahi.
Usmein kya hai: kaam, baatcheet, bina aazmayi cheezein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Tuesday ko dekhkar, agar kuch dikhe, to kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Bahut si achhi cheezein buri shuruaat se chalti hain #
Bahut se hunar aur kaam ek angadh daur se guzarte hain: pehle draft, pehle gaane, doston ke liye pakaye pehle pakwaan. Kuch logon ke liye wo daur is baat ka sanket nahi ki kuch galat chal raha hai. Wo raaste ka hissa hai.
Ek aur nazar: “Ho gaya” aur “perfect” do alag finish lines hain. Roz ki zindagi zyadatar “ho gaye” kaamon par chalti hai: jo mail nikal gayi, jo khaana kha liya gaya, jo kamra rehne mein aa gaya.
Atki hui ek cheez ka “abhi ke liye kaafi achha” roop kaisa dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Uske perfect roop ka kitna hissa use sachmuch chahiye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par log kya paate hain #
Gaur se dekhein to kuch log paate hain ki jinhein wo sabse zyada saraahte hain wo bedaag log nahi hain. Wo hain jo angadh beech ke raaste mein chalte rahe: wo dost jo guitar bura bajata hai par khush hokar, wo saathi jo kaccha draft sabke saath baantta hai.
Kuch ye bhi dekhte hain ki unka apna sabse achha kaam aksar kisi kacchi cheez se nikla jo baad mein sanwari, pehli line se perfect hokar nahi.
Kya niyam jis perfection ko maangta hai wo achhi cheezon ke asal mein bannne se mel khata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aaj jo cheez aapke liye aasaan hai, uski pehli koshishein asal mein kaisi thin?Is par baat kijiye ›
Tab aapko uski taraf wapas kya kheenchta raha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
“Lagbhag” ko bhi ginne dena #
Is yaqeen se sulah ka matlab paimane chhodna nahi. Kuch cheezein parwah aur saleeqe ki haqdaar hain. Matlab ye ki paimana chalne ki ek disha rahe, wo phatak nahi jo tay kare ki kuch hoga bhi ya nahi.
Kuch logon ko apne liye “lagbhag” wali setting rakhna halka lagta hai: aadat lagbhag nibh gayi, kamra lagbhag poora ho gaya, draft lagbhag theek bana. Kuch ke liye kaam isi tarah to hota hai.
Is hafte ek cheez ko lagbhag-poora rehne dena kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaun si adhoori cheez ko das angadh minute mil sakte hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
“Ya to ekdum sahi, ya bilkul nahi” se behas karne ki jagah kuch log paas mein ek sachchi line rakhte hain: “Kaccha sahi, shuruaat to hui, aur shuru hui cheez sanwar sakti hai.” Purane niyam se seedhi ladaai zaroori nahi.
Ye pehle sach na bhi lage. Bas itna kaafi hai ki ye purane se zyada sateek ho, aur kuch log paate hain ki pehli chook par keh diya jaye to project wahan chalta rehta hai jahan purana niyam use khatam kar deta.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo parwah rakhe aur “bilkul nahi” chhod de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kisi nayi cheez ke nauven din ye kaisa sunayi dega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Thake dinon mein cheezein phir bhi chhootti hain #
Thake dinon mein purana niyam laut sakta hai, aur kuch phir chhoot sakta hai. Ye soch ki purani aadat hai jo guzar rahi hai, aksar tab zyada zor se jab bachane ko taakat kam ho, aur ise bina updesh ke dekha ja sakta hai.
Kuch logon ko chhootne ko dekh lena, use naam de dena aur darwaaza khula rakhna madad karta hai: guitar kamre mein hi rahe, course radd nahi, ruka hua rahe. Cheezein beech se phir uthayi ja sakti hain.
Aaj shaam cheez ko rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek tha, ya sab tay hai. Bas itna ki aaj ki shaam use jaanchne mein nahi jaani chahiye.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar yaqeen zara dheela pade #
Bas ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye, niyam ek darja dheema. Cheezon mein ab bhi parwah hai, par “lagbhag” ko ginne ki ijaazat hai, aur kacchi shuruaat shuruaat hi kehlati hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: bura bajaya par maze se uthaya gaya guitar, waqt par bheja gaya draft, gym ka chhoota din aur uske baad ka aam din.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehna zaroori nahi. Jo bhi saamne aaye wo aapka hai, aur dekhne laayak hai. Theek se dekhna chahein to ek chat bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch cheezein jo logon ko kaam ki lagti hain #
- Ek atki cheez chuniye aur use das angadh minute dijiye, phir ruk jaiye
- Ek din chhoote to “Monday se phir shuru” ki jagah “kal wapas” kehkar dekhiye
- Ek cheez “kaafi achhe” par bhejiye, aur dekhiye asal mein kya hota hai
- Jab awaaz kahe ki sab bigad gaya, usse poochiye: kis cheez ke liye bigad gaya, theek-theek?
- Kisi aur ko ek chhota kaam uske apne tareeke se karne dijiye, aur nateeja dekhiye
Chhoti cheezein, sab vaikalpik. Jo ho paye wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.