Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Toke jaane se kamre mein ek khaali jagah bhi bachti hai.
Kuch logon mein ye khaane ki mez ya school ki class mein shuru hua, jahan ghar ka niyam tha ki ek waqt par ek hi bolega aur sab ant tak sunenge.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Mujhe kuch kehna hai to kehne ka mauka milna chahiye,” ya “Shareef log ant tak rukte hain.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Teen baar muh kholkar band kar dena
- Baat chat mein likh dena aur ummeed karna ki koi padh le
- Awaaz thodi oonchi kar lena, phir lehje par pachhtana
- Agli awaaz aane se pehle jaldi se baat keh dena
- Baat baad mein corridor ke liye rok lena
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
“Mujhe lagta hai agar hum...” kat gaya
Monday ki planning meeting, Chandigarh ke Sector 17 ka office. Aap der se mauka dhoondh rahe ho ki jo fix mila hai wo bata sakein. Shuru karte ho: “Mujhe lagta hai ki agar hum...” aur ek saathi aapke upar se zor se kisi aur baat par bol padta hai. Das minute baad phir koshish karte ho. Wahi. Aakhir mein fix notebook mein hi hai, aur aap garam chehre ke saath desk par lautte ho, ankahi baat lekar.
Koi aapki baat na kaate
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Meeting mein saathiyon ko meri baat nahi kaatni chahiye.” Ye buniyadi izzat jaisa lagta hai, aur kai maynon mein hai bhi. Par dekhiye ye aapke andar kya karta hai: aapki awaaz ko sabke adab par tika deta hai. Aapka idea suna jayega ya nahi, ab kamre ke sabse oonche bolne wale par hai, aur har meeting ek jagah ke liye ladaai ban jaati hai.
Suna jaana izzat kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki suna jaana izzat ka hissa hai. Shayad aapka bachpan aisi mez par beeta jahan sabse oonchi awaaz jeetti thi, aur aapne khud se vaada kiya ki kaam par aisa nahi hoga. Shayad aapko baari ka intezaar sikhaya gaya, aur ab bhi karte ho. Jo bhi ho, vaakya poora karne ki jagah chahna zyada samvedansheelta nahi. Ye apni soch ke gine jaane ki chaah hai. Ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Apni baat baar-baar dohrana
Har tokna thodi garmi chhod jaata hai. Aap doosron ke bolte waqt apni baat dohrane lagte ho, koodne ka mauka taakte hue, aur aadhi meeting aapke haath se nikal jaati hai. Aap chup ho jaate ho, ya apni aadat se oonche. Ghar ke raaste mein meeting phir chalate ho. Aapke sabse achhe idea notebook mein rehne lagte hain. Aur aapka chain is par tika reh jaata hai ki koi aur saans lene ko rukega ya nahi.
Kya mauke ke liye ladna theek hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: kya toke jaane ki taiyaari se wo kabhi ruka? Ya zyadatar meetingein jang-si lagne lagin? Kuch log aadat, ghabrahat ya josh mein sabke upar bolte hain; unke siva koi nahi jaanta ki kaun sa. Jo bhi ho, toka jaana aapke idea ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna, meeting dar meeting, deta kam hai, leta zyada.
Aapke idea ki keemat bani hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap bolne ki baari ke haqdaar nahi rahe. Matlab ye ki aapke idea ki keemat bani rehti hai, us kamre mein suna jaye ya nahi. Jo fix mila, wo aap jaante ho. Agli meeting mein aap shaant hokar ja sakte ho, ladaai ki taiyaari ke bina. Aapki soch kisi ke sunne se pehle bhi achhi thi. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: aapki awaaz aapki hai, koi bhi sabse ooncha bole.
If anyone at work threatens, harasses or humiliates you, or singles you out for who you are, that is something else, and worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMeeting mein saathiyon ko meri baat nahi kaatni chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMere idea ki keemat hai, koi beech mein toke tab bhi.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Meeting se pehle apna ek achha idea yaad kijiye
- Din 2
Koi toke to garmi ko pehchaniye aur dheere saans lijiye
- Din 3
Agar meeting sir mein dobara chale, to ek lambi saans lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kis meeting se aap ye mehsoos karte nikle ki sachmuch sune gaye, aur kyun?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Aadha vaakya, phir kisi aur ka #
Aap us baat ke doosre hisse tak pahunchte ho jo raaste bhar taiyaar ki thi, aur mez ke us paar se ek awaaz vaakya ko kahin aur le jaati hai, “Haan haan, wo toh theek hai, par...” Meeting aage badh jaati hai, aur uske baad ki chuppi mein khayal banta hai: “Meeting mein saathiyon ko meri baat nahi kaatni chahiye.”
Kuch logon ki chaah seedhi hoti hai: us mez par jahan faisle hote hain, ek baar apni baat poori kah paana. Ye chhoti lag sakti hai, aur phir bhi tay kar sakti hai ki agli meeting mein koi bolega ya nahi.
Aakhri baar meeting mein aapne kab vaakya poora kiya aur wo suna gaya, aur us kamre mein aisa kya tha jo kaam kar gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Seene mein ruki hui saans #
Kuch log dekhte hain ki vaakya katne par saans tham jaati hai, muskaan aadhi jam jaati hai, pad par pen ek baar thapthapaya jaata hai. Kuch ko gardan tak ek garam lehar uthti hai, jaise baat ko hi sharirik roop se toka gaya ho.
Kisi nateeje se pehle hi body darj kar leti hai: kandhe uth jaate hain, muh halka-sa khula reh jaata hai, haath wapas mez par gir jaata hai. “Bas baatcheet aise hi chalti hai” wali samajh aksar desk tak lautte waqt aati hai.
Pichhli baar jab aapka vaakya toka gaya, to aapne use sabse pehle kahan mehsoos kiya, ye tay karne se pehle ki kya jawab dein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Mez par ek awaaz ki chaah jaayaz hai #
Poori baat sune jaane ki ummeed rakhna theek hai. Meeting un ginti-chuni jagahon mein se hai jahan kaam milkar gadha jaata hai, aur apna khayal poora kah paana usmein shamil hone ka seedha tareeka hai.
Toke jaane se kamre mein ek khaali jagah bhi bachti hai. Adhoori kahi baat ko minutes mein doosra mauka nahi milta, aur jisne kahi thi wo adhoora hissa lekar bahar nikalta hai aur aksar poori dopahar usi ke baare mein sochta hai.
Sabse achhi meeting ke baare mein sochiye jismein aap rahe: kamre ne aisa kya kiya ki sabko apni baat poori karne ki jagah mili?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo vaakya baad mein poora karti hai #
“Meri baat mein dum tha.” “Mujhe ant tak pahunchne hi nahi diya.” “Agli baar jaldi bolna padega.” Ye awaaz meeting room se lautte waqt aati hai, aur soch ko behtar shabdon mein poora karti hai.
Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki awaaz aadhi baat ke baare mein hai aur aadhi is ehsaas ki chaah ke baare mein ki kamre mein unki maujoodgi ginti jaati hai. Use vaakya poora chahiye, bhale hi khaali corridor mein.
Jab awaaz baad mein aapka vaakya poora karti hai, to kaun se shabd istemaal karti hai, aur wo chahti hai ki kamra kya sunta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Vaakya poora karne ke haq ka khayal kahan se aaya #
Kuch logon mein ye khaane ki mez ya school ki class mein shuru hua, jahan ghar ka niyam tha ki ek waqt par ek hi bolega aur sab ant tak sunenge. Aisi aadat aage har kamre ke liye chupchaap paimana ban sakti hai.
Kuch mein ye ulte se aata hai: aisa ghar jahan jo sabse tez bola wahi suna gaya, aur ye faisla ki aise kamre chahiye jahan raftaar banti ho. Kai logon ke liye baari-baari bolna hi izzat jatane ka tareeka tha, “Pehle doosre ki baat poori sun liya karo.”
Vaakya ke ant tak aapki baat sabse pehle kisne suni, aur uske karne ke dhang mein aapko kya yaad hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Baari wala niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Mujhe kuch kehna hai to kehne ka mauka milna chahiye,” ya “Shareef log ant tak rukte hain.” Pehla vaakya wo hai jo sunayi deta hai; neeche ka niyam tay karta hai ki har tokne ko kaise padha jaye.
Baari ke niyam izzat se aate hain, jiski qadar honi chahiye. Inhein un asli kamron ke baghal mein rakhkar dekha ja sakta hai jahan aap kaam karte ho, jahan kuch group lagaataar ek saath bolte hain aur kuch dhyaan se baari dete hain.
Ye shayad purane saalon se aaya ho, ya naukri par bana ho.
Baari lene ka niyam aapki meetingon mein kahan aaj bhi theek baithta hai, aur kahan maan leta hai ki sab usi niyam se khelte hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Toka jaana ek timahi mein kya le jaata hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai ki sabse achha idea baad ke message ke liye rakh liya gaya, baithne ki jagah sabse tez awaaz se door chuni gayi, aur ek hi baat ke teen version taiyaar karke meeting mein jaane ki badhti aadat.
Mahinon mein bolna mehnat jaisa lagne lagta hai. Jo insaan pehle khulkar kehta tha, wo har vaakya ko kamre se taulne lagta hai, aur jo vichaar kahe nahi jaate wo plan mein nahi, notebook mein reh jaate hain.
Pichhle kuch mahinon mein kis meeting se aap ye mehsoos karte nikle ki aapki baat pahunchi, aur usmein alag kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Aadhe vaakya ke agle paanch saal #
Ek aam Monday ki meeting lijiye, us din ki jab “saathiyon ko meri baat nahi kaatni chahiye” zor se baj raha ho. Ye sirf dekhne ki ek tasveer hai.
Shayad aap teen baar vaakya shuru karte ho aur teesra adhoora reh jaata hai, chair aage badh jaata hai, aur baat chaar baje ke ek message mein chali jaati hai jiska chhota, bhala-sa jawab aata hai.
Yahan kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur ye tasveer jab chahein kinare rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya hai: agenda, aapki taiyaar ki hui baat, mez ke us paar ki awaaz, pen jo chalna band kar deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ismein aapko, agar kuch dikhe, to kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Meetingein alag-alag lay par chalti hain #
Kamre bolne ki baari alag-alag dhang se sambhalte hain. Kuch ek saath bolne ko josh samajhte hain, kuch beadabi, aur ek saath bolne ka wahi pal ek team mein apnapan aur doosri mein deewar jaisa lag sakta hai.
Alag-alag lay dekhne se kata hua vaakya aasaan nahi ho jaata, aur ye saabit nahi hota ki kuch chhoota nahi. Bas itna badhta hai ki meeting ko kitne dhang se padha ja sakta hai, ye bhi ki doosri kursi se kamra kaisa dikhta hoga.
Agar aap apni meetingon mein baari sambhalne ke dhang mein ek chhoti cheez badal sakte, to wo kya hoti, ek vaakya mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Wo pal jab kamre ne suna #
Tokne wale palon ke baghal mein kuch vaakya aise bhi honge jo poore hue: chair ne kaha “Inhein bolne dijiye,” ek saathi jo poore waqt sir hilata raha, ya baad ka ek sawaal jisse dikha ki kisi ne baat follow ki thi.
Inmein se ek ko pehchanne se kam toke jaane ki chaah wahin ki wahin rehti hai. Ek chaah jaayaz ho sakti hai aur ek narmi asli, ek hi hafte mein.
Aadha yaad aaya pal bhi chalega.
Aapki meetingon mein kaun aapko ant tak sunta hai, aur usmein se aap kya yaad rakhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Bina jeete apni jagah lena #
Sulah ka matlab ye nahi ki tokna theek tha, ya aapne bahut maanga. Matlab ye hai ki kata hua vaakya ghar tak peechha na kare. Jab zyadatar aapko, ya aap jaison ko, toka ya bahar kiya jaata hai, to wo ek pattern hai, dheeli ki jaane wali chaah nahi.
Agar office mein koi aapko dhamkaye, pareshaan kare, beizzat kare, ya aap kaun ho is wajah se alag nishana banaye (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability, ya kahan se ho), to wo ek alag baat hai, aur gambhirta se lene layak hai.
Yahi baat bina paise ke karaye gaye kaam, roki gayi tankhwah ya kaagazaat, asurakshit kaam aur darr lagne par bhi hai. Saath chalna ya saavdhan rehna surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Office mein buniyadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi, aapke liye bhi aur unke liye bhi.
Agli meeting ki kalpana kijiye jahan ye chaah zara dheeli pakdi gayi hai: pehla vaakya kya hai jo aap kehna chahenge, aur use taiyaar rakhna kaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Meeting room ke liye ek sachchi line #
“Meeting mein saathiyon ko meri baat nahi kaatni chahiye” ke baghal mein kuch log ye line rakhte hain: “Apni baat poori kehne ki chaah hai, aur meri baat sunne layak thi.” Ise purani line ko haraana nahi hai, bas uske paas khade hona hai.
Aisi line shuru mein udhaar ki lag sakti hai aur istemaal se jaani-pehchani ho jaati hai. Kuch logon ko apna seedha shabd zyada fit baithta hai, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo poora kehne ki chaah ko imaandaari se maane, par awaaz ko kamre par nirbhar na hone de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Adhoora vaakya aaram kar sakta hai #
Har toki hui baat ko Friday tak poora karna zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur notebook mein rakha ja sakta hai, jaise kone se muda hua page, wahin, padhe jaane ka taqaza kiye bina.
Sune jaane ki chaah jab tak chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Isme dhamki, pareshaan karna, beizzati, aapki pehchan par nishana, bina paise ka kaam, roki gayi tankhwah ya kaagazaat, asurakshit kaam aur darr shamil nahi hain. Ye gambhirta se lene layak hain, aur saavdhan rehna surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Shaam ke liye page modne ka matlab ye nahi ki tokna theek tha, ya baat tay ho gayi. Bas itna ki aaj raat faisle ki zaroorat nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar pakad ek darja dheeli ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ummeed ek darja dheemi hai. Poora kehne ki chaah ab bhi hai, par mukhya baat aapke pad par likhi hai, jahan wo dono haal mein aapki hai, aur meeting aage badh sakti hai.
Kuch maamooli ho sakta hai, jaise meeting room se saamanya raftaar se lautna, apne sir mein ek vaakya ka maza lena, ya meetingon ke beech ka break kisi aur cheez par bitana.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai. Aage: is chaah se sulah kaisi dikh sakti hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti baat kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein, agar achhi lagein #
- Meeting se pehle mukhya baat apne liye mann mein rakh lijiye
- Aaj ka ek vaakya dekhiye jo aapne poora kiya
- Aise kamre ki tasveer banaiye jahan bolne ki baari mez ke chaaron or dheere se ghoomti hai
- Jab aisa ho to ehsaas ko ek shabd dijiye
- Dekhiye kaun zyada tez hai, toka jaana ya khoyi hui baat
Chhote, nijee aur apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kis meeting se aap ye mehsoos karte nikle ki sachmuch sune gaye, aur kyun?
- Kab kisi saathi ne aapka poora vaakya suna?
- Achhi meeting mein baari kaise sambhali jaati hai, ye aapko sabse pehle kisne sikhaya?
- Agar vaakya poore karne ki chaah thodi halki ho, to aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?
- Aapke kaamkaaji hafte mein aapki awaaz ka swagat pehle se kahan hai, jise aap zyada notice karna chahenge?