Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jab phal gayab hota hai, to lag sakta hai ki khel ke niyam bina bataye badal gaye.
Humein se kuch ke liye ye us maa-baap se shuru hua jo lambe ghante kaam karte the aur kehte the, “Khoob padho, padhaai aage le jaati hai.”
Is khayal ke peeche aksar ek niyam hota hai: “Agar main kaafi mehnat karoon, to achha hoga,” ya “Nateeje unhein milte hain jo uske haqdaar hain.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Aur zyada mehnat karna, taaki agla nateeja jhuthlaya na ja sake
- Itni koshish chhod dena, kyunki wo ginti nahi dikhti
- Har ghante ki tulna usse karna jo kam karta dikhta hai
- Raat ko sochte rehna ki alag kya ho sakta tha
- Khud se kehna ki agli baar ummeed mat rakhna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Paanch saal subah-subah nikalna
Paanch saal subah jaldi nikalna, raat der se lautna. Har extra kaam uthaya, shaamon ko padha, chhuttiyan chhodin. Is saal ek naye saathi ko, jo aadhi mehnat karta dikhta hai, wo post mil gayi jo aap chahte the. Aap muskurakar badhai dete ho, par Dehradun jaati shuttle ki khidki mein apna thaka-sa chehra dekhkar mann mein aata hai: “Aakhir ye sab kisliye?”
Mehnat ka phal milna chahiye
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Mehnat ka phal milna chahiye.” Ye bade hone ka buniyaadi sauda lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapka chain un nateejon se baandh deta hai jo sirf mehnat par nahi tike. Aapki mehnat saarthak lage ya nahi, ye waqt, ittefaaq aur doosron ke faislon par tik gaya, aksar un kamron mein jo aap kabhi nahi dekhte.
Humein bataya gaya: mehnat rang laati hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki humein bataya gaya ki mehnat rang laati hai. Shayad aapne kisi apne ko bahut mehnat karte dekha aur chaha ki aapke liye alag ho. Shayad mehnat hi wo ek cheez thi jo hamesha aapke haath mein thi. Mehnat ka phal chaahna naadani nahi. Ye insaaf aur maayne chaahne se aata hai. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Mehnat jo bhaari lagne lagi
Har bina-phal saal ke saath mehnat bhaari lagti hai. Aap shak karne lagte ho ki mehnat karna saarthak hai bhi ya nahi. Un logon par kadvaahat hoti hai jo kam mein guzaara karte dikhte hain. Aap aur zor lagate ho aur aur thakte ho. Dheere-dheere mehnat aisa qarz lagne lagti hai jo koi nahi chukata, aur mehnat karne par jo garv tha wo chala jaata hai.
Kya phal is bojh ke layak hai?
Imaandaari se khud se poochiye: kya is sauda ko thaame rakhne se phal kabhi aaya? Ya zyadatar kaam bhaari hua? Mehnat bahut maayne rakhti hai, par nateeje kai aisi cheezon par tike hain jo kisi ke haath mein nahi. Ek chhoota post aapke kaam ki keemat ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna deta kam, leta zyada hai.
Mehnat jiski apni keemat hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki mehnat karna chhod dein. Matlab ye ki uski keemat ka ehsaas phal par na tike. Aapko pata hai ki aapne kya seekha aur kya banaya. Mehnat par garv ho sakta hai, zaroorat par aaram ho sakta hai, aur nateeje waise reh sakte hain jaise hain. Yahin thoda chain lautta hai: kaam phir aapka ho jaata hai, bhavishya par lagaya daanv nahi.
Being treated unfairly, unpaid work, being worn out for weeks, or being frightened by anyone is a different matter, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMehnat ka phal milna chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMeri mehnat ki keemat hai, nateeja jo bhi aaye.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Teen cheezein sochiye jo aapki mehnat ne sikhayin
- Din 2
Ek shaam bina guilt ke aaram kijiye
- Din 3
Ek aisi cheez par dhyaan dijiye jo aapne banayi aur jis par garv hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aapke kis kaam par aapko sabse zyada garv hai, wo jahan bhi le gaya ho?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Do saal ki raat-raat ki mehnat, aur khabar kisi aur ko #
Do saal subah jaldi nikalna aur raat der se lautna. Chhutti ke din bhi laptop khula. Phir elaan aata hai, aur wo post, jagah ya nateeja us insaan ko mil jaata hai jo aaram se chalta dikha. Line bhaari hokar girti hai: “Mehnat ka phal milna chahiye.”
Ye wo exam ho sakta hai jahan ghanton ki padhaai ko kharab paper mila, wo dukaan jo jaldi khulti hai, der se band hoti hai aur phir bhi tang chalti hai, ya wo job jahan extra mehnat gayab hoti dikhti hai. Mehnat sachchi thi. Phal nahi aaya. Kabhi log kehte bhi hain: “Itni mehnat ki, phir bhi?”
Aapki mehnat kab aise rang laayi jo sahi laga, aur jab aisa hua to kaisa laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Ek dhakka, aur phir ginti shuru #
Kuch logon ko khabar lagte hi seene mein bhaari giraavat lagti hai, jaise lift bahut tezi se neeche jaye. Kuch bahar se bilkul shaant aur sthir ho jaate hain, jabki bheetar kuch tapne lagta hai.
Bahut jaldi mann ginna shuru kar deta hai: ghante, chhuttiyan, jo-jo chhoot gaya. Ye ginti anyaay saabit karne ka tareeka lag sakti hai, khud ke saamne bhi.
Pichhli baar jab mehnat se wo nahi mila jiski aas thi, to sabse pehle kya mehsoos hua, aur mann ne kya karna shuru kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Mehnat ka kuch matlab hona chahiye #
Ye ummeed sabse swabhavik ummeedon mein hai. Mehnat mein waqt lagta hai, neend lagti hai, aur bhi achhi cheezein lagti hain. Chaahna ki ye keemat kahin pahunche, samajh mein aata hai, aur zindagi ki kai achhi cheezein sachmuch lagaatar mehnat se aati hain.
Jab phal gayab hota hai, to lag sakta hai ki khel ke niyam bina bataye badal gaye. Ye sirf nirasha nahi. Ye us poori tasveer ko hila sakta hai ki zindagi kaise chalti hai aur kisme lagna saarthak hai.
Jin aam dinon mein sab sahi chalta hai, un dinon mein mehnat aapko kya deti hai, kisi nateeje ya inaam ke alaawa?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Mehnat ka hisaab lagane wali awaaz #
“Itna sab lagane ke baad.” “Usne to theek se koshish bhi nahi ki.” “Wo saare ghante gaye kahan?” Ye awaaz kisi shikayat wale munim jaisi lagti hai, ghante jodti hai aur paati hai ki kul nahi baithta.
Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki awaaz kaam par bhi palat jaati hai, beeti mehnat ko bevakoofi jaisa dikhati hai. Yahi sabse dardnaak hissa ho sakta hai: phal ka na milna nahi, jo kiya tha us par garv ka chala jaana.
Jab awaaz aapki mehnat ka jod lagati hai, to jod mein kya chhod deti hai jise aap ginti hua dekhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Mehnat wala niyam kahan se aaya #
Humein se kuch ke liye ye us maa-baap se shuru hua jo lambe ghante kaam karte the aur kehte the, “Khoob padho, padhaai aage le jaati hai.” Kuch ke liye ye school tha, jahan jisne sabse zyada dohraya use number mile, aur mehnat aur nateeje ke beech saaf rishta ban gaya.
Kai gharon aur schoolon mein ye pyaar se sikhaya jaata hai, bachchon ko ummeed aur raasta dene ke liye. Kahin exam ke baare mein, kahin karobaar ke, kahin kaam ke liye videsh jaane ke. Shabd badalte hain; vaada ek-sa sunayi deta hai. School ki kitaab tak mein likha hai: “Mehnat ka phal meetha hota hai.”
Aapko sabse pehle kisne kaha ki mehnat rang laati hai, aur wo ummeed karte the ki ek din isse aapko kya milega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Mehnat aur phal ka niyam #
Is khayal ke peeche aksar ek niyam hota hai: “Agar main kaafi mehnat karoon, to achha hoga,” ya “Nateeje unhein milte hain jo uske haqdaar hain.” Ye ummeed bhara niyam hai. Isse har jhatka toote vaade jaisa, ya is baat ke saboot jaisa lagta hai ki mehnat kaafi nahi thi.
Kuch log ise shuru ke barson se jodte hain; kuch kisi badi jeet se jo ise sahi saabit karti lagi. Dono haal mein ise dekha ja sakta hai, mehnat ki keemat phenke bina.
Ye niyam aapko taakat aur maqsad kahan deta hai, aur kahan har nateeje ko aapki mehnat par faisla bana deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Phal na milne ki keemat #
Kabhi ye aaram ki keemat hoti hai: agla nateeja pakka karne ke liye aur chhuttiyan qurbaan. Kabhi khushi ki: jo kaam achha lagta tha, ab aise daanv jaisa lagta hai jisme baar-baar haar ho rahi hai.
Mahinon mein kuch log dekhte hain ki jeet ka bhi maza nahi aata, kyunki har jeet mehnat ke aage der se aayi ya chhoti lagti hai. Kaam ki jagah scoreboard le leta hai.
Aapke kaam ka kaun sa hissa apne aap mein achha lagta tha, aur wo ehsaas aakhri baar kab hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Laptop par teesra Sunday #
Ek aam Sunday mein jhaankiye jab “mehnat ka phal milna chahiye” zor se baj rahi ho. Mez par laptop, to-do list, phone par doosron ki post. Ise waise dekhiye jaise koi tasveer dekhta hai.
Shayad ye lagaatar teesre Sunday ka der tak kaam hai, phir ye dekhna ki doosre kahan pahunche, phir thoda aur kaam. Shayad kisi dost ka phone bajta raha, utha nahi.
Ye bas ek din hai, bhavishyavaani nahi, aur jab chahein band kiya ja sakta hai.
Us Sunday mein aur kya bhara hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Dekhte hue aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Mehnat aur phal jude hain, par dheele-dhaale #
Mehnat madad zaroor karti hai. Par nateeje waqt, ittefaaq, faisla kiska hai, kitno ne arzi di, aur un cheezon par bhi tike hote hain jo koi dekh nahi sakta. Do log barabar mehnat karke bahut alag jagah pahunch sakte hain.
Isse aapki mehnat chhoti nahi hoti, aur ye nahi ki jhatka aapne kamaya tha. Bas itna ki kaam aur phal ke beech rishta sachcha hai par dheela, mausam jaisa zyada, vending machine jaisa kam.
Aapki zindagi ka koi ek nateeja jo aasaani se aaya, usmein mehnat ke alaawa kis cheez ne saath diya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Kaam ne pehle hi kya diya #
Bada phal na mila ho, tab bhi kaam peeche kuch chhod jaata hai: ek hunar jo ab aapke paas hai, ek saathi jisne aapka kaam dekha, ek thehraav jo pehle nahi tha, ek bhare hue din ki achhi thakaan.
Akele ye aas ke phal ki jagah nahi lete. Ye bas wahan bhi hain, aur jab kami zyada shor kare to inhein andekha karna aasaan hai.
Aapki mehnat ne chupchaap kya diya hai jo koi elaan chheen nahi sakta, aur use aakhri baar kab dekha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Wo kaam jo aapka rahe, jo bhi aaye #
Yahan sulah ka matlab ye maan lena nahi ki mehnat ginti nahi jaati. Chaahna ki kaam kahin pahunche, jaayaz hai. Matlab ye ki ek chhoota phal ye tay karna band kar de ki kaam ki, ya aapki, koi keemat thi ya nahi.
Insaaf, izzat aur hifaazat chaahna kabhi zyada nahi. Nazarandaaz hona ki aap kaun ho, bina mehnatane ka kaam, ya hafton ki thakaan dene wale ghante, ye alag baatein hain, aur gambhirta se lena zaroori hai. Jhatka iska saboot nahi ki aapne use kamaya. Sab bhaari lage to koi bharosemand insaan sun sakta hai.
Ek aam kaam ke din ki kalpana kijiye, is ummeed ko thoda dheela pakadkar: aap achha kaam karte ho, samajhdaari ke waqt par rukte ho, aur shaam ka kya karte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Der shaam ke liye ek line #
“Mehnat ka phal milna chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log doosri line rakhte hain: “Mehnat mere liye maayne rakhti hai, isiliye karna theek lagta hai, aur nateeja usse milne wali akeli cheez nahi.” Ise pehli line ko haraana nahi hai. Bas saath khadi rehti hai.
Buri khabar wale din ye bahut shaant lag sakti hai. Kuch logon ko apni koi line zyada jamti hai, shayad wo jo dadi kehti thin.
Aapki apni sachchi line kya hogi, jo mehnat par aapka garv rakhe aur scoreboard ki pakad dheeli kare?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Aaj raat ke liye scoreboard band ho sakta hai #
Har chhoote phal ka poora hisaab aaj raat hi zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai aur rakh diya ja sakta hai, jaise kaam ka bag darwaze ke paas rakha ho, kal ke liye taiyaar, par kandhe par nahi.
Mehnat ke phal ki chaah aapki reh sakti hai. Saath bura bartaav hona, bina mehnatane ka kaam, ya hafton ki thakaan alag baat hai, aur gambhirta se lena zaroori hai.
Aaj raat ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki nateeja sahi tha, aur sawaal band nahi hota. Bas itna ki aaj ki raat aaram ho sakti hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar scoreboard zara shaant ho jaye #
Wahi kaam sochiye, par ummeed thodi neeche. Aap wahi ghante kaam karte ho jo aapne chune, unhein achhe se karte ho, aur din ka kaam poora hone par ruk jaate ho.
Shayad bas chhoti cheezein: khaane se pehle tehalna, kisi dost ka phone uthana, ek poore hue kaam par shaant garv.
Ye tasveer kisi aur ko dikhane ki zaroorat nahi. Aage: is ummeed se sulah par ek aur nazar, aur jo pehle se aapke paas hai us par.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Inmein se kaun si aapko sabse zyada apni lagti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti nijee cheezein #
- Is hafte ke ek kaam par dhyaan dijiye jo achha laga, nateeja chahe jo raha
- Jab koi nateeja nirash kare, to ehsaas ko ek shabd mein naam dijiye
- Koi ek achhi cheez sochiye jo bina mehnat kiye aapke hisse aayi
- Kisi ek shaam kaam band karne ka waqt tay kijiye, aur use nibhaiye
- Dekhiye ki chubhan nateeje ki hai ya na dikhne ki
Kaam aaye to ek lijiye. Har ek apni marzi se.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aapke kis kaam par aapko sabse zyada garv hai, wo jahan bhi le gaya ho?
- Aapko mehnat ke baare mein kisne sikhaya, aur unhein apne kaam mein kya achha lagta tha?
- Mehnat kab hairaan karne wale dhang se, barson baad rang laayi?
- Agar nateeje aapke liye thode kam maayne rakhte, to shaamein kaise beetatin?
- Aapki mehnat ne pehle hi kya banaya hai jiska aap aur maza lena chahenge?