Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye isliye chubhta hai ki aalsi kehlana ek sawaal-patra ke baare mein nahi, swabhaav ke baare mein hai.
Kuch log paate hain ki iski shuruaat kisi teacher ya dada-nana se hui jo mehnat ki taareef karte the: “Dekha, kitni mehnat ki hai isme.”
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Agar main mehnat karoon toh dikhni chahiye,” ya “Achha tutor bata deta hai ki kaun koshish kar raha hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Koshish chhod dena, kyunki wo waise bhi ginee nahi jaati
- Sab kuch theek-thaak karne ko raat der tak jaagna
- Safai par safai dena, aur use bahane jaisa sunte jaana
- Dost ke jawab utaar lena taaki panna poora dikhe
- Session se pehle poori dopahar pet mein gaanth mehsoos karna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Aadhi raat ke baad tak question paper
Prayagraj, Tuesday ka tutorial. Aadhi raat ke baad tak question paper par mehnat chali. Sir ne use dekha, teen galtiyan batayi, aur kaha, “Aur mehnat karni hogi.” Kuch kehne ko munh khulta hai, phir band ho jaata hai. Bahar nikalte hue aankhein chubhti hain, aur jo ghante lage wo achanak adrishya lagte hain. Ehsaas ummeed se der tak rehta hai.
Tutor ko koshish dikhni chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Mere tutor ko meri koshish dikhni chahiye.” Ye poori tarah vaajib lagta hai. Bahut log ise bina soche jeete hain. Mehnat dekhe jaane layak hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: koshish tab tak ginti ki nahi lagti jab tak koi aur pakka na kar de. Galtiyon par har tippani mehnat par faisla ban jaati hai, aur lagaye ghante bekaar lagne lagte hain.
Koshish dikhna kyun maayne rakhta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki mehnat ke liye dekha jaana samjhe jaane jaisa lagta hai. Bahut se log aisa niyam lekar bade hote hain. Shayad mehnat toh barabar ki, bhale nateeje dheeme aaye. Shayad bachpan mein mehnat ki taareef hui. Jo bhi ho, mehnat ka dekha jaana chahna zaroorat-mand hona nahi. Ye chaah ki kaam ginaa jaye, yahan se aati hai, aur ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Har sudhaar ki chubhan
Galtiyon par har tippani zaroorat se zyada chubhti hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par mehsoos hota hai. Dheere-dheere sab judta jaata hai. Kaam ka hisaab dikhana band ho jaata hai. Tutorial se pehle himmat toot-ti hai. Sawaal uthta hai ki itna sir kyun khapaya jaye. Jis subject par itni mehnat hui wo namumkin lagne lagta hai, aur der raatein aise bekaar waqt jaisi jo lautaya nahi ja sakta.
Kya dikhne ka intezaar iske layak hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya tutor ke dekhne ka intezaar karne se kaam kabhi aasaan hua? Ya zyadatar galtiyan aur chubhi? Tutor aksar seedhe usi par nazar daalte hain jo sudharna hai, aur jo theek gaya use kehna bhool jaate hain. Chahein toh is par ek pal rukiye. Jo bhi ho, unki tippani aapki mehnat ka paimana nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar thamna iski keemat ke layak hai?
Sudhaar bas madad bhi ho sakte hain
Chhodne ka matlab ye maan lena nahi ki mehnat maayne nahi rakhti. Matlab ye ki aapki mehnat ko ginee jaane ke liye unki nazar zaroori nahi. Wo der raatein aapko pata hain. Apni pragati qadam-dar-qadam dekhi ja sakti hai. Iske liye kuch aur badalna pehle zaroori nahi. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: sudhaaron ko madad ki tarah liya ja sakta hai, aur mehnat par garv bana reh sakta hai.
A tutor who messages you privately in a personal way, gives you gifts, asks you to keep secrets or meet alone, or frightens you, is something else; that is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMere tutor ko meri koshish dikhni chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMujhe apni koshish pata hai. Sudhaar bas madad bhi ho sakte hain.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Is hafte ki ek behtar baat khud ko bataiye
- Din 2
Ek sudhaar ko faisla nahi, madad ki tarah padhiye
- Din 3
Lambe padhai session ke baad bina glaani ke aaram kijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Nateeje aane se pehle kisne aapki mehnat dekhi, aur kya kaha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
“Kya ise dekha bhi tha?” #
Office ke baad do shaamein us question paper par lagi. Aadha ab bhi samajh nahi aaya. Prayagraj ke coaching hall mein baithne se pehle hi Sir copy par nazar daalkar kehte hain, “Kya ise dekha bhi tha?” Bag bahut bhaari lagta hai. Mann mein aata hai: “Mere tutor ko meri koshish dikhni chahiye.”
Kuch logon ke liye baat zyadatar iski hai ki nateeje ke saath mehnat bhi ginee jaye. Jee-jaan se koshish karke bhi na samajh paana sabse thakane wale ehsaason mein hai, aur upar se sunna ki koshish hi nahi ki, use dugna bhaari kar deta hai.
Koi aisa pal yaad kijiye jab kisi ne kaam hone se pehle hi aapki koshish dekh li ho.
Usne kya kaha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Bhaari bag, garm chehra #
Kuch logon ka chehra garm ho jaata hai jab mehnat ko aalas samajh liya jaye. Kuch ko gale mein gaanth lagti hai, ya safai dene ki aisi achanak ichha jo aadhe raaste mein atak jaati hai.
Sharir aksar mann se pehle jawab deta hai: kandhe jhuk jaate hain, nazar farsh par chali jaati hai, qalam baar-baar khatkhatayi jaati hai. Jo shabd kehne the wo aksar ghar lautte hue raaste mein aate hain.
Pichhli baar jab kisi ne kaha ki koshish nahi ki, jabki ki thi, toh us pehle pal mein sharir ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Koshish asli hai, bhale nateeja na dikhe #
Apni mehnat ko dekha jaana chahna aasaani se samajh aata hai. Seekhna bahar se bahut der tak kuch nahi jaisa dikhta hai: ghanton koshish, atak jaana, phir koshish. Phir ek din achanak baat baith jaati hai.
Ye isliye chubhta hai ki aalsi kehlana ek sawaal-patra ke baare mein nahi, swabhaav ke baare mein hai. Jab sikhane wale koshish nahi dekhte, toh aisa lag sakta hai ki koshish ki koi ginti hi nahi.
Ek aam shaam mein aapki koshish asal mein kaisi dikhti hai, wo hissa jo aur koi nahi dekhta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo “aalsi” shabd udhaar le leti hai #
“Shayad main aalsi hoon.” “Koshish koi dekhe hi nahi toh fayda kya?” “Mujhse ye hoga hi nahi.” Kuch log paate hain ki teacher ke shabd dheere-dheere apne sar ki awaaz ban jaate hain.
Wo awaaz poora sach nahi hai. Wo ek thake hue, vyast tutor ki ek tippani hai, itni baar dohrayi gayi ki tathya lagne lagi. Jo shaamein koshish mein gayi, wo bhi utni hi asli hain jitni wo tippani.
Jab udhaar li awaaz “aalsi” kehti hai, toh un shaamon ka jawab kya hoga jo sach mein koshish mein gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Mehnat dikhne ki chaah kahan se aayi #
Kuch log paate hain ki iski shuruaat kisi teacher ya dada-nana se hui jo mehnat ki taareef karte the: “Dekha, kitni mehnat ki hai isme.” Ek baar aisi nazar mil jaye toh uski kami chubhti hai.
Kisi aur mein ye saalon se “Aur mehnat karo” ya “Bahane mat banao” sunte rehne se aati hai, bina kisi ke poochhe ki asal mein raaste mein kya tha. Isse ek mazboot chaah reh jaati hai ki koi toh aakhirkaar dekh le.
Zindagi mein kisne aapki mehnat dekhi, nateeje aane se pehle hi, aur kya kaha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Koshish aur dikhne ka niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Agar main mehnat karoon toh dikhni chahiye,” ya “Achha tutor bata deta hai ki kaun koshish kar raha hai.” Pehli ummeed vaajib hai. Doosri kehne se mushkil hai: tutor aksar bas panna dekhte hain, uske peeche ki shaam nahi.
Mehnat har baar sahi jawabon mein nahi dikhti. Wo ek sawaal mein dikh sakti hai, kati hui koshish mein, adhoore panne mein. Ye bhi ginee jaate hain, bhale koi na gine.
Mehnat dikhne wala niyam kahan se aaya, aur aapki mehnat aisi kaisi dikhti hai jo worksheet nahi dikha sakti?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Andekhi koshish kya chheen sakti hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai har session se pehle gaanth, kisi subject se mann uchat jaana, ya apne baare mein “aalsi” shabd maanne lagna. Ek term mein isse seekhna ladai jaisa lag sakta hai.
Isse koshish andekhi bhi lag sakti hai, jo chupchaap us maze ka kuch hissa le jaati hai jisse seekhna hota hai.
Pichhle kuch hafton mein kis kaam par jee-jaan lagayi, aur nateeja jo bhi raha, usse kya seekha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Aur bhi shaamein jo koi nahi dekhta #
Yahan dekhne ke liye ek drishya hai, koi poorvanumaan nahi. Kuch waqt baad do aur shaamon ki mehnat ke baad session mein jaana hota hai, aur phir sunna padta hai, “Kya ise dekha bhi tha?”
Shayad ghar ka chup raasta, jaldi band ki gayi kitaab, ye khayal ki koshish ginee hi nahi jaati, phone par lambi shaam.
Aage kya hoga, koi nahi keh sakta; ye bas ek tasveer hai, jab chahein rakh dijiye.
Us din ka baaki hissa kaisa hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isme kya khaas dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Tutor panna dekhte hain, shaam nahi #
Tutor wahi dekhte hain jo panne par hai, aksar jaldi mein, ek student se doosre tak. Wo do shaamein, kati hui koshishein, do baar dekha video unhein nahi dikhta. Ye unki nazar ki kami hai, aapki mehnat ki nahi.
Isse tippani jaayaz nahi ho jaati, aur mehnat dikhna chahna vaajib hai. Shayad tippani panne ke baare mein thi, insaan ke baare mein nahi.
Agar mehnat aise dikhayi ja sake ki tutor ki nazar pade, toh wo panne par kaisi dikhegi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Apni koshish, khud ki nazar se #
Kuch cheezein pehle se ginee jaati hain, koi dekhe ya na dekhe: wo hisse jo samajh aa gaye, saath padhne wala dost, ghar mein koi jo jaanta hai ki raat kitni der batti jali rahi, aur samajhne ki apni zid.
Tippani ab bhi anuchit lage toh theek hai; tutor chahe ki mehnat dikhe, ye ummeed vaajib rehti hai. Phir bhi wo mehnat apni nazar ke liye hai.
Mushkil dinon mein bhi apni koshish kya deti hai, jise aur gaur se dekha jaye toh achha lage?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Koshish andekhi ho, tab bhi ginee jaati hai #
Sulah ka matlab ye maan lena nahi ki tutor sahi the. Koshish apni jagah ginee jaati hai, unke ek shabd ke saath ya bina. Agar padhai ka bojh itna hai ki din bahut bhaari lagein, toh wo is card se zyada ka haqdaar hai.
Jo tutor nijee aur vyaktigat dhang se message kare, tohfe de, raaz rakhne ko kahe ya akele milne ko bulaye, ya kisi cheez ke badle number ya madad ki peshkash kare, wo is ummeed wala dhyaan nahi hai; use gambheerta se lena zaroori hai, aur kisi bharosemand insaan ko sunne dijiye.
Agar numbers ya padhai ko lekar ghar par dar hai, ya wahan koi chot pahunchata ya sharminda karta hai, toh wo is ummeed se alag hai; use gambheerta se lijiye, aur kisi bharosemand insaan ko sunne dijiye. Galat dhang se chhua jaana, mazaak udaya jaana, ya alag kiya jaana bhi waisa hi hai.
Seekhne mein buniyadi izzat aur hifaazat maangna “zyada ummeed” nahi hai, aapke liye bhi aur har student ke liye bhi.
Agli baar kaam ka kaun sa hissa lekar garv se jaane ka mann hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Tutorial wale dinon ke liye ek line #
“Mere tutor ko meri koshish dikhni chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log rakhte hain: “Koshish ho rahi hai, bhale abhi dikh na rahi ho.” Pehli line vaajib rehti hai. Doosri pakka karti hai ki kam se kam ek insaan ko koshish dikhe: aapko.
Khud se kehna ajeeb lag sakta hai. Kuch log ise chhota karke “Koshish ginee jaati hai” kar lete hain. Kuch waqt ke saath apne shabd paa lete hain.
Apni sachchi line kya hogi, jo dikhne ki ummeed bhi rakhe aur koshish ko phir bhi gine?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Worksheet aaj raat aaram kar sakti hai #
Har chubhti tippani aaj raat dohrani zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur worksheet ke saath folder mein chhoda ja sakta hai.
Dikhne ki chaah reh sakti hai. Tutor ke nijee message, tohfe, raaz, akele milne ka dabaav, kisi cheez ke badle number ki peshkash, galat dhang se chhua jaana, mazaak udaya jaana, alag kiya jaana, ya padhai ko lekar ghar par dar: wo alag baat hai, kisi bharosemand insaan ko sunne dijiye.
Ise wahin chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki tippani theek thi. Matlab ye ki aaj ki raat aaram ki ho sakti hai.
Iske saath kya karne ka mann hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar tippani zara halki pade #
Ab wahi din sochiye, ummeed ek paaydaan neeche. Andar jaana is jaankari ke saath hota hai ki kaun sa hissa kiya, aur usmein kya laga.
Kuch logon ke liye ye sir oonchha rakhkar andar jaana hai. Kisi aur ke liye ghar lautkar thoda aur kar lena, kyunki mann hai, kisi ko saabit karne ke liye nahi.
Jo bhi ubhra wo apne paas rakhne ke liye hai. Aage: is ummeed se sulah par ek nazar, aur us par jo pehle se maujood hai.
Kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kya dikh sakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Aaj ki ek cheez par gaur kijiye jo aazmayi, bhale chali na ho
- Kisi aise insaan ko yaad kijiye jisne aapki mehnat dekhi thi, aur usne kya kaha
- Dekhiye kab awaaz “aalsi” shabd udhaar leti hai
- Apni do shaamon ki mehnat ko asli maniye, kyunki wo asli thi
- Worksheet ka wo ek hissa chupchaap naam dijiye jo samajh aaya tha
Nijee, chhoti aur optional. Ek kaafi hai.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Nateeje aane se pehle kisne aapki mehnat dekhi, aur kya kaha?
- Kis subject ya hunar par jee-jaan se mehnat ki aur usmein sudhaar aaya?
- Ek aam shaam mein aapki koshish kaisi dikhti hai?
- Agar aalsi kahe jaane ki chubhan zara kam ho, toh sabse pehle kya dikhega?
- Apni mehnat aapko pehle se kya deti hai, koi dekhe ya na dekhe?