Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Bahar se aana dikhta bhi zyada hai aur achanak bhi, isliye use bayaan ki tarah padhna aasaan hai.
Kuch logon ke liye ye pehli job se shuru hui, jahan peon clerk bana, clerk sahab bana aur sabko uski kahani pata thi.
Andar kahin ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Jo company apne logon ki qadar karti hai, wo jagahein andar se bharti hai,” ya “Agla kadam uska hai jisne yahan kamaya hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Naye shakhs ki bio ko aise padhna ki pata chale ki kya kami thi
- Chupchaap aur aage badhkar kaam karna, is aas mein ki kisi ki nazar pade
- Lunch par sabke saath aah bharna, aur phir waisa hi mehsoos karna
- Agle paanch saal mann mein phir se kheenchna
- Thoda peeche hat jaana, taaki agli baar kam chot lage
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Wo pad jo bahar wale ko gaya
Indore mein jis team-lead ki jagah ke liye aap barson se mehnat kar rahe the, wo bahar ke kisi ko mil gayi. Aapko elaan wale mail se pata chalta hai, baaqi sabki tarah. Paanch saal ho gaye, clients ko naam se jaante hain, aadhi team ko aapne sikhaya hai. Chat mein hanste chehre ke saath “Badhai ho” likhte hain, phir screen ko ghoorte hue bilkul shaant baith jaate hain, peeche chhoot jaane ke ehsaas ke saath.
Wafadaar logon ko aage badhna chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Meri company ko andar walon ko hi aage badhana chahiye.” Ye insaaf wala lagta hai, wafadaari aur jaankari ki ginti honi chahiye. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: tarakki ka aapka ehsaas ek aise faisle se bandh jaata hai jo aapke haath mein nahi. Yahan ke aapke saal saarthak lagenge ya nahi, ye un logon ke ek chunaav par tik jaata hai jo wo taulte hain jo shayad aap kabhi na dekhein.
Tike rehna sahi sauda kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki tike rehna aur badhna ek sahi saude jaisa lagta hai. Shayad aapko sikhaya gaya ki sabr aur mehnat ka phal der-saber milta hai. Shayad aapne doosron ko chadhte dekha aur apni baari ki raah dekhi. Jo bhi ho, chuna jaana chaahna laalach nahi hai. Ye chaahat se aati hai ki aapki mehnat kahin pahunche, aur use narmi chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Apne paanch saalon par shak
Har baahri niyukti ek band hote darwaze jaisi lagti hai. Aap apni keemat par shak karne lagte ho. Naye shakhs se kadwahat hoti hai, jabki uski koi galti nahi. Chupke se sochte ho ki yahan itne saal kyun nikal gaye. Dheere-dheere jis job ko aap itna jaante the, wo aisi jagah lagne lagti hai jahan kuch aage nahi badhta, aur apne saalon par jo garv tha, wo khatta hone lagta hai.
Kya pad ki raah dekhna laayak hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya “jaisa hona chahiye waisa” pakde rehne se kabhi tarakki paas aayi? Ya zyada-tar bas atka hua hi laga? Companies bharti mein kai baatein taulti hain, kuch samajhdaar, kuch nahi, aur aksar bataye bina. Jo bhi ho, unka chunaav us cheez ka paimana nahi jo aapne yahan banayi hai. Is niyam ko itni kasakar pakde rehna aapko jitna deta hai, usse zyada le leta hai.
Yahan ke aapke saal asli hain
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki badhne ki chaah khatam ho jaye. Matlab ye ki aapka tarakki ka ehsaas ab ek faisle par nahi tika. Aapko apne hunar pata hain, apne clients, wo log jinki aapne madad ki. Aap apne dhang se badhte reh sakte ho, jahan bhi wo le jaye. Yahin kuch sukoon lautta hai: aapke paanch saal asli hain, aur jo unhone diya, wo bhi.
Whoever it comes from, threats, harassment, humiliation, being singled out for who you are, or pay or papers held back are something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMeri company ko andar walon ko hi aage badhana chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleYahan ke mere saal asli hain, pad kisi ko bhi mila ho.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Yahan ke saalon ki teen aisi baatein sochiye jin par garv hai
- Kadam 2
Ek aisa hunar ginie jo ab aapke paas hai aur pehle nahi tha
- Kadam 3
Is hafte ek kaam sirf apne liye kijiye jo aapko badhaye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aakhri baar kaam par kab sahi maayne mein aapki qadar hui, aur kisne ki?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Naye team-head ka welcome mail #
Indore ke office mein Tuesday ko ek mail aata hai, us shakhs ke baare mein jo agle mahine se team sambhalega. Chhoti-si bio, hansti hui photo. Doosre paragraph ke aage kahin vaakya ban jaata hai: “Meri company ko andar walon ko hi aage badhana chahiye.”
Kuch logon ki chaahat ye hoti hai ki upar jaane ka raasta sachmuch ek raasta ho: koi jagah khaali ho to pehle unka dhyaan aaye jo pehle se imaarat mein hain. Ye theek lag sakta hai, aur phir bhi ek aam Tuesday ke beech chubh sakta hai.
Aakhri baar kab kisi apne mein se kisi ko aage badhte dekha aur wo aapko sahi laga, aur kyun sahi laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Doosri line ko dobara padhna #
Kuch log dekhte hain ki aankhein mail ki usi line par laut jaati hain, jaise wo kuch aur keh de. Kuch ko pet mein khokhli-si chuppi lagti hai, aur muskaan zara akdi hui baithti hai.
Body kisi raay ke banne se pehle jawab de deti hai: lambi saans, kisi saathi ki taraf sir hilana, pen ka dhakkan ghumana. Santulit nazar ghar lautte waqt aati hai, aksar dheemi awaaz mein.
Aakhri baar jab aisa elaan aaya, to uska matlab sochne se pehle aapki body ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Upar jaane ka raasta sachcha hona chahiye #
Ye ummeed ki upar ka raasta wahin maujood logon se hokar jaye, samajh mein aati hai. Andar wale kaam, logon aur purani baaton ko jaante hain, aur unmein se chuna jaana is sab ki pehchaan jaisa lag sakta hai.
Bahar se aana dikhta bhi zyada hai aur achanak bhi, isliye use bayaan ki tarah padhna aasaan hai. Wajahein aksar us kamre mein hoti hain jahan baaqi koi nahi tha, aur us khaali jagah mein insaan andaaze se kahani likhne lagta hai.
Agar yahan logon ke liye theek se chalta, to upar jaane ka ek sahi tareeka kaisa dikhta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo bio padhti hai #
“Kisi apne ko milna chahiye tha.” “Ghar ki murgi daal barabar.” “Usme aisa kya dikha jo mujhme nahi dikha?” Ye awaaz tab bolti hai jab welcome mail abhi bhi screen par khula hota hai.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki awaaz aadhi us pad ke baare mein hai, aur aadhi is chaahat ke baare mein ki barson ko ek yogyata ki tarah usi panne par, bio ke bagal mein, gina jaye.
Jab ye awaaz bio padhti hai, to kis line par rukti hai, aur wahan kya dhoondh rahi hoti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Raaste ki tasveer kahan se aayi #
Kuch logon ke liye ye pehli job se shuru hui, jahan peon clerk bana, clerk sahab bana aur sabko uski kahani pata thi. Aisa ek asli raasta poore career ki tasveer bana deta hai.
Kuch ke liye ye ghar se aati hai: parchoon ki dukaan, jahan agla kadam hamesha use milta tha jo sabse zyada der counter par khada raha ho. Kai jagah wafadaari aur tarakki ek hi baat ke do hisse the.
Kisi jagah ke andar rehkar upar chadhne wale kis insaan ki taareef aapne sabse pehle ki, aur us waqt usme aapko kya khaas laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Agle kadam ke baare mein niyam #
Andar kahin ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Jo company apne logon ki qadar karti hai, wo jagahein andar se bharti hai,” ya “Agla kadam uska hai jisne yahan kamaya hai.” Pehla vaakya wo hai jo sunai deta hai; neeche wala niyam tay karta hai ki har niyukti ka matlab kya nikala jayega.
Aise niyam wafadaari aur insaaf ki qadar se aate hain, jo dono achhi cheezein hain. Inhein is company ke saath rakhkar dekha ja sakta hai, jaisi ye aaj hai: badalti zarooraton ke saath, aur is kadwi baat ke saath ki kabhi khaali pad ko kuch aisa chahiye jo abhi andar nahi hai.
Ho sakta hai ye purane saalon se aaya ho, ya isi office se.
Andar wale raaste ka niyam yahan kahan ab bhi baithta hai, aur kahan niyuktiyan kisi aur hisaab se chalti hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Chart ko der tak dekhne ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai ek subah jo bio ko do baar padhne mein gayi, achha kaam jo aadhe mann se hua kyunki baaqi aadha agle elaan mein tha, station tak ka raasta jisme wahi vaakya dohrata raha. Chupchaap asar, jo ek din se doosre din tak chalte hain.
Job ek lambi qatar jaisi lagne lagti hai jiska aage wala sira dikhta nahi. Kaam achha karne ki khushi par is sawaal ka bojh aa jaata hai ki ye kab gina jayega, aur isme kaafi dhyaan chala jaata hai.
Pichhle kuch mahino mein kis kaam ne aapko sachchi tarakki ka ehsaas diya, chahe chart kuch bhi kehta ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Welcome mail ke paanch saal #
Ek aam Thursday sochiye, us din ka jab “Meri company ko andar walon ko hi aage badhana chahiye” zor se baj raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ke liye ek tasveer hai.
Shayad mail poora padha jaye, chhota-sa jawab bheja jaye, din ka kaam theek se ho, aur ghar ka raasta kisi gungunaahat ke saath kate.
Isme kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur tasveer ko jab chahein hataya ja sakta hai.
Usme kya hai: ek aur welcome mail, naye saathi ko shishta-sa sandesh, wahi desk aur khidki se wahi nazaara?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Thursday mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Usme aapko, agar kuch hai, to kya nazar aata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ek kadam, aur ek disha #
“Andar se aage badhana” ka matlab ho sakta hai vichaar mein aana, ye bataya jaana ki kyun nahi, agle mauke ke liye taiyaar kiya jaana, ya bas aisa pattern dikhna jo samajh mein aaye. Har ek alag aur chhoti ummeed hai, aur inmein se kuch poori cheez se aasaani se mil jaati hain.
Niyuktiyan kai wajahon se hoti hain, kuch insaan ke baare mein, kuch waqt ke baare mein. Kisi aur ki taraf jaane wala faisla hamesha kisi ke diye barson ke baare mein kuch nahi kehta, aur hamesha kuch nahi kehta, aisa bhi nahi.
Agar upar jaane ka raasta agle saal ek chhoti, thos cheez hota, to wo kya chahte, andar ya bahar?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Barson ne jo pehle se diya hai #
Jo kadam kisi aur ke paas gaya, uske saath-saath in saalon mein aisi cheezein bhi hain jo aasaani se chhoot jaati hain: ek hunar jo badha, log jo aapki raay poochhte hain, kaam ka ek hissa jise aap sahajta se sambhalte hain.
Inmein se kisi ko dekh lene se us kadam ki chaahat kam nahi hoti. Ek hi hafte mein chaahat bhi jaayaz ho sakti hai aur bhalmansahat bhi asli.
Jo pehle yaad aaye, wahi chuniye.
In barson ne yahan jo banaya hai, usme aap kya aur dekhna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Wo kadam jo kisi aur ko mila #
Sulah ka matlab ho sakta hai ki jo elaan hua, wo uske baad ke hafton ko chalana band kar de. Agar kisi badlaav se aapki job, kamaai ya visa khatre mein padta hai, to wo wazan asli hai aur is ummeed se alag; kisi bharosemand insaan se baat karke sochne mein madad mil sakti hai.
Jiski taraf se bhi ho, dhamki, pareshaan karna, beizzati, ya aapko aapki pehchaan ki wajah se alag nishana banana (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability ya aap kahan se aaye ho), bilkul doosri baat hai, aur use gambhirta se lena chahiye.
Bina paise ka kaam karwana, salary ya kaagzaat rok lena, asurakshit kaam aur darr bhi aise hi hain; saath chalte rehna ya savdhaan rehna surakshit raasta ho sakta hai.
Kaam par buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha “zyada ummeed” kabhi nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi aur unke liye bhi. Elaan ke baad ka hafta sochiye, jab ye ummeed zara dheeli pakdi ho.
Uske pehle shaant ghante mein aap kya karna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Elaan wale dinon ka zyada sachcha vaakya #
“Meri company ko andar walon ko hi aage badhana chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log aisa vaakya taiyaar rakhte hain: “Mujhe aas thi ki kadam andar se milega, aur mujhe ab bhi pata hai ki mujhe aage kya chahiye.” Use jeetna nahi hai, bas purane vaakya ke bagal mein khada hona hai.
Aisa vaakya shuru mein udhaar ka lag sakta hai aur istemaal se apna ho jaata hai. Kuch logon ko apne seedhe shabd zyada jamte hain, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein zyada sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo aas ke baare mein imaandaar ho aur jise company ki muhar ki zaroorat na pade?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Bio aaj ke liye band ki ja sakti hai #
Har elaan ka jawab shaam tak dena zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur akhbaar ki katran ki tarah tah karke rakha ja sakta hai: hai, par nazar ke saamne nahi.
Upar jaane ki chaahat jab tak chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Dhamki, pareshaan karna, beizzati, pehchaan ki wajah se alag nishana banna, bina paise ka kaam, salary ya kaagzaat rokna, asurakshit kaam ya darr isse alag hain, aur unhein gambhirta se lena chahiye; savdhaan rehna surakshit raasta ho sakta hai.
Aaj raat ise chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki ye theek tha, ya ki baat tay ho gayi. Bas itna ki aaj ki shaam ko faisla sunane ki zaroorat nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar pakad zara dheeli hoti #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ummeed ek paydaan shaant hai. Andar se raaste ki chaahat ab bhi hai, aur mail ek baar padha jaata hai jabki aap khud se poochhte ho ki aage aapko kya chahiye.
Ho sakta hai naye saathi ko swagat ka message dayaluta se jaye, ya lunch bina usi baat ke dohraav ke beete.
Isme kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi uthe wo aapka dekhne ke liye hai. Aage, ye dekhna ki is ummeed se sulah ka kya matlab ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti baat kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmaate hain #
- Dekhiye ki jo kadam ghoshit hua, uske alawa aap agla kya chahte ho
- Ek cheez sochiye jo aapne yahan banayi hai aur saaf taur par aapki hai
- Dekhiye ki aaj kiski awaaz tez hai, us pad ki ya dekhe jaane ki chaahat ki
- Agle kadam ka aisa roop sochiye jo aapko sach mein pasand aaye
- Kisi aise insaan ko yaad kijiye jiske raaste ki aap izzat karte ho, aur use kis cheez ne dhaala
Chhote, nijee aur optional. Jo ho sake, wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aakhri baar kaam par kab sahi maayne mein aapki qadar hui, aur kisne ki?
- Yahan ka kaun sa kaam aapko sabse zyada garv deta hai, aur kyun?
- Kisi jagah ke andar rehkar chadhne wale kiski taareef aapne sabse pehle ki?
- Agar andar se upar jaane ki chaahat zara dheeli padti, to sabse pehle aapko kya nazar aata?
- Yahan ke barson ne aapke liye kya banaya hai jo aap aur dekhna chahoge?