Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Isiliye ye us chuppi se zyada chubh sakta hai jo ye maangta hai.
“Dadi ko mat batana, fikar mein beemar pad jaayengi.”
Neeche-neeche ek niyam baith sakta hai: “Apni pareshani mujhe akele dhoni hai, taaki jinse pyaar hai unhein aaram rahe.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Fauran haami bharna aur call halki rakhna
- Kahani ka ek chhota version sunana
- “Kuch nahi hai” kehkar baat badal dena
- Akele dhona aur doori mehsoos karna
- Baad mein baatcheet dohrana ki ye tay kisne kiya
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Seedhiyon ke paas ki phusphusahat
Phone ke baad Bhaiya aapko seedhiyon ke paas rok lete hain. Aap bas kehne hi wale the ki ye mahina bhaari raha. Wo awaaz dheemi karte hain: “Mummy ko kuch mat batana, boodhi hain.” Aap unki baat poori hone se pehle sir hila dete ho, andar jaate ho, aur Maa se kehte ho sab badhiya hai. Awaaz chehakti hai, chai garam hai, aur asli hafta jeb mein reh jaata hai.
Aapki khabar, ek bojh
Ye shabd aise niyam par girte hain jo shayad pehle se wahan hai: “Apni pareshani mujhe akele dhoni hai.” Ye parwah jaisa lagta hai, taakat jaisa bhi. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapki apni zindagi ko aisi cheez bana deta hai jo doosron ke liye pehle se kaati-chhaanti jaani hai. Kya kehna hai, kya chhodna hai aur kis baat par muskurana hai, sab is par tik jaata hai ki aapko lagta hai doosre kitna sah sakte hain.
Bachana pyaar kyun laga
Hum mein se kai is niyam ko isliye pakadte hain ki buzurgon ko bachane se kabhi ghar mein shanti rahi. Shayad aap aise ghar mein bade hue jahan buri khabar ek bade tak jaati thi, sabse buzurg tak nahi. Shayad kisi phusphusahat ne sikha diya ki chup bachcha ek nemat hai. Niyam bewajah nahi. Ye apnon se pyaar se aata hai, aur ise narmi chahiye.
Wo khushnuma version
Har baar jab aap mushkil hafte ko call ke liye chamkate ho, to aapki asli zindagi ka thoda hissa ankaha reh jaata hai. Ek bhaari mahine ke baad aap kehte ho “yahan sab badhiya hai.” Asli khabar lautte waqt gaadi tak rakhte ho. Dheere-dheere apne log khushnuma version se milte hain, aur baaki sab aap akele dhote ho, sab kamre mein hon tab bhi.
Kya niyam ki keemat sahi hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochhiye: jinhein bachana chaha, is niyam ko pakadne se aap unke kabhi zyada kareeb hue? Ya calls zyadatar garm rahin, par poori sach nahi? Doosre jo kehte hain wo unki baat hai, aur kyun kaha ye wahi jaante hain. Jo bhi ho, gallery ki ek phusphusahat aapki jagah ka paimana nahi. Kya is niyam ki keemat dene layak hai?
Mushkil hafta, bas mushkil hafta
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap parivaar ke buzurgon ki fikar karna chhod dein, ya wo baat galat thi. Matlab ye hai ki aapki pareshani ko hone ke liye pehle kaata-chhaanta nahi jayega. Aap seedhi baat seedhe shabdon mein keh sakte ho aur use apni rehne de sakte ho. Yahin se kuch chain laut sakta hai: phusphusahat gallery mein rahe, aur hafta aapka rahe.
If something about how you feel is worrying you, or anyone answers it with anger, threats or fear, that is worth taking seriously, and going along for now can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleApni pareshani mujhe akele dhoni hai.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMeri zindagi parivaar ki zindagi ka hissa hai, koi raaz nahi.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Is hafte par ek seedha vaakya likhiye, bina khushnuma polish ke
- Kadam 2
Ek haath table par rakhiye aur use dheere se padhiye
- Kadam 3
Ek aise insaan ko yaad kijiye jisne kabhi kuch chhupane ko nahi kaha
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aakhri baar jab ye suna, tab aap kahan the, aur kya kehne hi wale the?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Ek phusphusahat, ek nazar, aur baat band #
Phone ke baad seedhiyon ke paas bade Bhaiya, rasoi mein Buaji, ya biwi-shauhar mein se koi, lunch par jaate hue gaadi mein. “Mummy ko kuch mat batana, boodhi hain, tension le lengi.” Dheeme se kahi jaati hai, aksar bagal wale kamre ki taraf dekhte hue, jaise baat pehle se tay ho.
Kehne wale ko Maa-Papa se pyaar ho sakta hai, aur wo ghar mein shanti rakhna chahta ho. Par ye vaakya aapki pareshani ko un baaton mein daal deta hai jo kahi nahi ja sakti, aur wo bhi tab jab aapne bataya hi nahi ki baat kya hai.
Aisa kuch, ya isse milta-julta, aapne aakhri baar kahan suna?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kisne kaha, aur aap us waqt kya kehne hi wale the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Wo haami jo bahut jaldi aa jaati hai #
Kuch log jhat se sir hila dete hain, “haan-haan, bilkul,” aur baat samet lete hain. Kuch agli call ke liye ek khushnuma version banane lagte hain. Kuch chup rehte hain aur mehsoos karte hain ki unki apni khabar wapas jeb mein chali gayi.
Jab kuch batane hi wale hon aur chup rehne ko keh diya jaye, to sochne se pehle ek second mein asar ho jaata hai. Kai log ise halki-si giraavat batate hain, jaise kamre ne tay kar diya ho ki kise mushkil hafta bitane ka haq hai.
Uske agle pal mein aapne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Haami bhari, behas ki, ya chup rahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Wo pehla qadam aapke apne hisse ke baare mein kya kehta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ye aapki pareshani ko kisi ke liye khatra bana deta hai #
“Wo buzurg hain” aapki khabar ko aisa bojh bana deta hai jisse kisi ka kuch toot sakta hai. Ye vaakya us insaan ko bachata hai jisse aap pyaar karte ho, aur saath mein aapke liye tay bhi kar deta hai ki aap jo dho rahe ho wo baantne layak nahi. Dono baatein ek saath hain.
Isiliye ye us chuppi se zyada chubh sakta hai jo ye maangta hai. Masla ye ban jaata hai ki aapki zindagi apnon ko pata chalne layak hai ya nahi, aur sab kuch akele uthane wala hona hi kya ekmaatra bhumika hai.
Jab aapki pareshani ko kisi ke liye bahut bhaari kaha gaya, to aapke mann mein kya sawaal reh gaya, unki taakat ka, ya ghar mein aapki jagah ka?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab phusphusahat andar chalne lage #
Baar-baar suno to ye ghar kar leta hai. “Unhone bahut jhel liya.” “Sunkar bas pareshan honge.” “Chup rehna hi achha hai.” Kai baar khushnuma version tab bhi taiyaar rehta hai jab chhupane ko kuch hai bhi nahi.
Kehne wala shaam tak bhool gaya ho, par kaat-chhaant andar chalti rehti hai. Kyunki ye aapki apni samajhdaari jaisi sunayi deti hai, ye meherbaani jaisi lagti hai, seedhiyon ke paas ki ek tanaav bhari hidaayat jaisi nahi.
Jab kuch mushkil hota hai, to andar ki awaaz kehti hai kise jaanna chahiye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kin kamron mein ye sabse zyada zor se bolti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ke liye buzurgon ko bachana hi kaam tha #
“Dadi ko mat batana, fikar mein beemar pad jaayengi.” “Papa ko chain se rehne do.” Kuch logon ne bachpan mein seekha ki buri khabar ek bade tak jaati hai, sabse buzurg tak kabhi nahi, aur ghar ki shanti us par tiki hai jo kahi nahi gayi.
Wajahein har ghar mein alag thin. Kisi ne pehle hi bahut jhela tha, paison ki tangi thi, ya ghar bas chupchaap nipatane ke tareeke se chalta tha. Bachcha sirf nateeja sunta hai: ghar mein sabse achhi cheez jo layi ja sakti hai, wo kuch nahi hai.
Aapne pehli baar kab seekha ki kuch baatein unhein batane layak nahi jinhone aapko pala?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya-kya nahi kaha ja sakta, iski list kaun rakhta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche baitha ek chupchaap niyam #
Neeche-neeche ek niyam baith sakta hai: “Apni pareshani mujhe akele dhoni hai, taaki jinse pyaar hai unhein aaram rahe.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte hi nahi. Wo parwah jaise lagte hain, mazboot bane rehne jaise, aur isiliye inhein kabhi-kabhi dheere se nikaalkar dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Aisa niyam aapke apne mehsoos kiye hue se kitna milta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kin kamron mein “main akele dhota/dhoti hoon” ab bhi chalta hai, aur kinmein iski kabhi zaroorat nahi padi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Akele dhone ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai poora hafta khushnuma version mein sunana, aisi call jo “yahan sab badhiya hai” par khatam ho, ya ek chhoti-si doori jo bina kisi ke dekhe badhti jaye. Iska matlab ho sakta hai ki aap us insaan ki tarah pyaar paayein jo show chalata rehta hai.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Sabse kareebi log shayad sirf usse milte hain jise koi pareshani nahi. Ek saal mein aisi bahut-si baatein jud jaati hain jo garmjoshi bhari thin, par poori sach nahi.
Pichhle ek mahine mein akele dhone wale niyam ki keemat aapke liye kya rahi, agar kuch rahi ho: koi baat jo nahi kahi, koi call jo chamakti rakhi, koi chinta jo gaadi tak rakhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Ek aam Sunday ki call, jab niyam zor se bole #
Kisi aam Sunday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “main akele dhota/dhoti hoon” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai.
Shayad “yahan sab badhiya hai” wala jawab, aapke hafte ke sawaal se pehle ki ek chuppi, call jo theek tab khatam hui jab baat sachchi hone hi wali thi. Kuch jaana-pehchana lag sakta hai, kuch bilkul nahi.
Yahan kisi cheez ka abhi jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer ko jab chahein kinare rakh sakte hain.
Usmein kya hai: phone par khushnuma awaaz, bina kahi chhoti baatein, thoda aur batane ke mauqe jo dikhe aur nikal gaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Sunday ko dekhkar, agar kuch, to aapki nazar kis par rukti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Unki sehanshakti tay kisne ki? #
“Wo buzurg hain” kisi aur ki taakat ka andaaza hai, jo aise insaan ne lagaya jo thaka, dara ya pyaar mein tha. Dheere-dheere dekho to ye ek fikar nikal sakti hai, jo tathya ki tarah boli gayi.
Isse ye nahi tay hota ki kya bataya jaye aur kya nahi. Yahan wo sawaal hai hi nahi. Sawaal ye hai ki kya aapki pareshani doosron ke liye pehle se kaati-chhaanti jaani chahiye, aur qalam kiske haath mein hai.
Agar aapke kisi kareebi dost se yahi kaha gaya hota, to ghar lautte hue aap use kya kehna chahte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dobara dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Jab kuch log us pal ko dohraate hain, to unhein sunayi deta hai ki us vaakya ka kitna hissa kehne wale ka apna darr tha, aur unke baare mein kitna kam. Us seedhiyon wali gallery ke saath rakhkar dekhein, to pehli baar jaisa laga tha usse alag lag sakta hai.
Kuch ko wo log dikhte hain jinhone kabhi kuch chhupane ko nahi kaha. Ek cousin jo kehta hai, “Batao, main sun raha hoon,” ya dost jo mushkil hafte ko mushkil hafta rehne deta hai. Wo awaazein hamesha thin, bas phusphusahat se dheemi.
Aapki zindagi mein kaun hai jo aapki khabar ko aapki khabar rehne deta hai, aur uske kamre mein hone se kaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Mazboot khambha bane rehne ki zaroorat nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki koi bahut nazuk hai, aur ye bhi nahi ki shabd chubhe nahi. Matlab bas itna ki ek insaan ka ek vaakya ye tay kare kam ki aapki zindagi ka kitna hissa bataya ja sakta hai.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo har call par pehra dena chhodte hain. Us pehre ka koi ant nahi, kyunki hamesha ek aur baatcheet aati hai, aur jab tak wo chalta hai, har baatcheet ke saath ek kaata-chhaanta version juda rehta hai.
Kuch log ye kehte rahenge, aur kisi ko unhein manana nahi padta.
Ek aam shaam kaisi hogi agar kaat-chhaant tab tak rukī rahe jab tak koi poochhe nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Apni khabar ke baare mein ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “main akele dhota/dhoti hoon” barson se andar chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaay ek line paas rakhte hain: “Meri zindagi parivaar ki zindagi ka hissa hai, koi raaz nahi jo main uske liye sambhaaloon.”
Ye sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jo kuch log aazmate hain, aur kuch ko lagta hai ki call se pehle ya phusphusahat ke baad chupchaap keh lene se purane niyam ki thodi jagah bharne lagti hai.
Apni khabar ke baare mein aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jise kisi ki manzoori nahi chahiye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch baatein gallery mein chhodi ja sakti hain #
Har “kuch mat batana” ko jawab, behas ya shanti rakhne ka waada nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal feel kiya ja sakta hai, aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise mehmaan jaane ke baad thaila darwaaze ke paas rakh dete hain.
Ye haar maanna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki aapka dhyan kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain isse un dinon aur un logon ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai jo sach mein unke apne hain.
Aaj raat phusphusahat ko gallery mein chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki wo sahi thi, ya kuch sulajh gaya. Bas itna ki wo agli call, agle lunch ya agli subah tak aapke saath nahi chalegi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki akele dhone wala niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Mushkil hafte ko mushkil hafta rehne diya jaata hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: ek jawab jo roz se thoda zyada sachcha ho, ek vaakya jise kehne se pehle chamkaya na jaye, ya kya baantna hai wala sawaal jise thodi der baithne diya jaye.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, chahe thoda hi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Niyam dheela hone ka aapka pehla chhota sanket kya ho sakta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi akele dhone wala niyam”
- Is hafte par ek seedha vaakya likhiye, bina khushnuma polish ke
- Gaur kijiye ki zyada zor se kya laga: aapse kaha gaya vaakya, ya andar ki kaat-chhaant
- Ek aise insaan ko yaad kijiye jisne kabhi kuch chhupane ko nahi kaha
- Ek haath table par seedha rakhiye aur apna vaakya dheere se padhiye
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aakhri baar jab ye suna, tab aap kahan the, aur kya kehne hi wale the?
- Jab aapki pareshani ko na kehne layak baaton mein daala gaya, tab kaun tha, aur kiska chehra yaad hai?
- Aapne pehli baar kab seekha ki kuch khabrein parivaar ke buzurgon ke liye bahut bhaari hain?
- Jis din akele dhone wala niyam zor se bole, aap kya kahe bina reh jaate hain?
- Agar aapki apni khabar bas aapki batane ki hoti, to aapko sabse pehle kya dikhta?