Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jab “wahan” aa jaye aur zindagi aasaan na ho, to lag sakta hai ki sauda toot gaya.
Humein se kuch ke liye ye un maa-baap se shuru hua jo kehte the, “Bas barahvi nikal jaye, phir mauj.”
Is khayal ke peeche aksar ek niyam hota hai: “Abhi mehnat, baad mein aaram,” ya “Wahan pahunch gaye to chain se baith paayenge.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Purani manzil milte hi usi hafte nayi tay kar lena
- Jeet par utna khush na ho paane ka guilt dhona
- Apne “wahan” ki tulna kisi aur se karna aur phir peeche lagna
- Aaram ko agle padaav tak taalte jaana
- Chupchaap sochna ki aur chaahne mein kahin kuch gadbad to nahi
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Naya cabin aur wahi thakaan
Barson aap khud se kehte rahe: bas promotion mil jaye, phir sab aasaan. Ab mil gaya. Jaipur ke Malviya Nagar ke office mein naya cabin hai, darwaze par nameplate, badi mez. Aur seene mein wahi kasaav hai, wahi lambe ghante, bas nayi chintayein. Khidki se bahar dekhte hue chupchaap mann mein aata hai: “Aasaani aakhir kab aayegi?”
Pahunchkar zindagi aasaan hogi
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Wahan pahunchkar zindagi aasaan honi chahiye.” Ye vaajib ummeed lagti hai. Barson ki mehnat ke baad manzil se raahat milni chahiye. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapka chain aage ke kal mein khisaka deta hai, hamesha ek manzil door. Aaj aaram ho sakega ya nahi, ye us jagah par tik gaya jo aapke chalne ke saath-saath hatti jaati hai.
Manzilein ummeed kyun deti hain
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki manzilein ummeed deti hain. Shayad aapne lambe samay tak bahut mehnat ki, aur maan liya ki kathin hissa pahunchte hi khatam hoga. Shayad doosron ko pahunchkar chain se baithte dekha. Aasaani ki ummeed naadani nahi. Ye lambi mehnat ke baad aaram aur apni banayi cheez ka maza chaahne se aati hai. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Pahunche, par aasaani nahi mili
Jis manzil mein ummeed jitni aasaani nahi mili, uske baad nirasha hoti hai. Aap agli ke peeche lag jaate ho. Khud se baar-baar kehte ho “iske baad”. Jo jagah pehle hi mil chuki hai, uska maza bhool jaate ho. Dheere-dheere zindagi “wahan pahunchkar” ki kadiyan ban jaati hai, aur jis aaram ke liye mehnat ki, wo door khisakta hai, din bhaagte rehte hain.
Kya manzil ka intezaar theek hai?
Imaandaari se khud se poochiye: kya “wahan pahunchkar” ke intezaar ne kabhi aaj ko aasaan banaya? Ya zyadatar aaj ko intezaar ka kamra bana diya? Har nayi jagah apni chunautiyan laati hai, aur aasaani aksar isse aati hai ki hum kaise jeete hain, kahan pahunchte hain usse kam. Manzil ye tay nahi karti ki aaram kab mile. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna deta kam, leta zyada hai.
Aaj thoda aaram karna
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki manzilein rakhna band karein. Matlab ye ki aapka chain agli manzil ka intezaar na kare. Aaj thoda aaram kiya ja sakta hai, jo paa liya uska maza liya ja sakta hai, aur agli manzil ko wo banne diya ja sakta hai jiski or chalna hai, jiski zaroorat nahi. Yahin thoda chain lautta hai: aap aaj mein jee sakte ho, sirf us jagah mein nahi jahan pahunchna chahte ho.
Being worn out for weeks, carrying more than one person can, or being frightened or threatened by anyone, is something else entirely, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleWahan pahunchkar zindagi aasaan honi chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleAaj thoda aaram ho sakta hai, sirf manzil par nahi.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Aaj das minute us cheez ka maza lijiye jo paa chuke hain
- Din 2
Ek paayi hui manzil ka naam lijiye aur use mehsoos hone dijiye
- Din 3
Ek shaam agla kadam socha bina aaram kijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kaun si manzil paane par aapko sabse zyada naaz hai, aur uske liye kya karna pada?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Manzil mili, aur agli chadhaai saamne #
Teen saal tasveer saaf thi: bas ek baar degree poori ho jaye, bas job ka letter aa jaye, bas apne ghar ki chaabi haath mein aa jaye, phir aaram hi aaram. Ab wo din aa gaya. Mithai ka dabba Sunday tak khatam ho gaya. Monday se nayi list shuru. Phir ye khayal aata hai: “Wahan pahunchkar zindagi aasaan honi chahiye.”
Ye videsh jaana ho sakta hai, promotion, barson se sochi dukaan ka khulna, visa par thappa. Har “wahan” ki apni chintayein nikalti hain, aur aage ka apna ek naya “wahan” jud jaata hai. Kabhi log kehte bhi hain: “Abhi to party shuru hui hai.”
Kaun si manzil paakar aaj bhi achha lagta hai, aur use paane ka sabse achha hissa kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Manzil ke baad ajeeb-sa khaalipan #
Kuch logon ko badi manzil ke theek baad chaunkane wala khaalipan lagta hai, jaise gubbare ki hawa nikal gayi ho. Kuch ko bechaini ka jhatka lagta hai, body pehle se agli cheez ki taraf jhuki hui.
Dono uljhan bhare ho sakte hain. Wo pal pahunchne jaisa lagna tha, aur lagta hai railway platform jaisa, jahan agli gaadi ka elaan pehle se ho chuka hai.
Pichhli badi manzil ke baad shuru ke dinon mein aapko kya laga, aur kya wo waisa hi tha jaisa aapne socha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Manzil ka hona achhi baat hai #
Ye ummeed sachmuch kaam karti hai. Aage ke aasaan dinon ki tasveer logon ko mushkil baras paar karwati hai: lambi padhaai, lambe ghante, ghar se lambi doori. Chadhaai ko wajah milti hai.
Jab “wahan” aa jaye aur zindagi aasaan na ho, to lag sakta hai ki sauda toot gaya. Chadhaai kuch khareedne ke liye thi, aur jo khareeda wo apni ek chadhaai saath lekar aaya.
“Wahan” ki kaun si tasveer ne aapko mushkil daur mein chalaye rakha, aur usmein kya-kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Lakeer khisakane wali awaaz #
“Bas ek kadam aur.” “Iske baad to aaram hi aaram.” “Phir bhi achha kyun nahi lag raha?” Ye awaaz ek saath dhakka bhi deti hai aur shak bhi karti hai, aur jeet ko bahut der tikne nahi deti, turant agli chadhaai dikha deti hai.
Kuch log gaur karte hain ki ye awaaz hamesha aane wale kal mein bolti hai. Agli chadhaai ki yojana banane mein maahir hai, par is choti par khade hone dene mein kamzor.
Jab aap mehnat se kuch haasil karte ho, to awaaz kitni der baad agli cheez ki taraf ishaara kar deti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Manzil ki lakeer kahan kheenchi gayi #
Humein se kuch ke liye ye un maa-baap se shuru hua jo kehte the, “Bas barahvi nikal jaye, phir mauj.” Kuch ne ye kisi bade cousin ko “settle” hote dekhkar seekha, jiski zindagi bahar se baad mein aasaan dikhti thi.
Kuch families aise pal ki tasveer aage deti hain jahan sangharsh khatam ho jaata hai: achhi job, ghar, videsh. Ye aksar pyaar se di jaati hai, taaki mehnat ka matlab lage.
Aapko pehli baar “wahan” kisne bataya, aur usne kaha ki wahan pahunchkar zindagi kaisi hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Pahunchne wala niyam #
Is khayal ke peeche aksar ek niyam hota hai: “Abhi mehnat, baad mein aaram,” ya “Wahan pahunch gaye to chain se baith paayenge.” Ye ummeed bhara niyam hai. Ye zindagi ko aise pal tak roke bhi rakhta hai jo khisakta jaata hai.
Kuch log is niyam ko shuru ke barson ki “bas imtihaan ke baad” wali baaton se jodte hain; kuch apni kathin chadhaaiyon se. Dono haal mein ise abhi dekha ja sakta hai, pahunchne ke baad hi nahi.
Pahunchne ka ye niyam aapko kahan chalata hai, aur kahan zindagi ke achhe hisson ko manzil par intezaar karwata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
“Wahan” ke liye jeene ki keemat #
Wo jeetein jo maza liye bina guzar gayin. Jashn ka ek hafta aur phir jhatpat wahi fikr. Aisa ehsaas ki achhi zindagi hamesha agle saal se shuru hoti hai.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki maujooda baras intezaar ke kamre ki tarah barte jaate hain: dostiyan talti hui, shauq “baad ke liye” rakhe hue, aaram “jab sab set ho jaye” par. Intezaar ka kamra dheere-dheere poori imaarat ban jaata hai.
“Wahan pahunchkar” ke liye aapne kya rakh chhoda hai jiska thoda hissa aaj chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Ek ke baad ek choti #
Ek saadi, aam shaam sochiye jab “wahan pahunchkar zindagi aasaan honi chahiye” zor se baj rahi ho. Nayi list, naya lakshya, phone mein doosron ke agle kadam. Bas dekhne ki ek tasveer.
Shayad manzil milte hi agli ki talaash hai, jashn ki mithai abhi fridge mein hai aur laptop par naya plan khul gaya hai.
Ye ek shaam hai, jo hona hi hai wo nahi, aur jab chahein rakhi ja sakti hai.
Us shaam mein aur kya ho raha hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya alag se dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Achhe pal hamari tasveer se jaldi feeke padte hain #
Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki manzil paakar achha lagna ummeed se kam der tikta hai. Mann achhi cheezon ka aadi ho jaata hai aur nayi haalat bas saamanya ban jaati hai. Ye bahut aam hai, aur kisi ki kami nahi.
Iska matlab ye nahi ki manzilein bekaar hain, ya aapki ummeed galat hai. Bas itna ki “wahan” mein utna aaram na ho jitna tasveer mein rakha tha, aur uska kuch hissa pehle bhi mil sakta hai.
Kai saal pehle haasil kisi manzil ko peeche mudkar dekhein to uska kaun sa hissa aaj bhi aapko kuch deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Yahan pahunchne ne aapko pehle se kya diya #
“Wahan” ne zindagi aasaan na ki ho, tab bhi pahunchne ki raah ne kuch diya ho sakta hai: wo hunar jo pehle nahi tha, raaste mein mile log, ye saboot ki aap mushkil kaam kar sakte ho, ek nazara jo shuru mein dikhta hi nahi tha.
Inhein dekhne se nayi chadhaai halki nahi hoti. Ye unhi hafton mein rehte hain, usi raah ka hissa, aur agli pahaadi dikhte hi bhool jaana aasaan hai.
Is muqaam tak ki lambi raah ne aapko pehle hi kya diya hai, jise aap thoda aur dekhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Aaram raah mein bhi, sirf ant mein nahi #
Yahan sulah ka matlab manzilein chhodna nahi. Aage ke aasaan din chaahna jaayaz hai. Matlab ye ki zindagi ke achhe hisse manzil ka intezaar karna band karein, aur kuch raaste mein saath aa sakein.
Izzat aur hifaazat maangna kabhi “bahut zyada” nahi, aapke liye bhi aur aaspaas ke logon ke liye bhi. Agar chadhaai ne hafton ki thakaan de di hai, neend kam ho gayi hai, ya aap ek insaan jitna utha sakta hai usse zyada dho rahe ho, to wo is ummeed se alag baat hai, aur kisi bharosemand insaan ko bataya ja sakta hai.
Agli chhoti jeet ke baad ki shaam sochiye, is ummeed ko thoda dheela pakadkar: aap usi shaam mein rehte ho, agli list ke bina, aur kya karte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Choti par khade hone ki ek line #
“Wahan pahunchkar zindagi aasaan honi chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log apni ek line jodte hain, jaise: “Chalte-chalte aaj ki achhi zindagi ka thoda maza bhi liya ja sakta hai.” Kisi ko jeetna nahi hai.
Chadhaai khadi ho to ye bahut seedha lag sakta hai. Kuch logon ko apni koi aur line zyada jamti hai.
Aap khud sachchi line likhein to kya hogi, jo aapki manzilein bhi rakhe aur raah mein thoda aaram bhi aane de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Agli pahaadi subah tak ruk sakti hai #
Har manzil aaj raat hi badalni zaroori nahi. Agle lakshya ko dekha ja sakta hai aur ek taraf rakha ja sakta hai, jaise nakshaa teh karke gaadi ke dashboard mein rakh diya jaye.
Aasaan dinon ki ummeed aapki reh sakti hai. Hafton ki thakaan, ya ek insaan jitna utha sakta hai usse zyada bojh dhona, bilkul alag baat hai, aur use gambhirta se lena zaroori hai.
Aaj raat nakshaa teh karne ka matlab ye nahi ki chadhaai khatam ho gayi, ya kuch tay ho gaya. Bas itna ki ye shaam jee ja sakti hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar “wahan” thodi der baithne ki jagah hoti #
Ek shaant prayog ki tarah sochiye ki wahi manzil mili, par ummeed thodi halki hai. Aap ek shaam usmein baithte ho, shayad poora Sunday, aur phir aage dekhte ho.
Yahan chhoti cheezein ginti jaati hain: jashn ka khaana sachmuch chakhna, kisi se lambi baat jise aap par naaz ho, bina kisi plan ki walk.
Ye aapke apne mann mein rehta hai; kisi ko batana nahi padta. Aage: is ummeed se sulah par ek aur nazar, aur jo pehle se aapke paas hai us par.
Sabse pehle kya badalta dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aap kaun si chunenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti nijee cheezein #
- Agli chhoti jeet ke baad ek poori shaam use dijiye, phir agla plan
- Manzil tak pahunchne se pehle aaj ki zindagi ki ek achhi baat ka naam lijiye
- Jab awaaz kahe “iske baad”, to use pakdiye aur naam dijiye
- Jo cheez “baad ke liye” rakhi thi, usmein se ek isi hafte le aaiye
- Ek paayi hui manzil yaad kijiye, aur pehle ghante mein wo kaisi lagi thi
Chahein to ek aazmaiye. Yahan kuch bhi zaroori nahi.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kaun si manzil paane par aapko sabse zyada naaz hai, aur uske liye kya karna pada?
- Aap kise jaante ho jo zindagi ka maza raah mein bhi leta hai, sirf ant mein nahi?
- Jahan aaj hain wahan pahunchne se pehle aapne socha tha ki zindagi kaisi hogi?
- Agar aaram ko agli manzil ka intezaar na karna hota, to is hafte aap kiska maza lete?
- Kuch aur paane se pehle, aaj ki zindagi mein pehle se kya achha hai?