Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye kabhi nahi kehta ki aur kya, kisse, kiski keemat par.
Kuch logon ne aisi baatein tab suni jab koi chaah zor se kahi gayi, mele mein, khilone ki dukaan par, khane ki table par.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Aur chaahne ka matlab hai ki jo hai usse santosh nahi,” ya “Maine aur maanga to koi mujhe kam aankega.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Kisi ko batane se pehle hi khud ko chaah se mana lena
- Poochhe jaane par kehna “Sach mein, sab sahi hai”
- Chaahten sirf doosron ke liye rakhna, apne liye zor se kabhi nahi
- Chhoti post ke liye arzi dena, taaki badi wali lalach na lage
- Kisi achhi cheez ka maza lena, phir usi maze par halki chubhan mehsoos karna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Wo vigyapan jisne dil uthaya
Indore mein Sunday ki dopahar. Phone par job ke vigyapan dekhte hue ek par nazar rukti hai: zyada zimmedaari, dilchasp kaam, naya shehar. Dil uthta hai. Tabhi ek awaaz tokti hai: “Achhi job hai, achhi zindagi hai, shukr karo.” Phone jhat se band ho jaata hai, dekhne bhar par apradh-bodh hota hai, aur nanhi chingari bujh jaati hai. Pal chhota hai, par saath reh jaata hai.
Mujhe aur nahi chaahna chahiye
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Mujhe aur ki chaah nahi rakhni chahiye.” Ye vinamra aur ehsaanmand lagta hai, upar se seedhi samajhdaari jaisa. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har umeed ko ek tarah ki bewafai bana deta hai. Doosri job, badi zindagi, naya hunar, sab lalach lagne lagte hain, aur sapne saans lene se pehle hi kuchal diye jaate hain.
Santosh ki taareef kyun hui
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki santosh ko kabhi khoobi bataakar saraha gaya tha. Bahut log kisi roop mein ye niyam lekar bade hote hain, aur us waqt aksar ye theek hi tha. Shayad kaha gaya ki jo hai usi mein khush raho. Shayad aur chaahne walon ko mazaak bante ya peeche rehte dekha. Jo hai uski qadar karna galat nahi. Wo shukraguzaar aur vinamra rehne ki chaah se aata hai. Ise narmi chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Kuchli umeedon ki tees
Har kuchli hui umeed ek chhoti tees chhod jaati hai. Ye dheere-dheere hota hai, isliye pakadna mushkil hai. Ek hi jagah tike rehna aur khud se kehna “Kaafi hai.” Sapne dekhne par apradh-bodh. Doosron ko apni chaahton ke peeche jaate dekhkar halki jalan. Kuch naya sochne par jo chamak aati thi, wo mand padti hai, aur zindagi zaroorat se chhoti lagne lagti hai.
Kya umeed kuchalna sahi hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya chaahten rok lene se kabhi zyada santosh mila? Ya zyadatar atke hone aur apradh-bodh ka ehsaas mila? Jo hai uska shukr aur aage badhne ki chaah saath-saath reh sakte hain. Yahan koi galat jawab nahi. Jo bhi ho, aur chaahna aapke shukr ka paimana nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna uski keemat ke layak hai?
Shukraguzaar bhi, umeed bhi
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki jo hai uski qadar band ho. Matlab ye ki aur ki umeed bhi rakhi ja sakti hai. Dono reh sakte hain: aaj ke liye shukriya, aur kal ke liye jigyasa. Shuruaat chhoti ho sakti hai, ek-ek pal se. Yahin se kuch sukoon lautta hai: chaahten kuch aisa banti hain jise khoja ja sake, chhipaya na jaaye, aur chingari jalti reh paati hai.
If someone mocks, threatens or frightens you for wanting something different from your life, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMujhe aur ki chaah nahi rakhni chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleShukraguzaar rehte hue bhi aur ki umeed rakhi ja sakti hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Paanch minute ek chaah ke baare mein khulkar sochiye
- Din 2
Mann mein ek cheez ginie jo aapke paas hai aur achhi lagti hai
- Din 3
Jo cheez aazmana chahte hain, uske baare mein ek chhoti baat khojiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Wo kaun si ek chaah hai jise aapne itni jaldi mana liya ki uska naam bhi nahi pad paaya?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Ek chhota vaakya jo chupchaap darwaza band karta hai #
“Mujhe aur ki chaah nahi rakhni chahiye.” Sochi jaati hai jab shaam ki class wala page band kiya jaata hai, jab review mein “theek-thaak” likha dekhkar sir hilaya jaata hai, jab kisi dost ki doosre shehar ki nayi job ki photo dikhti hai, ya ghar lautti bus mein bag ke andar sketchbook padi rehti hai.
Ye kam hi niyam jaisi lagti hai. Ye samajhdaari ya vinamrata jaisi lagti hai: santosh ka ek tareeka, baat na badhane ka, aise ghar ya office mein shaanti rakhne ka jahan sab kuch chal hi raha hai. “Aur kya chahiye?”
Ye khayal aakhri baar kab pakad mein aaya, bina shabdon ke bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Vaakya aane se theek ek minute pehle kis cheez ki chaah uthne lagi thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Chaah poori hone se pehle peeche khinchna #
Kuch log ise tez sikudan ki tarah mehsoos karte hain, jaise hi koi chaah bane: job ka vigyapan poora padhe bina band ho jaana, aadha utha haath neeche aa jaana, koi agle saal ki yojana poochhe to achanak bartan dhone mein dilchaspi aa jaana.
Chaahna aur ruk jaana lagbhag saath-saath ho sakte hain, itne paas ki chaah ko aakaar hi nahi milta. Bachti hai ek halki bechaini, table par kuch chhoot jaane ka ehsaas, bina pata chale ki kya.
Chaah ugne lage to aapka sharir kya karta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aage jhukta hai, peeche hat-ta hai, ya bilkul thehar jaata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Wo chhoti harkat chaah ki ahmiyat ke baare mein kya kehti hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Santosh jaisa lagta hai, isliye jaancha nahi jaata #
Santosh ki bahut taareef hoti hai, aur kam chaahna achhe charitra jaisa dikh sakta hai. Isliye jo vaakya chaahton ko band kare, wo had ki bajaye khoobi lag sakta hai, aur khoobiyon par sawaal kam uthte hain.
Vaakya ek kadam chhod bhi deta hai. Ye kabhi nahi kehta ki aur kya, kisse, kiski keemat par. Kisi project mein thodi zyada awaaz chaahna aur kisi se kuch chheenna chaahna bahut alag chaahten hain, aur niyam dono ko ek bana deta hai.
Agar is vaakya se poocha jaaye “Aur kya, theek-theek?”, to aaj ka imaandaar jawab kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya wo ek cheez sachmuch usi tarah ki chaah hai jisse niyam darr raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Har chaah ko chhaantkar chhota karne wali awaaz #
“Kisne maanga tha ye?” “Jaisa hai theek hai.” “Ab koi faltu baat mat chhedo.” Ye awaaz aksar tab aati hai jab chaah yojana banne lagti hai, aur samajhdaar lagti hai, kisi aise ki tarah jo nirasha se bacha raha ho.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki wo tab sabse zyada bolti hai jab sab achha chal raha ho: office mein achha saal, basa hua ghar, khush dikhta parivaar. Bahar se jitna achha dikhe, nayi chaah utni hi badtameezi lagti hai.
Chaah ko chhota karte waqt ye awaaz kiski udhaari leti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya ye aapki apni soch-samajhkar ki parakh hai, ya kisi rasoi ya classroom se uthayi hui, is chaah se bahut pehle ki?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Ye niyam kabhi-kabhi kahan se shuru hota hai #
“Jo hai usi mein khush raho.” “Kitno ke paas toh itna bhi nahi.” “Zyada maangna achha nahi lagta.” Kuch logon ne aisi baatein tab suni jab koi chaah zor se kahi gayi, mele mein, khilone ki dukaan par, khane ki table par.
Kuch gharon mein kam chaahne se shaanti bani rehti thi, jab sabki chaahton ke liye ek saath jagah nahi thi, aur wajahein ghar-ghar alag hoti hain. Bachcha chupchaap ye seekh sakta hai ki chaah kehne se pehle hi maafi maangne ki cheez hai.
Khud ki chaah batana pehli baar kab bahut maang lene jaisa laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us waqt paas mein kaun tha, aur sunkar unke chehre ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche baitha chup niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Aur chaahne ka matlab hai ki jo hai usse santosh nahi,” ya “Maine aur maanga to koi mujhe kam aankega.” Pehla vaakya sunayi deta hai; neeche wala niyam tay karta hai ki kya maanga jaayega.
Aise niyam niyam jaise nahi lagte. Ye samajhdaari jaise lagte hain, jaise raat ko awaaz dheemi kar dena. Isiliye inhein nikalkar din ki roshni mein dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko shuruaati saalon tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise abhi ke kaam, logon aur yojanaon ke bagal mein dekha ja sakta hai.
Ye kin kamron mein ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ek saal ki chhanti hui chaahten kya jodti hain #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai course ka link save karke kabhi na kholna, bada project chupchaap kisi aur ke liye chhod dena, teen garmiyon se talti yatra, kisi shauk ko Sunday ke ek kone tak seemit rakhna. Kuch natakiya nahi; sab kuch aasaani se nazar se chhootne wala.
Ek baareek keemat bhi hai. Chaahton ko chhota rakhne mein mehnat lagti hai, aur aas-paas ke logon ko kabhi pata hi nahi chalta ki kis baat se mann khilta hai, kyunki wo kahi hi nahi jaati. Kuch log kehte hain ki unhein ab theek-theek nahi pata ki wo chahte kya hain.
Kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Uthti chaah ko har baar neeche dabana sachmuch kaam hai.
Pichhle saal ko dekhein to kaun si chaah sabse zyada chhanti, aur use chhaantne ki kya keemat rahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, chaahten chhoti rakhte hue #
Ek aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “Mujhe aur ki chaah nahi rakhni chahiye” zor se baj rahi ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ki cheez nahi.
Shayad ek job alert dekhkar archive kar dena, lunch par kisi dost ki nayi yojana ki garmjoshi se taareef aur apna idea ankaha, ek shaam ki class jo agle mahine kisi aur ki diary mein shuru hoti hai.
Inmein se kuch bhavishyavaani nahi hai, aur tasveer jab chahein kinare rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya hai: kaam, baatcheet, wo chaahten jo uthin aur phir baith gayin?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din kya chaaha jaata hai, aur kya kaha jaata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Tuesday ko dekhkar, agar kuch, to kya alag se dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Aur kiski, aur kiski jagah? #
Aur chaahne ka matlab ye nahi ki jo hai usmein se kam chaaha ja raha hai. Koi apni job pasand karke bhi naya hunar chaah sakta hai, apne shehar se pyaar karke bhi doosra shehar dekhna chaah sakta hai, parivaar ke saath khush rehkar bhi ek shaam apne liye chaah sakta hai.
Jo chaah apne sir mein lalach lagti hai, wo kisi dost ke munh se bilkul aam lagti hai: dost ko chaalis mein tairna seekhna hai, team sambhalni hai, Sarafa ke baad wali gali mein pottery class karni hai.
Kya wo bahut zyada lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek aur raasta: agar koi chhota bhai-behen ya dost aapko yahi chaah bataye, to aap usse kya kahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya wahi, jo ye niyam aapse kehta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Jab kuch log is niyam ko dheere-dheere dekhte hain, to paate hain ki ye chaahne se nahi rokta. Ye bas kehne se rokta hai, isliye chaah chupchaap peeche chalti rehti hai, adhoori aur ankahi, mahinon ya saalon tak.
Kuch ye bhi dekhte hain ki niyam unke saath baaki sabse zyada sakht hai. Colleague ka bada role maangna theek lagta hai; dost ka akele safar par jaana bahaduri lagta hai. Wahi chaah apni zindagi mein achanak bahut zyada lagne lagti hai.
Kaun si chaah in dinon chupchaap peeche chal rahi hai, kabhi zor se kahi nahi gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur us par ek nyaaypurn nazar mein niyam ke pehle shabd ke alawa kya-kya aayega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Ye tay karna zaroori nahi ki aur chaahna sahi hai #
Is yakeen se sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki har chaah ke peeche bhaagna chahiye. Matlab ye hai ki chaah ko kharij karne se pehle dekha jaaye, taaki uske baare mein chunav aapka ho, niyam ka nahi.
Kuch logon ko chaah ko jaankari ki tarah lena halka lagta hai, ki unke liye kya maayne rakhta hai iska ek saada note, aisi maang nahi jise abhi maanna ya thukrana pade. Chaah kuch samay bas jaani ja sakti hai.
Kuch chaahten achhi wajahon se chup rakhi jaati hain, suraksha samet, aur ye bhi chalta hai.
Ek hafte tak chaah ko rehne dein, na us par amal karein, na khud ko usse manayein, to kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
“Mujhe aur ki chaah nahi rakhni chahiye” se behes karne ki jagah, kuch log aisi line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Jo hai use pasand karte hue bhi aur ke baare mein socha ja sakta hai.” Ise purane vaakya ko haraana nahi hai, bas uske bagal mein baithna hai.
Shuru mein iska sach lagna zaroori nahi. Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki chaah uthne par chupke se kahi apni line purani ki thodi jagah le leti hai. Kuch ko aisa nahi lagta, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo is baare mein imaandaar ho ki jo hai wo kya hai aur kis baare mein sochna hai, bina kisi se chaah ki manzoori maange?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch chaahten bas intezaar kar sakti hain #
Har chaah ko aaj hi yojana, faisla ya baatcheet nahi chahiye. Kuch ko notice karke, ek baar palatkar, us shelf par rakha ja sakta hai jahan wo dikhti rahein, jaise lambe weekend ke liye bachayi kitab.
Ye use chhodna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki dobara kab dekhna hai, aur kuch logon ko nazar ke saamne rakhi chaah us chaah se bahut alag lagti hai jo uthte hi pare dhakel di gayi.
Shaam bhar ke liye is vaakya ko neeche rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki ye theek tha, ya baat suljh gayi. Bas itna ki niyam ko har chaah ke peeche baaki din mein chalna zaroori nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema hai. Chaah uth sakti hai aur use bhejne se pehle dekha ja sakta hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: course ka page aakhir tak padhna, chai par kisi dost ko batana ki kaun si jagah dekhni hai, ya ek achhe din ka maza bina halki chubhan ke lena.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai, chahe kitna bhi chhota lage. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, thoda sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi ‘aur mat chaaho’ wali line”
- Chaah uthe to chupchaap poochiye: aur kya, theek-theek?
- Aaj ki ek chhoti chaah par dhyaan dijiye, chahe kitni bhi chhoti
- Sochiye ki koi dost yahi chaah bol raha hai, aur dekhiye kaisi sunayi deti hai
- Ek chaah ko bina kuch tay kiye ek baar poora soch lene dijiye
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Wo kaun si ek chaah hai jise aapne itni jaldi mana liya ki uska naam bhi nahi pad paaya?
- Kuch naya chaahne ka mann hote hi, mann mein sabse pehle kaun tyori chadhata hai?
- Agar chaahna jo hai usse asantosh na hota, to aap kya maangte?
- Jis aam din ye yakeen zor se bole, tab bhi kya tal raha hoga?
- Agar ye thoda halka ho, to kaun si chhoti chaah sabse pehle dikhegi?