Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jab aisa nahi hota, to coach thanda lag sakta hai, jaise sabne chupchaap tay kar liya ho ki dekhna nahi hai.
Kuch logon ke liye ye kandhe par mummy-papa ka haath tha: “Utho, aunty ko baithne do.”
Vichar ke neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Jise zyada zaroorat hai, uska khayal rakho,” ya “Bhala insaan uth jaata hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Baithe logon ko ghoorna, is aas mein ki koi nazar uthaye
- Thake hone par bhi apni seat de dena, baat saabit karne ko
- Sabse paas wale ko teekha-sa kuch keh dena
- Nazar pher lena, kyunki dekhna bahut asahaj hai
- Ghar lautkar pakka maan lena ki log ab ek-doosre ka khayal nahi rakhte
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Khambha thaame wo mahila
Delhi ki bheed bhari metro, shaam ka waqt. Ek buzurg mahila bhaari bag liye chadhti hain aur jhatke mein khambha thaam leti hain. Theek saamne ek naujawan phone par scroll karta baitha hai, nazar nahi uthata. Aap apni seat dene ke liye bahut door ho. Aap dekhte ho, jabda kasa hua, aur unki taraf se ek garm-si jhunjhalaahat uthti hai.
Zaroorat-mand ko log seat dein
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Zaroorat-mand ko log apni seat dein.” Ye bilkul jaayaz lagta hai. Kuch baatein bas sharafat ki hain. Par dekhiye ye kya karta hai: har safar ko badtameezi ki chupchaap nigraani bana deta hai. Aap coachon mein beadabi dhoondhte ho, aur har baitha anjaan is baat ki ek chhoti wajah ban jaata hai ki log ab parwah nahi karte.
Doosron ka khayal kyun maayne rakhta hai
Hum ise isliye thamte hain kyunki zaroorat-mand ka khayal rakhna buniyadi sharafat lagta hai. Shayad aapko bina kahe badon ke liye khade hona sikhaya gaya tha. Shayad aap hamesha apni seat dete ho, aur dhyaan dete ho jab doosre nahi dete. Jo bhi ho, chahna ki log parwah karein, updesh nahi hai. Ye duniya ko naram dekhne ki chaahat se aata hai. Ise narmi milni chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Har baithe anjaan par jhunjhalaahat
Har baitha anjaan jhunjhalaahat mein kuch jodta hai. Dheere-dheere sab judta jaata hai. Aap har safar mein logon ko taulne lagte ho. Us drishya ko office tak paidal dohrate ho. Logon ke baare mein aam taur par thoda aur kadwa mehsoos karte ho. Aana-jaana, jo pehle hi thakata hai, chupchaap gusse se bhaari ho jaata hai, aur wo bhaaripan office aur kabhi-kabhi baaki din tak saath chalta hai.
Kya jhunjhalaahat safar ke layak hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya badtameezi par nazar rakhne se aur log uthe? Ya zyada-tar safar bhaari hue? Anjaan log thake ho sakte hain, aisi takleef mein jo dikhti nahi, ya bas dhyaan nahi diya. Pakka koi nahi keh sakta. Jo bhi ho, ek baitha anjaan is baat ka paimana nahi ki log kitne bhale hain. Kya is niyam ko itni kaskar pakde rakhna theek hai?
Khud bhale banna, bhalon ko dekhna
Chhodne ka matlab ye maan lena nahi ki meherbaani maayne nahi rakhti. Matlab ye ki ek baitha anjaan ab tay nahi karta ki aap logon ke baare mein kaisa mehsoos karein. Jab ho sake, aap apni seat de sakte ho, aur bhale logon ko bhi dekh sakte ho. Pehle kuch aur badalna zaroori nahi. Yahin thoda sukoon lautta hai: safar halke lagte hain, aur aapki apni meherbaani wo chunav rehti hai jise karke aapko achha lagta hai.
Being harassed, followed, filmed, touched or grabbed, pushed up against on a crowded bus, or picked on for who you are is not about seats; it is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleLog apni seat dein.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleBhala banna mere haath mein hai, aur bhalon ko dekhna bhi.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Agle safar mein ek bhale anjaan par gaur kijiye
- Din 2
Jab ho sake, ek baar seat dijiye, bas yun hi
- Din 3
Jhunjhalaahat uthe to khidki se bahar dekhkar saans lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kisi anjaan ko safar mein kuch karte hue dekha, usmein sabse bhali baat kya thi?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Railing thaame ek buzurg, aur bhari hui saari seatein #
Lucknow mein Charbagh se Hazratganj jaati shaam ki city bus jhatke se mudti hai. Ek buzurg ek haath se railing aur doosre se sabzi ka jhola pakde hain. Har seat par log phone mein doobe hain. Koi nahi hilta. Mann mein uthta hai: “Zaroorat-mand ko log apni seat dein.”
Ye metro ke coach mein ho sakta hai, local train mein, share auto mein, kisi waiting room mein. Kabhi khada koi aur hota hai. Kabhi aap khud, thakaan aur bahut saamaan ke bojh mein, baithi hui qataaron ko waise hi baitha dekhte.
Kab aapne kisi ko seat chhodte dekha jisse poora coach naram laga, aur usne kya kiya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Dekhte hue seene mein kasaav #
Kuch logon ko kisi ko dagmagate aur thaamte dekhkar seene mein kasaav lagta hai. Kuch ko baithe hue logon par garm-sa gussa uthta hai, aur zor se kuch bol dene ka mann karta hai.
Aankhein aksar khade insaan aur baithe hue logon ke beech aati-jaati hain, jaise koi dekh le to achha. Shareer jaise second ginta rehta hai.
Pichhli baar jab aapne kisi ko khada dekha aur seatein bhari rahin, to sabse pehle kya mehsoos hua, aur kahan?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Seat dena care ka ek chhota tareeka hai #
Kam chaahatein isse zyada samajh mein aati hain. Seat chhodne mein zara-si suvidha jaati hai aur kisi ko sach mein raahat milti hai. Anjaan log ek-doosre ka khayal rakhein, iske sabse seedhe tareekon mein se ye ek hai.
Jab aisa nahi hota, to coach thanda lag sakta hai, jaise sabne chupchaap tay kar liya ho ki dekhna nahi hai. Bhale khade aap na hon, ye chubh sakta hai, kyunki ye us tasveer ko chhoota hai ki logon ko kaisa hona chahiye.
Jab koi anjaan kisi ko apni seat deta hai, to dekhte hue aap par kya asar hota hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Galiyare ki awaaz #
“Dikhta nahi kya inhein?” “Ek bhi nahi.” “Logon ko ho kya gaya hai?” Awaaz oonchi aur tez ho sakti hai, aur stop ke baad bhi chalti rehti hai, ghar par wahi kissa phir sunati hai.
Ye gaur karna kaam aa sakta hai ki awaaz anjaanon se bhare ek coach se poori duniya par kood jaati hai. Ek bheed wali bus kisi badi baat ka saboot ban jaati hai, aur use apne stop par utarna bhaari lagta hai.
Jab galiyare ki awaaz bolti hai, to wo logon ke baare mein kya kehti hai, aur kya sach bane rehne ki aas rakhti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Seat wala niyam kahan seekha gaya #
Kuch logon ke liye ye kandhe par mummy-papa ka haath tha: “Utho, aunty ko baithne do.” Kuch ke liye school bus ka niyam, ya dada-nana ko muskurakar seat milte dekhna aur garv mehsoos karna.
Jagahon mein iska tareeka alag hai. Kuch buson aur trains mein nishaan lagi seatein aur board hain. Kuch shehar un logon ke liye badge dete hain jinki zaroorat aankh se nahi dikhti. Kahin sab aadat par chalta hai. Kya aam hai, ye shehar-dar-shehar badal sakta hai.
Aapko seat chhodna kisne sikhaya, aur jinhein aap seat de rahe the unke baare mein usne kya kaha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Seat ke neeche ka niyam #
Vichar ke neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Jise zyada zaroorat hai, uska khayal rakho,” ya “Bhala insaan uth jaata hai.” Ye pyaara niyam hai. Par ye anjaanon se bhi wahi dekhne ki ummeed karta hai jo aap dekhte ho, aur wo hamesha wahi nahi dekhte.
Kuch log ise bachpan se laate hain, kuch ko khud seat ki zaroorat padi tab ye mila. Jo bhi ho, ye izzat ke layak niyam hai, aur aisa bhi jise dekha ja sakta hai.
Seat wala niyam kahan aapko waisa insaan banata hai jaisa aap banna chahte ho, aur kahan bhari bus ko sab par faisla bana deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Seatein dekhte rehne ki keemat #
Safar bees minute ka hai. Keemat lambi ho sakti hai: logon ke baare mein bhaaripan, office mein teekha mood, chupchaap ye ehsaas ki duniya se meherbaani ghat rahi hai.
Kuch log har coach ko ye dekhte hue paate hain ki kise khada hona chahiye, aur safar gasht ban jaata hai. Isse aane-jaane ka chhota-sa aaram chala jaata hai, achhe dinon mein bhi.
Jis safar mein seatein bhari rahin, us pal ne aapke din se kya liya, aur kitni der tak?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Ghar lautne ki ek bus-yatra #
Koi saadharan ghar-wapasi sochiye jab “Zaroorat-mand ko log apni seat dein” zor se baj rahi ho. Seaton ki qataarein, screen, railing thaame ek insaan. Bas dekhne ke liye ek tasveer.
Shayad bus mein kisi ko khada dekhna aur seaton ka bhara rehna, jabda kasa hua, stop ek pal ko chookna kyunki aankhein kisi aur kaam mein thin.
Ye ek drishya hai, jo hona zaroori nahi, aur kabhi bhi band kiya ja sakta hai.
Us safar mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ismein aap kya gaur karte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Hum jo dekhte hain, wo log aksar nahi dekhte #
Seat par baitha insaan screen mein khoya ho sakta hai, raat ki shift ke baad aadha soya ho sakta hai, ya apni aisi zaroorat liye ho sakta hai jo kisi ko nahi dikhti. Kuch log tab tak nahi dekhte ki kaun khada hai jab tak koi keh na de.
Kai jagah maangne par log jhat seat de dete hain, par bina maange dene mein dheeme hote hain. Chaahat jaayaz rehti hai; chuppi ka matlab care ki kami nahi, kam dekhna bhi ho sakta hai.
Kabhi aapne dhyaan nahi diya ho ki kisi ko seat ki zaroorat hai, to us waqt aapke saath kya chal raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo seatein di gayin #
Ye chupchaap hoti hain: wo kishor jo chhote bachche wali mahila ke liye uchalkar utha, wo office wali jisne buzurg ko haath ke ishaare se apni seat par bulaya, wo anjaan jisne apna bag khisakakar jagah banayi.
Ye un coachon ko nahi bharte jahan koi nahi hila. Ye unhi safaron ka hissa hain, wo hissa jo aksar sunaya nahi jaata.
Bus ya train mein kisi ki kaun si chhoti meherbaani aap thoda aur mehsoos karna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Meherbaani jo aapse shuru ho, aur wahin ruke bhi #
Baat logon se ummeed chhodne ki nahi hai. Naram coach ki chaahat achhi chaahat hai. Jo badal sakta hai, wo ye ki seaton ki ek bhari qataar poori duniya ke baare mein kitna tay kare.
Saarvajanik jagah mein izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi, aapke liye bhi aur khade insaan ke liye bhi. Agar paas mein koi bechain ya asurakshit lage, to wo is chaahat se alag baat hai, aur uske liye madad bulana karne layak hai.
Bheed wali bus mein pareshan kiya jaana, peecha, video banana, chhoona ya pakadna, dhakka dekar satna, ya aap jo hain us par nishaana banana (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, disability, ya aap kahan se hain) seaton ki baat nahi hai. Ise gambhirta se lein; hat jaana ya madad lena surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Agle bhare coach ki kalpana kijiye, is chaahat ko is baar naram haath se thame hue: koi khada hai, aur aap kaun si chhoti baat chunte ho jo chunna aapke haath mein hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Bhari bus ke liye ek pankti #
“Zaroorat-mand ko log apni seat dein” ke bagal mein kuch log ye pankti rakhte hain: “Naram coach mujhe chahiye, aur usmein ek bhali sawaari hona mere haath mein hai.” Ise jeetna nahi hai. Ye bas saath chalti hai.
Garm, khachakhach bus mein ye zyada suthri lag sakti hai. Kuch log apni pankti chunte hain, seedhi ya khurdari.
Aapki apni kaun si pankti yahan jamegi, jo meherbaani ki aas bachaye aur safar aapka rakhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Bhara coach bas mein hi reh sakta hai #
Har bhare coach par faisla zaroori nahi. Use maan liya ja sakta hai aur peeche chhoda ja sakta hai, jaise bus ka ticket jeb mein thoonskar bhula diya jaata hai.
Safar mein meherbaani ki aas aapke saath reh sakti hai. Koi sach mein mushkil mein ho, ya kisi ko nishaana banaya ja raha ho, to wo alag baat hai, aur us par kadam uthana theek hai.
Halke kadmon se utar jaane ka matlab ye nahi ki sab sahi tha, aur isse kuch tay nahi hota. Bas itna ki din ka baaki hissa doosri baaton ka ho sakta hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar bhari seatein thodi kam bhaari lagein #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye: wahi bhara coach, aur chaahat ek paaydan dheemi. Aap dekhte ho, aur jab ho sake to apni seat de dete ho. Jab na ho sake, to pal ko rehne dete ho.
Wo chhota ho sakta hai: baithne wale ki muskaan, stop se halki chaal, ghar par us ek insaan ka kissa jo utha.
Inmein se kuch bhi kisi ko sunana zaroori nahi. Is chaahat se sulah ka card palatiye, phir wo jo pehle se hai.
Sabse pehle kya badalta hai, bhale zara-sa?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapka kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti, shaant cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Is hafte ek baar seat dijiye, bas isliye ki de sakte ho
- Aise anjaan ko dekhiye jisne kisi ke liye jagah banayi
- Jab coach baitha hi rahe, to ehsaas ko ek shabd dijiye
- Gaur kijiye ki chubhan khade insaan ke liye zyada hai, ya logon ki tasveer ke liye
- Wo din yaad kijiye jab kisi ne aapko seat di
Jo theek lage, wo aazmaiye. Koi bhi kaam nahi hai.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kisi anjaan ko safar mein kuch karte hue dekha, usmein sabse bhali baat kya thi?
- Aapko saarvajanik jagah mein doosron ka khayal rakhna kisne sikhaya, aur kaise?
- Kab kisi ne theek tab aapke liye jagah banayi jab zaroorat thi?
- Agar bhari seatein aapko zara kam khalti, to aapke safar kaise lagte?
- Safar mein aap pehle se kaun si bhali baatein karte ho jinhein dekhna chahoge?