Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Wajah ke bina chhota-sa hukm ek khaali jagah chhod jaata hai, aur mann use sabse kadhe andaaze se bharta hai: zyada tez, zyada ho gaya, sharmindagi ki baat.
Kuch log patli deewaron, saajha seedhiyon aur ek chhat ke neeche teen peediyon mein pale, jahan dheemi awaaz bas din chalane ka tareeka thi.
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Meri baat ki koi ginti nahi,” ya “Log kya sochenge, yahi maayne rakhta hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Phusphusakar aadhe shabdon mein qissa nipta dena
- Baat beech mein chhod dena aur baatcheet ko aage badhne dena
- Thoda aur zor se bolna, dikhane ke liye ki asar nahi hua
- Baaki din bolne se pehle dekh lena ki aaspaas kaun hai
- Hanskar taal dena, phir ghar ke raaste chup ho jaana
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Ravivaar ke lunch mein beech ki tok
Ravivaar ka lunch, Kolkata ke flat mein. Hansi ke beech aapki awaaz oonchi ho jaati hai. Mummy ki bhauhein tan jaati hain: “Awaaz neeche! Deewaron ke bhi kaan hote hain.” Mez chup ho jaati hai. Qissa phusphusakar khatam hota hai, phir bolne ka mann hi nahi rehta. Poori shaam lagta rehta hai ki aap zaroorat se zyada ho, jaise aapka hona hi kamre mein bahut jagah gheerta hai.
Meri awaaz bahut jagah gheerti hai
Ye shabd ek aise niyam par girte hain jo shayad pehle se wahan hai: “Meri awaaz bahut jagah gheerti hai.” Ye tameez aur lihaaz jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapke bolne ke apne dhang ko chhipane ki cheez bana deta hai. Hansi bhi galti lagne lagti hai, aur logon ke beech aapka sahaj hona is par tik jaata hai ki aap khud ko kitna chhota kar lein.
Humein chup rehna kyun sikhaya gaya
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki humein aksar chup rehne ko kaha gaya. Shayad aapne suna ki achhe bachche dikhte hain, sunayi nahi dete. Shayad aap shaant ghar ke sabse chahakte sadasya the. Ye niyam bewajah nahi. Ye lihaaz aur sabke saath ghulne-milne ki chaah se aata hai. Shayad aapka bolna kisi shor bhare, garm ghar se aaya, aur yahan alag lagta hai. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Qisse kam, hansi dheemi
Har “Awaaz neeche” aapko thoda aur chhota kar deta hai. Qisse sunana kam ho jaata hai. Hansi dheemi padti hai. Aap doosron ke chehron par dekhte rehte ho ki kahin zyada to nahi hua. Mazedaar baatein ab doosre sunate hain. Har mehfil mein aap khud ka chhota roop reh jaate ho, aur ghar thake hue lautte ho. Dheere-dheere aapki urja aur humour dabne lagte hain, aur aaspaas ke log wo hissa kho dete hain jo kamre mein jaan bharta hai.
Kya khud ko chhota karna sahi?
Khud se imaandari se poochhiye: kya khud ko dheema kar lene se kabhi zyada apnapan mila? Ya zyadatar bas chhota mehsoos hua? Kabhi sach mein ghar so raha hota hai, aur wo baat jaayaz hai; baaki tippani unki apni thi. Aapki awaaz is baat ka paimana nahi ki aap is mehfil ke ho ya nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna us keemat ke laayak hai jo ye maangta hai?
Aapki awaaz ko jagah ki ijaazat
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki sote bachche ko andekha karna hai. Matlab ye hai ki aapki awaaz ko jagah lene ki ijaazat hai. Kaam ki baat, ki kab chup rehna hai, rakh lijiye aur baaki usi ke paas chhod dijiye jisne kahi thi. Wahin se kuch chain lautta hai: aapke qisse aur aapki hansi reh sakte hain, kamre ke hisaab ki awaaz mein.
Where a room really does react badly to a raised voice, with threats, being hurt or frightened, that is worth taking seriously, and some rooms don't need testing.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMeri awaaz bahut jagah gheerti hai.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMeri awaaz ko jagah lene ki ijaazat hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Is hafte koi mazedaar baat apni asli awaaz mein kahiye
- Din 2
Kisi mehfooz jagah par kisi baat par khulkar hansiye
- Din 3
Sochiye ki aapki urja mein logon ko kya achha lagta hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Jab ye tok aayi, tab aap kya kehne ke beech mein the, aur wo kabhi poora hua?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Chaar shabd, aur qissa beech mein hi ruk gaya #
Ravivaar ki dopahar, Kolkata ke flat ki chhoti-si dining table. Office ka qissa apne sabse mazedaar mod tak pahunchne hi wala hai ki mummy tokti hain: “Awaaz neeche! Deewaron ke bhi kaan hote hain.” Poori mez chup, aur qissa wahin atak jaata hai.
Sunne mein ye bas awaaz ki baat lagti hai, aur kabhi-kabhi hoti bhi hai. Par ye theek beech mein aati hai: hansi ke beech, koi dalil dete hue, koi khabar sunate hue. Tok us sentence par girti hai jo chal raha tha, aur aksar use kehne ki chaah par bhi.
Aakhri baar ye kahan suna tha, aur baat kis mod par thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Uska baaki hissa kabhi kaha gaya, usi din ya baad mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Sochne se pehle awaaz kyun gir jaati hai #
Kisi ka chehra tap jaata hai aur baat ke beech hi awaaz phusphusahat ban jaati hai. Koi zaroorat se zyada hanskar topic badal deta hai. Koi baaki khaane bhar, ya Metro ke baaki safar bhar, chup ho jaata hai. Inmein se kuch bhi ho sakta hai, aur kisi ko safai nahi deni.
Sabke saamne toke jaane par dimaag pehle yahi dekhta hai ki kisne suna aur kaun mudkar dekha.
Sochna baad mein aata hai, Metro se ghar lautte hue ya bistar par, ki kya sach mein itni tez thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Un shabdon ke theek baad aapki awaaz ko kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur nazar kahan gayi: kehne wale par, thaali par, ya baaki sabke chehron par?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Baat awaaz ki hai, par lagti bolne par hai #
“Bagal ke kamre mein bachcha so raha hai” ek kamre ki jaankari hai. Bina wajah ke “Awaaz neeche” kamre ko chhodkar seedhe insaan tak pahunch jaata hai, jaise dikkat waqt, patli deewar ya shaant dibbe ki nahi, awaaz ki hi ho.
Wajah ke bina chhota-sa hukm ek khaali jagah chhod jaata hai, aur mann use sabse kadhe andaaze se bharta hai: zyada tez, zyada ho gaya, sharmindagi ki baat. Wo andaaza kahi gayi baat se kahin bada lag sakta hai.
Agar saath mein koi wajah mili hoti, to kya hoti?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur chubhan mein kitna awaaz ka tha, kitna beech sentence mein rok diye jaane ka?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab ye rok andar se aane lage #
Baar-baar suno to ye andar aa baithta hai. “Dheere, log sun rahe hain.” “Yahan aise mat hanso.” “Baad mein batana.” Lift mein, phone par, rishtedaaron ki mez par, kisi ke kuch kahe bina hi awaaz apne aap neeche ho jaati hai.
Kehne wala shayad koson door hai, par jaanch chalti rehti hai. Qissa sapaat awaaz mein sunaya jaata hai, joke chhote kamre ke liye bacha liya jaata hai, raay aise budbudayi jaati hai ki koi pakad hi na paye. Ye tameez jaisa lagta hai, isliye is par sawaal kam uthta hai.
“Dheere” kehte hue ye awaaz kiski udhaar leti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Maa-baap ki, kisi teacher ki, Metro mein kisi ajnabi ki, ya itni purani ki ab uska koi chehra nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch gharon mein chup rehna pehla niyam tha #
“Dheere bol, padosi sunenge.” “Mehmaanon ke saamne dheeme bolo.” “Shhh, log dekh rahe hain.” Kuch log patli deewaron, saajha seedhiyon aur ek chhat ke neeche teen peediyon mein pale, jahan dheemi awaaz bas din chalane ka tareeka thi.
Kuch parivaaron mein ghar ka shaant rehna maayne rakhta tha, aur wajhein har ghar mein alag hain. Bachcha chupchaap ek aur sabak le leta hai: ki apni poori awaaz pehle jaanchni hai, aur kitni chalegi ye doosron ke kaan tay karte hain.
Pehli baar kab seekha ki zor se hansne se pehle idhar-udhar dekh lena hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kisne sikhaya, aur jin dino ye dhyaan nahi raha, tab unke chehre par kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Kitni jagah leni hai, is par ek chup niyam #
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Meri baat ki koi ginti nahi,” ya “Log kya sochenge, yahi maayne rakhta hai.” Kuch log iska roz ka roop dhote hain: “Apni asli awaaz mein bola, to kisi ko bura lagega.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte hi nahi. Wo lihaaz jaise lagte hain, jaise tang seedhi par kisi ko raasta de dena. Isiliye inhein ek baar dekhna theek hai: lihaaz jaisa dikhne wala niyam chupchaap tay kar sakta hai ki kiski kitni suni jayegi.
Kuch log ise kisi ek ghar ya kamre se jod paate hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Ye kin kamron mein ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Aadhi awaaz mein bolne ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai bina sabse mazedaar hisse wale qisse, itni dheemi raay ki koi doosra use daba de, khushkhabri budbudakar batana. Kuch log mez ki sabse zordaar, sabse khush baatcheet se bahut pehle door ho jaate hain, jabki shamil hona chahte ab bhi hain.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Har kamre mein apni awaaz par nazar rakhna lagaataar mehnat hai, aur paas ke log aksar kata-chhanta roop hi sunte hain. Saal bhar mein aisi kai shaamein jud jaati hain jab kehne laayak baat thi, aur itni dheemi kahi gayi ki kisi ne dhyaan hi nahi diya.
Ye kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Din bhar awaaz par haath rakhna thakata hai.
Pichhle saal iski keemat kya rahi: dabayi hui hansi, adhoori reh gayi baat, koi qissa jiska ant kabhi suna hi nahi gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, aadhi awaaz mein #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “Bola to kisi ko bura lagega” andar zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad seedhi ke mod par phusphusakar li gayi call, lunch mein sunaya qissa ek line mein nipta diya gaya, meeting ka sawaal itna dheema ki kisi aur ne dobara poochha, Metro mein dabayi gayi hansi. Shayad dost se lambi gappe kisi aur jagah ke liye taal di gayi.
Is tasveer mein abhi kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur isme kuch bhi tay nahi.
Usme kya hai: call, khaana, baatcheetein, adhoore reh gaye qisse?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhte hue, agar kuch, to kya alag se dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Zyada tez, par kiske hisaab se? #
Awaaz ka matlab kisi jagah ke hisaab se hota hai: sota bachcha, library, shaant dibba, bagal ke kamre mein call.
Jo awaaz shaant flat mein zyada lagi, wahi birthday mein raunak bhar deti hai, team ko bula leti hai, ya bheed bhare bazaar mein dost ko hansa deti hai. Koi awaaz fit baithti hai ya nahi, ye aksar kamre par nirbhar karta hai.
Jagah ka naam lete hi sawaal uthta hai: ye tok ek pal aur ek jagah ki thi, ya poore insaan aur uske bolne ke dhang ki?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek aur nazar: agar aapke kisi kareebi dost ko usi kamre mein qisse ke beech roka jaata, to aapko kya lagta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Baat uski awaaz ki hoti, ya kamre ki?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dheere se dohrane par kya dikhta hai #
Jab kuch log wo pal dheere-dheere dohrate hain, to unhein dikhta hai ki asal mein kya ho raha tha: aam awaaz mein hansi, kisi shaant kone mein phone, kisi baat mein thodi bhaavna.
Kuch ko wo jagahein dikhti hain jahan poori awaaz ka swagat hai: wo dost jo poora qissa maangta hai, koi bhai-behen jo aur zor se hansta hai, koi colleague jise idea seedhe sunna hai. Kabhi kamra sach mein bahut shaant tha, aur kabhi awaaz bas awaaz thi.
Us chuppi ke barabar rakhkar dekhein, to wo pal ab kaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Haal mein aise kaun se aasaan kamron mein baithna hua, aur jab koi volume ki taraf haath nahi badha raha tha, tab aapki awaaz kaisi lagi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Har kamre ka sahi volume dhoondhna zaroori nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki awaaz zyada thi, na ye dikhana ki chubha nahi. Matlab bas itna ki un chaar shabdon ka is shaam par, aur agla qissa kaise sunaya jayega is par, kam chale.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo har kamre ke liye pehle se sahi volume tay karna chhodte hain. Wo khoj din bhar chalti hai, kyunki har kamre ko kuch aur chahiye, aur har mez par ek hi tok baithi rehti hai.
Jahan koi kamra oonchi awaaz par sach mein bura maanta hai, wo gambhirta se lene laayak hai, aur aise kamre ko aazmana zaroori nahi.
Kaisa ho agar kaam ki baat rakh lein, ki kab ghar so raha hai, aur baaki usi ke paas chhod dein jisne kahi thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha sentence #
Agar “Meri awaaz bahut zyada hai” saalon se andar chal raha hai, to usse seedhe behes ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajay ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Kuch kamre phusphusane ke hote hain. Har kamra nahi.”
Ye abhi sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas aazmane ki line hai, aur kuch logon ko lagta hai ki family lunch ya bheed bhare safar se pehle chupchaap dohrane par pehli baar idhar-udhar dekhne wali chubhan thodi ghat jaati hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha sentence kya hoga, jo sote hue ghar ka lihaaz bhi rakhe aur har qisse ko phusphusahat mein bhi na badle?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein mez par hi chhodi ja sakti hain #
Har tok ko palatkar jawab, maafi ya agli baar dheere bolne ka waada nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise lambi shaam ke baad kursi par tikayi shawl.
Ye haar maanna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki shaam ki taaqat kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain isse un qisson ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai jo wo sunana chahte hain, aur un logon ke liye jo har shabd sunna chahte hain.
Aaj raat ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki kuch galat hua hi nahi, ya baat sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki wo chaar shabd agle kamre, agli call, agli hansi mein saath na chalein.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar volume ek darja dheela ho #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Sota ghar tab bhi sota ghar hai, par aam hansi bas hansi hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: dost ko ant ke saath poora qissa sunana, khaali kamre mein aam awaaz mein call lena, ya shaam ki sair par aisi hansi jise koi jaanch nahi raha.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi dheere-bolo wali awaaz”
- Chupchaap poochhiye: zyada tez kiske liye, aur kis kamre mein?
- Gaur kijiye ki yaad mein zyada tez kya hai: shabd, ya beech sentence mein rok diya jaana
- Aisi ek jagah ya ek insaan sochiye jahan aapki poori awaaz ka swagat hai
- Aaj ki ek chhoti-si baat par dhyaan dijiye jo kehne ka mann tha, chahe kitni bhi chhoti
Chhote, niji aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aaj ke din ke hisaab se theek lage, wahi rakh lijiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Jab ye tok aayi, tab aap kya kehne ke beech mein the, aur wo kabhi poora hua?
- Awaaz giri to kamre mein kiska khayal sabse pehle aaya?
- Aapki awaaz kahan sabse zyada aapki apni lagti hai, aur wahan aam taur par kaun hota hai?
- Jis aam din ye dheere-bolo wala niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar ye thoda halka ho, to apni awaaz mein sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?