Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Board aksar wo lagate hain jo imaarat ko pehle se jaante hain, jabki naye aadmi ka dhyaan bag, waqt, ticket aur bheed mein banta hota hai.
Kuch log aisi classes ya gharon mein bade hue jahan nirdesh chookne par aah ya daant milti thi, aur dobara poochhna andaaza lagane se bhi bura lagta tha.
Neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Mujhe dikh jaana chahiye tha.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Samjhe bina hi jaldi se “Sorry” bol dena
- Palatkar jawab de dena, phir poore raaste use dohrate rehna
- Uske baad har nayi jagah mein har board ko do baar padhna
- Us counter ya station ke us gate se hafton bachna
- Line ke saamne hanskar taal dena, aur akele mein use mehsoos karna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Station par galat line
Patna Junction par aap das minute galat line mein khade rehte hain. Khidki par pahunchte hain to babu sheeshe ke paar se oopar ke board par ungli maarta hai: “Board par likha hai, padhna nahi aata kya?” Peechhe ki qatar aah bharti hai. Chehra jalne lagta hai. Aap doosri line ki taraf badhte hain, khud ko naadaan samajhte hue, aur baaki safar use dohrate rehte hain, jaise poore station ne dekha ho.
Logon ke saamne koi chook nahi
Ye shabd aise niyam par girte hain jo shaayad pehle se wahan hai: “Logon ke saamne koi ulti-seedhi galti nahi honi chahiye.” Ye samajhdaari jaisa lagta hai, kyunki naadaan dikhna kisi ko pasand nahi. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: ek chhoti-si gadbad ko sabke saamne ki sharm mein badal deta hai. Aam jagahon par aapka chain is par tik jaata hai ki ajnabiyon ke saamne kuch galat na ho.
Sabke saamne naadaan dikhne ka darr
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki bhari jagah mein naadaan dikhna bahut bura lagta hai. Shayad school mein kisi galti par aap par hansa gaya tha aur wo ehsaas gaya nahi. Shayad sikhaya gaya ki hamesha saavdhaan raho aur sab sahi karo. Niyam bewaqoofi nahi hai. Ye izzat aur logon ke beech sehaj rehne ki chaah se aata hai. Ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har board teen baar padhna
Har saarvajanik chook asal se badi lagti hai. Kisi bhi line mein lagne se pehle aap board teen baar padhte hain. Nayi jagahon mein, station aur daftaron mein, tanaav rehta hai. Chhote-chhote pal ghanton tak replay hote hain. Dheere-dheere roz ke kaam thakane wale lagne lagte hain, aur baaki sabki tarah chhoti galti karke aage badh jaane ki sehajta chali jaati hai.
Kya kabhi na chookna sahi hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: kya kabhi sabke saamne na chookne ki zaroorat ne aapko zyada shaant kiya? Ya zyadatar chhote palon ko bhaari banaya? Kabhi na kabhi har koi galat line mein khada hota hai, aur teekhe shabd babu ka apna chunaav the. Ek gadbad aapki qaabiliyat ka paimana nahi hai. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna us keemat ke laayak hai jo ye maangta hai?
Kandhe uchakakar aage badhna
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki teekhe shabd jaayaz the. Matlab ye ki ek chhoti gadbad chhoti hi reh sakti hai. Aap sahi line mein ja sakte hain, kandhe uchaka sakte hain, shaayad khud par muskura bhi sakte hain, aur baaki din waise hi jee sakte hain jaise sab jeete hain. Yahin se kuch chain lautta hai: aam galtiyan phir aam ho jaati hain, aur ajnabiyon ka mizaaj ajnabiyon ke paas hi rehta hai.
Being followed, threatened or frightened by anyone in a public place is a different thing, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleLogon ke saamne koi ulti-seedhi galti nahi honi chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleSabse chook hoti hai. Kandhe uchakakar aage badha ja sakta hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Chhoti gadbad ke baad khud se kahiye, “Ho jaata hai”
- Din 2
Wo ek waqt yaad kijiye jab kisi aur se wahi galti hui
- Din 3
Jab pal replay ho, to ek dheemi saans lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Use sunne laayak doori par kaun khada tha, aur kiska chehra aapko ab bhi yaad hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Paanch lafz, poori line ko sunayi dene laayak #
Patna Junction ka ticket counter, peechhe se bheed ka dhakka. Ya mall ki parking ka nikaas, sarkaari daftar ki khidki jahan form galat nikla. Sheeshe ke paar se ungli oopar ke board ki taraf: “Board par likha hai, padhna nahi aata kya?” Wahi board jiske neeche se abhi-abhi guzre the.
Galti aamtaur par chhoti aur theek hone laayak hoti hai: galat line, galat khidki, galat khaana bhar diya. Par shabd use is sawaal mein badal dete hain ki koi baaligh padhna jaanta bhi hai ya nahi, aur aksar ye ajnabiyon ki poori qatar ke saamne kaha jaata hai.
Aakhri baar ye, ya isse milta-julta, aapne kahan suna tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aap kya nipatane gaye the, aur kitna kaam abhi baaki tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Sochne se pehle hi chehra kyun tapta hai #
Koi chehre par jalan mehsoos karta hai aur bina jaane teen baar “Sorry” bol deta hai. Koi jam jaata hai, aur abhi dikhaya gaya board bhi nahi dhoondh paata. Koi palatkar jawab deta hai aur lautte hue aur bura mehsoos karta hai. Inmein se kisi ko safaai ki zaroorat nahi.
Ajnabiyon ke saamne toka jaana dimaag mein sochne se pehle darj ho jaata hai. Sochna aksar baad mein aata hai, bus ya auto mein, us shaant jawab ke saath jo bees minute der se soojha.
Pehle second mein aapne kya kiya: maafi maangi, jam gaye, behas ki, hans diye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur us pehli harkat se kya pata chalta hai ki wo pal kitna khula hua laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Baat board ki hai, chot insaan par lagti hai #
“General ticket ki line udhar hai, ye reservation ki hai” ek jaankari hai. Padhne wala sawaal jaankari ko chhodkar seedha insaan par nishaana lagata hai, jaise board chookna buniyaadi qaabiliyat ki kami ho, bheed bhari jagah ki baat nahi.
Board aksar wo lagate hain jo imaarat ko pehle se jaante hain, jabki naye aadmi ka dhyaan bag, waqt, ticket aur bheed mein banta hota hai. Khambhe par tanga board pehli baar aaye lagbhag kisi se bhi chhoot sakta hai.
Agar baat sirf jaankari ki hoti, to madadgaar vaakya kya hota?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur sawaal hata dein to galti kitni chhoti dikhti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab ungli andar se uthne lage #
Baar-baar suno to ye pehle bolne lagta hai. “Dobara dekh, phir galat ho jayega.” “Baaki sabko toh pata hai kahan jaana hai.” “Poochhna mat, khud hi samajh le.” Kisi nayi imaarat ka darwaza khulne se pehle hi ye awaaz chaalu ho jaati hai.
Ajnabi kab ka aage badh chuka, par jaanch chalti rehti hai. Kuch log nayi jagah pahunchkar har deewar padhte hain, pehle se jaakar sab dekh lete hain, ya guard ke paas se nikal jaate hain kyunki raasta poochhna hi jokhim lagta hai.
Jab ye “Theek se dekho” kehti hai to kiski awaaz mein bolti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Counter wale ajnabi jaisi, ya bahut pehle ki kisi aur ki?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ke liye anjaan hona matlab daant #
“Sawaal theek se padha tha?” “Board par likha hai, dhyaan se dekho.” Kuch log aisi classes ya gharon mein bade hue jahan nirdesh chookne par aah ya daant milti thi, aur dobara poochhna andaaza lagane se bhi bura lagta tha.
Kuch schoolon aur gharon mein pehli baar mein sahi karna hi sab kuch tha, aur iski wajahein alag-alag hain. Bachcha chupchaap ye maan sakta hai ki na jaanna sharmindagi hai, aur sabse achha yahi hai ki aise dikhao ki sab pehle se pata tha.
Nirdesh chookna pehli baar kab sharmnaak lagne laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Saamne kaun khada tha, aur galti hone par uski awaaz kaisi thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Pehli baar mein sahi karne ka ek chup niyam #
Neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Mujhe dikh jaana chahiye tha.” Ya uski behen: “Mujhe zyada samajh honi chahiye thi.” Kuch log aur teekha roop rakhte hain: “Batana pada to pehle hi haar ho gayi.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise nahi, samajhdaari jaise lagte hain, jaise platform number do baar dekh lena. Isiliye inhein dekhna chahiye: jo niyam akl jaisa lagta hai, wo har nayi jagah chupchaap kamaan sambhal sakta hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko kisi classroom ya rasoi ki mez tak dhoondh lete hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Ye ab kin kamron mein fit baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Board chookne ke darr ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai naye daftar mein ghanta bhar pehle pahunchna, station uljhan bhara lage to safar taal dena, ya poochhne ki jagah galat line mein khade rehna. Kuch log nayi jagahon par jaana chhod dete hain, iske bahut pehle ki wo jaana chahna chhodein.
Ek chup keemat bhi hai. Har imaarat mein chaukanne chalna, sab kuch do baar padhna, oonchi awaaz ke liye taiyaar rehna, lagataar mehnat maangta hai. Saal bhar mein ye bahut se kaam imtihaan jaise aur bahut se chhote safar bina mazaa ke bana deta hai.
Kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Din bhar saarvajanik jagahon par chaukanna rehna thakata hai.
Pichhle saal isne kya liya: koi safar jo nahi hua, koi sawaal jo nahi poochha, koi nayi jagah jo door rakhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Har deewar do baar padhte, paanch saal aur #
Ek aam Tuesday sochiye, jis din “Mujhe dikh jaana chahiye tha” tez hai. Bas ek tasveer hai dekhne ki, theek karne ki nahi.
Shayad naya raasta raat bhar mein chaar baar dekha gaya, daftar chaalis minute pehle pahunche, line mein lagkar usi par shak kiya, guard ke paas se nikal gaye kyunki poochhna bahut bhaari laga. Shayad kisi naye shehar ki yatra kisi aur saal ke liye taal di.
Abhi iska koi jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer mein kuch bhi tay nahi.
Usmein kya-kya hai: kaam, daftar, station, wo sawaal jo poochhe nahi gaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Use dekhkar aapko, agar kuch bhi, kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Chooka, ya kabhi saaf dikha hi nahi? #
Padhne wala sawaal maanakar chalta hai ki shabd saamne the aur anadekhe kiye gaye. Aksar board galat taraf hota hai, bheed ke peechhe, chhote akshron mein, ya aisi bhasha mein jo qatar mein sabki pehli bhasha nahi.
Nayi jagah mein board chookna aam baat hai. Wahan roz kaam karne wala use sau baar paar karta hai; aagantuk use ek baar dekhta hai, kandhe par bag aur haath mein ticket liye.
Ek aur tareeka: agar kisi dost se usi bheed bhare station par wahi board chhoot jaata, to bahar nikalte hue aap usse kya kehte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya wo padhne ke baare mein hota?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dheema replay kya dikhata hai #
Kuch log us pal ko dheere se dohrate hain to dekhte hain ki board asal mein kahan tha: sar se oopar, aadha dhaka, ek saath do darwazon ki taraf ishaara karta hua.
Kuch log baaki bheed par gaur karte hain: usi barrier par koi aur mudta hua, koi parivaar usi guard se wahi sawaal poochhta hua. Kabhi galti aam thi, kabhi sach mein sirf unki; dono tarah wo chhoti thi.
Shabdon ki talkhi ke bagal mein rakhkar, galti ab kaisi dikhti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Usi din ke kaun-se hisse theek-thaak nipat gaye aur kisi ne dhyaan nahi diya, bas isliye ki un par kisi ne ungli nahi uthayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Counter par kuch saabit karna zaroori nahi #
Chain ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki laparwahi thi, ya ye dikhawa karna ki lehja chubha nahi. Matlab bas ye ki ek ajnabi ka vaakya baaki kaam par, aur agli nayi jagah kaisi lagegi is par, kam asar rakhe.
Kuch log paate hain ki sahi jawab ka rehearsal chhodne par halka lagta hai. Wo rehearsal kabhi khatam nahi hoti, kyunki ajnabi use kabhi sunega nahi, aur do second ki baat counter band hone ke baad bhi chalti rehti hai.
Sirf kaam ki cheez rakhna, sahi line ya sahi darwaza, aur lehja wahin counter par chhod dena, to kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Agli nayi jagah ke liye ek seedha vaakya #
Agar “Mujhe dikh jaana chahiye tha” barson se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladna zaroori nahi. Kuch log ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Nayi jagahon ke board padhna aasaan nahi hota, aur poochhna raasta dhoondhne ka hissa hai.”
Abhi sach na bhi lage to chalega. Ye bas ek line hai jo kuch log aazmate hain, aur kuch paate hain ki agle anjaan counter par chupchaap kehne se pal ki garmi shuru hone se pehle thodi ghat jaati hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo chook ke baare mein imaandaar ho par use faisla na bana de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Isme se kuch counter par hi chhoot sakta hai #
Ajnabi ki har teekhi baat ka jawab, safaai ya shikayat zaroori nahi. Kuch ko dekh liya jaye, ek pal mehsoos kar liya jaye, aur peechhe chhod diya jaye, jaise nikalte waqt ticket ka tukda kooredaan mein.
Ye haar maanna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki din ki urja kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain ki isse baaki safar ke liye jagah bachti hai, us insaan ke liye jisse milne ja rahe the, us kaam ke liye jiske liye aaye the.
Counter par chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki baat jaayaz thi, ya nipat gayi. Bas itna ki use ghar saath nahi chalna, ya agli imaarat tak nahi aana.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam zara dheela pade #
Sochiye, bas tasveer ki tarah, ki niyam ek paaydaan dheema ho gaya. Chooka hua board ab bhi jhanjhat hai, par wo board hi hai, qaabiliyat par sawaal nahi.
Chhoti cheezein bhi kaafi hain: bina rehearsal ke guard se poochhna ki kaun-sa platform hai, galat darwaze par kandhe uchakakar mud jaana, ya kisi naye bazaar mein mazaa ke liye ghoom lena.
Isme se kuch kisi se kehna zaroori nahi. Jo bhi ubhre, aapke paas rahe, aur dekhne laayak hai. Baat karna chahein to chat ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chupchaap aazmane laayak cheezein #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi board wali line”
- Chupchaap poochhiye: board theek kahan tha, aur kya koi bhi naya aadmi use dekh paata?
- Dekhiye kya der tak raha: galti, ya use batane wali awaaz
- Sochiye koi dost wahi board chookta, to aap uske baare mein kya sochte
- Aaj kisi jagah raasta mil gaya, use dekhiye, chahe kitni bhi chhoti baat ho
Chhote, nijee aur sab vaikalpik. Jo theek baithe, wahi kijiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Use sunne laayak doori par kaun khada tha, aur kiska chehra aapko ab bhi yaad hai?
- Us jagah aap kya nipatane gaye the, aur kaam kitna baaki tha?
- Us pal aapne kis baat ki maafi maangi, aur kya pata tha ki kisliye?
- Jis din “Dikh jaana chahiye tha” tez ho, us aam din mein aap kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar ye thoda dheela pade, to nayi jagah mein aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?