Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Doosre driver, saath baitha koi, peeche ki seat par bachcha, sab sun sakte the, aur anjaanon ke saamne daant khana nijee tippani se zyada chubh sakta hai.
“Brake mat maar, peeche wala thok dega!”
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Logon ke saamne mujhse kabhi galti nahi honi chahiye,” ya “Koi chillaye, to shayad meri hi galti hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Baaki safar us mod ya lane badalne ko dohrate rehna
- Kai din tak zaroorat se zyada dheeme aur sambhalkar chalana
- Band car mein palatkar chillana, phir haath kaampna
- Ghar par ise mazaak ki tarah sunana, aur phir bhi chubhna
- Us road, us chauraahe ya bheed wale waqt par chalana taal dena
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Chauraahe par wo horn
Siliguri mein Sevoke Road ka bheed bhara chauraaha, shaam ka peak time. Ek second zyada hichak hoti hai. Peeche se horn, aur truck ki khidki se awaaz: “Gaadi chalana seekh le!” Steering par pakad kas jaati hai. Gaadi aage badh jaati hai, dhadkan tez, aur baaki safar lagta hai ki sadak par sabse buri driving aapki hi hai, jabki barson se gaadi bina kisi haadse ke chal rahi hai.
Logon ke saamne chook nahi honi chahiye
Ye shabd us niyam par girte hain jo shayad pehle se wahan hai: “Logon ke saamne mujhse kabhi chook nahi honi chahiye.” Ye saavdhaani aur zimmedari jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: ek hichak ko is baat ka saboot bana deta hai ki jo kaam roz ka hai, wahi nahi aata. Aur anjaanon ke mizaaj roz badalte hain. Sadak par aapka bharosa ab anjaanon ke mizaaj par tika hai.
Sabke saamne ki chook kyun chubhti hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki sabke saamne ki chook sharminda karti hai. Shayad gaadi der se seekhi, ya kisi dabaav mein. Shayad chhoti galtiyon par aksar daant padi. Ye niyam bewajah nahi. Ye sakshaam aur surakshit rehne ki chaah se aata hai. Shayad kabhi kisi ne aapki driving par hansi udayi thi. Shayad sadak par kisi ko zara sa bhi khatre mein na daalna aapke liye bahut maayne rakhta hai. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Steering par kasti pakad
Doosri gaadi ki har cheekh agla safar thoda aur tana hua bana deti hai. Steering par pakad kasti hai. Bheed wali sadakon se katrana hota hai. Us pal ko ghanton dohrana hota hai. Jab ho sake, chaabi kisi aur ko thama di jaati hai. Paas hone ke saalon baad bhi phir se learner jaisa lagta hai. Gaadi chalana, jo aaram se aata hai, har pal ka imtihaan lagne lagta hai, aur atmavishwaas har baar thoda patla padta hai.
Kya bedaag driving zaroori hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya kabhi galti na karne ki zid se sadak par mann shaant raha? Ya zyadatar bas tanaav badha? Hichak har kisi ko hoti hai, aur chillana unka apna chunaav tha. Ek chauraahe ka ek pal aapki driving ka paimana nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna us keemat ke laayak hai jo ye maangta hai?
Hichak har kisi ko hoti hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki saavdhaani se chalana band. Matlab ye hai ki ek hichak bas ek hichak ho sakti hai. Saans lijiye, aage badhiye, aur cheekh ko usi ke paas rehne dijiye jisne maari. Barson ki surakshit driving ek horn se kahin zyada ginti jaati hai. Wahin se kuch chain lautta hai: beete saalon ke bharose ke saath phir se shaant chalana.
Being followed, threatened or frightened by another driver is a different thing, and worth taking seriously; your safety comes first.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleLogon ke saamne mujhse kabhi chook nahi honi chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleHichak sabko hoti hai. Meri driving surakshit hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Agli drive par shaant gaane lagaiye
- Din 2
Tanaav wale pal ke baad, rukne par teen dheemi saansein lijiye
- Din 3
Sochiye ki aapne kitne saal surakshit gaadi chalayi hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Us anjaan ki cheekh us din baad mein aapke kis hisse mein saath chali aayi?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Khidki se teen shabd, phir gayab #
Sevoke Road ke mod par ek dheema right turn, Hill Cart Road par lane badalne mein second bhar ki deri, Bidhan Market ke paas toto aur truck ke beech hichak. Horn, khidki neeche, “Gaadi chalana seekh le!” ya “License bazaar se liya hai kya?”, aur wo gaadi teen gaadi aage ja chuki hoti hai.
Do second ki baat hai, aur kehne wala signal badalne se pehle gayab. Par wo shabd aksar baaki safar mein saath baithe rehte hain, aur kabhi office, kitchen aur shaam tak chale aate hain.
Aisa aakhri baar kab hua tha, ya isse milta-julta kuch?Is par baat kijiye ›
Usse theek pehle sadak par kya ho raha tha, aur doosri gaadi chali jaane ke baad wo shabd kitni der car mein baithe rahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Agla gear badalne se pehle hi lag jaati hai #
Kisi ke chehre par garmi daud jaati hai, steering par pakad kas jaati hai, sheeshe mein jhat se dekhkar pata lagana ki galti hui kya. Kisi ko gussa aata hai aur jawab ek kilometre baad soojhte hain. Ye sab aam hai, aur kisi ko iski safai nahi deni.
Gaadi chalane mein poora dhyaan lagta hai, to achanak ki cheekh pehle se vyast dimaag par girti hai. Sochne ki jagah nahi, bas aage badhte rehna hai, aur sochna baad mein aata hai, agli red light par ya parking mein.
Chillane ke baad pehle kuch second mein kya hua: haath-pair thithak gaye, gaadi tez ho gayi, khaali car mein sorry nikal gaya, ya hawa mein jawab de diya gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Wo pehli harkat is baare mein kya batati hai ki wo pal kaisa laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Baat ek mod ki hai, par lagti aap par hai #
“Wo mod dheema tha” ek mod ki baat hoti. “Gaadi chalana seekh le!” mod ko chhodkar steering par baithe poore insaan par nishana lagata hai, jaise sadak ka ek pal sab kuch saabit kar de. Mann mod nahi, poore insaan wala hissa sunta hai.
Ye sabke saamne bhi lagta hai. Doosre driver, saath baitha koi, peeche ki seat par bachcha, sab sun sakte the, aur anjaanon ke saamne daant khana nijee tippani se zyada chubh sakta hai. Sharmindagi galti se bhi badi lag sakti hai.
Agar shabd bas usi ek mod ya ek lane ke baare mein hote, to wo pal kitna bada hota?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur kya wo pal un hazaaron aam safaron jaisa hi hai jo bina ek shabd ke beet gaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab anjaan baghal ki seat par aa baithe #
Ek shor bhari dopahar kaafi ho sakti hai ki wo shabd baghal ki seat le lein. “Sab dekh rahe hain.” “Kuch gadbad ho jayegi.” “Udhar mat mud, horn bajega.” Ye awaaz sunsaan sadak par bhi laut sakti hai, jab aaspaas koi nahi hota.
Anjaan kab ka ja chuka, par andar ab ek doosra driver baitha hai, jo har gap, har indicator, har hichak par commentary karta hai. Kyunki ye aapki apni awaaz jaisi lagti hai, ye kisi ek dopahar ke paraye shabd nahi, saavdhaani lagti hai.
Aapke chalane par tippani karte hue ye kiski awaaz leti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Anjaan ki, saalon pehle kisi rishtedaar ki, ya aapki apni?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur ye bolna kab shuru hui?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ke liye ye purani ghabrahat chhoo leta hai #
“Aage wali gaadi dekh!” “Brake mat maar, peeche wala thok dega!” Kuch logon ne gaadi baghal ki seat par kisi tane hue rishtedaar ke saath seekhi, ya RTO ka test ek baar nahi nikla, aur anjaan ki cheekh theek us purani yaad par aa girti hai.
Kuch ko ye pakka bharosa rehta hai ki galti har kisi ki ginti jayegi, aur sabke saamne ki har chook par ungli uthegi aur yaad rakhi jayegi. Aisa lagne ki wajahein bahut alag hoti hain. Jo reh jaata hai wo kamre ki sabse kadi awaaz par yaqeen kar lene ki taiyaari hai.
Gaadi chalate hue, ya kisi bhi jagah sabke saamne, pehli baar kab laga ki koi dekh raha hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Tab baghal ki seat par kaun tha, aur uski awaaz kaisi thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Neeche-neeche banne wala ek chupchaap niyam #
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Logon ke saamne mujhse kabhi galti nahi honi chahiye,” ya “Koi chillaye, to shayad meri hi galti hai.” Kuch log halka roop dhote hain: “Baaki sab hamesha taulte rehte hain ki mera kaam kaisa hai.”
Andar se aisa niyam samajhdaari aur saavdhaani jaisa lagta hai, jaise sheesha dekh lena seedhi si samajhdaari hai. Isiliye ise kabhi-kabhi sadak se door nikalkar dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Ye kin kamron mein, kin sadakon par ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kin par nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Cheekh ko dhone ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai ek chauraahe se bachne ko lamba raasta, koi aur saath ho to chaabi thama dena, ya sheher ke us paar dost ke ghar jaane se mana kar dena. Kuch log bheed ke waqt chalana, ye tay karne se bahut pehle hi chhod dete hain.
Kuch keemat dikhti nahi. Har safar ek chhota test ban jaata hai, jahan pahunchkar sukoon nahi, raahat milti hai, aur agla safar intezaar mein rehta hai. Saal bhar mein aise kai safar jud jaate hain, jo us horn ki taiyaari mein beete jo kabhi baja hi nahi.
Ye koi kami nahi. Har safar mein kisi anjaan ka faisla dhone mein mehnat lagti hai.
Pichhle saal iski keemat kya rahi: koi safar jo nahi hua, koi raasta jo chhoda, koi drive jo zaroorat se zyada bhaari lagi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, car mein ek anjaan ke saath #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “Logon ke saamne mujhse chook nahi honi chahiye” sadak par zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad ek chauraahe se bachne ko chuna gaya lamba raasta, Bhaiya ke ghar tak ki lift ko vinamrata se mana kar dena, ghar lautte hue har sheesha do baar dekhna, school ki chhodne-laane ki duty jo sabse shaant sadakon ke hisaab se bani. Shayad koi nayi jagah jo dekhi hi nahi gayi.
Is tasveer ka koi sahi jawab nahi, aur ise kabhi bhi kinare rakha ja sakta hai.
Usme kya hai: raaste, timing, offer ki gayi ya mana ki gayi lift?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ab ise dekhte hue, park ki hui gaadi ya shaant kamre se, kya alag se dikhta hai, agar kuch?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Seekh le, par kya? #
“Seekh le” ek chhote pal ke liye bada shabd hai: indicator mein deri, hari batti par dheemi shuruaat, ek gap jo doosri gaadi ko alag dikha.
Gaadi chalane wale har kisi se kabhi dheema mod hua hai, indicator chhoota hai, gap par hichak hui hai. Sadakein din mein kai baar chhoti-chhoti chook karte logon se bhari hain, aur aise zyadatar pal bina ek shabd ke nikal jaate hain.
Pal ka naam lete hi sawaal uthta hai: ye ek mod ki baat hai, ya poore insaan ki?Is par baat kijiye ›
Baghal se dekhiye: agar koi dost ghar aakar bataye ki traffic mein anjaan ne chillaya, to aap pehle kya poochenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ki usne kya galat kiya, ya ki wo theek toh hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Aadhi raftaar par dohrane par wo pal alag dikh sakta hai. Kuch log dekhte hain ki asal mein kya ho raha tha: sign jo padhne mein mushkil tha, saamne se nikalti bus, peeche ki seat par baat karta bachcha.
Kuch ko wo safar dikhte hain jo bina ek shabd ke nikal gaye, jahan mushkil mod aasaani se nikla ya naye sheher mein raasta mil gaya. Kabhi gaur se dekhne par chhoti si chook dikhti hai jo yaad rakhne laayak hai, aur kabhi bas ek aam pal.
Cheekh ke barabar rakhkar wo pal kaisa dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pichhle mahine ke kaun se safar chupchaap aur achhe rahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar wo bol sakte, to steering par baithe insaan ke baare mein kya kehte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Signal par behes jeetni zaroori nahi #
Andar se suljhane ke liye anjaan se sahmat hona ya ye dikhana zaroori nahi ki cheekh ne hilaya nahi. Matlab bas itna ki uske do second ka is par kam chale ki baaki din kaisa guzre.
Kuch logon ka bojh thoda utarta hai jab wo us behes ko dohrana chhodte hain jo hui hi nahi. Use mann mein jeetne mein poora safar lag sakta hai, aur anjaan ki gaadi mud jaane ke bahut baad bhi wo baghal ki seat par bana rehta hai.
Kaisa ho agar shabdon ko anjaan ke paas hi rehne dein, aur bas wo hissa rakhein, agar koi ho, jo ek sadak par ek mod ke baare mein kaam ki salah hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Agle safar ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “Mujhe gaadi chalani hi nahi aati” us din se chal raha hai, to usse behes aksar kaam nahi aati. Kuch log sadak ke liye ek seedhi line rakhte hain: “Ek anjaan ne ek pal dekha. Usne bas itna hi dekha.”
Pehle se is par yaqeen zaroori nahi. Ye aazmane ki line hai, aur kuch logon ko lagta hai ki bheed bhari sadak par nikalte waqt ise dohrane se anjaan ke shabdon ko car mein thodi kam jagah milti hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo us pal ke baare mein imaandaar rahe aur kisi anjaan ko tay na karne de ki steering par kaisa insaan baitha hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein batti par hi chhodi ja sakti hain #
Khidki se aayi har cheekh ko jawab, palatwaar ya replay nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur usi chauraahe par chhoda ja sakta hai jahan wo kahi gayi.
Wahan chhodna dhyaan ka chunaav hai, haar nahi, aur kuch log kehte hain baaki safar mein wo zyada apne paas laut aate hain: gaana, dost se call, pahunchne ki khushi.
Shabdon ko batti par chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki sab sahi tha, ya baat nipat gayi. Bas itna ki wo office, kitchen ya shaam tak saath na chalein.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam ek darja dheela ho #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Dheema mod bas dheema mod hai, aur anjaan ki cheekh bas anjaan ki cheekh.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: wahi purana raasta phir se lena, dost ke saath drive jisme darr ki jagah gappe ho, ya ghar lautte hue radio thoda tez.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, chahe thoda sa?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi gaadi-seekh-le wali awaaz”
- Us pal ko khud se seedhe shabdon mein kahiye: ek mod, ek gap
- Gaur kijiye ki ab zyada tez kya hai: shabd, ya horn
- Is mahine ka koi ek safar sochiye jo chupchaap aur achha raha
- Aaj ki ek chhoti si cheez par dhyaan dijiye jo aapne chahi, chahe kitni bhi chhoti
Har ek aapke apne mann ke andar rehti hai. Koi bhi chuniye, ya koi nahi.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Us anjaan ki cheekh us din baad mein aapke kis hisse mein saath chali aayi?
- Gaadi park hone ke baad us safar ka kaun sa pal baar-baar lautta hai?
- Us din manzil kahan thi, aur us cheekh ne pahunchne par kya asar dala?
- Jis aam din ye galti-nahi-honi-chahiye wala niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar ye thoda halka ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?