Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ek hi counter par do log bilkul alag ghadiyon par chal sakte hain, ek ki train chhoot rahi hai aur doosre ke paas hafte ka ikalauta befikr kaam, aur koi ghadi asli nahi hai.
Kuch log wo the jinke joote sabse aakhir mein pehne gaye, jo basta baandhte reh gaye jab baaki sab darwaze par the, wo bachcha jiski raftaar har bhaagti subah ka mudda bani.
Neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Meri raftaar doosron ke liye dikkat hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Hadbadana, kuch gira dena, aur uthate hue maafi maangna
- Jaanbujhkar dheeme ho jaana, aur line mein tanav mehsoos karna
- Jis cheez ki zaroorat thi use chhodkar kinare hat jaana
- Har baar aage pahunchne se bahut pehle card haath mein taiyaar rakhna
- Baad mein us shaant jawab ke saath dohrana jo der se soojha
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Toto chowk par jaldi ki awaaz
Bhagalpur, Tilka Manjhi Chowk par toto ki bheed. Aap card aur ek na khulne wale thaile se joojh rahe ho. Peeche se koi zor se saans chhodkar kehta hai, “Jaldi kijiye, peeche aur log hain!” Haath kaanpne lagte hain. Sikka girta hai, aap uthate ho, do baar maafi maangte ho aur aadha saaman galat thaile mein chhodkar nikal padte ho. Kinare jaakar ek minute baithte ho, dil tez, khud ko chhota aur anaadi mehsoos karte hue.
Kisi ko kabhi rokna nahi
Ye shabd aise niyam par girte hain jo shayad pehle se wahan hai: “Mujhse kisi ko rukna nahi padna chahiye.” Ye shisht aur lihaaz wala lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: anjaanon ki besabri ko aapki apni raftaar se upar rakh deta hai. Aam jagahon par aapka chain ab kisi ko intezaar na karwane par tika hai, jo seedhe kaam ko aisi daud bana deta hai jo jeeti nahi ja sakti.
Raaste mein aana sharmindagi kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki raaste mein aana sharmindagi jaisa lag sakta hai. Shayad bachpan mein aapko hamesha bhagaya gaya, baar-baar kaha gaya ki aap bahut dheeme ho. Shayad aap doosron ke waqt ki parwah karte ho. Niyam bewakoofi nahi hai. Ye lihaaz ki chaah se aata hai. Shayad aap tez parivar ke dheeme sadasya the, har baar ek qadam peeche. Ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har kaam mein hadbadi
Har “jaldi kijiye” agle kaam ko aur tanav bhara bana deta hai. Counter par hadbadakar cheezein gira dete ho. Jagah gherne ki maafi maangte ho. Qatar mein aah ke intezaar mein kase rehte ho. Nikalte waqt dil ab bhi tez hota hai. Dheere-dheere aam jagahein raftaar ki pariksha lagne lagti hain, aur seedhe kaam insaani raftaar se karne ki sahajta chali jaati hai.
Kya hadbadana sahi hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: kya anjaanon ke liye hadbadane se aap kabhi shaant hue? Ya zyadatar aur anaadi aur ghabraye hue? Counter par kabhi na kabhi sabko pal bhar lagta hai, aur unki aah unka apna chunav thi. Kisi anjaan ki besabri ye nahi naapti ki aapko kitni jagah milni chahiye. Kya is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna us keemat ke layak hai jo ye maangta hai?
Aam raftaar se chalna
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap aaspaas ke logon ko anadekha karein. Matlab ye ki aap aam matra mein waqt le sakte ho, apne hone ki maafi maange bina. Aap saans le sakte ho, thaila baandh sakte ho, aur apni raftaar se nikal sakte ho. Qatar mein jagah paane ke liye kisi ko zindagi bhar bhaagna nahi padta. Yahin se kuch chain lautta hai: kaam phir kaam ban jaate hain, aur anjaanon ka mizaaj unhin ke paas rehta hai.
Being followed, threatened or frightened by anyone in a public place is a different thing, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMujhse kisi ko rukna nahi padna chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleAam raftaar se chalna theek hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Agle counter par thaila baandhne se pehle ek dheemi saans lijiye
- Din 2
Kisi ko apna waqt lete dekhiye, aur dekhiye kitna aam hai
- Din 3
Tanav bhare kaam ke baad ek minute baithkar aaram kijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Peeche se awaaz aayi tab aap kis kaam ke beech the?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Peeche se aati do awaazein #
Bhagalpur mein Tilka Manjhi Chowk par toto ki seat, aur abhi bag rakha hi ja raha hai. Ya ATM ki line mein card khojte hue, mithai ki dukaan par peda chunte hue, ya lift ka darwaza ek second zyada thaame hue. Peeche se: “Jaldi kijiye bhaisaab, peeche aur log hain!”
Sach mein kuch bigda nahi tha. Kisi ko wo kuch second chahiye the jo doosre ke intezaar se zyada the. Shabd un second ko sabke saamne ki samasya bana dete hain, aur ek chhota-sa roz ka kaam achanak darshakon ke saamne ho raha hota hai.
Aakhri baar ye aapne kab suna?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aap kis kaam ke beech the, aur raaste se hatne ke liye kya jaldbaazi mein kiya, giraya ya peeche chhod diya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Kisi aur ki ghadi ka jhatka #
Kuch logon ko garmi ki lehar lagti hai aur wo sab kuch ek saath karne lagte hain: card, thaila, parchi, maafi. Kuch ekdum sthir ho jaate hain aur jaanbujhkar dheeme. Kuch budbudakar kuch keh dete hain aur baaki raaste teekhapan dhote hain. Inmein se kisi ko safai nahi deni.
Anjaan ki jaldi dimaag mein sochne se pehle hi darj ho jaati hai. Sochna aksar baad mein aata hai, ghar par saaman rakhte hue, us cheez ke saath jo hadbadi mein chhoot gayi aur us jawab ke saath jo kabhi kaha nahi gaya.
Un shabdon ke baad wale second mein aapne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Tez ho gaye, jam gaye, palatkar jawab diya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us pehli harkat se kya pata chalta hai ki pal kitna bhara-bhara laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Baat second ki hai, chot insaan par lagti hai #
“Bag rakh loon, phir aap nikal jaiyega” jagah aur waqt ki baat hai. “Jaldi kijiye” maang chhodkar raftaar par faisla suna deta hai, jaise thaila rakhne ya peda chunne ki koi sahi speed ho aur wo chhoot gayi ho.
Raftaar apni-apni hoti hai. Ek hi counter par do log bilkul alag ghadiyon par chal sakte hain, ek ki train chhoot rahi hai aur doosre ke paas hafte ka ikalauta befikr kaam, aur koi ghadi asli nahi hai.
Jab ye shabd aaye, to pal asal mein kiski ghadi par chal raha tha, aur sawaal mein kitne second the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab line ki awaaz andar aa base #
Baar-baar suno to ye kisi aur ke bolne se pehle shuru ho jaati hai. “Jaldi, log intezaar kar rahe hain.” “Sabko roko mat.” “Jo mile utha lo, chalo.” Peeche kisi ne awaaz bhi nahi ki hoti aur hadbadi shuru ho chuki hoti hai.
Anjaan ja chuka, par ab jaldbaazi andar hoti hai. Kuch log galat hone par bhi sabse chhoti line chun lete hain, raaste se hatne ko thaile dher mein bhar dete hain, ya counter par sawaal nahi poochhte kyunki usmein der lag sakti hai.
Jab ye “jaldi” kehti hai to kiski awaaz mein kehti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Anjaan ki, ya kisi bahut pehle ke darwaze aur kinhin khaas subahon ki?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ke liye dheema hona ghar ki baat thi #
“Jaldi chal, bus aa gayi.” “Tayyar hone mein itni der kyun lagti hai tujhe?” Kuch log wo the jinke joote sabse aakhir mein pehne gaye, jo basta baandhte reh gaye jab baaki sab darwaze par the, wo bachcha jiski raftaar har bhaagti subah ka mudda bani.
Kuch parivaron mein subahein sabke tez chalne par chalti thi, aur wajahein ghar-ghar alag hain. Bachcha chupchaap ye nateeja nikal sakta hai ki uski apni raftaar doosron ke liye jhanjhat hai, aur doosron ka intezaar aisi cheez hai jise fatafat theek karna hai.
Aapki raftaar par logon ne pehli baar kab tippani ki?Is par baat kijiye ›
Darwaze par kaun khada tha, aur unki awaaz kaisi thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Waqt gherne ke baare mein ek chup niyam #
Neeche ek maanyata baith sakti hai: “Meri raftaar doosron ke liye dikkat hai.” Kuch log halka roop rakhte hain: “Doosron ka waqt mere waqt se keemti hai,” ya “Sabko khush rakho, line ke anjaanon ko bhi.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte nahi. Ve lihaaz jaise lagte hain, jaise kisi ke liye darwaza thaamna. Isiliye dobara dekhne layak hain: jis lihaaz mein aap khud shaamil na ho, wo chupchaap raasta dete rehne ki aadat ban sakta hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ki shuruaat bachpan ki subahon mein paate hain; kuch ko shuruaat kabhi nahi milti. Dono tarah ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Ye ab kin kamron mein fit baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Hamesha raasta dene ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai dukaan se wo cheez liye bina nikal aana jiski zaroorat thi, galat charger kharid lena kyunki dekhna dheema laga, ya counter par wo sawaal kabhi na poochhna. Kuch log apni raftaar tab chhod dete hain jab uski zaroorat bhi bani rehti hai.
Ek chup keemat bhi hai. Qataron, liftoun aur darwazon se guzarte hue peeche kisi ke liye har waqt chaukanna rehna lagatar mehnat hai. Saal bhar mein ye bahut se kaam kisi aur ki speed par, aur bahut kam apni speed par karwa deta hai.
Kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Din bhar anjaanon ke liye ghadi dekhte rehna thakata hai.
Pichhle saal isne kya liya: koi bhooli cheez, koi sawaal jo poochha nahi, koi kaam jo aasaan ho sakta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Kisi aur ki raftaar par, paanch saal aur #
Ek aam Tuesday sochiye, jis din “meri raftaar doosron ke liye dikkat hai” tez hai. Bas ek tasveer hai dekhne ki, theek karne ki nahi.
Shayad car parking se hi mutthi mein kasa hua card, dher mein bhara hua saaman, help desk par poochha na gaya sawaal, seedhiyon se jaana kyunki lift thaamna bahut zyada laga, ek chhota kaam halki daud mein nipataya hua.
Abhi iska koi jawab nahi chahiye. Tasveer bas dekhne ke liye hai, aur kabhi bhi rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya-kya hai: qatarein, counter, liftein, ve sawaal jo poochhe nahi gaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Usmein aapko, agar kuch bhi, kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Dheeme, theek-theek kiske muqable? #
Naap tay karein to fark aksar bahut chhota nikalta hai, card dhoondhna ya sikke ginna, poora insaan dheema hona nahi.
Qatar saajhi jagah hai, aur usmein har koi apna alag din dho raha hai. Aage khade hokar thoda rukna qataron ke chalne ka hissa hai: der-saver zyadatar log wahi hote hain jo counter par bag tatol rahe hon.
“Jaldi kijiye” ka matlab nikle, iske liye naap chahiye: kisse tez, kis kaam mein, kitne second?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek aur tareeka: agar counter par aapka koi dost hota, aur use bhi wahi kuch second lagte, to aapko wo dheema lagta, ya bas koi jo apna kaam nipta raha hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Doosri nazar mein kya nikalta hai #
Kuch log pal ko dheere se dohrate hain to ginte hain ki deri asal mein kitni thi: das second, bees, bag ke tal se card nikalne jitni.
Kuch log baaki scene dekhte hain: ek aur customer jise bhi waqt laga, ek dukaandaar jo pareshan nahi dikha, ek qatar jo minute bhar mein aage badh gayi. Kabhi pal utna hi tana hua tha jitna laga, aur kabhi tanav zyadatar ek awaaz mein tha.
Shabd kitne oonche lage the, uske bagal mein rakhkar, deri ab kaisi dikhti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us pal ka kaun sa hissa sach mein secondon ke baare mein tha, aur kaun sa logon ke saamne jaldi karwaye jaane ke baare mein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Kisi ki raftaar se mel bithana zaroori nahi #
Chain ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki aap dheeme the, ya ye dikhawa karna ki shabd chubhe nahi. Matlab bas ye ki ek anjaan ki jaldi ko baaki kaam par, aur agle counter par kaisa lagega is par, kam haq mile.
Kuch log paate hain ki har counter par sabse tez banne ki koshish chhodne par halka lagta hai. Us daud ki koi finish line nahi, kyunki peeche hamesha koi hoga jise kahin pahunchna hai, aur wo anjaan ki ghadi din bhar chalaye rakhti hai.
Jaldi ko unki hi rehne dein aur bas kaam ki cheez rakhein, jaise card ko bag mein upar rakhna, agar wo kaam ka ho bhi to, kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Qatar ke aage ke liye ek shaant vaakya #
Agar “kisi ko rokna nahi hai” barson se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladna zaroori nahi. Kuch log ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Counter par chand second qatar baantne ka hissa hain.”
Ye sach na bhi lage to chalega. Ye bas ek line hai jo kuch log pehenkar dekhte hain, aur kuch paate hain ki bag tatolte hue chupchaap kehne se hadbadi itni dheemi ho jaati hai ki yaad aa jaye ki aaye kis liye the.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo intezaar karte logon ke saath bhi insaaf kare aur aapke saath bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Isme se kuch qatar mein hi chhoot sakta hai #
Har besabra awaaz ka jawab, ghoorna ya hadbadi wali maafi zaroori nahi. Kuch ko dekh liya jaye, ek pal mehsoos kar liya jaye, aur qatar mein peeche chhod diya jaye, jaise wo parchi jo kisi ne maangi nahi thi.
Ye haar maanna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki din ki urja kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain ki isse baaki kaam ke liye jagah bachti hai, aur us cheez ke saath ghar lautne ke liye jo asal mein lene nikle the.
Qatar mein chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki baat theek thi, ya nipat gayi. Bas itna ki use agli dukaan, agli lift ya agle darwaze tak saath nahi aana jiske peeche koi intezaar kar raha ho.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar hadbadi zara dheemi ho jaye #
Sochiye, bas tasveer ki tarah, ki niyam ek paayedaan dheema ho gaya. Qatar ab bhi qatar hai aur log intezaar karte hain, par aage ke kuch second bas kuch second hain.
Chhoti cheezein bhi kaafi hain: hatne se pehle bag poora baandh lena, peeche dekhe bina peda chun lena, ya station tak aam raftaar se chalna.
Isme se kuch kisi se kehna zaroori nahi. Jo ubhre, aapka hai, aur dekhne layak hai. Andar jaana chahein to chat bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch nanhi cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi jaldi wali awaaz”
- Chupchaap poochhiye: asal mein kitne second lage the?
- Dekhiye baad mein zyada tez kya hai: deri, ya peeche ki awaaz
- Aaj koi ek kaam apni raftaar se kijiye, use dekhiye, chahe kitna bhi chhota
- Us kaam se aap jo chahte the, uski koi ek chhoti baat dekhiye
Chhote, nijee aur sab optional. Ek aazmaiye, ya koi nahi.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Peeche se awaaz aayi tab aap kis kaam ke beech the?
- Unke raaste se hatne ki hadbadi mein aapne kya chhoda ya bhula diya?
- Aap achanak kiski ghadi par chalne lage, aur aapki ghadi kab ginti jaani band ho gayi?
- Jis din “kisi ko rokna nahi” wala niyam tez ho, us aam din mein aap kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar ye thoda dheela pade, to agle counter par aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?