Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Apna chuna hua karne se ek chhota-sa fakhr bhi banta hai, jo aur kahin se mushkil se milta hai.
Kuch logon mein ye ek aise teacher se shuru hui jinhone sawaal apne tareeke se hal karne diya aur hal jitna raaste ki bhi taareef ki.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Bharosa hota toh akela chhod dete,” ya “Achha boss logon ko apne dhang se kaam karne deta hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Unke dhang se kar dena aur apna version daraaz mein rakh lena
- Har chunaav ki wajah zaroorat se zyada samjhana
- Upar se maan lena aur andar se dilchaspi kho dena
- Aate-jaate raaste mein kaam ko mann mein dobara banana
- Har chhote faisle ko pehle kisi aur se poochh lena
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Unke format mein dobara bani report
Poore ek saal se Indore ke office mein aap monthly report apne dhang se banate aa rahe ho, aur wo chalti bhi hai. Phir naye manager kehte hain, “Mera format rakho.” Phir har step ki jaanch. “Bas mujhe aise hi pasand hai.” Aap badlaav kar dete ho. Par har badlaav kandhe par ek halke haath jaisa lagta hai, jo aapko wahin mod raha hai jahan aap pehle se ja rahe the.
Apne dhang se kaam karna
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Boss ko mujhe apne dhang se kaam karne dena chahiye.” Sahi lagta hai. Aapko kaam aata hai. Par dekhiye ye kya karta hai: aapki kaabiliyat ka ehsaas is par tik jaata hai ki wo kitni chhoot dete hain. Har badlaav ki maang, format ki pasand kam aur aap par faisla zyada lagne lagti hai.
Chhoot bharose jaisi kyun lagti hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki apne tareeke se kaam karne ki chhoot bharose jaisi lagti hai. Shayad bachpan mein har kadam par toka gaya, aur aapne mann mein tay kiya ki bade hokar aisa nahi hoga. Shayad apne dhang se karna hi aapka sabse achha kaam nikalta hai. Jo bhi ho, jagah ki chaah zid nahi hai. Wo bharose ki chaah se aati hai, aur use dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Har tok par kas jaana
Har tok badlaav se zyada bhaari padti hai. Jab bhi wo aapki file kholte hain, aap pehle se kas jaate ho. Kaam ka jo maza pehle tha wo ghat jaata hai. Ghar lautte hue mann hi mann unse bahas chalti hai. Dheere-dheere jo job aapko aati thi wo kisi aur ki lagne lagti hai, aur aatmavishwas is par tik jaata hai ki wo sir hilate hain ya tyori chadhate hain.
Kya apna dhang is ladai layak hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochhiye: kya apne dhang ki zaroorat ne kabhi tok ko aasaan kiya? Ya zyada-tar har tok ko chubha diya? Ho sakta hai manager ki pasand bas pakki ho, ya upar se cheezein ek tarah dikhane ka dabaav ho. Jo bhi ho, unka format aapke hunar ka paimana nahi hai. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna deta kam, leta zyada hai.
Job aapko aati hai, tab bhi
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki apne dhang ki qadar khatam. Matlab ye ki aapki kaabiliyat ka ehsaas chhoot milne par nahi tika rehta. Aap unke dhang se karke bhi jaante ho ki aap kya jaante ho. Slide alag dikhne se aapka hunar gayab nahi ho jaata. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: format koi bhi tay kare, apni samajh aap kaam mein la sakte ho.
Threats, shouting, harassment, humiliation, being singled out for who you are, pay or papers held back, or being frightened at work, are something else, and worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleBoss ko mujhe apne dhang se kaam karne dena chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleUnke dhang se karun tab bhi mujhe apna kaam aata hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Aisa ek badlaav pehchaniye jo bas unki pasand thi, koi kami nahi
- Din 2
Apne kaam ka wo hissa dhoondhiye jo ab bhi apne dhang ka ho
- Din 3
Ghar lautte hue apna pasandida gaana lagaiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aapne kab koi kaam apne dhang se kiya aur nateeja bahut pasand aaya?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Doosre format mein dobara bani slide #
Ek slide phir se bani, is baar Sir ke pasand wale font aur layout mein. Pehla version saaf tha aur uska apna tark tha. Aakhri bullet khiskate hue vaakya saamne aata hai: “Boss ko mujhe apne dhang se kaam karne dena chahiye.”
Kuch logon ke liye ye sahi hone ki baat kam hai, aur kaam ke apna lagne ki baat zyada. Kaam mein jab insaan ka thoda-sa apna rang ho, aur kaise karna hai isme thodi jagah ho, toh wo zyada jeeta-jaagta lagta hai.
Aakhri baar kaun sa kaam aapne apne dhang se kiya tha, aur nateeja dekhkar thoda bhi achha laga tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Laal nishaano wali file par jakdan #
Kuch logon ka jabda kas jaata hai jab file saare badlaavon ke saath lautkar aati hai. Kuch mein ek sapaat-sa sabr utar aata hai aur kandhe dheere-dheere kaano ki taraf chadhne lagte hain.
Sharir kabhi-kabhi dobara likhe jaane ko thukraye jaane jaisa padh leta hai, mann ke taulne se pehle: chehre par garmi, chhoti saans, aur keyboard ke upar ruka hua haath. Vaajib ya gair-vaajib ki chhantai baad mein aati hai.
Pichhli baar jab aapka kaam badalkar lauta, toh ye tay karne se pehle ki wo theek tha ya nahi, aapne sabse pehle kya feel kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Kaam par apni chhaap ki chaah #
Kaam ke tareeke mein thoda apna chunaav milne ki ummeed samajh mein aati hai. Log aksar tab sabse achha kaam karte hain jab tareeke mein unki kuch chalti ho, aur jo kaam poori tarah kisi aur ke saanche mein bana ho, wo udhaar ka lag sakta hai.
Apna chuna hua karne se ek chhota-sa fakhr bhi banta hai, jo aur kahin se mushkil se milta hai. Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki nateeja ek-sa ho tab bhi, jo version unhone khud chuna tha use jama karne mein fark feel hota hai.
Aapke kaam ke kis hisse mein aakhri faisla aapka hona sabse zyada matlab rakhega, aur wahi hissa kyun?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Apne version ki wakalat karti awaaz #
“Mera wala zyada saaf tha.” “Baat toh wahi hai.” “Font se kya fark padta hai?” Ye awaaz aksar tab bolti hai jab edit chadh rahe hon, aur cursor bilkul thama ho. Kabhi “dimaag mat lagao, jo kaha wo karo” ka darr bhi usme hota hai.
Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki awaaz mein thoda garv hai aur thodi thakaan. Wo pehle wale ka paksh leti hai, aur ye bhi sochti hai ki jo kaam poora ho chuka tha use phir se dhalne mein din ka kitna hissa jaana chahiye.
Jab awaaz aapke version ka bachaav karti hai, toh kaun si line sabse zyada bolti hai, aur wo kya dikhana chahti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Apne dhang ki chaah kahan se shuru hui #
Kuch logon mein ye ek aise teacher se shuru hui jinhone sawaal apne tareeke se hal karne diya aur hal jitna raaste ki bhi taareef ki. Wo aazadi aage ke liye ooncha paimana bana deti hai.
Kuch mein ye ghar se aayi, jahan roti belni ho ya homework karna ho, ek tay tareeka tha, “Aise nahi, aise”, aur mann mein chupchaap tay ho gaya ki ek din apna chunaav apna hoga. Kuch parivaaron mein har cheez ka ek hi sahi dhang hota tha.
Aapko pehli baar kab koi kaam apne tareeke se karne diya gaya, aur us waqt kaisa laga tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Dhang ki aazadi ke baare mein niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Bharosa hota toh akela chhod dete,” ya “Achha boss logon ko apne dhang se kaam karne deta hai.” Pehla vaakya seedhi izzat jaisa lagta hai; neeche wala niyam har badlaav ko bharose ki naap bana deta hai.
Aise niyam kaam ki kaarigari ki fikr se ugte hain, jo izzat ke layak hai. Inhe asli jobs ke bagal mein rakhkar dekha ja sakta hai, jahan company ka style, client ki aadat, ya boss ki aakhri manzoori kabhi-kabhi saath chalti hai. “Hamare yahan aise hi hota hai.”
Ho sakta hai ye beete saalon se aaya ho, ho sakta hai raaste mein bana ho.
Aaj ke aapke kaam mein “mera dhang” kahan baithta hai, aur kahan wo kisi aur ke rakhe paimane se mel khata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Apne hi kaam ko dobara karne ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai ek kaam do baar poora karna, thandi saans ke saath jama ki gayi file, aur ek poori shaam aise layout par jiska tark aapne kabhi chuna hi nahi.
Saal bhar mein kuch log dekhte hain ki pehal patli padne lagi hai. Koi tareeka sujhana aisa lagne lagta hai jaise wo masauda banana jo dobara likha jayega, aur sujhav chupchaap band ho jaata hai.
Pichhle saal kaun sa kaam aapne apne dhang se kiya aur sabse zyada pasand aaya, aur wo kaisa laga tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Chauthe version ke kai saal #
Ek aam Guruvar mein chaliye, jis din “Boss ko mujhe apne dhang se kaam karne dena chahiye” baar-baar laut rahi hai. Dekhne bhar ki tasveer hai, sudharne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad wahi slide chauthi baar bani, purana version kisi folder mein sambhala hua, kisi saathi ka hanskar “hi”, ghadi par ek nazar, aur keyboard ke paas chai ka cup.
Yahan kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur tasveer kabhi bhi rakhi ja sakti hai.
Screen par kya hai: slide, font, kinare ki tippaniyan, ghadi ki sarakti suiyan?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us dopahar aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Use dekhkar, agar kuch, toh aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kuch ekroopta jaanbujhkar hoti hai #
Ek saajha style, template ya kram se kaam aage dena, jaanchna ya jodna aasaan ho jaata hai, aur kuch badlaav poore product ke baare mein hote hain, us insaan ke baare mein nahi jisne masauda likha.
Manager ke paimane bhi alag-alag kaam ke liye alag ho sakte hain: ek jagah kade, doosri jagah dheele. Ye aksar kaam ke baare mein hota hai, insaan ke baare mein nahi.
Agar aap apne kaam ka koi ek hissa poori tarah apne dhang se chalane ke liye chun sakte, toh kaun sa chunte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jitni jagah pehle se aapki hai #
Doosron ke dobara dhale kaamon ke saath, kuch jagah pehle se aapki ho sakti hai: apna din kis kram se nipatate ho, ek chhota tool jo aapne banaya, ek draft jo bina chhede nikal gaya, ek kadam jise koi jaanchta nahi.
Inhe naam dene se zyada kehne ki chaah radd nahi hoti. Dono saath reh sakte hain, aur ise dekhna kisi se kuch wapas nahi maangta.
Aaj aapke kaam ka kaun sa hissa pehle se aapke apne dhang se ho raha hai, aur usme aap kis baat ka maza lena chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Qalam kisi ke bhi haath mein ho, hunar aapka #
Is ummeed se sulah ka matlab ho sakta hai ki koi badlaav aapki samajh par faisla na lage. Jaayaz baat reh sakti hai: tareeke mein thodi chalne ki chaah, aur apne hunar ki izzat ki chaah. Dheeli ho sakti hai pakad, taaki badli hui slide bas layout ka maamla rahe aur aapka apna version phir bhi aapka rahe.
Kaam ki zaroorat se zyada aap par nazar rakhna ya aapko track karna, aapke apne phone par ya kaam ke ghanton ke bahar bhi, kuch aur baat hai. Waise hi dhamki, pareshaan karna, neecha dikhana aur is wajah se alag kiya jaana ki aap kaun hain (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability ya aap kahan se aaye hain).
Aise hi bina paise ka kaam, roka gaya vetan ya kaagzaat, aur asurakshit kaam. In sabko gambhirta se lena chahiye; saath chalna ya saavdhan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Office mein buniyadi izzat aur suraksha maangna kabhi zyada maangna nahi hai, aapke liye bhi aur baaki logon ke liye bhi.
Ek aise kaam ki tasveer banaiye jisme ye ummeed halke se thami ho: uska kaun sa hissa aap ab bhi apne dhang se karte ho, kisi chhoti baariki mein hi sahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Laal nishaano ke liye ek sachchi line #
“Boss ko mujhe apne dhang se kaam karne dena chahiye” ke paas, kuch log aisi line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Mujhe apne dhang se karna achha lagta hai, aur badalne ke baad bhi kaam mera hi rehta hai.” Ise purani line ko haraana nahi hai, bas uske bagal mein rehna hai.
Aisa vaakya pehle bada lag sakta hai aur istemaal se saadharan. Kuch log apni ek dheemi-si line khud pa lete hain, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo dhang ki aazadi ki chaah mein imaandaar ho aur ye na maange ki har chunaav bacha rahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Edit ki hui file subah tak ruk sakti hai #
Har dobara likhe jaane par aaj raat faisla sunana zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal feel kiya ja sakta hai aur kisi folder mein chhoda ja sakta hai, jaise din ke aakhir mein khoonti par tanga coat.
Apne dhang se karne ki chaah jitni der chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Agar office mein koi dhamkata hai, is wajah se alag karta hai ki aap kaun hain, ya zaroorat se zyada aap par nazar rakhta hai, toh wo kuch aur hai, aur gambhirta se lene layak; saavdhan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Ise wahin chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki baat sahi thi, ya nipat gayi. Bas itna ki shaam isme nahi bitani padegi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar edit kam bhaari lagein #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah, ummeed ko ek darja halka rakhkar dekhiye. Apne dhang ki chaah ab bhi hai, aur dobara bani slide achhe mann se bhi ban sakti hai.
Shayad aap slide dobara banate ho aur apna version kahin sambhalkar rakhte ho, ek nijee chhoti khushi ki tarah. Ya usme ek chunaav dikhta hai jo aapka hi raha.
Ye sab aapke aur panne ke beech reh sakta hai. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai. Aage: is ummeed se sulah ka kya matlab ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti khushi kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein, jo achhi lagein toh aazmaiye #
- Khud se kahiye: “Mujhe ise apne dhang se karna hai”, aur aage badh jaiye
- Aaj ke kaam mein ek chunaav gaur se dekhiye jo poori tarah aapka hai
- Mann mein us kaam ki tasveer banaiye jo aapke dhang se hua
- Dekhiye ki kis badlaav se kuch sudhra, chahe thoda hi
- Koi aisa shauq ya hunar sochiye jisme aapka hi dhang chalta hai
Chhoti, nijee aur apni marzi ki. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aapne kab koi kaam apne dhang se kiya aur nateeja bahut pasand aaya?
- Kisne aapko khulkar kaam karne diya, aur wo kaisa tha?
- Apne kaam ke kis hisse ko aap chhote-chhote tareeko se apna banana pasand karte ho?
- Agar apne dhang se karne ki chaah thodi dheeli pade, toh aapko sabse pehle kya dikhega?
- Aapke kaam mein abhi kya pehle se aapka apna lagta hai, jise aap aur dekhna chahenge?