Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Kaam ko apne dhang se, apni raftaar se karna hi use apna banata hai.
Kuch logon ne bachpan mein har panna school ke baad mez par janchwaya, aur laal pen ka intezaar karna seekha, uske baad hi chain milta.
Neeche ek dheemi maanyata ban sakti hai: “Agar wo dekh rahe hain, to mujhse kuch galat hua hoga.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Sab kuch manzoori ke liye upar bhej dena, wo bhi jo kisi ne dekhne ko nahi kaha
- Pehle khud teen baar jaanch lena, taaki kuch nikle hi nahi
- Aise sujhaav dena band kar dena jinse aur jaanch hogi
- Har qadam ka saboot folder mein rakhna, kya pata kab kaam aaye
- Meeting mein chup rehna aur bataye jaane ka intezaar karna ki kya galat hai
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Desk par padhte hue Verma sir
Aap mahine ki claim report bhej dete ho. Das minute baad Shimla ke office mein Verma sir aapki desk par aate hain: “Zara main ek nazar maar loon.” Blower chal raha hai, wo ek-ek line padhte hain aur aap dekhte rehte ho. Do comma aur ek heading badalte hain. Aap “ji, thanks” kehte ho, par baaki dopahar aisa lagta hai jaise aap trainee ho, barson se ye kaam achhe se karne wale nahi.
Jaanch yaani main kaafi achha nahi
Ye shabd ek aise niyam par girte hain jo shayad pehle se wahan hai: “Koi mera kaam jaanche, yaani main kaafi achha nahi.” Ye apne kaam par garv jaisa sunayi deta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har jaanch ko faisla bana deta hai. Chhoti jaanch bhi chubhne lagti hai. Aapka bharosa ab is par tik gaya ki aapko akela chhoda jaye, jo aapke haath mein nahi.
Bharosa milna izzat jaisa kyun
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki bharosa milna izzat jaisa lagta hai. Shayad aapne apne kaam mein maahir hone ke liye bahut mehnat ki hai. Shayad bachpan mein har baat par jaanch hui, aur khud se vaada kiya ki bade hokar aisa nahi hoga. Jo bhi ho, niyam bewakoofi nahi hai. Wo bharosa paane ki chaah se aata hai. Shayad kabhi ki ek galti bhulayi nahi gayi. Ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har cheez do baar dekhna
Har jaanch khud par thoda shak badhati hai. Aap sab kuch kisi aur ke dekhne se pehle dobara dekhne lagte ho. Koi na dekh raha ho tab bhi lagta hai ki nazar hai. Kaam mein maza kam ho jaata hai. Aap sochte ho ki kya sab aapko waise hi dekhte hain jaisa us pal laga. Dheere-dheere wo job jisme aap achhe the, aisi jagah ban jaati hai jahan har baar saabit karna padta hai.
Kya unka bharosa itna zaroori hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: kya har jaanch ko faisla padhne se aap kabhi zyada saksham mehsoos karne lage? Ya zyadatar bas aur tanav mein? Manager kyun jaanchte hain, ye sirf wahi jaante hain, aur shayad ye unki aadat ke baare mein zyada batata hai. Jaanch aapki qaabiliyat ka paimana nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna utna deta hai jitna maangta hai?
Aap jaante ho kya achha karte ho
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki jaanche jaana aapko achha lage. Matlab ye ki apni qaabiliyat ka ehsaas ab akele chhode jaane par nahi tika. Aap jaante ho ki aap kya achha karte ho. Do comma badal jayein, tab bhi apne kaam par bharosa rakh sakte ho. Do comma barson ke achhe kaam ko nahi badalte. Wahin se thoda chain lautta hai: aapka bharosa aapka rehta hai, jaanch ho ya na ho.
Being humiliated, harassed, threatened or frightened at work, or having pay or papers held back, is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleKoi mera kaam jaanche, yaani main kaafi achha nahi.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMujhe pata hai mera kya kaam achha hai, jaanch ho ya na ho.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Report ki ek cheez chuniye jo aapki thi aur achhi thi
- Din 2
Kaam ko ek baar jaanchiye, phir chhod dijiye
- Din 3
Jaanch ke baad ek dheemi saans lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Abhi-abhi kya khatam kiya tha, aur jaanch maange jaane se pehle wo kaisa lag raha tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Kuch shabd, aur kaam phir doosre ke haath mein #
Report bhejne hi wale the ki Shimla ke branch office mein Verma sir kursi kheenchkar bagal mein aa baithe: “Zara main ek nazar maar loon.” Ya “Bhejne se pehle mujhe dikha dena,” aur har thread mein copy mein unka naam.
Sunne mein madad jaisa lagta hai, shayad apnapan bhi. Par jab ye har baar aata hai, har kaam par, un par bhi jo sau baar kiye ja chuke, to shabd kaam se zyada use karne wale par girte hain.
Ye aakhri baar kab suna, ya copy line mein dekha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Abhi-abhi kya khatam kiya tha, aur jaanch ke liye le jaaye jaane se pehle us ek minute mein wo kaam kaisa lag raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Sabse pehle ek chhoti-si hawa nikalna #
Kuch logon ko halki-si hawa nikalne jaisa lagta hai, saans galat taraf se chhootne jaisa. Kuch ko garmi ki ek lehar aur ek aisa vaakya jo kaha nahi jaata. Kuch bas thande pad jaate hain aur bataye jaane ka intezaar karte hain ki kya galat hai. Inmein samjhane jaisa kuch nahi.
Kuch log kehte hain ki kaam ke beech mein dekhe jaane se roz ka kaam imtihaan jaisa ho jaata hai, aur apne par shak pehle se tez aata hai. Us pal ke baare mein sochna aksar baad mein hota hai, ghar lautte waqt.
Un shabdon ke baad, jawab dene se pehle wale second mein andar kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ye pehli pratikriya is baare mein kya batati hai ki ye kaam kitna aapka lag raha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Jaanch kaam ki hoti hai, lagti us par hai jisne kiya #
“Teesre panne ke total ek baar dekh lijiye” teesre panne ki baat hai. “Main ek nazar maar loon,” har baar kaha jaye, to panna chhoot jaata hai aur baat us insaan par aa girti hai, aur mann usmein ye sawaal sun sakta hai ki us par bharosa kiya bhi ja sakta hai ya nahi.
Kaam ko apne dhang se, apni raftaar se karna hi use apna banata hai. Jab har qadam dekha jaata hai, kuch logon ko kaam jaanchne wale ka lagne lagta hai, aur mehnat kam apni lagti hai, tareef milne par bhi.
Agar jaanch kisi ek khaas cheez ki hoti, to wo cheez kya hoti?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur kya wo baaki sab kuch ke barabar hai jo aapne us kaam mein lagaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab jaanch andar aakar baith jaye #
Baar-baar suno to ye andar aa basta hai: “Sir ko dikha dena theek rahega.” “Wo waise bhi badal hi denge.” “Abhi mat bhejo, ek baar aur dekh lo.” Taiyaar mail draft mein ghanta bhar pada rehta hai, jabki kisi ne maanga nahi.
Sir chhutti par ho sakte hain, par review ab andar chalta hai: har line unki nazar se padhi jaati hai, har faisla pehle se samjhaya jaata hai, ek minute ka kaam ijaazat maangta message ban jaata hai. Ye mehnat jaisa lagta hai, isliye swabhav lagta hai, kisi aur ki nazar nahi.
Jab ye kehta hai ki ek baar aur dekh lo, to kiski aankh se dekh raha hota hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki, ya us aankh se jo barson aapki desk ke bagal mein baithi rahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ke liye ye kisi purani mez ki yaad hai #
“Jaane se pehle homework dikhao.” “Zara dikhao kaise likha hai.” Kuch logon ne bachpan mein har panna school ke baad mez par janchwaya, aur laal pen ka intezaar karna seekha, uske baad hi chain milta.
Kuch gharon aur schoolon mein har cheez paas se dekhna hi kaam chalane ka tareeka tha, aur wajahein alag-alag hoti hain. Bachcha chupchaap ye nateeja nikal sakta hai ki kuch tab tak poora nahi jab tak koi aur haan na kahe, aur uski apni nazar kam ginti jaati hai.
“Ye ho gaya” ka ehsaas pehli baar kab kisi aur ki muhar maangne laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Tab laal pen kiske haath mein tha, aur intezaar mein aap kya karte the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Ek chup-sa niyam jo baith sakta hai #
Neeche ek dheemi maanyata ban sakti hai: “Agar wo dekh rahe hain, to mujhse kuch galat hua hoga.” Ya uske bagal ki: “Yahan mujhse ek bhi galti nahi honi chahiye.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise nahi lagte. Ye professionalism lagte hain, ya is office ke chalne ka dhang jaanna. Isiliye inhein kabhi-kabhi desk se door, roshni mein rakhkar dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log ise school ya pehli job se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Ye kin deskon aur kin kaamon par ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kin par nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Jaanch ke saaye mein ek saal ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai ki idea chhota rakha gaya kyunki bada cheer-phaad diya jaata, kaam dugna samay le kyunki do baar samjhaya gaya, ya Friday us manzoori ke intezaar mein beete jo Wednesday tak taiyaar thi.
Kuch dheema bhi jaata hai. Jo kaam kabhi poora saunpa hi nahi gaya, wo poora lagta hi nahi, aur achhe din ki khushi ki jagah is raahat ne le li ki kuch nikla nahi. Saal bhar mein kaafi achha kaam aisa ho jaata hai jo kabhi apna nahi laga.
Ye kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Kandhe par hamesha kisi ke saath kaam karna sach mein mehnat maangta hai.
Pichhle ek saal mein kya gaya: koi sujhaav, koi garv jo mehsoos nahi hua, koi shaam jo din ke mail dobara padhne mein gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, kabhi poora na saunpa gaya kaam #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “mujhse ek bhi galti nahi honi chahiye” zor se bol raha ho. Ye dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ki cheez nahi.
Shayad chaar baar likhkar mitaya gaya message, wo meeting jisme behtar tareeka ankaha raha, do minute ka kaam jo manzoori ke liye upar bheja gaya, lunch jo jawab ke intezaar mein desk par hua. Aur shayad kisi achhi cheez ka chhota-sa garv jo poora mehsoos nahi hua.
Yahan abhi kisi cheez ka jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer ko kabhi bhi ek taraf rakha ja sakta hai.
Usmein kya hai: draft, check-in, roke gaye idea?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Jaanch kis baat ki, theek-theek? #
Wahi draft ek reviewer se das badlavon ke saath lautta hai aur doosre se zero. Log alag-alag tarah se jaanchte hain, isliye badlavon ki ginti jaanchne wale ke baare mein utna batati hai jitna jaanche gaye kaam ke baare mein.
“Jaanch” ka matlab tabhi banta hai jab wajah ho: galtiyon ki jaanch, style ki, kisi adiyal client ki, ya kisi aise niyam ki jo kisi ne likha nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Wajah ka naam lete hi kya wo kaam ke kisi khaas jokhim ki hai, ya aspasht rehti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek aur nazar: agar koi colleague jiski aap izzat karte ho yahi kaam jama karta, to aap usmein kya dekhte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya use jaanch ki zaroorat hi padti?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dheere se dekhne par kya nikalta hai #
Jab kuch log dekhte hain ki kya badla gaya, to badlaav chhote nikalte hain: kahin ek shabd, kahin font. Kabhi sach mein koi galti pakdi gayi, aur wo jaanna bhi kaam ka hai.
Kuch ko wo kaam dikhte hain jinki kabhi jaanch hi nahi hui: akele nipataya client call, naye aaye saathi ko dikhaya tareeka, paanch baje ka masla jo kisi ke poochhne se pehle suljh gaya. Ye sab asli the, aur bina doosri nazar ke hue.
Jo kaam jas ka tas raha uske saamne panna kya dikhata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapke kaam ka kaun sa hissa bina kisi ki nazar ke nikal jaata hai, aur wo hissa bol paata to aapke baare mein kya kehta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Aakhri shabd kamane ki zaroorat nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki jaanch zaroori hai, na ye dikhana ki khatakti nahi. Matlab bas itna ki wo shabd is par kam chalein ki baaki kaam kaise hota hai aur agla sujhaav kaise rakha jaata hai.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo aisa bedaag kaam jama karne ki koshish chhod dete hain jisme kuch nikle hi nahi. Wo khoj kabhi khatam nahi hoti, kyunki reviewer ko hamesha kuch mil sakta hai. Kuch manager apna tareeka nahi badlenge, aur unhein aazmana zaroori nahi.
Kaisa lagega agar sirf kaam ki baat rakhi jaye, jaise jin aankdon par sach mein fark padta hai un par ek aur nazar, aur baaki jaanchne wale par chhod diya jaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Agle draft ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “kuch na kuch galat niklega” kaafi samay se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladna zaroori nahi. Kuch log iski jagah ye rakhte hain: “Jaanch jaanch hai. Wo mere baare mein faisla nahi.”
Ye aaj sach lagna zaroori nahi. Kuch log ise Monday mein saath le jaate hain, review se pehle chupchaap bolkar, aur dheere-dheere purani wali ke liye jagah kam ho jaati hai.
Aapka apna vaakya kya hoga, jo jaanch ke baare mein aur kaam ke baare mein imaandaar ho, bina jaanchne wale ki sehmati ki zaroorat ke?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch baatein desk par hi chhodi ja sakti hain #
Har “main ek nazar maar loon” ko jawab, behas ya agli baar bedaag hone ka plan nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur din khatam hone par laptop band karte hue desk par chhoda ja sakta hai.
Ye achha kaam karna chhodna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki mehnat kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain isse un hisson ke liye jagah bachti hai jo unhein sach mein pasand hain, aur un saathiyon ke liye jinke saath kaam aasaan hai.
Aaj shaam ise office mein chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki baat theek thi, ya tay ho gayi. Bas itna ki ise ghar aakar shaam mein, ya sone se pehle ki khamoshi mein saath aana zaroori nahi.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar galti-nahi wala niyam zara dheela ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki galti-nahi wala niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Galti ab bhi anchahi hai, aur jaancha hua draft bas jaancha hua draft hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: ek baar padhkar bheja gaya mail, bina poochhe liya gaya chhota faisla, koi kaam jo kisi ke jawab dene se pehle hi poora laga.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi, khaaskar jaanchne wale se toh bilkul nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya thoda bhi alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch cheezein jo logon ke kaam aati hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi kaam-dikhao wali line”
- Chupchaap khud se poochhiye: is kaam ka kaun sa hissa tay karna mera hai?
- Gaur kijiye ki kaam kab aapko poora lagta hai, kisi ke dekhne se pehle
- Bhejne se pehle gaur kijiye ki padhne wali nazar kiski hai
- Aaj ka ek faisla notice kijiye jo bina kisi se poochhe hua
Sab chhote, nijee aur apni marzi ke. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Abhi-abhi kya khatam kiya tha, aur jaanch maange jaane se pehle wo kaisa lag raha tha?
- Aapka kaun sa kaam aaj bhi garv deta hai, jise kisi ne kabhi jaancha nahi?
- Bhejne se pehle apna kaam padhte hue aapko kiska laal pen sunayi deta hai?
- Jis aam din galti-nahi wala niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar ye niyam thoda dheela ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?