Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Badhna mehsoos karna aasaan hai aur naapna mushkil.
Kuch logon mein ye kisi teacher ya shuruaati boss se shuru hui jinhone kaha, “Lo, ye karke dekho,” aur thodi badi file haath mein thama di.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achhi jagah apne logon ko aage badhne mein madad karti hai”, ya “Mera kaam achha raha to agla mauka milega.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Lunch mein course dekhna aur kisi ke guzarte hi page band kar dena
- Apni bhumika se bahar ke kaam le lena, ki koi to dekhe
- Hafton ka ek-sa hokar ek lambe kaam mein ghul jaana
- Chupchaap khud ko unse taulna jinka promotion ho gaya
- Bahar se kuch seekhna aur kisi se kuch na kehna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Teen saal se freeze training budget
Bhopal ki aapki company mein training budget teen saal se “is saal freeze hai.” Doosri companies mein dost course karke utsaah se laute hain. Aapne vasant mein ek chhote online course ke baare mein poochha tha, aur kuch jawab nahi aaya. Shaam ko phir course ka page scroll karte hain, tab band karte hain, aur lagta hai aap wahin ke wahin ho, aur duniya aage nikal rahi hai.
Unhein aapke aage badhne par lagana chahiye
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Company ko mere aage badhne par bhi kuch lagana chahiye.” Vaajib lagta hai. Achhi company apne logon ko aage badhati hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapki tarakki ko ek budget ke faisle se baandh deta hai. Aapki zindagi aage badh rahi lage ya nahi, ye kisi aur ke office ki spreadsheet par tik jaata hai, aisi priorities par jinka aapse kuch lena-dena na ho.
Lagaya gaya paisa bharosa kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki kisi par paisa lagaya jaana bharose jaisa lagta hai. Shayad kisi ne aapko mauke dene mein bahut mehnat ki, aur badhna aapke hone ka hissa lagta hai. Shayad aapko naya seekhna hamesha se achha laga hai, aur tabhi aap sabse zinda mehsoos karte ho. Jo bhi ho, badhne ki chaah laalach nahi hai. Ye zindagi ko aage chalte dekhne ki chaah se aati hai, aur use narmi chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Doosri companies se khud ko taulna
Har ruka hua budget ek darwaza band hone jaisa lagta hai. Aap khud ko doosri companies wale doston se taulte ho. Atke hue, thode kadwe aur peeche chhoote mehsoos karte ho. Seekhne ki cheezein dhoondhna chhod dete ho, kyunki paisa to koi dene wala hai nahi. Dheere-dheere job waiting room lagne lagti hai, aur jo curiosity kabhi din roshan karti thi wo chup hone lagti hai.
Kya budget ka intezaar laayak hai?
Khud se sach-sach poochiye: kya company ke lagane ka intezaar karne se kabhi aapka badhna hua? Ya zyada-tar yahi laga ki aap atke ho? Paise ki tangi mein companies aksar sabse pehle training kaatti hain, bina theek se soche ki kis par asar padega. Jo bhi ho, unka budget aapke badhne ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna jitna deta hai usse zyada leta hai.
Budget ho ya na ho, badhte rehna
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aage badhne mein saath ki chaah jaati rahe. Matlab ye ki aapka badhna ab budget ka intezaar nahi karta. Aap muft courses, kitaabon, saathiyon aur kaam se hi seekh sakte ho, apni raftaar se, apne waqt par. Yahin se thodi shanti lautti hai: curiosity phir jaag jaati hai, aur spreadsheet jo bhi kahe, aap khud ko chalte mehsoos karte ho.
Threats, shouting, harassment, humiliation, being singled out for who you are, pay or papers held back, or being frightened at work, are something else, and worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleCompany ko mere aage badhne par bhi kuch lagana chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleBudget ho ya na ho, mera badhna chalta reh sakta hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Kisi pasandida cheez par ek muft video ke bees minute lijiye
- Din 2
Is hafte kisi saathi se ek nayi cheez seekhiye
- Din 3
Ek aisi cheez sochiye jo saal bhar pehle se ab behtar hoti hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kaam par aapne ab tak ki sabse achhi cheez kya seekhi, aur kisne sikhayi?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Lunch mein khula hua course ka page #
Bhopal ke office mein tiffin aadha khaya pada hai, aur laptop par ek course ka page socha se ek minute zyada khula reh gaya. Bengaluru wali dost ne abhi kaha hai ki uski company course ki fees bharti hai. Baat jud jaati hai: “Company ko mere aage badhne par bhi kuch lagana chahiye.”
Kuch logon ki chaah ye hoti hai ki kaam ki jagah unhein sirf kaam nipatane wale haath nahi, badhne wala insaan bhi samjhe. Sunne mein aam lagti hai, phir bhi ismein kaafi ummeed hoti hai.
Aakhri baar kis job ne aapko kuch naya sikhaya jiske liye aap sach mein shukraguzar hue, aur wo kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Wahi kaam baar-baar, seena baithta hua #
Kuch logon ko hafte ke kaam pichhle saal jaise dikhein to seene mein halka baithta hua ehsaas hota hai. Kuch ki taangon mein bechain bhanbhanahat, kursi chauthai ghoomkar khidki ki taraf.
Body raay banne se pehle bol sakti hai: lambi saans, thuddi par tika haath, ek tab khula aur phir band. Bhavishya ke baare mein zyada sambhle khayal aksar station tak paidal jaate hue aate hain.
Pichhli baar jab kaam “wahin ke wahin” laga, to uske baare mein kuch sochne se pehle aapki body ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Badhne ki chaah ek achhi nishani hai #
Kaam par badhne ki ummeed rakhna jaayaz hai. Job hafte ka bada hissa le jaati hai, aur jahan dimaag ka hunar badhta rahe wo jagah us jagah se bilkul alag lagti hai jahan wo jas ka tas pada rahe.
Badhna mehsoos karna aasaan hai aur naapna mushkil. Seekhna chhoti cheezon mein dikhta hai, jaise koi kaam pehle se jaldi nipatna ya koi sawaal jo ab poochhna hi nahi padta, aur kamre mein kisi ko pata bhi nahi chalta.
Aaj aap aisa kya kar lete ho jo yahan aane ke waqt nahi kar paate the, aur wo kaise seekha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo kshitij ki taraf ishaara karti hai #
“Isse zyada mujhse ho sakta hai.” “Kisi ne kabhi poochha hi nahi ki mujhe kya seekhna hai.” “Ek saal aur wahi sab.” Awaaz aksar sust dopaharon mein bolti hai, ya jab ketli teesri baar chadhi ho.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki awaaz thodi kaam ke baare mein hai, aur thodi is chaah ke baare mein ki koi ek baar zor se keh de ki is desk par baitha insaan aage gadhne laayak hai.
Jab awaaz kshitij ki taraf ishaara karti hai, to wo kaun si pankti kehti hai, aur chahti hai ki koi kya kahe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Aage badhte rehne ki chaah kahan se aayi #
Kuch logon mein ye kisi teacher ya shuruaati boss se shuru hui jinhone kaha, “Lo, ye karke dekho,” aur thodi badi file haath mein thama di. Ek insaan jisne kisi ki chhalaang par bharosa kiya, wahi tay kar deta hai ki koi bhi daftar kya de sakta hai.
Kuch mein ye ghar se aati hai: Papa jo kehte the “Seekhna kabhi band nahi karna”, ya aise parivar se jahan har bachche ko agli degree ki taraf dhakela jaata tha. Kai jagah jo seekhna chhod de, uski chupchaap fikar ki jaati thi.
Kisne sabse pehle aapko kuch thoda zyada kathin diya aur us par bharosa kiya, aur tab kaisa laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Aage badhaye jaane ka niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Achhi jagah apne logon ko aage badhne mein madad karti hai”, ya “Mera kaam achha raha to agla mauka milega.” Pehla vaakya wo hai jo log sunte hain; neeche wala niyam tay karta hai ki thehre hue hafte ko kaise padha jaye.
Aise niyam seekhne ki qadar se aate hain, jo achhi qadar hai. Inhein is company ke saath rakhkar dekha ja sakta hai, jaisi wo hai: kase time-table aur badhat ka apna alag matlab liye hue.
Ho sakta hai ye purane saal se chala aa raha ho, ya isi job se bana ho.
Ye niyam yahan kahan ab bhi baithta hai, aur kahan agla kadam aisi cheez hai jo company shayad khud kabhi na de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Thehraav ka ehsaas kya le jaata hai #
Iska matlab achha kaam bina dilchaspi ke jama karna ho sakta hai, course ka page paanchvi baar khulna-band hona, aur aisa Sunday jisme agle paanch baras ka halka-sa sawaal ghula ho. Chhoti baatein, jo agle hafte mein chali jaati hain.
Job waiting room jaisi lagne lag sakti hai. Kaam ko achhi tarah jaanne ki sahuliyat us sawaal se dab jaati hai ki ye sab ja kahan raha hai, aur wo sawaal aaj ke kaafi hisse ko gher leta hai.
Pichhle kuch mahino mein kis kaam se aapne kuch seekha, thoda hi sahi, aur wo kya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Isi desk par paanch saal aur #
Ek aam Thursday sochiye, us din jab “Company ko mere aage badhne par bhi kuch lagana chahiye” zor se bol raha hai. Ye bas dekhne ke liye ek tasveer hai.
Shayad kaam aaram se chalta hai, shaam ki ek chhoti class calendar mein hai, koi saathi poochhta hai ki ye kaise kiya tha, aur din is ehsaas par khatam hota hai ki kaam aaye.
Yahan kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur tasveer ko jab chahein rakh dijiye.
Usme kya hai: wahi purane kaam, khula hua ek tab, dheeme-dheeme khaya gaya lunch jiske saath kuch naya padha ja raha hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us Thursday mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske baare mein aapko, agar kuch bhi, kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Badhna kiske haath mein? #
“Mere aage badhne mein kuch lagao” ka matlab koi course ho sakta hai, naya project, seekhne ka waqt, koi jo sikhaye, ya aisi meeting mein baithne ka mauka jo pehle band thi. Har ek alag, chhoti ummeed hai, aur kuch is bade vaakya ke sujhaav se zyada aasaani se mil sakti hain.
Kuch daftar ismein kaafi kuch de sakte hain aur kuch bahut kam, waqt aur logon ke hisaab se. Jahan company na de sake, seekhna hafte aur zindagi ke doosre konon mein bhi ho sakta hai. Dono mein se koi bhi aapki kaabiliyat par faisla nahi.
Agar agle ek mahine mein badhna koi chhoti, thos cheez ho, to wo aapke liye kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Job pehle se kya sikha rahi hai #
Jis badhat ka mauka nahi mila, uske saath job chupchaap sikhati bhi rahi hogi: kisi mushkil baatcheet ko sambhalne ka tareeka, dekh-dekhkar seekha hua koi system, wo saathi jisne kuch ek baar samjhaya aur wo yaad reh gaya.
Inmein se kisi ko dekhne se aur ki chaah ghatti nahi. Dono ek hi desk par, ek hi Tuesday ko sach ho sakte hain.
Ise aaram se sochiye.
Job ne aapko pehle se kya sikhaya hai jise aap aur saaf dekhna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Seekhna, jitni raftaar hai usi mein #
Yahan sulah ka matlab ho sakta hai ki ek shaant daur ko dekha jaye jabki hafte ab bhi jiye ja rahe hain, kaate nahi ja rahe. Jo jaayaz hai wo reh sakta hai: seekhne ki chaah, aur ye chaah ki kaam kahin pahunchaye.
Kuch alag tab shuru hota hai jab koi boss, client ya saathi aapko dhamkaye, pareshaan kare, beizzat kare, ya aap jo ho us wajah se (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, koi disability, ya aap kahan se ho) aapko nishana banaye.
Waise hi bina paise ka kaam karwaya jaana, salary ya kaagzaat rok liye jaana, asurakshit kaam, ya darr lagna. Inhein gambhirta se lena theek hai, aur savdhaan rehkar chalna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Kaam ki jagah par buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha “bahut zyada ummeed” kabhi nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi aur unke liye bhi.
Is ummeed ko dheela thaamkar ek aam lunch break sochiye: course ke pages jo pandrah minute le jaate the, unmein aap kya karna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Shaant dopahar ke liye ek zyada sachchi pankti #
“Company ko mere aage badhne par bhi kuch lagana chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log aisi pankti taiyaar rakhte hain: “Maine socha tha ki badhne mein saath milega, aur mera seekhna apne dhang se ab bhi chal raha hai.” Use jeetna nahi hai, bas purani pankti ke bagal mein khada hona hai.
Aisi pankti shuru mein udhaar ki lag sakti hai aur bolte-bolte baith jaati hai. Kuch ko apne saade shabd zyada jamte hain, aur wo bhi theek hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein zyada sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo ummeed ke baare mein imaandaar ho aur job ko poora zimmedaar na thehraye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Course ka page ek tab hi reh sakta hai #
Har bechain dopahar ko Friday tak yojana nahi chahiye. Use dekha ja sakta hai, mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur kitaab mein rakhe bookmark ki tarah chhoda ja sakta hai, jagah ab bhi batata hua, kholne ki maang kiye bina.
Badhne ki chaah jitni der chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Dhamki, pareshaan kiya jaana, beizzati, aap jo ho us wajah se nishana banna, bina paise ka kaam, roki salary ya kaagzaat, asurakshit kaam ya darr kuch aur baat hai, aur gambhirta se lene laayak hai; savdhaan rehna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Aaj raat ke liye chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek tha, ya kuch tay ho gaya. Bas itna ki aaj shaam ko poora bhavishya tay nahi karna hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar pakad zara dheeli ho jaye #
Bas tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ummeed ek paydaan dheemi hai. Badhne ki chaah ab bhi hai, aur course ka page shanti se dekha ja raha hai, is khayal ke saath ki ek mahine baad wo kahan fit ho sakta hai.
Ho sakta hai aisa lunch jisme page bas dilchaspi se padha jaye, ya maze ke liye seekhi koi chhoti cheez.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, aapka hai. Aage: is ummeed se sulah ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein, jo log aazmaate hain #
- Is hafte ki ek cheez dekhiye jo aapne bina kahe seekh li
- Sochiye ek saal mein aap sabse zyada kya kar paana chahoge
- Gaur kijiye aaj kiski awaaz oonchi hai, oob ki ya aur paane ki chaah ki
- Kisi ko sochiye jiske seekhne ka tareeka aapko achha lagta hai
- Hafte ka ek chhota kona sochiye jahan kuch naya sama sake
Chhoti, nijee aur chahein to. Jo ho sake wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kaam par aapne ab tak ki sabse achhi cheez kya seekhi, aur kisne sikhayi?
- Yahan banaye kis hunar par aapko sabse zyada naaz hai?
- Kisne pehli baar aapko thoda bada kaam diya aur bharosa kiya?
- Agar company se apne upar nivesh ki chaah dheemi pade, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?
- Is job ne aapko pehle se kya sikhaya hai jise aap aur dekhna chahoge?