Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Seekhne ki raftaar andar se dekhkar theek-theek aankna bhi mushkil hai.
Kai logon ne bachpan mein tez hone ki taareef paayi.
Neeche-neeche ek niyam baith sakta hai: “Jisme mujhe zyada waqt lage, wo mere bas ka nahi.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Sir hilakar “ji, samajh aa gaya” kehna, phir baad mein akele samajhna
- Kisi ke saamne karne se pehle raat ko chupchaap abhyaas karna
- Ek hi sawaal dobara na poochna, jab zaroorat ho tab bhi
- Har step ki tulna kamre ke sabse tez insaan se karna
- Nayi cheez chupchaap chhod dena, isse pehle ki kisi ko joojhna dikhe
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Hisar mein naya billing software
Hisar ke steel unit ke accounts office mein aapka teesra hafta. Sabne naya billing software pakad liya hai. Ek saathi ek baar dikhata hai, tez click karte hue: “Isme kya hai, bas ye daba do.” Aap sir hilakar “ji, samajh aa gaya” kehte ho. Shaam ko staff bus jaane ke baad aap trial voucher par wahi step dobara karte ho, aur ek sawaal ghar tak peecha karta hai: “Sabko aa gaya, mujhe hi itni der kyun?”
Zyada waqt matlab mere bas ka nahi
Sabse pehle saaf baat: kisi cheez mein zyada waqt lagna aapki qabiliyat par sahi faisla nahi, aur iska aapki qadar se koi lena-dena nahi. Par neeche ek niyam ug sakta hai aur aapka ban jaata hai: “Jisme mujhe zyada waqt lage, wo mere bas ka nahi.” Ye imaandaari jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye karta kya hai: har chhoti galti saboot ban jaati hai, aur har sawaal jokhim.
Tez hone ki taareef kyun hui
Hum aisa niyam isliye pakadte hain kyunki tez hone ki taareef aksar hui. Shayad sabse pehle sawaal hal karne wale bacche ko shabaashi milti thi. Shayad aapne suna, “Itna aasaan sawaal aur nahi aaya?” Jo bhi ho, saath chalne ki chaah bewakoofi nahi. Wo apnepan, bharose aur achhe kaam ki chaah se aati hai. Ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Chhutti ke baad akele abhyaas
Har chhipi joojh ki thodi keemat hai. Sawaal poochhe nahi jaate, to chhoti kamiyan badi ho jaati hain. Shaamein us abhyaas mein jaati hain jo ek sawaal suljha deta. Nayi cheezein jokhim lagne lagti hain, to unhein kam aazmate hain. Jab aakhir samajh aata hai, to raahat milti hai, khushi nahi. Tez dikhne mein bahut energy jaati hai, seekhne ke liye kam bachti hai.
Kya ye daud waqai zaroori hai?
Imaandaari se khud se poochiye: kya is niyam se kabhi seekhna tez hua? Ya zyadatar akela hua? Jis saathi ne fatafat click kiya, usne shayad barson isi tool par kaam kiya ho. Shuruaat ki lakeerein alag hon, to raftaar alag hoti hai. Isme koi galat jawab nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna aapke chain ki keemat ke layak hai?
Aapki raftaar, aapki apni
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki koshish chhoot jaye, ya dikhaya jaye ki tool aasaan hai. Matlab ye ki aapki raftaar bas aapki raftaar rahe. Aap wahi sawaal do baar poochh sakte ho. Yahan khulkar naushikhiya reh sakte ho, kuch waqt ke liye. Shuruaat chhoti ho sakti hai, ek-ek qadam. Wahin chain lautta hai: seekhna phir badhna lagta hai, daud nahi.
If someone is threatening you, frightening you or holding money or papers over you while you learn a job, that is not everyday frustration and is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleJisme mujhe zyada waqt lage, wo mere bas ka nahi.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleSeekhne mein jitna waqt lagta hai, lagta hai. Dheema bhi seekhna hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Aaj ki ek cheez ginie jo aapko ab samajh aati hai
- Din 2
Buniyadi galti ke baad ek dheemi saans lijiye
- Din 3
Wo ek hunar yaad kijiye jo dheere seekha tha
Is par baat karni hai?
“Abhi aap apni raftaar ki tulna kisse kar rahe the?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Ek sawaal jo sirf mann mein poocha jaata hai #
Office mein naya software, koi nayi class, koi naya app jo ghar mein sab pehle se chala rahe hain. Koi ek baar dikhata hai, “isme kya hai, bas ye daba do,” aur aage badh jaata hai. Sab sir hilate hain. Aur andar ek sawaal uthta hai: “Sabko aa gaya, mujhe hi itni der kyun?”
Kisi ne kuch bura nahi kaha. Aksar log bhale hote hain, madad bhi karte hain. Par sawaal ko kisi aur ki zaroorat nahi. Wo kamre mein nazar daudata hai, jise sabse pehle aaya use dhundhta hai, aur chupchaap aapko line mein sabse peeche khada kar deta hai.
Ye sawaal pichhli baar kab aaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aap kya seekh rahe the, kaun aage laga, aur uske baad ke kuch minute aapne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Chhoti-si galti itni kyun jalati hai #
Kuch logon ka chehra tap jaata hai jab sabke saamne koi buniyadi step galat ho jaye, ya apni baari aane par gala kas jaata hai. Kuch ekdum chup hokar sir hilate rehte hain, is ummeed mein ki koi karke dikhane ko na kahe. Isme zaroorat se zyada naazuk hone jaisa kuch nahi.
Logon ke saamne seekhna yaani us waqt dikhna jab kaam abhi aata nahi, aur kai logon ko ye khula-khula lagta hai. To body sochne se pehle hi harkat mein aati hai: galti chhipane ki ichha, “haan, samajh aa gaya” kehne ki jaldi, baad mein jahan koi na dekhe wahan abhyaas karne ki.
Jis pal saaf hua ki abhi aaya nahi, us pal body ne kya kiya: garam hui, chup hui, ya baat dhakne mein lag gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur wo pehli pratikriya kise bacha rahi thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Raftaar faisle mein badal jaati hai #
Dheere seekhna isliye chubhta hai ki mann raftaar ko qabiliyat ka faisla bana leta hai. Kisi cheez mein zyada waqt lagna shuruaat aur sikhane ke tareeke ke baare mein kuch batata hai. Mann usse kahin bada sunta hai: ye mere bas ki nahi.
Seekhne ki raftaar andar se dekhkar theek-theek aankna bhi mushkil hai. Jisne das minute mein pakad liya, wo shayad barson se aisa kuch kar raha ho. Aur jo samjha raha hai, wo bhool chuka ki na aana kaisa hota hai. Dono baatein aapki raftaar ko asal se dheema dikhati hain.
Tulna ko ek taraf rakhein to isme sachmuch naya kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur kya wo hissa doosron ne kahin dekha ho sakta hai, jahan aapko kabhi mauqa hi nahi mila?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Har qadam ki ghadi chalane wali awaaz #
Is awaaz ki kuch pasandida lines hain. “Sabko aa gaya, mujhe hi itni der kyun?” “Shayad ye mere bas ki nahi.” “Dobara poocha to sabko dikhega ki main peeche hoon.” Chhoti galti ke theek baad, ya jab koi kahe “isme kya hai,” ye sabse zor se bolti hai.
Ye samajhdaari jaisi sunayi deti hai, aur aksar wahi bankar chal jaati hai. Par samajhdaar awaaz ye bhi batati ki ye doosra hafta hai, baaki pehle aaye the, aur aapne pehle bhi mushkil cheezein seekhi hain. Ye bas stopwatch liye khadi hai, aur sirf aapke liye.
Jab ye aapke qadam ginti hai, to kiski awaaz ke sabse kareeb lagti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur koi dost yahi cheez isi raftaar se seekh raha hota, to kya aap uske qadam is tarah ginte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kai logon ke liye tezi ki taareef bachpan mein hui #
Kai logon ne bachpan mein tez hone ki taareef paayi. Jisne sawaal sabse pehle hal kiya, kavita sabse jaldi ratti, masterji ka sawaal poora hone se pehle haath khada kar diya, use shabaashi mili. “Itna aasaan sawaal aur nahi aaya?” doosron se kaha gaya, aur kabhi aapse bhi.
Kuch classes tez bacchon ki raftaar se chalti thin, baaki chupchaap saath chalna ya bahana seekh jaate the. Kuch gharon mein bhai-behenon aur cousins ki tulna hoti thi ki kise sabse pehle aaya. Bacha nateeja nikal sakta hai ki dheema yaani kam qabil, aur seekhna poora hone tak chhipana hai.
Aapki class ya ghar mein tez kaun tha, aur baakiyon ke baare mein kaise baat hoti thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse aapne kya seekha ki zyada waqt chahiye to iska kya matlab hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Stopwatch ke neeche ek chupchaap niyam #
Neeche-neeche ek niyam baith sakta hai: “Jisme mujhe zyada waqt lage, wo mere bas ka nahi.” Iske kuch kareebi rishtedaar bhi hain: “Do baar poochna matlab fail” ya “Pehli baar mein aa jaana chahiye.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte hi nahi. Wo apni had pehchanna lagte hain, apni taakat ke baare mein imaandaar hona. Isiliye tikte hain: samajhdaar sunayi dete hain, jabki chupchaap wo darwaaze band karte hain jo thoda aur waqt dene se khul sakte the.
Kuch log ise school se jodte hain, kuch ghar se, kuch kisi ek class se jahan wo pichhad gaye. Har haal mein ise dekha ja sakta hai. Dheema yaani namumkin, to dheemapan chhipao.
Ye niyam kahan ab bhi baithta hai, aur kahan isne kuch seekhne se roka?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Seekhna chhipane ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai na poochhe gaye sawaal, jisse chhoti kamiyan badi ho jaati hain. Kuch log rukkar akele wo abhyaas karte hain jo do minute ke ek sawaal se suljh jaata. Kuch nayi cheezein aazmana hi band kar dete hain, kyunki kisi ke saamne naushikhiya dikhna bahut khula lagta hai.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Seekhna jab daud ban jaye, to behtar hone ki khushi kho jaati hai. Aakhir mein jab samajh aata hai, to raahat milti hai, khushi nahi, aur agli nayi cheez pehle se ek aur imtihaan lagti hai jisme sabke saamne fail ho sakte hain.
Ye kamzori se nahi. Seekhna aur seekhna chhipana, dono saath karna thakata hai.
Pichhle saal iski keemat kya rahi: ek sawaal jo nahi poochha, koi hunar jo chhoot gaya, raat ka koi ghanta jo chupchaap abhyaas mein gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur stopwatch ke saath #
Ek aam kaamkaaji din ki tasveer banaiye jab “mujhe zyada waqt lage to mere bas ka nahi” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad meeting mein bina samjhe sir hilana, chhutti ke baad akele ghante bhar do minute ki cheez ka abhyaas, koi class chupchaap chhod dena, koi naya role jiski arzi nahi di kyunki phir logon ke saamne seekhna padta.
Yahan kisi cheez ka abhi jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer jab chahein rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya hai: naya tool, meeting, roka hua sawaal?Is par baat kijiye ›
Use dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kisse dheema, aur kahan se shuru karke? #
Seekhne ki raftaar is par bahut tiki hai ki shuruaat kahan se hui. Jo computer ke saath bada hua, ya jiske ghar mein angrezi chalti thi, ya jiske papa wahi kaam karte the, wo wahan se nahi chala jahan se aap. Shuruaat ki lakeer dekhe bina raftaar milana aisi race ki ghadi hai jisme kuch log aadhe raaste se daude.
Aksar imaandaar jawab ye hota hai ki aapke paas aaspaas walon se zyada raasta tay karna hai. Bahar se ye dheema dikh sakta hai, andar se dheema lag sakta hai, phir bhi sachchi taraqqi hai.
Kai cheezon ko bas is hafte chalne layak aana chahiye, aur apni raftaar se wahan pahunchna bhi pahunchna hai.
Poochiye: kisse dheema, theek-theek, aur kahan se chalkar?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek aur nazar: is hunar ke liye “filhaal kaafi” kaisa dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #
Jab log us pal ko gaur se dekhte hain jab wo sabse dheeme lage, to kai ko dikhta hai ki samjhaya kitna kam gaya tha. Ek step chhoot gaya, ek aisa shabd aaya jise kisi ne samjhaya nahi, “isme kya hai” ne sikhane ki jagah le li. Kami sikhane mein utni thi jitni seekhne wale mein.
Kuch ko yaad aata hai ki kitni cheezein kabhi dheere seekhi thin jo ab bilkul aasaan hain: cycle, koi doosri bhasha, koi naukri jo pehle uljhi lagti thi. Stopwatch jab sabse nayi cheez par chal rahi hoti hai, ye baatein kam hi yaad aati hain.
Kaun sa hunar aapne kabhi dheere seekha tha jo ab bina soche aata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Usmein kitna waqt laga tha, aur kya aaj wo waqt kisi ginti mein aata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Daud jeetna zaroori nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye dikhana nahi ki jo nahi aata wo aata hai, ya koshish chhod dena. Matlab ye ki raftaar faisla na rahe, aur seekhne ko utna waqt mile jitna sachmuch lagta hai.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab “mujhe itni der kyun lag rahi?” ki jagah wo poochte hain “agla chhota qadam kya hai?” Pehla sawaal tulna karta hai aur taulta hai. Doosra bas chalta hai, aur uska jawab aamtaur par agle das minute mein sama jaata hai.
Kaisa lagega isme khuleaam naushikhiya rehna, jitna waqt lage, bina kisi se aage dikhne ki zaroorat ke?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “mere bas ki nahi” barson se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe behas ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaay ek sachcha vaakya taiyaar rakhte hain: “Meri apni raftaar hai, aur main pichhle hafte se aage hoon.”
Ye abhi sach lagna zaroori nahi. Bas purane vaakya se zyada sahi hona kaafi hai, aur kuch ko lagta hai ki dheere aur baar-baar kehne par wo thodi jagah le leta hai jo stopwatch ghere rakhti thi.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kaisa hoga, jo joojhne ke baare mein imaandaar ho, par ise aapki qabiliyat par faisla na banaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein bas neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Har dheeme qadam ki tulna kamre ke sabse tez insaan se karna zaroori nahi. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur rakh diya ja sakta hai, jaise koi tab band karke kal taaza nazar se laut aaye.
Ye seekhna chhodna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki energy kahan jaye, aur kuch log paate hain ki apne ko ghadi se naapne mein bachi energy se hi nayi cheez aakhir baithti hai.
Aaj shaam tulna rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki hunar zaroori nahi raha. Bas itna ki seekhne ke saath daud nahi judi honi chahiye, aur wo ghar tak faisla bankar nahi aani chahiye.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki stopwatch ek darja dheemi ho gayi hai. Seekhna ab bhi achhe se hai, par us raftaar se jo aapki shuruaat ke mutabik baithe.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: bina jhijhak doosri baar poochh lena, galti par kandhe uchka dena, nayi class pehle mushkil hafte ke baad bhi jaari rakhna, samajh aane ki chhoti-si khatak ka maza lena.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir stopwatch chali”
- Khud se poochiye: isme sachmuch naya kya hai mere liye?
- Gaur kijiye ki aaj ek cheez samajh aayi jo pichhle hafte nahi aati thi
- Buniyadi galti ke baad use taulne se pehle ek dheemi saans lijiye
- Wo ek hunar yaad kijiye jo dheere seekha tha aur ab aasaani se aata hai
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
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