Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Purane kaam ka hunar kaam badalne par gayab nahi hota.
Bahut logon ke liye kisi cheez mein achha hona hi mehfooz rehne ka tareeka bana.
Newbie palon ke neeche ek chup niyam baith sakta hai: “Is umar mein toh mujhe ye aana hi chahiye.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Pakadne ke liye roz der raat tak rukna
- Meeting ke beech chupke se shabd google karna
- Na chahte hue bhi purani naukri ki baat baar-baar chhed dena
- Apne se aadhi umar ke logon se apni tulna karna
- Mushkil dinon mein sochna ki kya ye badlaav theek tha
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Chaar mahine baad, aur basic
Sultanpur mein ek Tuesday, naye kshetra mein chaar mahine, das saal purane kaam ke baad. Pachchis saal ka ek bhala saathi kursi kheenchkar baithta hai: “Koi baat nahi, main bilkul basic se samjha deta hoon.” Aap muskurakar note karte ho. Ghar lautte e-rickshaw mein aap uske kahe teen shabd google karte ho, aur ek khayal aata hai: “Pehle log mujhse poochte the.”
Is umar mein toh aana chahiye
Pehle seedhi baat: naye kshetra mein newbie hona nakaami nahi, aur buniyaad samjhayi jaana aapki keemat nahi batata. Par neeche ek niyam ug sakta hai, aur aapka ho jaata hai: “Is umar mein toh mujhe ye aana hi chahiye.” Ye samajhdaari jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har aam newbie pal is baat ka saboot lagne lagta hai ki badlaav galat tha.
Qaabil hona mehfooz kyun laga
Hum aisa niyam isliye pakadte hain ki qaabil hona aksar mehfooz rakhta aaya. Shayad school mein aap bharosemand bachche the, ya wo jiske nateejon se ghar mein naam hota tha. Shayad suna ki career ek baar chuna jaata hai aur chadha jaata hai. Jo bhi ho, apne kaam mein achha hona chahna bewakoofi nahi. Ye gambheerta se liye jaane ki chaah hai. Ye narmi ka haqdaar hai, dosh ka nahi.
Faasla bharne ki der raatein
Is niyam ke neeche har newbie pal mehnga padta hai. Aap mahinon der raat tak rukte ho ek aisa faasla bharne ko jo waqt ke saath hi bharta hai. Bhola sawaal poochne se achha chup rehte ho. Purane kshetra ki soojh ankahi reh jaati hai. Jis jigyasa ne yahan pahunchaya, wo aise dikhne ke dabaav mein dab jaati hai jaise aap hamesha yahin the. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aap mehsoos karte ho.
Kya daudkar apna banna sahi hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: is niyam ko pakde rehne se seekhna kabhi tez hua? Ya zyadatar bhaari hi hua? Us office ka har expert kabhi newbie tha, aksar aur kam umar ka aur zyada uljha hua. Aapke baras gayab nahi hue, saath aaye hain. Koi galat jawab nahi hai. Chahein to ek pal rukiye. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna us keemat ke laayak hai jo ye maangta hai?
Yahan newbie, har jagah nahi
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki buniyaad sunna atpata na lage, ya purani mez ki yaad na aaye. Matlab ye ki yahan naya hona aapke chunaav ka hissa ho sakta hai, us par faisla nahi. Aap kisi kam umar saathi se notes le sakte ho aur phir bhi das saal apne saath la sakte ho. Shuruaat chhoti ho sakti hai, ek meeting se. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: naya kaam apna lagne lagta hai.
If a workplace ever threatens or frightens you, or holds your pay, visa or papers over you, that is beyond the ordinary strain of starting over and is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleIs umar mein toh mujhe ye aana hi chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleNayi shuruaat meri marzi se hai, aur mere baras saath aaye hain.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Aaj ki ek cheez dekhiye jo pichhle mahine nahi aati thi
- Din 2
Purane kaam ka ek hunar yaad kijiye jo saath aaya
- Din 3
Newbie pal ke baad kahiye: yahan shuruaat hai, har jagah nahi
Is par baat karni hai?
“Purane kaam mein expert hona aapko sabse zyada kis liye yaad aata hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Apni aadhi umar wale ki meharbani #
Sultanpur mein naya office, naya kaam, aur pachchis saal ka ek saathi kursi kheenchkar baith jaata hai. “Koi baat nahi, main bilkul basic se samjha deta hoon.” Pyaar se kaha gaya hai, aur naye insaan ko yahi chahiye bhi. Phir bhi seene mein kuch halka sa baith jaata hai.
Kuch baras pehle shayad kursi kheenchne wale aap the. Log sawaal lekar aapki mez par aate the, aur jawab bina dekhe nikal jaate the. Ab madad ulti disha se aati hai, aur badlaav us ek vaakya se kahin bada lag sakta hai jisme wo aaya.
Naye kaam mein aisa kuch aakhri baar kab suna?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kisne kaha, aur “Shukriya” kehne se theek pehle andar kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Muskaan, notes aur andar ka jhatka #
Bahut log muskurate hain, sir hilate hain, diary mein dhyaan se note karte hain, aur andar kuch garm sa uthta hai jise naam dena mushkil hai: thoda shukriya, thodi jhemp, aur us purane roop ki thodi yaad jise sab aata tha. Isme na nashukrapan hai, na ghamand.
Expert se newbie banna tez jhatka ho sakta hai, chahe faisla apna hi ho. Sharir haisiyat ka badalna mann se pehle pakad leta hai, aur yaad dilana ki ye kyun kiya tha, aksar baad mein hota hai: ghar lautte e-rickshaw mein, un shabdon ki list ke saath jo google karne hain.
Koi kam umar ka insaan wo samjhaye jo aapko lagta hai aapko pata hona chahiye, tab sharir kya karta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kas jaata hai, chup ho jaata hai, ya jaldi se dikhane lagta hai ki aapko kya aata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse pata chalta hai ki aap kya yaad kar rahe hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ek hunar ke baare mein kahi baat, barson par aa padi #
Buniyaad se samjhaye jaana isliye chubh sakta hai ki wo dikhata hai ki aap us jagah se kitni door aa gaye jahan aapko sab pata tha. Shabd ek hunar ke baare mein hain, par wo barson mein bani poori pehchaan par pad sakte hain. Kaam badalne wale ye pehle mahinon mein sabse zyada mehsoos karte hain.
Purane kaam ka hunar kaam badalne par gayab nahi hota. Wo khamosh ho jaata hai, kyunki naye kamre mein uske liye abhi naam nahi hain. Parakh, mushkil logon ke saath sabr, ye bhaanp lena ki koi plan zaroorat se zyada saja-sanwara hai, ye saath chalte hain, chahe jargon na chale.
Agar purane kaam se jo saath aaya uski list banayein, pad ka naam nahi, aadatein aur parakh, to usme kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur usme se kya nayi team ne bina kisi ke bataye dekh liya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo purani mez se naapti hai #
Is awaaz ki apni script hai. “Pehle mujhe sab aata tha.” “Yahan sab mujhse aage hain.” “Kya yahan aana sahi tha?” Ye sabse zor se chhoti si ladkhadahat ke baad bolti hai, aisi jo har newbie karta hai.
Ye imaandaari jaisi lagti hai, aur aksar imaandaari banke chal jaati hai. Par ye aapko unse naapti hai jo barson se is kaam mein hain, aur apne us purane roop se jo doosri seedhi ki choti par tha. Chaar mahine pehle shuru karne wale ke liye dono naap theek nahi.
Jab wo awaaz aapko kisi kam umar, aage wale se taulti hai, to kya chhod deti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur wahi himmat kisi dost ne ki hoti, to wo uske baare mein kya kehti?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Bahuton ke liye, expert hona mehfooz hona tha #
Bahut logon ke liye kisi cheez mein achha hona hi mehfooz rehne ka tareeka bana. Shayad school mein bharosemand bachcha, ya wo jiske numbers se ghar mein naam hota tha. Barson ki qaabiliyat chupchaap ye yaqeen ban jaati hai ki qaabil hona hi aapki jagah bachata hai.
Kai log ye sunkar bhi bade hue ki career ek baar chuna jaata hai aur phir seedhi lakeer mein chadha jaata hai. Beech mein raah badalna aisa lag sakta hai jaise koi ankaha niyam tod diya ho, aur har newbie pal un rishtedaaron ke paale mein khada dikhe jinhone poochha tha, “Pakki naukri chhod di?”
Ye baat aapne kahan se seekhi ki ek umar tak insaan ko apne kaam mein expert ho hi jaana chahiye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Naye kaam mein ladkhadate waqt ye kiski awaaz mein sabse saaf bolti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Newbie palon ke neeche ek chup niyam #
Newbie palon ke neeche ek chup niyam baith sakta hai: “Is umar mein toh mujhe ye aana hi chahiye.” Kuch log iska tez roop dhote hain: “Agar mujhe mushkil ho rahi hai, to badalna galti thi.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte nahi. Lagte hain haqeeqat, samajhdaari, apni umar ki sahi jagah pehchanna. Isiliye inhein dekhna theek hai: ye seekhne ko, jo newbie ka kaam hi hai, chupchaap aapke khilaaf saboot bana dete hain.
Kuch log is niyam ko parivaar ki ummeedon se jodte hain, kuch doston ke career se, kuch kisi se nahi. Ise parkha ja sakta hai: agar qaabiliyat hi bachati hai, to newbie kabhi mat bano.
Zindagi ke kin hisson mein ye ab bhi baithta hai, aur kinse ye bada ho chuka hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Sabke beech apna banne ki daud ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai mahinon der raat tak rukna taaki wo faasla bhar jaye jo waqt ke saath hi bharta hai, meeting mein chup rehna ki koi seedha-saada sawaal na poochna pade, ya purane kaam ki soojh daba lena ki kahin bemel na lage.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Jab har newbie pal is badlaav par faisla lagne lage, to naya kaam wo cheez nahi rehta jo aapne chuni thi. Jis jigyasa ne yahan pahunchaya, wo aise dikhne ke dabaav mein dab jaati hai jaise aap hamesha se yahin the.
Kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Kisi bhi umar mein sabke saamne seekhna sach mein mehnat maangta hai.
Haal mein niyam ne kya liya: koi shaam, koi soojh jo daba li, nayi cheez mein naye hone ka wo maza jo aapne chaha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, purani mez se naapte hue #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “Is umar mein mujhe aana chahiye” zor se baje. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad mez ke neeche chupke se google kiya gaya koi shabd, purane kshetra ki koi soojh jo daba di gayi, pakadne mein beeti ek aur shaam, kisi saathi ki umar se chupchaap ki gayi tulna. Shayad naye kaam ka ek achha din jo kabhi apna nahi laga.
Yahan kisi cheez ka abhi jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer ko jab chahein rakh dein.
Usme kya hai: meetingein, der shaamein, wo sawaal jo poochhe hi nahi gaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Use dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Yahan newbie, har jagah nahi #
Naye kshetra mein newbie hone ka matlab zindagi ya kaam mein newbie hona nahi. Logon ko sambhalna, deadline, dabaav aur galtiyan, in sabke baras saath aate hain, chahe wo naye jargon mein dikhein ya na dikhein. Buniyaad samjhane wala junior shayad un cheezon se saalon door hai jo aapko pehle se pata hain.
Is nazar se dekhein to aap aur wo madadgaar saathi adla-badli kar rahe hain. Uske paas kshetra hai, aapke paas baras. Team ko aksar isi mel se sabse zyada faayda hota hai, par pehle mahinon mein ye baat boli kam hi jaati hai.
Agar koi dost chaalis par achha-bhala career chhodkar kisi pasand ki cheez mein naye sire se shuru karta, to aapko wo newbie dikhta, ya himmat wala?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kisi mushkil Tuesday ko aap usse kya kehte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Gaur se dekhne par kya dikhta hai #
Jab log kaam badalne ke baad ka apna pehla saal dekhte hain, to kai ko dikhta hai ki nayi buniyaad unhone darr se tez pakad li, aur purane hunar aisi jagahon par nikle jinki ummeed nahi thi.
Kuch ye bhi dekhte hain ki aage wale log utni sakhti se parakh nahi rahe the jitna laga. Zyadatar apne kaam mein lage the, aur kuch chupchaap is kadam ki qadar karte the, aisa kadam jo unhone khud socha tha aur kabhi uthaya nahi.
Badlaav ke baad ab tak aapne kya seekh liya hai jo pehle din nahi aata tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur purani kaun si taaqat naye kaam mein apne aap saamne aayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Hamesha se yahin hone ki zaroorat nahi #
Isse sulah ka matlab ye nahi ki newbie pal chubhna band kar dein, ya ye dikhayein ki expert hona yaad nahi aata. Matlab ye ki kisi nayi cheez mein naya hona aapke chune hue raaste ka hissa ho sakta hai, galat hone ka saboot nahi.
Kuch logon ko tab halka lagta hai jab wo aise dikhne ki daud chhod dete hain jaise hamesha se isi kshetra mein the. Kamre ka har expert kabhi newbie tha, aksar aur kam umar ka aur zyada uljha hua. Zindagi ke barson ke saath newbie hona apni tarah ki shuruaat hai.
Kaisa lagega agar yahan naya hone dein, jitna bhi waqt lage, purani mez se naape bina?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Nayi mez ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar “Pehle mujhe sab aata tha” baar-baar baj raha hai, to usse seedhe behes karne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaye paas mein ek sachcha vaakya rakhte hain: “Is kaam mein mera pehla saal hai, par har cheez mein pehla saal nahi.”
Ise turant sach lagne ki zaroorat nahi. Bas purane wale se zyada sateek hona chahiye. Newbie pal ke baad dheere se kaha jaye, to kuch logon ko lagta hai ki ladkhadahat apne asli aakaar mein laut aati hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo is par imaandaar ho ki aap abhi kya seekh rahe hain, aur is par insaaf wala ho ki aap kya saath laaye hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Din ka kuch hissa neeche rakha ja sakta hai #
Har newbie pal ko aaj raat theek karna, uske liye padhna ya badlaav par faisla maanna zaroori nahi. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur din ke aakhir mein laptop ke saath band karke rakha ja sakta hai.
Iska matlab achha hone ki parwah kam karna nahi. Ye chunna hai ki taaqat kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain ki jab badlaav sahi saabit karne mein kam lage, to us jigyasa ke liye zyada bachti hai jiski wajah se badla tha.
Din ko neeche rakh dene se faasla nahi bhar jaata. Bas itna ki aaj ki raat pakadne mein nahi bitani padti.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Bas tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema hai. Naya kshetra ab bhi naya hai, par yahan newbie hona bas us raaste ka hissa hai jo aapne chuna.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: purane kaam ki ek soojh meeting mein rakh dena, bina rehearsal kiye ek sawaal poochh lena, ya ek shaam jo aam waqt par khatam ho.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehna nahi hai. Jo bhi aaye, aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai. Theek se dekhna chahein to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Ye newbie pal hai, faisla nahi”
- Aaj ki ek cheez dekhiye jo aapko samajh aati hai aur pichhle mahine nahi aati thi
- Purane kaam ki yaad aaye, to ek hunar yaad kijiye jo saath aaya
- Kisi kam umar ke saathi se apni tulna karne se pehle ek dheemi saans lijiye
- Hafte ke aakhir mein naye kaam ki ek chhoti si cheez dekhiye jo aapne theek ki
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wahi aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
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