Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ek hi baatcheet mein bhashaon ke beech aana-jaana bahut log bina soche karte hain.
“Jis bhasha mein poochha gaya, usi mein jawab do.”
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Mujhe ghulna-milna hai, tabhi mujhe apnaya jaayega,” ya zyada dheema roop: “Mere kuch shabd sirf akele mein chalte hain.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Turant badal lena aur call phusphusahat mein khatam karna
- Bolte rehna, pehle se thodi oonchi awaaz mein
- Gharwalon ka koi bhi phone uthane se pehle bahar nikal jaana
- Ek shabd mein jawab dena aur baaki baad ke liye rakhna
- Ghanton us pal ko dohrana aur koi doosra jawab sochna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Office ki pantry mein “English mein bolo”
Bhilai ke office ki pantry mein lunch. Aap ghar ki bhasha mein Mummy se baat kar rahe ho: “Ka karat has?” Bagal ki table se koi kehta hai, “Yahan English mein baat karo, log sun rahe hain.” Sir ghoomte hain. Aap awaaz dheemi karke call jaldi khatam karte ho, deewar dekhte rehte ho, dil tez dhadakta hai. Apne hi office mein paraya lagta hai. Baad mein Mummy ka message aata hai: “Ka hoge? Phone achanak kaat diya.”
Apnaye jaane ko bhasha chhipao
Pehle seedhi baat: wo baat theek nahi thi, aur apni bhasha bolna galat nahi. Par aise palon se ek niyam ugta hai, aur aapka ban jaata hai: “Apnaye jaane aur surakshit rehne ke liye mujhe apni bhasha chhipani hai.” Ye saavdhaani jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapka wo hissa jo gharwalon se baat karta hai, chhipane ki cheez lagne lagta hai.
Akela kar diye jaane par dard kyun
Hum aisa niyam isliye pakadte hain kyunki sabke saamne akela kar diya jaana asurakshit lag sakta hai. Ye bahut insaani chaahat hai, aur aam bhi. Zyadatar log iska koi roop dhote hain. Shayad ye ek se zyada baar hua. Shayad aapne doosron ke saath hote dekha. Jo bhi ho, saavdhaan rehna kamzori nahi. Wo surakshit rehne ki chaah se aata hai. Use narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Sabke saamne aur satark
Aisa har pal aapko thoda aur satark kar deta hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aap feel karte ho. Dheere-dheere ye judta jaata hai. Ye dheere hota hai, isliye pakadna mushkil hai. Aap sabke saamne bhasha badalte ho. Call chhoti rakhte ho. Lagta hai koi dekh raha hai. Jis bhasha mein parivaar ki garmaahat hai, use bolna jokhim bhara lagne lagta hai, aur aap saadharan jagahon par bhi ek chhoti chinta dhote ho.
Kya chhipana theek hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya is niyam ko har jagah kasakar pakadne se kabhi ghar jaisa laga? Ya zyadatar kuch qeemti chhipana pada? Aapki bhasha aapka hissa hai. Kisi anjaan ki ek pankti iska paimana nahi ki aap kahan ke ho. Iska koi galat jawab nahi. Kya is niyam ko har kamre mein itna kasakar pakadna uski keemat ke layak hai?
Aapki bhasha aapka hissa hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo baat theek thi, ya aapko kisi asurakshit kamre mein jokhim uthana hai. Wahan bhasha badal lena ya chup rehna theek hai. Matlab ye hai ki aapki bhasha ko har jagah sharm jaisa feel hona zaroori nahi. Jahan surakshit lage, wahan khulkar boliye. Shuruaat chhoti ho sakti hai, ek pal se. Yahin thoda chain lautta hai: ghar ke liye aapke shabd aapke hi rehte hain.
Being threatened, followed, harassed or frightened for your language or where you come from is not okay and is worth taking seriously; switching or keeping quiet in that room is allowed.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleApnaye jaane ke liye mujhe apni bhasha chhipani hai.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMeri bhasha mera hissa hai. Jahan surakshit, wahan khulkar bolo.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Aaj kisi surakshit jagah apni bhasha boliye aur uska maza lijiye
- Din 2
Ek aisi jagah par gaur kijiye jahan aapki bhasha ka swagat hai
- Din 3
Mushkil pal ke baad teen dheemi saansein lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Jab aapko bhasha badalne ko kaha gaya, tab doosri taraf kaun tha?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Call ke beech do shabd #
Office ki pantry mein Mummy se phone par baat, dukaan ki line mein kisi dost se do baatein, canteen ki table par saajha hua koi mazaak. Phir koi kehta hai: “English mein bolo,” ya “Theek se bolo, yahan ye nahi chalega,” ya bas “Yahan nahi.” Baat ek shabd ke aadhe mein ruk jaati hai.
Ye kisi bhi bhasha ke baare mein, kisi bhi kamre mein kaha ja sakta hai. Maang ek hi hoti hai: jo shabd sabse aasaani se aate hain, unhe abhi, doosron ke saamne, hata dijiye. Kuch log turant badal lete hain, kuch vaakya poora karte hain, kuch us pal ko poore din saath liye ghoomte hain.
Pal se shuru karein.
Aakhri baar kab kisi ne bataya ki kaun-si bhasha mein bolna hai, aur tab aap kisse baat kar rahe the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Faisla karne se pehle awaaz kyun dheemi ho jaati hai #
Kuch log batate hain ki awaaz phusphusahat mein utar aayi, phone par alvida jaldi mein nikal gaya, ya kisi shabd ke beech achanak bhasha badal gayi. Kuch ko garmi chadhti hai aur wo thoda oonche bolte rehte hain. Kuch hans dete hain. Ye sab pehle second mein ho sakta hai.
Doosron ke saamne bolne ka dhang bataya jaana akela kar diye jaane jaisa lagta hai, aur sharir sochne se pehle react kar deta hai. Soch aksar baad mein aati hai: lift mein, bus stop tak paidal jaate hue, is par ki kisne suna aur kya suna.
Pehli reaction aksar kisi bhi chunav se tez hoti hai.
Bhasha badalne ko kahe jaane ke agle second mein, aapne call ya baatcheet ka kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Kuch shabd sirf ek bhasha mein rehte hain #
Ek se zyada bhashayein bolne wale bahut logon ke liye kuch cheezein sirf ek bhasha mein rehti hain: koi pyaar ka naam, koi purana mazaak, kisi se haal poochne ka ek khaas dhang. Badalne ko kaha jaana un shabdon ko kamre ke bahar chhod dene jaisa lag sakta hai, phone ke doosri taraf wale ke saath.
Ek hi baatcheet mein bhashaon ke beech aana-jaana bahut log bina soche karte hain. “English mein bolo” jaisi baat is roz ki tez aawajaahi ko aisi cheez bana deti hai jis par nazar rakhi jaaye aur jise sabke saamne sudhara jaaye.
Kuch shabd anuvaad mein kuch kho dete hain.
Kaun-se shabd ya vaakya aap sirf kisi ek bhasha mein kehte ho, aur wo aamtaur par kiske liye hote hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab badalne wala switch khud chalne lage #
Kuch baar sunne ke baad andar ek chupchaap nigraani baith sakti hai. “Yahan nahi, log sun rahe hain.” “Call ki jagah message kar do.” “Lift mein sirf office wali bhasha.” Kai baar switch tab chal jaata hai jab kisi ne ek shabd bhi nahi kaha.
Kehne wala shayad us pal ko dobara sochega bhi nahi, par jaanch chalti rehti hai: galiyare mein kati gayi Mummy ki call, itna sapaat anuvaad ki mazaak reh hi nahi jaata, aadha nikla shabd jo nigal liya gaya. Ye aam saavdhaani jaisa sunaai deta hai, isliye tameez jaisa lag sakta hai.
Ye nigraani kisi ke lehje mein bolti hai.
Bhasha badalne ki wo awaaz, jo kisi ke poochne se pehle aati hai, kiski hai, aur aapne use pehli baar kahan suna?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ne badalna jaldi seekh liya #
“School mein sirf English.” “Mehmaanon ke saamne nahi.” “Jis bhasha mein poochha gaya, usi mein jawab do.” Kai logon ko yaad hai ki bahut chhote mein sikhaya gaya tha ki kaun-si bhasha kis kamre ki hai: ghar, school, dukaan, office, Dada-Dadi ko phone.
Kuch log kisi aadat ko aise palon tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se, ek nateeja baith sakta hai: jo shabd sabse apne lagte hain, unhe doosron ke sunte waqt dheema rakhna behtar hai, aur jaldi badal lena bas wahi hai jo ummeed ki jaati hai.
Kamron aur bhashaon ke ye shuruaati niyam barson tak reh sakte hain.
Aapko sabse pehle kisne sikhaya ki kaun-si bhasha kis kamre ki hai, aur bachpan mein aapne us niyam ka kya matlab nikala?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Badlaav ke neeche ka chupchaap niyam #
Neeche-neeche ek maanyata ban sakti hai: “Mujhe ghulna-milna hai, tabhi mujhe apnaya jaayega,” ya zyada dheema roop: “Mere kuch shabd sirf akele mein chalte hain.” Kuch ke liye ye badhkar ban jaata hai: “Log mujhe kya samjhenge, wahi tay karta hai ki main kaun hoon.”
Aisi maanyataayein maanyata jaisi lagti hi nahi. Wo mahaul padhne jaisi lagti hain, jaise koi bina soche darwaaza pakad le. Isiliye inhe beech-beech mein bahar nikalkar dekhna kaam aata hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko kisi khaas saal ya kamre tak le ja sakte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Bhasha badalne wala niyam kin kamron mein ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kinmein baithna band ho gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Saal bhar badalte rehne ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai office mein gharwalon ki call chhoti rakhna, voice note shaam tak taalna, kisi dost ke saath ka mazaak chhod dena kyunki wo ek hi bhasha mein chalta hai. Kuch logon ke liye sabse aasaani se aane wali bhasha bina faisle ke dheere-dheere chup ho jaati hai.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Poore din do tarah ke shabd sambhalna, aur nigraani mein unmein se chunna, sach mein mehnat hai, aur insaan ke sabse garam hisse kuch hi kamron ke liye bachkar reh sakte hain. Saal bhar mein ye judta jaata hai.
Ye kamzori se nahi: nigraani mein bolna thaka deta hai.
Pichhle saal kaun-si baatcheet chhoti, feeki ya der se hui, is wajah se ki kaun-si bhasha chal sakti thi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Badalte rehne ke paanch saal aur #
Ek aam Tuesday sochiye, us din ka jab kaun-si bhasha chalegi, wala niyam zor se bol raha ho. Call, line, canteen sochiye. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi, aur isme kuch bhi bhavishyavaani nahi.
Shayad ghar ki call ka jawab “Abhi busy hoon, baad mein” mein, voice note ek baar ki awaaz par suna hua, group ka mazaak itna anuvaad karke ki feeka pad jaaye, line mein beech vaakya mein badla ek shabd. Kuch jaana-pehchana lag sakta hai, kuch bilkul nahi.
Yahan kisi cheez ka abhi jawab nahi chahiye.
Bhasha badalne wale Tuesday par kaun-si baatcheet aapko chhoti hoti dikhti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Kahan bolein, aur kisse? #
Yahi do shabd bahut alag kamron mein kahe jaate hain: aisi meeting jahan sabko saath chalna hai, dukaan ki line, doston ka group, ek nijji call. Shabd akele aksar nahi batate ki baat kis tarah ke kamre ki hai, aur us faasle mein sabse sakht andaza bhar jaata hai.
Kuch logon ko do cheezein alag karna kaam aata hai: aisi saajhi baatcheet jisme sabko saath chalna hai, aur aisi nijji baat jo kamre se kahi hi nahi gayi thi. Wahi tippani dono par alag lagti hai, aur inmein se sirf ek kamre ka mamla tha.
Bahar se dekhiye.
Agar koi dost bataye ki gharwalon ko phone karte waqt use bhasha badalne ko kaha gaya, to aap us call ke baare mein usse kya poochna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Doosri nazar mein kuch log kya dekhte hain #
Jab kuch log us pal ko dheere-dheere dohraate hain, to dekhte hain ki asal mein kya ho raha tha: baatcheet kisse thi, kamre ke liye thi ya nahi, aur badalne ko kitni jaldi kaha gaya. Is tarah saaf-saaf rakhne par pal waisa nahi dikh sakta jaisa laga tha.
Kuch wo jagahein dekhte hain jahan unki har bhasha ka swagat hai: wo dost jo poochta hai iska matlab kya hai, wo colleague jisne jaan-boojhkar ek vaakya seekha, wo padosi jo ek saans mein do bhashayein mila deta hai. Kabhi agli tippani aati hi nahi, aur kabhi chinta us insaan ya us kamre ke baare mein sahi nikalti hai.
Kuch log baatcheet mein har bhasha ke liye jagah bana dete hain.
Aapki zindagi mein kaun aapki kisi bhi bhasha ko sunkar khush hota hai, aur uske saath baatein kaisi hoti hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Kaun-si bhasha jeetegi, ye tay karna zaroori nahi #
Sulah ka matlab tippani se sehmat hona ya ye dikhana nahi ki wo chubhi nahi. Matlab bas itna ki ek kamre ki ek tippani ko uske baad ki har call, har voice note aur har mazaak par kam bolne diya jaaye.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo har saarvajanik pal ko bhasha chunne ki pariksha maanna chhod dete hain. Jahan koi sach mein buri pratikriya de, wo gambhirta se lene layak hai, aur us kamre mein bhasha badal lena ya chup rehna theek hai.
Ek kamre ko baaki sabka faisla nahi karna hai.
Ek aam hafte mein kya badlega agar bhasha par ki gayi ek tippani ye tay karna band kar de ki aap baaki sab jagah kaise bolein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Agli line ke liye ek sachchi pankti #
Agar “Mere kuch shabd sirf akele mein chalte hain” bahut waqt se chal raha hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaye ek pankti taiyaar rakhte hain: “Alag kamron mein alag shabd chalte hain, aur mere sab shabd mere apne hain.”
Uska shuru mein sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye ek pankti hai jo kuch log aazmaate hain, aur kuch paate hain ki galiyare ya line mein dheere se kahi jaaye to wo purani pankti ki thodi jagah le leti hai.
Apne shabdon mein likhi pankti sabse theek baithti hai.
Aapki boli jaane wali bhashaon ke baare mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jis par aap kisi aam kaam-kaaji din bharosa kar sakein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein aaj raat neeche rakhi ja sakti hain #
Bhasha par har tippani ko jawab, lecture, ya agli baar aur jaldi badalne ka plan nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal feel kiya ja sakta hai, aur rakh diya ja sakta hai, jaise darwaaze par bhaari thaila.
Ye haar maanna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki shaam kahan jaaye, aur kuch log kehte hain isse un calls aur mazaakon ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai jo unhin shabdon mein rehte hain jo sabse aasaani se aate hain.
Aaj raat ke liye tippani neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek thi, ya baat suljh gayi. Bas itna ki wo agli call ya agli baatcheet tak saath na chale.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar badalna ek darja dheela ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki bhasha badalne wala niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya. Ghar ki call ghar ki call ho sakti hai, aur shabd usi bhasha mein nikal sakta hai jisme wo rehta hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: ghar lautte hue voice note ka jawab dena, us dost ko mazaak usi bhasha mein sunana jisme wo paida hua aur jo use samajhta hai, ya call jo beech mein na kate.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi dikhe, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai, kitna bhi chhota lage. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Niyam dheela ho, to sabse pehle kya alag lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar aapki har bhasha ka swagat ho, to aapko pehla chhota pal kaun-sa dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmaate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir bhasha badalne wala niyam”
- Gaur kijiye ki tippani kis kamre ke baare mein thi, aur kin kamron ke baare mein nahi
- Ek aisa shabd sochiye jo aapke liye sirf ek bhasha mein basta hai
- Ek aise insaan ko yaad kijiye jo aapki har bhasha sunkar khush hota hai
- Aaj kisi bhi bhasha mein kahi jaane wali koi chhoti baat par gaur kijiye
Sab nijji, sab apni marzi se. Jo aaj aasaan lage, wo chuniye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Jab aapko bhasha badalne ko kaha gaya, tab doosri taraf kaun tha?
- Beech vaakya mein kaun-sa shabd kat gaya, aur wo kya dhone wala tha?
- Aap sirf kis bhasha mein sach mein keh paate ho, aur wo kise sunne ko milta hai?
- Jis aam din ye niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar bhasha badalne wala niyam thoda halka ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?