““Wahan rehne ka sach mein koi faayda hai kya?”” itna kyun chubhta hai?

Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka

Samjhe nahi gaye, ya ab bhi chaahe jaate hain? #

“Faayda hai kya” ko aapke faislon par shak ki tarah suna ja sakta hai. Use doosre dhang se bhi suna ja sakta hai: wo koshish kar rahe hain. Jo sawaal unke paas hain, unse wo aapki zindagi tak pahunch rahe hain, apni jaani hui duniya se bane sawaalon se, kyunki koi raasta chahiye.

Bahut logon ko gharwale gehrayi se chaahte hain, bhale hi unki gali, kaam, unka Friday wo kabhi na soch paayein. Pyaar aur samajh aapas mein milte hain, par ek hi cheez nahi, aur ek doosre ke bina bhi poora ho sakta hai.

Ek aur nazar: ye sawaal ki faayda hai ya nahi, phone call par kisi aur ke liye tay karna aapka kaam nahi.

Narmi se poochhiye: kya pehchane jaane ke liye poora samjha jaana zaroori hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Agar koi kareebi dost ko har Friday poori zindagi ki safai deni padti, to aap use kya sunana chahte?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ise jaldi pehchanna

Gaur se dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #

Jab log sawaal ko dheere se dohrate hain, to kuch ko uske aage-peeche ka dikhta hai: maa ka poochhna ki theek se kha rahe ho, Bua ka kehna ki fikar rehti hai, ek dost ka purane din yaad karna. Sawaal bedhanga tha; uske aaspaas ki parwah nahi.

Kuch ko wo log dikhte hain jo bina samjhaye samajhte hain: yahan ka ek dost jo garmi aur chhuttiyan jaanta hai, ghar ka koi colleague jo unhi baaton par hansta hai, bhai-behen jo ek baar ghoom gaya. Samjhe jaane ka ehsaas ab bhi hota hai, bas hamesha usi taraf se nahi.

Aapki bahar ki zindagi ko bina samjhaye, zara-sa bhi, kaun samajhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Aur pehchane jaane ka nishpaksh hisaab kaisa dikhega, agar yahan ke log bhi gharwalon ke saath gine jayein?Is par baat kijiye ›

Isse sulah

Apni zindagi ka muqadma jeetna zaroori nahi #

Galat samjhe jaane se sulah ka matlab ghar ko chhodna nahi, na ye dikhana ki sawaal chubhte nahi. Matlab ye ki aapki zindagi asli aur bhari-poori reh sakti hai, chahe ghar mein koi use poora soch paaye ya nahi.

Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo har call ko behas ka muqadma samajhna chhod dete hain. Jeene layak zindagi ko kisi rishtedaar ke faisle ki zaroorat nahi. Use chhote tukdon mein baanta ja sakta hai, ek khushboo, ek nazara, ek mazaak, sab kuch ek saath samjhaye bina.

Kaisa lagega agar agle sawaal ka jawab ek chhoti sachchi baat se dein, aur use kaafi rehne dein, poori zindagi ki safai diye bina?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ek zyada sachcha vaakya

Sawaalon ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #

Agar “Ab inhein kabhi samajh nahi aayega” barson se chal raha hai, to har call par isse behas ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iski jagah ek sachchi line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Wo sab kuch nahi soch sakte, aur phir bhi mujhse pyaar karte hain.”

Ye abhi sach lagni zaroori nahi. Bas purani se zyada sahi honi chahiye. Kuch ko lagta hai ki mushkil call ke baad dheere se kahi jaye to nayi line purane vaakya ki jagah ka thoda hissa le leti hai.

Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo samajh ki doori ke baare mein imaandaar ho, par use is saboot mein na badle ki nazdeeki khatam ho gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›

Kya rehne dein

Kuch sawaal bina jawab ke bhi reh sakte hain #

Aapki bahar ki zindagi ke har sawaal ko poora jawab, safai ya sabak nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, pal bhar mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur bina jawab chhoda ja sakta hai, jaise kisi cousin ki chhed ko parivaarik lunch mein nikal jaane dete hain.

Ye unhein bahar rakhna nahi. Ye chunna hai ki oorja kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain isse us sabke liye jagah bachti hai jo aasani se pahunch jaata hai: saajhi hansi, badli hui recipe, ghar ki wo khabar jo sunna achha lagta hai.

Aaj ke liye sawaal chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek tha ya kuch tay ho gaya. Bas itna ki use baaki shaam mein saath nahi chalna.

Agar yeh dheela pade

Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #

Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Wo aapki poori zindagi ab bhi nahi soch paate, aur pehchana jaana us par tika nahi hai.

Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: sawaal ka jawab safai ki jagah ek garm baat se, aisi call jo hansi par khatam ho, ya yahan ka ek Friday jiska maza kisi ki manzoori ke bina liya jaye.

Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.

Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›