Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Awaaz apne baare mein logon ke ehsaas ke bahut paas rehti hai: usmein parivaar, rahi hui jagahein, school aur dost hote hain.
Kuch ke liye ye class se shuru hua: zor se padhwate hue teacher ka “Shuddh bolo” kehkar rok dena, peechhe se dabi hansi.
Kuch log aisa kuch banta sunte hain: “Main kya bolta hoon, usse pehle kaise bolta hoon, ye parkha jaata hai,” ya “Bolunga to kuch galat hi nikalega.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Shabd dohrakar baaki meeting mein chup ho jaana
- Agli baar us shabd ki jagah koi aasaan shabd rakh lena
- Kisi aur ke hansne se pehle apne bolne par khud hi mazaak kar dena
- Bolte rehna, aur poori shaam wo pal dohrate rehna
- Baad mein ekdum gussa aana, aur samajh na aana ki kahan rakhein
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
“Theek se bol na”
Bilaspur mein Dadi ke ghar Sunday ka khaana, cousin bhaiya ki sagai ke baad. Aap koi shabd waise bolte ho jaise Dadi bolti hain, “Abbad meetha hai.” Bhaiya hans dete hain: “Theek se bol na.” Kuch log muskurate hain. Aap dheere se unke dhang se dohra dete ho, aur baaki khaane bhar shabd sambhalkar chunte ho, pasliyon ke neeche halki chubhan liye. Dadi wala dhang munh mein hi reh jaata hai, bina bole.
Unke dhang se bolo to apnaye jaoge
Pehle seedhi baat: aapka bolne ka dhang galat nahi hai, aur hanskar tokna theek nahi tha. Par isse ek niyam ugta hai, aur aapka ban jaata hai: “Mujhe waise bolna hai jaisa doosre chahein, tabhi mujhe apnaya jayega.” Ye ghulne-milne jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapki apni awaaz, apne itihaas ke saath, galti jaisi lagne lagti hai.
Bolne par hansi itni kyun chubhti hai
Hum aisa niyam isliye pakadte hain kyunki bolne ke dhang par hansi chubhti hai. Ye sabse aam chaahton mein se hai. Shayad aap do boliyon ke beech bade hue. Shayad school mein baar-baar toke gaye. Jo bhi ho, samjhe aur apnaye jaane ki chaah galat nahi. Wo apna hone ki chaah se aati hai. Use narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har shabd par aur satark
Har tokna aapko thoda aur satark kar deta hai. Ye dheere hota hai, isliye pakadna mushkil hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aap mehsoos karte ho. Shabd bolne se pehle rehearsal karte ho. Wo naam aur shabd taalte ho jo aapko pasand hain. Bolte hue lagta hai ki koi dekh raha hai. Jin awaazon mein aapka parivaar aur kahani hai, wo chhipane ki cheez lagne lagti hain.
Kya awaaz badalna theek hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochhiye: kya is niyam ko pakde rehne se kabhi ghar jaisa laga? Ya zyadatar apni awaaz ka koi hissa chhipana pada? Ek shabd kehne ke kai sahi dhang hain. Mez par ki hansi iska paimana nahi ki aapko kaise bolna chahiye. Ise bina dosh ke, narmi se poochhna theek hai. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna uski keemat ke laayak hai?
Aapke bolne mein aapki kahani
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki hansi theek thi, ya aapko behas karni hai. Matlab ye hai ki aapke bolne ke dhang ko theek hone ke liye sudhara jaana zaroori nahi. Aap shabd waise keh sakte ho jaise aapke apne lagein. Ye ek jhatke mein nahi hota, aur zaroori bhi nahi. Yahin thoda chain lautta hai: awaaz apna itihaas rakhti hai, aur aap khulkar bol sakte ho.
Being mocked again and again, threatened, hurt or frightened for how you speak or where you come from is not okay and is worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleMujhe waise bolna hai jaisa doosre chahein, tabhi mujhe apnaya jayega.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMere bolne ke dhang mein meri kahani hai. Wo theek hai.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Aaj ek shabd waise boliye jaise aapko apna lage
- Kadam 2
Ek aise insaan par gaur kijiye jise aapka bolna achha lagta hai
- Kadam 3
Tokna chubhe to ek dheemi saans lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Shabd jab roka gaya tab aap kya kehna chah rahe the, aur baaki ka kya hua?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Beech vaakya mein roka gaya #
Meeting mein colleague, class mein sabke saamne teacher, kisi kahani ke beech bada bhaiya, ya dukaan ke counter par koi anjaan. Koi shabd ya naam nikalta hai, aur koi beech mein rok deta hai: “Theek se bolo.” Phir poora kamra use dobara sunne ko ruk jaata hai.
Do second lagte hain, par sunne wala number dene wala ban jaata hai aur bolne wala imtihaan mein baitha insaan. Jo kaha ja raha tha, wo baat, mazaak ya khabar, kho sakti hai, kyunki sab ek shabd sun rahe hain.
Beech mein kya keh rahe the jab kisi ne theek se bolne ko roka, aur us vaakya ke baaki hisse ka kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Shabd pehle kyun bikhar jaate hain #
Kuch logon ko garmi chadhti lagti hai, jaana-pehchana shabd achanak ajeeb lagne lagta hai, vaakya ka sira aadhe mein chhoot jaata hai. Kuch wahi shabd turant dohra dete hain, kuch hanskar baaki kahani chhod dete hain. Ye sab ho sakta hai, aur kisi ki safaai nahi deni.
Sabke saamne toke jaane ka asar body par ek second mein ho jaata hai, sochne se pehle. Soch baad mein aati hai, poora pal shabd-dar-shabd dohrati hui aur wo version aazmati hui jo chal jaata.
Theek se bolne ko kahe jaane ke agle second mein aapki body ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aur wo reaction kya batata hai ki us kamre mein poori baat suni jaana kitna maayne rakhta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Shabd chhodkar seedha awaaz par lagta hai #
“Is naam mein zor aakhir par aata hai” ek shabd ki baat hai. “Theek se bolo” shabd ko chhodkar seedha bolne wale par lagta hai, jaise uske bolne ka dhang sudhari jaane wali galti ho, suni jaane wali awaaz nahi.
Awaaz apne baare mein logon ke ehsaas ke bahut paas rehti hai: usmein parivaar, rahi hui jagahein, school aur dost hote hain. Isliye awaaz ko tokna in sabko ek saath chhoo jaata hai, aur agla vaakya imtihaan jaisa lagne lagta hai.
Agar toka sirf ek shabd par hota, to wo kaun sa shabd hota, aur jo aap keh rahe the uska kitna hissa wo ek shabd sach mein dhota tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab awaaz mein ek editor baith jaye #
Baar-baar toke jao to awaaz mein ek editor ug aata hai. Vaakya bolne se pehle taiyaar hota hai, koi naam bachakar nikal jaata hai, kahani chhoti kar di jaati hai taaki wo mushkil shabd na aaye. Kai baar kaat-chhaant tab bhi shuru ho jaati hai jab kisi ne kuch kaha hi na ho.
Tokna kisi aur ne kiya tha, par andar chalne lage to ye aapki apni satark awaaz jaisa sunayi deta hai, aur samajhdaari jaisa lagta hai, kisi ek class, kisi ek meeting ya kisi ek khaandaani khaane ki mez se padi aadat jaisa nahi.
Jab andar ka editor bolne se pehle koi shabd rok deta hai, to wo kiski awaaz udhaar leta hai, aur wo awaaz pehli baar kis kamre ya kis din ki hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ke liye tokna bachpan se shuru hua #
Kuch ke liye ye class se shuru hua: zor se padhwate hue teacher ka “Shuddh bolo” kehkar rok dena, peechhe se dabi hansi. Kuch ke liye ghar ya rishtedaari mein, jab koi bada sabke saamne wahi shabd waise dohrata tha jaise “hona chahiye” tha.
Tokne ki wajahein har kamre mein alag hoti hain, aur jise toka jaye, use shaayad hi kabhi batayi jaati hain. Jo reh jaata hai wo ek chupchaap nikla nateeja ho sakta hai: bolne par pehle galti suni jaati hai, matlab baad mein.
Aapne pehli baar kab gaur kiya ki sabke saamne bolne ke saath toke jaane ka khatra bhi aata hai, aur chook pakadne ko kaan lagaye aamtaur par kaun hota tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Tokna peechhe ek chupchaap niyam chhod jaata hai #
Kuch log aisa kuch banta sunte hain: “Main kya bolta hoon, usse pehle kaise bolta hoon, ye parkha jaata hai,” ya “Bolunga to kuch galat hi nikalega.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte hi nahi. Wo bas jaanne jaise lagte hain ki meeting aur parivaar kaise chalte hain, jaise agle insaan ke liye darwaaza pakadna samajhdaari lagta hai. Isiliye inhein beech-beech mein bahar nikalkar dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan se jodte hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
“Mere bolne ka dhang pehle parkha jaata hai” jaisi line aapne kitni mehsoos ki hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
“Mere bolne ka dhang pehle parkha jaata hai” kin kamron mein ab bhi fit baithta hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Kaat-chhaant ki chupchaap keemat #
Ye meeting, introduction, phone call, bhashan aur jamavdon ki kahaniyon tak pahunch sakta hai: har jagah jahan awaaz suni jaati hai. Kuch log aasaan shabd chunne lagte hain, aur koi idea meeting mein bina kahe reh jaata hai, kisi ke use kamzor thehrane se bahut pehle.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Jab dhyaan ka ek hissa is par laga rehta hai ki har shabd kaisa sunayi dega, to jo kaha ja raha hai aur jo sun rahe hain, unke liye kam bachta hai. Kuch logon ke liye saal bhar mein yahi ban jaate hain: idea, mazaak aur kahaniyan jo planning mein hi reh gayin.
Pichhle ek saal mein “Theek se bolo” wale kisi pal ne aapko kya kharch karaya, agar kuch: meeting ka koi idea, kisi jamavde ki kahani, koi naam, koi call?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Ek aam Tuesday, editor zor se #
Ek aam Tuesday sochiye, us din ka jab “Mere bolne ka dhang pehle parkha jaata hai” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad office ka stand-up, kisi rishtedaar se call, padosi se baatcheet, doston ke saath shaam. Kuch jaana-pehchana lagega, kuch bilkul nahi, aur tasveer ke sahi ya galat dikhne ka koi tareeka nahi.
Yahan kisi cheez ka abhi jawab nahi chahiye, aur tasveer jab chahein rakh di ja sakti hai.
Us Tuesday mein kya hai: meeting, call, wo naam jo liye gaye ya bachaye gaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us aam Tuesday ko dekhte hue, agar kuch, to aapka dhyaan kis par jaata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Theek, par kiske kaan se? #
“Theek” ko samajhne ke liye ek paimana chahiye: kisi ek ke kaan se, kisi ek kamre mein, kisi ek din. Is tarah naam lekar dekhein to tokna ek shabd ke baare mein pasand jaisa lagta hai, poori awaaz par faisla nahi.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki har awaaz apna itihaas liye chalti hai: jahan rahe, jinse seekha, bachpan mein kaun si boliyan sunin. Ek shabd kai tarah kaha ja sakta hai aur phir bhi samajh aata hai, aur kuch ko dikhta hai ki toke jaane se pehle hi baat pahunch chuki thi.
Agar kisi kareebi dost ko kahani ke beech theek se bolne ko kaha jaata, to pal beetne ke baad aap use apni taraf se kya sunana chahte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dheemi replay mein kya dikhta hai #
Jab kuch log us pal ko dheere-dheere dohrate hain, to chhoti baatein dikhti hain: kisne kahani par sir hilaya, kise shabd ka pata hi nahi chala, kaun toke jaane par asahaj dikha. Kabhi kamra tokne ke utna paksh mein nahi tha jitna laga, aur kabhi tha.
Kuch un logon ko dekhte hain jo pehle matlab sunte hain: wo dost jo poochhta hai “Phir kya hua?”, wo colleague jo idea uthakar aage badha deta hai, wo bachcha jise bas kahani mazedaar dhang se sunni hai. Ye sunne wale hamesha se the.
Kaun hai jo aapki baat aakhir tak sunta hai, chahe vaakya kaisa bhi nikle, aur use lambi kahani sunana kaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Sahi uchcharan sabit karne ki zaroorat nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki shabd galat bola gaya, ya tokna chubha nahi. Matlab bas itna ki kisi ek ke kaan ko kam tay karne diya jaye ki kaun se idea bole jayein, kaun si kahaniyan sunayi jayein aur vaakya kitna khulkar chale.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo mann mein sahi uchcharan ka rehearsal karna chhod dete hain. Wo rehearsal kabhi poora nahi hota, aur har baatcheet wale kamre ke beech kisi ek ka tokna baithaye rakhta hai.
Jahan koi kamra sach mein nahi sunta, wo us kamre ke baare mein kuch kehta hai.
Agar “Theek se bolo” usi ke paas rehta jisne kaha, to agli meeting ya khaandaani jamavda kaisa hota?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar toka jaana saalon se andar chal raha hai, to usse seedhe behas ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaay ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Meri awaaz mein wo sab hai jahan-jahan mera aana-jaana raha. Maayne uska hai jo baat kahi ja rahi hai.”
Uska sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jo kuch log aazmate hain, aur kuch paate hain ki kabhi-kabhaar kahi jaye to purane tokne ki thodi jagah le leti hai, khaaskar meeting ya call se pehle.
Apni awaaz ke baare mein sachcha vaakya aapke shabdon mein kaisa hoga, jise kisi teacher, colleague ya bhaiya ki manzoori na chahiye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein mez par chhodi ja sakti hain #
Har tokne ko palatkar jawab, kisi shabd ki jadon ka lecture, ya agli baar ki practice nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur rakh diya ja sakta hai, jaise din ke aakhir mein bhaari file mez par chhod di jaati hai.
Ye haar maanna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki dhyaan kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain isse idea, mazaak aur un logon ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai jinse baat karna aasaan hai.
Aaj raat ke liye tokna neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek tha, ya baat sulajh gayi. Bas itna ki wo din ke baaki hisse mein, agle vaakya ya agli meeting mein saath na chale.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar editor ek darja dheela ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki andar ka editor thoda shaant hai. Shabd bas shabd hai, jaise nikla waise kaha gaya, aur baatcheet wo jagah jahan idea ek se doosre tak jaate hain.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: kisi dost ko mushkil shabd chhode bina kahani sunana, bina dobara record kiye lamba voice note bhej dena, ya koi naam waise lena jaise zubaan par aata hai.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai, kitna bhi chhota lage. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Agar editor dheela pade, to sabse pehle kya alag lagega, bhale zara-sa?Is par baat kijiye ›
Editor ke dheele hone ka aapka pehla chhota nishaan kya hoga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi andar ka editor”
- Chupchaap poochhiye: kiske kaan se theek, aur kis kamre mein?
- Gaur kijiye ki us pal mein dhyaan kis par zyada tha: shabd par, ya kahani par
- Ek aise insaan ko yaad kijiye jo matlab sunta hai, uchcharan nahi
- Aaj ki ek chhoti-si cheez par dhyaan dijiye jo aapne chahi, chahe kitni bhi chhoti
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Shabd jab roka gaya tab aap kya kehna chah rahe the, aur baaki ka kya hua?
- Bolte hue apni awaaz mein aapko kiski awaaz sunayi deti hai, aur wo kahan se aayi?
- Ab aap kaun sa shabd ya naam sabse sambhalkar chunte hain, aur uske peechhe kya kahani hai?
- Jis aam din andar ka editor zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar editor thoda dheela pade, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?