““Sab aaye hain, bas tum hi nahi ho!”” itna kyun chubhta hai?

Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka

Kami khali, ya ab bhi gine jaate hain? #

Kaun nahi hai, is par kahi baat ko ghairhaazri ki soochi ki tarah suna ja sakta hai. Use doosre dhang se bhi suna ja sakta hai: unhone dhyan diya. Shor-bhari shaam mein, bhare aangan mein, kisi ne rukkar aapka naam liya aur phone upar uthaya taaki aap diye dekh sakein.

Tyohaar ki shaam kisi ka naam tabhi liya jaata hai jab uski jagah ab bhi bachi aur garam rakhi ho, itni doori ke bawajood.

Narmi se poochiye: kisi ki kami khalne ka matlab ye hai ki wo parivaar se bahar hai, ya ye ki wo poori tarah andar hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Agar koi qareebi dost bataye ki us call ke baad usne tyohaar akele bitaya, to aap use kya sunana chahte?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ki uska apnapan khatam ho gaya, ya kuch naram?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ise jaldi pehchanna

Gaur se dekhne par logon ko kya dikhta hai #

Jab log call ko dheere se dobara chalate hain, to kuch ko dikhta hai ki kitne logon ne haath hilaya, kitno ne kaha “Bahut yaad aa rahi hai”, phone kitni der haathon-haath ghoomta raha. Us pal bas “kami” shabd ruka reh gaya; peeche mudkar dekhein to poori call mein aapko chaahe jaane ki baat thi.

Kuch ko dikhta hai ki jahan wo the wahan bhi ek chhota tyohaar chal raha tha: padosi ki balcony mein lights ki ladi, kisi colleague ka message, jo ek cheez banayi uski khushboo. Wo chupchaap thin, par thin.

Is baar tyohaar ka kaun-sa chhota tukda aap tak pahuncha, kitna bhi chhota?Is par baat kijiye ›

Aur agar wo bhi gina jaye, sirf wo thaali nahi jis par baith nahi paaye, to din ka sahi hisaab kaisa dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›

Isse sulah

Zaroori nahi ki din wahi ho #

Door ke tyohaar se sulah ka matlab ye dikhana nahi ki ghar ki yaad nahi, ya doori kuch nahi. Matlab ye ki aapke saamne ka din bhi asli din gina jaye, chahe wo screen wale din jaisa bilkul na dikhe.

Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo poora tyohaar dohrane ki koshish chhodkar use chhota, alag rehne dete hain. Ek diya, ek pakwaan, ek call, ek dost. Ghar se naapo to patla lagta hai. Apne aap mein, kaafi garam ho sakta hai.

Kaisa lagega agar is saal ka tyohaar apna hi roop le, jismein kami ki jagah ho, par poori shaam uske haath mein na ho?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ek zyada sachcha vaakya

Tyohaar ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #

Agar “main wahan nahi hoon to ginti nahi” barson se chal raha hai, to us din isse behas karne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iski jagah ek sachchi line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Mujhe unki yaad aati hai, aur meri jagah wahan ab bhi hai.”

Ye abhi sach lagni zaroori nahi. Bas purani se zyada sahi honi chahiye. Shaam ke mushkil hisse mein dheere se kahi jaye to kuch logon ko lagta hai ki purane niyam ki jagah ka thoda hissa isne le liya.

Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kaisa hoga, jo kami ko jagah de, par use is saboot mein na badle ki aap ghere se bahar ho gaye?Is par baat kijiye ›

Kya rehne dein

Kuch tees bas paas baithi reh sakti hai #

Tyohaar ke din uthne wali har tees ko theek karna, samjhana ya uske hisaab se plan banana zaroori nahi. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, pal bhar mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur apne paas baithne diya ja sakta hai, jaise sofe par ek chup dost ko baithne dete hain.

Ye haar maanna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki taaqat kahan jaye, aur kuch log kehte hain isse us chhote tyohaar ke liye jagah bachti hai jo unke paas hai: khaana, balcony ki lights, yahan ke log.

Tees ko shaam bhar baithne dene ka matlab ye nahi ki doori theek hai ya kuch tay ho gaya. Bas itna ki kami ko poore din par qabza nahi karna.

Agar yeh dheela pade

Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #

Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Us din bhi unki yaad aati hai, par yahan ka din bhi gina jaata hai.

Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: khidki par jala ek diya, aisi call jiska maza un chehron ko gine bina liya jaye jinhein gale nahi laga sakte, ya yahan ke doston ke saath khaana jahan aap poore kamre mein ho.

Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.

Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›