Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Bahut log kai wajahon ke mel se vishay chunte hain: samajh aaya, kisi teacher ne use zinda kar diya, ya bas apna-sa laga.
Kuch log har jamavde mein sammanit raaston ki wahi chhoti list sunte bade hue: engineer, doctor, sarkari naukri.
Neeche ek niyam ban sakta hai: “Ab tak mujhe sab pata hona chahiye.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Har jamavde ke liye ek saja-sanwara, rata hua jawab taiyaar rakhna
- Sawaal nipatane ke liye koi naukri ka naam bol dena
- Kisi aur ke hansne se pehle khud hi us par mazaak kar dena
- Jo vishay mahina bhar pehle sahi lagta tha, us par shak karne lagna
- Baat badal dena, aur sawaal ka ghar tak peechha karna feel karna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Bua ki baithak mein chadhi bhauh
Udaipur mein Diwali ke baad Bua ke ghar baithak. Aap batate ho ki aapko apni history ki padhai kitni pasand hai. Phuphaji bhauhein chadhakar poochhte hain, “Iska karoge kya? Isme scope kya hai?” Sab aapke jawab ka intezaar karte hain. Aap kuch option jaisa bol dete ho, baat aage badh jaati hai, par aap chhota feel karte baithe rehte ho.
Jo bhi padhoon, safai doon
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Jo bhi padhoon, uski safai mujhe deni hai.” Ye vyavaharik lagta hai. Sabko achha bhavishya chahiye. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: jo vishay aapko pyaara hai, use aisa case bana deta hai jis par bahas karni pade. Har parivarik baithak mukadme jaisi lagti hai, aur seekhne ki khushi ke saath shak bhi aane lagta hai.
Chunav ki izzat ki chaahat
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki chahte hain ki hamare chunav ki izzat ho. Bahut log aise hi kisi niyam ke saath bade hote hain, aur tab iska matlab bhi banta tha. Shayad aapne ye vishay isliye chuna kyunki wo sach mein aapko kheenchta hai. Shayad ghar mein baakiyon ne surakshit raaste liye. Apne chunav ki izzat chaahna ghamand nahi, ye chaahat se aata hai ki aapki dilchaspi ginti jaye. Ise dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Har sawaal se boya gaya shak
Har “iska karoge kya?” shak ka ek beej bota hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aap feel karte ho. Koi poochhe usse pehle hi aap safai dene lagte ho. Jo padhte ho use halka karke batate ho. Sochte ho ki kahin galti toh nahi hui. Class ki khushi sikudne lagti hai, aur sawaal lecture hall tak peechha karta hai.
Kya safai dena iske laayak hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya ekdam pakka jawab kabhi sawaal ko rok paya? Ya zyadatar us cheez par shak hi badhaya jo aapko pasand hai? Bahut log unhin vishayon se achhi zindagi banate hain jin par doosron ne sawaal uthaya. Sirf aap jawab de sakte ho. Ek chadhi bhauh aapke chunav ka paimana nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna iske laayak hai?
Pasand hai, aur aage khoj rahe hain
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aage ki soch band kar dein. Matlab ye ki aapke vishay ko padhne laayak hone ke liye safai dena zaroori nahi. Aap keh sakte ho, “Mujhe ye pasand hai, aur aage ka raasta abhi khul raha hai,” aur baat wahin chhod sakte ho. Ye ek jhatke mein nahi hota, aur hona zaroori nahi. Wahin se kuch chain lautta hai: padhai aapki apni, maze ki cheez ban jaati hai, jeetne ka case nahi.
If your choice of study is ever met with threats, being frightened, or being kept from it, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleJo bhi padhoon, uski safai mujhe deni hai.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMujhe ye pasand hai, aur aage ka raasta khul raha hai.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Chhota jawab rakhiye: “Mujhe pasand hai, aage dekh rahe hain”
- Kadam 2
Apne vishay ki koi ek cheez bas maze ke liye padhiye
- Kadam 3
Mann mein naam lijiye ki isne aapko ek cheez kya sikhayi
Is par baat karni hai?
“Wo kaun sa pal tha jab aapko pehli baar laga ki yahi vishay aapko chahiye?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Ek dostana sawaal, jisme bahut kuch tah hai #
Fatehsagar ki paal par bhutta khate hue Phuphaji mil jaate hain: “Is degree ka karoge kya? Isme scope kya hai?” Phir Bua ke yahan baithak mein mausi, lift mein padosi, form par sign karte teacher. Jo vishay kisi ne chuna tha, wo uske baad ki saari zindagi ka sawaal ban jaata hai.
Sawaal aksar halke lehje mein, doosri baaton ke beech poochha jaata hai, isliye bezarar lagta hai. Phir bhi wo un saalon ka pakka plan maangta hai jo aaye hi nahi, aise insaan se jo shayad abhi ye samajh hi raha ho ki use kya pasand hai.
Ye aakhri baar kab suna tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapne kya jawab diya, aur wo jawab us vishay ke baare mein aapki asli soch ke kitna kareeb tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Taiyaar jawab sabse pehle kyun nikal aata hai #
Kuch log batate hain ki andar kuch kas jaata hai, muskaan zaroorat se lambi tikti hai, aur ek saja-sajaya jawab jeb se nikalta hai. Kuch golmol ho jaate hain, hans dete hain aur baat halki cheez ki taraf mod dete hain, isse pehle ki agla sawaal aaye.
Aage ke saalon ke baare mein sabke saamne poochha gaya sawaal aise imtihaan jaisa lag sakta hai jiska koi sahi jawab nahi, aur reaction sochne se pehle aa jaata hai. Asli jawab, agar koi hai, aksar ghar lautte hue raaste mein nikalta hai.
Pehle second mein aapne kya kiya: taiyaar jawab, baat taalna, ya jam jaana?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ye shayad is baare mein kya kehta hai ki us vishay ka aapke liye kitna matlab hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ye vishay chhodkar nateeje ke baare mein poochhta hai #
Vishay ke baare mein poochhna ho toh baat alag hoti hai: kaun sa hissa achha lagta hai, kya dilchasp nikla. “Iska karoge kya?” vishay chhodkar seedhe nateeje par pahunch jaata hai, jaise padhne ki akeli wajah yahi ho ki wo kahan le jaati hai. Mann ko lagta hai faisle par hi shak ho raha hai.
Bahut log kai wajahon ke mel se vishay chunte hain: samajh aaya, kisi teacher ne use zinda kar diya, ya bas apna-sa laga. Sawaal mein sirf ek tarah ki wajah ki jagah hoti hai, baaki poochhi hi nahi jaatin.
Kisi se safai maange jaane se pehle aapki apni wajahein kya thin?Is par baat kijiye ›
Unmein se kaun si wajah ke baare mein abhi tak kisi ne poochha nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab sawaal class tak peechha kare #
Baar-baar suno toh ye andar aa baithta hai. “Aakhir iska faayda kya?” “Ab tak koi plan hona chahiye tha.” “Shayad baakiyon ne behtar chuna.” Kabhi us lecture ke beech bol padta hai jo ek minute pehle tak dilchasp tha.
Rishtedaar ghar laut gaye, par sawaal ab apne aap chalta hai: har assignment us naukri ke saamne taula jaata hai jo abhi hai hi nahi, har achhi class ke baad ek chhoti chinta. Ye aapki apni awaaz jaisa lagta hai, isliye samajhdaari banakar chal jaata hai.
Aapke sir mein ye kaun poochhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya wo awaaz vishay ko lekar kabhi utsuk hoti hai, ya bas isme ki wo aage kahan le jayega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch logon ke liye chunav ke saath naqsha chahiye tha #
Kuch log har jamavde mein sammanit raaston ki wahi chhoti list sunte bade hue: engineer, doctor, sarkari naukri. Baaki vishayon par ek thehraav mila aur ek shisht-sa “phir?” Kuch ne ye pehle kisi bade bhai-behen ya cousin ke baare mein suna.
Kuch parivaaron mein saaf raasta aage ke saalon ko lekar sukoon dene ka tareeka tha, aur wajahein har ghar ki alag hoti hain. Yuva chupchaap ye nateeja nikaal sakta hai ki kisi chunav ko gambhirta se lene se pehle uske saath poora plan chahiye.
Sirf kisi vishay ko pasand karna apne aap mein kaafi nahi, ye pehli baar kab laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us waqt kamre mein kaun tha, aur uske chehre ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Sab kuch pehle se tay hone ka chupchaap niyam #
Neeche ek niyam ban sakta hai: “Ab tak mujhe sab pata hona chahiye.” Kuch log iska dheema roop dhote hain: “Koi chunav tab tak chunav nahi, jab tak main bata na sakoon ki wo kahan jaata hai.”
Aise niyam zimmedaari jaise lagte hain, jaise lambe safar se pehle naqsha dekh lena seedhi-si samajhdaari lagti hai. Isiliye inhein dekhna theek hai, kyunki har chunav naqshe ke saath nahi aata, aur log phir bhi chunte hain.
Kuch log aise niyam ko shuru ke saalon se jodte hain; kuch ko lagta hai ye baad mein aaya. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Ye kin kamron mein ab bhi fit hai, aur kinmein nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Chunav ki safai dene ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai parivarik jamavdon se ghabrana, wahan jaate hue raaste bhar jawab dohrana, ya jis vishay ko pasand kiya tha use har baar safai dete-dete kam pasand karna. Kuch log apna course aise dhundhle shabdon mein batane lagte hain ki sawaal ke paas pakadne ko kam reh jaye.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai. Jab vishay ko har waqt apni wajah deni pade, toh jis utsukta ne use chuna tha wo aage ke saalon ki chinta mein dab sakti hai, aur jo saal khojne mein beet sakta tha wo samjhane mein beet jaata hai.
Kamzori ki wajah se nahi. Jis sawaal ka abhi koi jawab nahi de sakta, use dhona bhaari hota hai.
Pichhle ek saal mein iski keemat kya rahi: koi class jo kam achhi lagi, koi jamavda jisse darr laga, koi plan jo zyadatar isliye chuna ki samjhana aasaan tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, poora naqsha maangte hue #
Kisi aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “har chunav ka pakka plan hona chahiye” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ki tasveer hai, theek karne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad koi dilchasp mauka isliye chhoot gaya ki use samjhana padta, koi class isliye chuni ki jamavde mein sunne mein achhi lage, agle rishtedaar ke liye ek rati hui line. Shayad kuch jo kheench raha tha, use phir kabhi par chhod diya.
Ismein koi bhavishyavani nahi, aur tasveer ko jab chahein kinaare rakha ja sakta hai.
Usmein kya hai: classein, baatcheetein, wo chunav jo zyadatar isliye hue ki samjhane mein aasaan the?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhte hue, agar kuch, toh aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Us table par kaun apne agle das saal jaanta hai? #
“Iska karoge kya?” un saalon ke baare mein jawab maangta hai jo aaye hi nahi.
Koi vishay isliye padha ja sakta hai ki wo kya sikhata hai, dimaag ko sochna kaise sikhata hai, raaste mein kaun log mile, ya bas isliye ki wo dilchasp tha. Jamavde mein inhein ek vaakya mein kehna mushkil hai, phir bhi ye wajahein hain.
Us table par kitne log theek-theek bata sakte hain ki unke agle kai saal mein kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya na jaanna galat chunne jaisa hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar ghar ka koi chhota aapko bataye ki usne kuch isliye chuna kyunki usmein jaan thi, toh naukri ke sawaal se pehle aap usse sabse pehle kya kehna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Wajahon ko dobara dekhne par kya dikhta hai #
Jab kuch log dobara dekhte hain ki unhone ye kyun chuna, toh wajahein utni dhundhli nahi nikalti jitna sawaal ne feel karaya tha: koi class jo saath reh gayi, koi kitaab, koi samasya jise wo chhod nahi paaye. Kabhi wajahein badal gayi hoti hain, aur wo bhi dekhne laayak hai.
Kuch ye bhi dekhte hain ki unki zindagi mein kaun vishay ke baare mein sachchi dilchaspi se poochhta hai: ek dost jo lecture ke baare mein sunna chahta hai, ek teacher jo kitaab udhaar dete hain. Wo awaazein hamesha se thin, bas us table par nahi baithi thin.
Unmein se kaun si awaaz haal mein chup ho gayi hai, aur agar use ghante bhar aapke saath baithne ka mauka mile toh wo vishay ke baare mein aapse kya poochhegi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Sabko santusht karne wala jawab nahi chahiye #
Sulah ka matlab pakka jawab taiyaar rakhna nahi, na ye dikhana ki sawaal laga nahi. Matlab bas itna ki ek jamavde ka ek sawaal is par kam chale ki Monday ki subah wo vishay kaisa lagta hai.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo har rishtedaar ko santusht karne wala jawab banana chhod dete hain. Wo jawab milna mushkil hai, kyunki sabke mann mein apni tasveer hai, aur uska peechha unki tasveeron ko aapki tasveer par haavi rakhta hai.
Kuch kamre adhoore jawab ko narmi se nahi lenge, aur unhein aazmana zaroori nahi.
Kaisa lagega agar sawaal unhin ka rahe, aur jawab utna hi bhara ho jitna aap chunein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Agle jamavde ke liye ek line #
Agar “maine galat chun liya” chalne laga hai, toh usse seedhe bahas ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Maine ise apni wajahon se chuna, aur baaki abhi tay hona hai.”
Ye shuru mein sach lagna zaroori nahi. Kuch log ise aazmate hain, aur jamavde se pehle dheere se kehne par vishay ko purane sawaal se thodi zyada jagah mil jaati hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo sab kuch na jaanne ke baare mein imaandaar ho aur jo aap jaante ho use na chhode?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein darwaze par chhodi ja sakti hain #
Har “iska karoge kya?” ko paanch-sutri plan, naukriyon ki list ya vishay ki safai nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal feel kiya ja sakta hai, aur neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise ghar aakar shawl kursi par taang dete hain.
Ye haar nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki energy kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain isse vishay ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai, aur un logon ke liye jo jigyasa se uske baare mein poochhte hain.
Aaj raat ke liye sawaal neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo theek tha, ya baat suljh gayi. Bas itna ki wo agli class ya aage ke saalon ki har baatcheet mein saath na chale.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar niyam thoda bhi dheela ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema hai. Chunav poora raasta pata hone se pehle bhi sachcha ho sakta hai.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: bina kisi fikar ke suna hua achha lecture, dost ko batana ki vishay mein kya dilchasp hai, ya usi kshetra ki koi kitaab bas maze ke liye padhna.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, toh baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, chahe thoda hi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, phir wahi karoge-kya wala sawaal”
- Is hafte vishay ki koi ek cheez gaur kijiye jisme dilchaspi jagi
- Chupchaap poochhiye: ye sawaal aage ke saalon ki kiski tasveer istemaal kar raha hai?
- “Abhi ise samajhne ke daur mein hoon” ko poora jawab maniye, chahe sirf mann mein
- Gaur kijiye ki kaun vishay ke baare mein sachchi dilchaspi se poochhta hai, aur kaisa lagta hai
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Wo kaun sa pal tha jab aapko pehli baar laga ki yahi vishay aapko chahiye?
- Jab sawaal aaya, tab aap vishay ke baare mein asal mein kya kehna chahte the?
- Aapki zindagi mein kaun aapki padhai ke baare mein sach mein jaanne ke liye poochhta hai?
- Jis aam din poore plan wala niyam zor se bole, aap ab bhi kya taal rahe honge?
- Agar plan ki zaroorat thodi dheeli ho, toh sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?