Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Paanch saal ki mehnat ek kami ban jaati hai, jo nahi hua wahi bachta hai, aur jo hua, projects, bharosa, seekhe hue hunar, panne se bahar reh jaata hai.
Kuch gharon mein badhna aise aankdon mein naapa jaata tha jo poora parivar bol sake: marks, position, package, pad.
Kuch logon ke bheetar ek niyam banta sunai deta hai: “Naukri ke saal pad mein badalne chahiye,” ya “Agar upar nahi chadh raha, to peeche chhoot raha hoon.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Paanch saal ka saara kaam ek saans mein gina dena
- “Hamare yahan sab barabar hai” kehkar muskura dena
- Sawaal palat kar saamne wale se unka haal poochh lena
- Maan lena ki haan, dheema hai, taaki baat khatam ho
- Kuch na kehkar kisi ki plate mein ghari rakh dena
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Diwali ki mez par ginti
Surat mein Diwali ka milna, Kaka ke ghar. Ghari ki plate ghoomti hai, tabhi Kaka kehte hain, “Paanch saal ho gaye, ab tak promotion nahi?” Ek cousin phone se nazar uthati hai. Aap hanskar kehte ho, “Chalta hai, sab badhiya.” Par lautte hue scooter par aap apne sambhale projects ginte ho, aur sochte ho, ye ginti aakhir kiske haath mein hai.
Saal pad mein badalne chahiye
Pehli baat seedhi: ye baat hisaab jaisi lagti hai, par promotion aise khaali padon aur budget par tika hai jo akela koi tay nahi karta. Phir bhi isse ek niyam ug sakta hai, aur wo aapka ban jaata hai: “Naukri ke saal pad mein badalne chahiye.” Bahut log bina jaane iske saath jeete hain. Ye mahatvakanksha jaisa lagta hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: bina pad ka har saal qarz ban jaata hai.
Tarakki ko shabd kyun chahiye
Hum aisa niyam isliye pakadte hain ki tarakki ki bhasha zyadatar ghar bolte hain. Pad sabke saamne bolna aasaan hai: relatives se, padosiyon se, khud se. Shayad ghar mein hamesha aankde gine jaate the. Shayad aap bas chahte ho ki mehnat dikhe. Dikhna chahna ghamand nahi. Ye kuch mayne rakhne ki chaah se aata hai, aur use daya milni chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Har tippani ka jama bojh
Aisi har tippani thoda bojh jodti hai. Ye dheere hota hai, isliye pakad mein nahi aata. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aap mehsoos karte ho. Milne se pehle jawab ratte ho. Achhi khabar is darr se rok lete ho ki chhoti lagegi. Paanch saal ka asli kaam ek gaayab shabd mein simat jaata hai, aur daawatein appraisal jaisi lagne lagti hain.
Kya ghadi itni qeemti hai?
Apne se imaandaari se poochhiye: kya is niyam ko pakde rehne se kaam kabhi zyada santosh wala laga? Ya zyadatar din intezaar jaise lage? Aapke paanch saalon mein aisi cheezein hain jo pad ki list mein nahi aatin. Chahein to ek pal iske saath rukiye. Yahan koi galat jawab nahi, aur jaldi bhi nahi. Kya ise itna kas kar pakadna iski keemat ke laayak hai?
Career wala, score nahi
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki pad mayne nahi rakhta, ya mez par kisi se behes karni hai. Matlab ye hai ki ghadi ko aapki sahmati ki zaroorat nahi rahi. Aap keh sakte ho, “Yahan maine bahut seekha hai,” aur ghari aage badha sakte ho. Pehle kuch aur badalna zaroori nahi. Yahin se thodi raahat lautti hai: career wala insaan, score nahi.
If pressure about your work ever comes with threats, being hurt or frightened, or money used to control you, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleNaukri ke saal pad mein badalne chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMere saal pad se zyada kuch apne bheetar rakhte hain.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Ek aisa hunar naam lijiye jo paanch saal pehle nahi tha
- Kadam 2
Ginti uthe to jawab apne shabdon mein dijiye
- Kadam 3
Ek aise insaan par gaur kijiye jo kaam ke baare mein poochhta hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Us ginti ne kya peeche chhoda jise ek jhatpat safai dhak nahi saki?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Saalon ki ginti, sabke saamne #
Surat mein Diwali ka milna-julna, Adajan wale Kaka ke ghar. Ghari aur chevdo ki plates ghoom rahi hain, tabhi Kaka poochhte hain, “Paanch saal ho gaye, ab tak promotion nahi?” Kabhi ye bhauh uthakar aata hai, kabhi peeth thapthapakar, aur “paanch” shabd hi aadha kaam kar deta hai.
Kai baar ye fikr hoti hai, kai baar bas kuch kehne ke liye keh diya jaata hai. Jo bhi ho, ye aapki tarakki ko ek ghadi par rakh deta hai jo kisi aur ke haath mein hai, aur baaki logon ke sunte hue minuton ka hisaab maangta hai.
Aakhri baar jab kisi ne aapki naukri ke saal ginkar sunaye, tab aap kahan the, aur us ginti ko aur kisne suna?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Ginti sunne ke baad ka pehla pal #
Kuch logon ke pet mein halki si dhak hoti hai aur wo jhat koi safai dhoondhne lagte hain. Koi hanskar “chalta hai, sab badhiya” keh deta hai, koi ginane lagta hai ki kya-kya kiya, koi chup hokar saamne wale ka chehra padhta hai. Inmein se kuch bhi ho sakta hai.
Aisi baat isliye jaldi lagti hai ki jawab chhota nahi hota, aur chhote jawab mein sama bhi nahi paata. Kuch logon ko asar baad mein hota hai, ghar lautte scooter par ya bartan dhote hue, jab poora jawab soojhta hai.
Us ginti ke baad pehle pal mein, jawab chunne se pehle, aapke andar kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Ghadi aapke haath mein nahi hai #
Promotion khaali pad, budget, manager aur waqt par tika hota hai, aur isme se bahut kuch kisi ek insaan ke haath mein nahi. Saal ginne wali baat ek saajhi, uljhi prakriya ko aise sunati hai jaise ye aapka nijee score ho, aur score kam lagta hai.
Saara wazan “nahi” par hai. Paanch saal ki mehnat ek kami ban jaati hai, jo nahi hua wahi bachta hai, aur jo hua, projects, bharosa, seekhe hue hunar, panne se bahar reh jaata hai.
In paanch saalon mein asal mein kya-kya hua, aur us baat ne uske baghal mein kaisa mehsoos karaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Jab ginti apne aap chalti rahe #
Baar-baar suno to aisi line andar ghar kar leti hai. Kuch logon ko ye Sunday ki shaam, appraisal ke hafte, ya kisi junior ka pad badalne par laut aati hai, aisi awaaz mein jo unke apne hisaab jaisi lagti hai.
Kehne wale shayad bhool bhi gaye. Par ginti chalti rehti hai, saal jodti aur pad ghatati, daawat ki plates uthne ke bahut baad tak. Awaaz jaani-pehchani hai, isliye lagta hai nateeja aapne khud nikala hai.
Jab ye ginti dohrayi jaati hai, to awaaz kiski hoti hai, aur kis kamre se aati hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Kuch gharon mein tarakki hamesha zor se ginti gayi #
“Rank kya aayi?” Kuch gharon mein badhna aise aankdon mein naapa jaata tha jo poora parivar bol sake: marks, position, package, pad. Padosi ki khabar turant failti thi, aur do uplabdhiyon ke beech ka faasla bhi kisi na kisi ki nazar mein aata tha.
Wajahein ghar-ghar alag hain, aur bachche ko shayad hi kabhi batayi gayin. Mann mein ek chup si baat reh sakti hai: ki achhi zindagi ek tay waqt par upar chadhti hai, aur jo ruka dikhe, use hisaab dena hai.
Aapne pehli baar kab gaur kiya ki ghar mein tarakki zor se naapi jaati hai, aur zyadatar ginti kaun karta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Ek chupchaap baitha niyam #
Kuch logon ke bheetar ek niyam banta sunai deta hai: “Naukri ke saal pad mein badalne chahiye,” ya “Agar upar nahi chadh raha, to peeche chhoot raha hoon.”
Aise niyam niyam jaise lagte hi nahi. Wo samajhdaari lagte hain, jaise career yun hi chalta hai. Isiliye inhe kabhi-kabhi dhoop mein nikaal kar dekhna theek hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Kya aisa koi niyam baithta hai, thoda baithta hai, ya bilkul nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki kaam ki zindagi ke kaun se hisson mein pad wala niyam baithta hai, aur kaun se hisse ye chhod dete hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Ginti ki ghadi ki chupchaap keemat #
Iska asar is par aa sakta hai ki achha saal kaise bataya jaye, kaun sa nyota taala jaye, gharwalon se kaun si khabar roki jaye, ya kaun sa plan pad aane tak tale. Kuch log har milan se pehle jawab ratne lagte hain.
Ek dheemi keemat bhi hai: kaam khud ek muqadme ka saboot lagne lagta hai. Ghamand ki wajah se nahi. Score dhone mein mehnat lagti hai jo kisi ko dikhti nahi.
Pichhle ek saal mein is ghadi ki keemat kya rahi, agar rahi: ek aaram ka din, ek seedha jawab, koi garv ka pal jo baanta ja sakta tha, koi halka khana?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Ek aam Monday, ghadi ki tez awaaz ke saath #
Kisi aam Monday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “naukri ke saal pad mein badalne chahiye” zor se bol raha ho. Ye bas dekhne ke liye ek tasveer hai, theek karne ke liye kuch nahi.
Shayad ek stand-up, ek deadline, desk par tiffin, kisi purane classmate ka message. Usmein bahut kuch ho sakta hai ya bahut kam; tasveer ke dikhne ka koi sahi tareeka nahi, aur usmein kuch bhi bhavishyavaani nahi.
Yahan abhi kisi cheez ka jawab nahi chahiye.
Aise Monday mein kya bhara hota hai: inbox, galiyara, kisi aur ki khabar wali screen, chupke se taali gayi baatein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us niyam ke zor se bolne wale Monday ki tasveer mein agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Promotion ek paimana hai, ikloota nahi #
Pad wo tareeka hai jisse daftar shukriya kehta hai, aur uske apne niyam hain: khaali jagah, budget, kaun gaya, kaun raha. Kai log usi kursi par bahut badhte hain, zyada seekhte hain, zyada bharosa uthate hain, aur imaarat mein koi ye baat nahi karta.
Kuch naukriyan bas sapaat chalti hain, kam seedhiyan, lambe faasle. Un saalon mein bahut kuch bhara ho sakta hai aur pad phir bhi na badle. Paanch saalon ne kya banaya, ye alag sawaal hai, aur uska jawab aapke paas rehta hai.
Agar koi dost paanch saal usi kursi par reh kar ye baat sunta, to aap chahte ki use kya kaha jaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise jaldi pehchanna
Dheere se dekhne par kya dikhta hai #
Jab kuch log us pal ko dheere-dheere dohrate hain, to dikhta hai ki ginti pehle aayi, kaam ke baare mein koi sawaal baad mein bhi nahi. Kisne sir hilaya, kisne plate ki or dekha, kisne baat badli, aur kamra utna ekmat nahi tha jitna vaakya ne banaya.
Kuch ko wo log bhi dikhte hain jo ginte hi nahi: wo colleague jo raay maangta hai, wo dost jise yaad hai ki kaam kya hai, wo client jo baar-baar aapka naam leta hai. Wo pehle se wahin the, bas zyada chup.
Aapki zindagi mein kaun hai jo poochhta hai ki kaam kaisa chal raha hai, ye nahi ki kaun se pad par pahunche?Is par baat kijiye ›
Isse sulah
Ghadi ki safai dena zaroori nahi #
Sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki paanch saal dheeme hain, na ye saabit karna ki nahi hain. Matlab bas itna ki ghadi ka is par kam chale ki aap apne kaam par garv karein, shaam chain se bitayein, aur bina list ke kisi sawaal ka jawab dein.
Kuch logon ko halka lagta hai jab wo tay karne ki koshish chhod dete hain ki wo baat jaayaz thi ya pyaar ki. Ye paheli shayad hi suljhti hai, aur har appraisal ke mausam mein kisi aur ka hisaab beech mein rakhe rehti hai.
Kaisa lagega agar wo ginti usi ki baat rahe, ek baar kisi daawat mein kahi gayi, na ki faisla jo Monday tak peeche chale?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #
Agar wo ginti baar-baar lautti hai, to usse seedhe ladne ki zaroorat nahi. Kuch log iske bajaye ek line taiyaar rakhte hain: “Yahan mera kaafi vikaas hua hai, aur pad ise dekhne ka bas ek tareeka hai.”
Ye shuru mein sach lagna zaroori nahi. Ye bas ek line hai jise kuch log pehan kar dekhte hain, aur kuch paate hain ki kabhi-kabhaar shaant sair mein kehne se ek chhoti si jagah ban jaati hai, ek chalte-chalte kahi baat aur aapke din ke beech.
Aapke apne shabdon mein un paanch saalon ke baare mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo jo hua uske baare mein sahi ho, bina iske ki kehne wala usse sahmat ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch cheezein mez par hi chhodi ja sakti hain #
Har tippani ko poora jawab, poora biodata ya agle promotion ka plan nahi chahiye. Kuch ko dekha ja sakta hai, ek pal mehsoos kiya ja sakta hai, aur khoonti par tange coat ki tarah shaam ke aakhir mein wahin chhoda ja sakta hai.
Ye haar maanna nahi hai. Ye chunna hai ki oorja kahan lage, aur kuch log kehte hain isse un baatcheeton ke liye zyada jagah bachti hai jinke liye wo aaye the, aur un logon ke liye jinke saath rehna aasaan hai.
Shaam bhar ke liye ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo baat achhi thi ya nipat gayi. Bas itna ki use ghar, agle appraisal ya Monday tak saath nahi aana hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar ghadi thodi bhi dheeli ho #
Sirf ek tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki niyam ek darja dheema ho gaya hai. Paanch saal bas paanch saal hain, apne hunar aur apne logon se bhara ek daur.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: parivarik khane mein apni zubaan mein kaam batana, appraisal ka mausam jo baatcheet jaisa lage, ya aisi shaam jab ginti dohrayi na jaye.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne laayak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, to baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.
Jis din ghadi thodi dheemi ho, us din sabse pehle kya alag lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Mann mein naam dijiye: “Lo, ghadi phir gin rahi hai”
- Ek aisa hunar sochiye jo aaj aapke paas hai, paanch saal pehle nahi tha
- Gaur kijiye ki jab koi gin nahi raha, tab kaam kaisa lagta hai
- Ek aise insaan ko yaad kijiye jo pad nahi, kaam ke baare mein poochhta hai
- Us line ko unhi ki rehne dijiye aur dhyaan aaj par laut aaiye
Chhote, nijee aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Us ginti ne kya peeche chhoda jise ek jhatpat safai dhak nahi saki?
- Jab aapke saal gine gaye, tab mez par kaun tha, aur unke chehron ne kya kiya?
- Kaun hai jo rank nahi, kaam ke baare mein poochhta hai?
- Jab aisi line aapke liye zor se bolti hai, tab aaspaas kya hota hai?
- Agar ye thoda halka ho, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?