Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Phailakar chhod jaana “Koi aur utha lega” kehne jaisa lag sakta hai, aur jab wo “koi aur” aap hon, to aisa lagta hai jaise chupchaap aapko safai wala maan liya gaya.
Kuch zindagiyon mein ye us mummy ya papa se aaya jo har picnic aur har mehmaannawazi mein kehte the, “Jaisa paya usse behtar chhodna.”
Vichar ke neeche koi niyam ho sakta hai: “Apna phailaya khud sameto,” ya “Mujhse ho jaata hai to sabse ho sakta hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Badbadate hue khud saaf kar dena
- Jaanboojhkar wahin pada rehne dena, taaki baat samajh aaye
- Fridge ya sink par teekha-sa note chipka dena
- Chupchaap badhte-badhte saara kaam apne upar le lena
- Mann mein hisaab rakhna ki kisne kya chhoda
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Sink mein kisi aur ki kadhai
Sunday ki shaam, Bhopal ke Arera Colony ka share flat. Khaana banane kitchen mein jaate ho to sink mein kisi aur ki kadhai aur cooker pade hain, kal raat ke khaane ki papdi jami hui. Kachre ka dabba chhalak raha hai. Thaile haath mein liye kuch pal khade rehte ho, kandhe kaste hain, aur jo aaram ki shaam sochi thi, wo ab ek kaam se shuru hoti dikhti hai.
Log apna khud sametein
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Log apna phailaya hua khud sametein.” Ye poori tarah jaayaz lagta hai. Jisne phailaya, wahi samete. Par dekhiye ye kya karta hai: doosron ke bartanon ko aapka mood tay karne deta hai. Har jami kadhai chhota-sa apmaan ban jaati hai, aur aap chupchaap hisaab rakhne lagte ho ki kisne kya chhoda, jisse share kitchen jang ka maidan lagne lagti hai.
Sametna buniyadi izzat kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye thamte hain kyunki apna sametna buniyadi izzat lagta hai. Shayad aapko sikhaya gaya tha ki khaate hi apni thaali dho do. Shayad aap turant saaf karte ho aur wahi doosron se bhi ummeed rakhte ho. Jo bhi ho, chahna ki log samete, nuktacheeni nahi hai. Ye chaahat hai ki share jagahein nyaaypurn aur sukoonbhari lagein. Ise narmi milni chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Har dher mein chhipi kudhan
Bartanon ka har dher thodi kudhan jodta hai. Dheere-dheere sab judta jaata hai. Aap zor-zor se safai karne lagte ho taaki koi sune. Mann mein note likhte ho jo fridge par kabhi nahi chipakte. Vyast samay mein kitchen se bachte ho. Share ghar mein tanaav rehne lagta hai, aur har shaam aap pehle se taiyaar lautte ho ki aaj kya chhoota hoga.
Kya kudhan shaam ke layak hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya gandagi par chidhne se wo jaldi hati? Ya zyada-tar ghar mein tanaav hi badha? Log gandagi ko bahut alag pal par dekhte hain, aur jo aapko chubhta hai, wo kisi aur ko lagbhag dikhta hi nahi. Jo bhi ho, ek gandi kadhai aapki shaam ka paimana nahi. Kya is niyam ko itni kaskar pakde rakhna uski keemat ke layak hai?
Aapki shaam aapki rehti hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki gandagi ko theek maan liya jaaye. Matlab ye ki bartanon ka dher ab tay nahi karta ki aapki shaam kaisi jaaye. Jitna zaroori hai utna aap saaf kar sakte ho, khaana bana sakte ho, aur baaki ruk sakta hai. Yahin thoda sukoon lautta hai: ghar aaram karne ki jagah banta hai, hisaab rakhne ki nahi, aur aapki shaamein aapki rehti hain.
If anyone in a shared home frightens you, controls what you do, goes through your things or keeps you from people, that is not about tidiness; it is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleLog apna phailaya khud sametein.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleJitna zaroori ho utna saaf karun, aur shaam apni rakhun.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Bas utna saaf kijiye jitna zaroori ho, phir maze se khaiye
- Din 2
Gandagi se chidh ho to ek dheemi saans lijiye
- Din 3
Apne kamre ka ek kona shaant aur suthra bana lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aapki zindagi ki kaun si share jagah mein rehna achha lagta hai, aur kyun?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Kisi ki tray, kisi ke chhilke, aur aapki ek table #
Bhopal ke mall ka food court khachakhach bhara hai. Aakhir ek table khaali dikhti hai, par us par do tray, gira hua cold drink, tissue ka dher aur haddiyan padi hain. Aap apni tray kinare rakhkar unki tray jamane lagte ho. Mann mein baat aati hai: “Log apna phailaya hua khud sametein.”
Ye office ki pantry mein cups se bhare sink par ho sakta hai, share flat mein teen din se bheege pade cooker par, park ki bench par bikhre moongphali ke chhilkon par, ya train ki berth par pade wrappers par.
Kahan aapne koi share jagah sabke istemaal se bhi saaf-suthri rehte dekhi hai, aur wahan aisa kya tha jisse ye chal paya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Samette jaane se pehle ek aah #
Kuch logon ko kahin andar se bhaari aah uthti lagti hai. Kuch ke honth bhinch jaate hain aur haath teji se chalne lagte hain, samette, ponchhte, jaise raftaar ise kam khalne wala bana degi.
Aksar kisi ajnabi ke joothan par halki ghin bhi uthti hai, aur phir kuch aur: ye ehsaas ki phir se yahi nipatane wala main hoon.
Pichhli baar jab aapne kisi aur ka phailaya sameta, to kuch sochne se pehle aapke chehre aur haathon ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Share jagahein tab chalti hain jab sab thoda karein #
Ye chaahat pakki zameen par khadi hai. Share jagah tabhi achhi rehti hai jab har koi apna thoda-sa hissa nibhaye. Koi apna hissa chhod de to wo gayab nahi hota, agle aane wale par chala jaata hai.
Isme izzat ka pehlu bhi hai. Phailakar chhod jaana “Koi aur utha lega” kehne jaisa lag sakta hai, aur jab wo “koi aur” aap hon, to aisa lagta hai jaise chupchaap aapko safai wala maan liya gaya.
Jin share jagahon par log apna samette hain, wahan aapke din mein kya farq padta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Sink ke upar wali awaaz #
“Kisne sikhaya inhein?” “Hamesha hum hi.” “Ek cup dhona itna mushkil hai kya?” Har cheez ke saath awaaz badhti jaati hai, aur kai logon ko lagta hai ki counter saaf hone ke baad bhi wo chalti rehti hai.
Iske neeche aksar thakaan hoti hai. Baat sirf ek cup ki nahi hai. Baat us insaan hone ki hai jise dikhta hai, aur jo aakhir mein karta bhi hai.
Kisi aur ki gandagi par jab ye awaaz bolti hai, to unke baare mein kya kehti hai, aur aapke baare mein kya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Sametne ka niyam kahan se aaya #
Kuch zindagiyon mein ye us mummy ya papa se aaya jo har picnic aur har mehmaannawazi mein kehte the, “Jaisa paya usse behtar chhodna.” Kuch ke liye wo hostel ki mess thi jahan sab apni thaali aur gilaas khud dhote the.
Jagahon mein bahut farq hai. Kahin log apni tray lautana shaan samajhte hain aur board bhi yaad dilate hain. Kahin karmchari tables saaf karte hain aur khud saaf karna ajeeb, yahan tak ki kisi ka kaam chheenne jaisa lage. Ek jagah jo badtameezi hai, wo doosri jagah aam baat ho sakti hai.
Aapko apna sametna kisne sikhaya, aur jab koi aur phaila jaata tha to usne kya kaha ya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Gandagi ke baare mein ek niyam #
Vichar ke neeche koi niyam ho sakta hai: “Apna phailaya khud sameto,” ya “Mujhse ho jaata hai to sabse ho sakta hai.” Ye achha niyam hai. Ye har share kitchen ko aisa thikana bhi bana sakta hai jahan duty ka roster sirf ek naam ka hai.
Kuch log ise suthre ghar se laate hain, kuch aise ghar se jahan khud wahi the jo hamesha saaf karte the. Jo bhi ho, is niyam ko sirf maanne ki jagah dekhna bhi kaam ka hai.
Sametne ka niyam kahan share jagahon ko aapke liye achha rakhta hai, aur kahan aapko sabke joothan ka bina tankhwah ka rakhwala bana deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Safai karne wala banne ki keemat #
Kuch minute ponchhna. Ek mood jo usse kahin der tak rehta hai. Chai jo table saaf karte-karte thandi ho gayi. Us flatmate ke saath awaaz mein teekhapan jisne is baar kuch nahi kiya.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki kaam dheere-dheere bina kisi ke tay kiye unhi ka ho gaya. Jitna wo karte hain, utna doosron ko dikhna kam hota jaata hai, aur wo zyada thake aur andar se naraaz hote jaate hain.
Doosron ka samette mein jo waqt aur mood jaata hai, wo laut aaye to aap uska kya karoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Doosron ki tray wali ek dopahar #
Koi saadharan lunch ka waqt sochiye jab “Log apna phailaya hua khud sametein” zor se baj rahi ho. Food court, office ki kitchen, share table. Bas ek tasveer, koi kaam nahi.
Shayad table paane ko kisi ki tray hatana, phir office ke sink mein cup, phir ghar par cooker, aur khaana aakhri das minute mein.
Ye ek din hai, andaza nahi, aur kabhi bhi rakha ja sakta hai.
Us din mein aur kya-kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhkar aap kya gaur karte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Gandagi aksar aadat hai, dil nahi #
Log bahut alag dhang se pale hote hain ki kaun samettega. Kuch gharon mein sab kuch koi sahayak ya mummy karti thi. Kuch jagahon par karmchari tables saaf karte hain. Tray chhod jaane wale ne shayad kabhi is par dhyaan dena seekha hi nahi.
Isse joothan aapki zimmedaari nahi ban jaata, aur aapki chaahat galat nahi ho jaati. Bas itna ki gandagi aadaton ke baare mein zyada keh sakti hai, aur is baare mein kam ki ve aapki kitni izzat karte hain.
Jin jagahon par aap khud doosron ke liye kuch chhod jaate ho, ve aapki taraf se kaisi dikhti hain?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Wo safai ke pal jo pehle se hain #
Chhote ho sakte hain: wo saathi jisne Friday ko sabke mug dho diye, wo ajnabi jisne jaane se pehle table ponchh di, wo flatmate jisne bina kahe kachra bahar rakh diya.
Inhein dekhne se doosron ki gandagi ke dher radd nahi hote. Ye bhi wahin hain, aksar bina dhyaan mein aaye, kyunki saaf cheezein awaaz nahi karti.
Kisi aur ki safai ka kaun sa chhota kaam aap thoda aur dekhna chahoge, aur wo kab hua tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Table saaf kijiye, bojh ghar mat le jaaiye #
Sulah ka matlab ye maan lena nahi ki gandagi chalegi. Share jagahein achhi rahein, ye chahna jaayaz hai. Jo badal sakta hai, wo ye ki ek tray ya ek sink aapke mood se kitna le le.
Izzat aur suraksha kabhi zyada maangna nahi, sabke liye. Agar share ghar mein koi aapko daraata hai, har kaam par niyantran rakhta hai, saamaan khangaalta hai ya logon se milne nahi deta, to wo safai ki baat nahi hai. Ise gambhirta se lein; savdhaan rehna surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Share jagahon par pareshan kiya jaana, peecha, video banana, chhoona ya pakadna, bheed mein satna, ya aap jo hain us par nishaana banana (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, disability, ya aap kahan se hain) alag baat hai. Ise gambhirta se lein; hat jaana ya madad lena surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Agli gandi table ko is chaahat ke saath halke se thame hue sochiye: aap use saaf karte ho, baith jaate ho, aur sabse pehle kis cheez ka maza lene dete ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Chipchipi table ke liye ek pankti #
“Log apna phailaya hua khud sametein” ke bagal mein kuch log aisi pankti rakhte hain: “Share jagahein saaf rahein, ye mujhe achha lagta hai. Ek table saaf karne ka matlab poori duniya ki gandagi uthana nahi.” Ye purani pankti ki jagah nahi leti, uske bagal mein baithti hai.
Haddiyan abhi tray mein hon to ye zaroorat se zyada samajhdaar lag sakti hai. Kuch log apni ek pankti chunte hain, aur chhoti, aur sachchi.
Aap apne shabdon mein kaun si pankti rakhoge, jo saaf jagahon ki chaahat bhi bachaye aur aapka aaram bhi aapka rakhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Tray bina kudhan ke laut sakti hai #
Har gandagi par faisla zaroori nahi. Use saaf kiya ja sakta hai ya chhoda ja sakta hai, aur phir rakh diya ja sakta hai jaise bheega kapda nal par tah karke taang dete hain.
Log apna sametein, ye chaahat aapki reh sakti hai. Ghar mein jo koi aapko daraata ya niyantrit karta hai, wo is chaahat ka hissa nahi hai. Use gambhirta se lena theek hai.
Ise rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki gandagi chal gayi, aur isse kuch tay nahi hota. Bas itna ki chai abhi bhi garm reh sakti hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar gandagi kam jagah gher #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye: wahi table, wahi tray, aur chaahat thodi dheemi. Aap use saaf karte ho, baithte ho, aur chai garm rehte-rehte pi lete ho.
Kuch chhota ho sakta hai: khaane ka swaad, khidki se aati dhoop ka dhyaan, office lautte hue halke kadam.
Is tasveer ko jab tak chahein apne paas rakhiye. Aage ke cards is chaahat se sulah aur jo pehle se maujood hai use dekhte hain.
Sabse pehle kya badalta dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Inmein se kaun sa aapko sabse pehle dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Ek table saaf kijiye, phir jaanboojhkar baithkar chai ka maza lijiye
- Is hafte us ek aadmi ko dekhiye jisne apna khud sameta
- Gandagi dekhkar us ehsaas ko ek shabd mein naam dijiye
- Chupchaap tay kijiye ki kaun si gandagi aapki hai aur kaun si ruk sakti hai
- Dekhiye ki chubhan gandagi ki hai ya hamesha wahi karne wala hone ki
Chahein to ek aazmaiye. Yahan kuch bhi zaroori nahi.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aapki zindagi ki kaun si share jagah mein rehna achha lagta hai, aur kyun?
- Aapko apna sametna kisne sikhaya, aur kaise?
- Aapke hisaab se ek sach mein achhi share kitchen ya table kaisi dikhti hai?
- Agar doosron ki gandagi aapko thoda kam khalti, to aapke break kaise lagte?
- Share jagahon mein aap apne liye kaun se chhote aaram pehle se banate ho?