Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Jab wo bhoola jaata hai, khaaskar ek se zyada baar, to lag sakta hai ki aapne koi nishaan nahi chhoda, bhale hi aap garmjoshi se mile hon aur der tak baat ki ho.
Kuch logon ka naam bade pyaar se rakha gaya, dadaji ke naam par ya kisi aur bhasha ke matlab par, aur use laparwahi se bola jaana aisa lagta hai jaise us pyaar ko chhod diya gaya.
Vichaar ke neeche koi niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Mera asar pada hota, to ye yaad rakhte,” ya “Naam yaad rakhna basic izzat hai.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Badi smile ke saath dobara bata dena aur andar se chhota feel karna
- Unka naam bhi bhoolne ka natak kar dena, taaki hisaab barabar ho
- Chhota, aasaan naam bata dena taaki yaad reh jaye
- Agli baar us insaan se katrana, taaki wo pal na aaye
- Ghar par use dohrana aur sochna ki kahan chook hui
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
“Sorry, aapka naam kya tha?”
Somvaar ki subah, Chandigarh ka ek office, aapka teesra hafta. Jin colleague se aap chaar baar mil chuke hain, wo paas se nikalte hue kehte hain, “Hi, umm, sorry, aapka naam kya tha?” Aap muskurakar naam bata dete ho. Wo sir hilate hain aur use galat dohrate hain. Aap jaane dete ho, par desk tak lautte hue ek halka, doobta-sa ehsaas rehta hai, jaise aap zara invisible ho gaye hon.
Logon ko aapka naam yaad rakhna chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Logon ko mera naam yaad rakhna chahiye.” Ye jaayaz lagta hai. Naam aapki pehchaan ka hissa hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har bhoole naam ko is baat ka faisla bana deta hai ki aap maayne rakhte ho ya nahi. Har “Sorry, kya naam tha?” iska chhota saboot ban jaata hai ki aapne koi nishaan nahi chhoda, aur aap bhula diye jaane laayak feel karne lagte ho.
Yaad rakhe jaane mein dekha jaana
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki yaad rakha jaana dekhe jaane jaisa lagta hai. Shayad aapke naam mein aapke parivar ka itihaas hai. Shayad use aksar galat bola jaata hai, aur wo thaka deta hai. Jo bhi ho, chaahna ki log aapka naam yaad rakhein, ghamand nahi hai. Ye apni pehchaan ke saath jaane jaane ki chaah se aata hai, aur ise dosh nahi, narmi milni chahiye.
Bhoole naam ki chubhan
Har bhoola naam thodi chubhan jodta hai. Dheere-dheere sab judta jaata hai. Aap apna parichay aur dheeme dene lagte ho. Logon ko sudharna band kar dete ho. Meeting mein thoda invisible feel karte ho. Jis naam se aapko pyaar hai, wo samjhane ka jhanjhat lagne lagta hai, aur nayi jagahon mein har baar ghuste waqt phir se bhula diye jaane ka halka dar rehta hai.
Kya ye chubhan sehna theek hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya yaad rakhe jaane ka intezaar karne se logon ne kabhi jaldi yaad rakha? Ya har chook bas zyada chubhi? Bahut logon ko naam mushkil lagte hain, khaaskar anjaane naam, aur wo unhein is par nirbhar kiye bina bhool jaate hain ki saamne wale ke baare mein kya sochte hain. Jo bhi ho, bhoola naam iska paimana nahi ki aap maayne rakhte ho. Kya ye niyam itni kasakar pakadna theek hai?
Apna naam shaan se dobara bolna
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki maan liya jaye naam maayne nahi rakhta. Matlab ye ki bhoola naam ab tay nahi karta ki aap dekhe gaye ya nahi. Aap use saaf aur pyaar se jitni baar zaroorat ho, dobara bol sakte ho. Uske liye pehle kuch aur badalna zaroori nahi. Yahin kuch sukoon lautta hai: aapka naam aapka rehta hai, shaan se, koi pehli baar mein yaad rakhe ya nahi.
Someone who mocks your name, twists it on purpose, or refuses to say it right again and again is not forgetting; that is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleLogon ko mera naam yaad rakhna chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMera naam mera hai. Use shaan se dobara bola ja sakta hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Agli baar apna naam saaf aur pyaar se boliye
- Din 2
Ek aise insaan par gaur kijiye jo sahi bolta hai
- Din 3
Mann mein yaad kijiye ki aapke naam ka aapke liye kya matlab hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kisi nayi jagah sabse pehle kisne aapko naam se jaana hua feel karaya?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Teesri baar wahi sawaal: “Aapka naam kya tha?” #
Chandigarh ke naye office ka teesra hafta. Jinse aap chaar baar mil chuke hain, wo paas se guzarte hain aur muskurakar kehte hain, “Sorry, aapka naam kya tha?” Aapka apna naam, phir se. Mann mein halka-sa dhakka lagta hai: “Logon ko mera naam yaad rakhna chahiye.”
Aisa office mein hota hai, nayi building mein, gym mein, school ke gate par parents ke group mein. Kabhi naam bhoola jaata hai. Kabhi galat bola jaata hai, ya chhota karke kuch aisa bana diya jaata hai jo aap jaisa nahi lagta.
Kisi nayi jagah kisne aapka naam is tarah yaad rakha ki apnapan laga, aur unhone use kaise bola?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Pet mein halka dhakka, phir polite smile #
Kuch logon ke pet mein halka-sa dhakka lagta hai, jaise seedhi ka ek step chhoot gaya ho. Kuch ke gaal garam ho jaate hain aur jhat se chamakdaar smile chadh jaati hai. Ye dono kisi bhi soch se pehle hote hain.
Phir naam dobara batane ka kaam aata hai, halke se, jaise koi baat hi na ho. Kai log dekhte hain ki awaaz thodi oonchi ho jaati hai, jitna mann hai usse zyada khushmizaaj.
Pichhli baar jab kisi ne aapka naam bhoola, to naam dohrate waqt aapke chehre aur awaaz ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Naam aapka ek chhota-sa hissa hai #
Ye ummeed aasaani se samajh aati hai. Naam mein parivaar, bhasha aur itihaas basa hota hai. Use sunna, aur sahi sunna, ye jatane ke sabse seedhe tareekon mein se hai ki aap saamne wale ke mann mein darj hue.
Jab wo bhoola jaata hai, khaaskar ek se zyada baar, to lag sakta hai ki aapne koi nishaan nahi chhoda, bhale hi aap garmjoshi se mile hon aur der tak baat ki ho. Naye shehar ya nayi job mein ye ehsaas aur teekha ho sakta hai, jahan jaana jaana sabse zyada maayne rakhta hai.
Jab koi pehli baar mein aapka naam sahi bolta hai, to us kamre mein aapko kaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Haath milane ke baad wali awaaz #
“Do baar ho gaya.” “Kya mera hona kisi ko dikhta hi nahi?” “Baaki sabke naam to yaad the.” Ye awaaz aksar yaaddaasht ki ek saadhaaran chook ko aapke baare mein kahani bana deti hai, aur kahani bade bharose se bolti hai.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki ye awaaz ginti rakhti hai: kisne yaad rakha, kisne nahi, kisne galat bola. Nayi jagahon mein ye list peechhe chupchaap badhti rehti hai.
Jab koi aapka naam bhoolta hai aur ye awaaz shuru hoti hai, to pehli line kaun si hoti hai, aur kitne bharose se bolti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Aapke naam ko wazan kahan se mila #
Kuch logon ka naam bade pyaar se rakha gaya, dadaji ke naam par ya kisi aur bhasha ke matlab par, aur use laparwahi se bola jaana aisa lagta hai jaise us pyaar ko chhod diya gaya. Kisi ke liye wo teacher paimana bani jinhone pehle hafte mein sabke naam yaad kar liye.
Aadatein bhi alag hoti hain. Kai jagah log naam kam lete hain aur “bhaiya”, “aunty”, “boss”, “beta” ya “madam” kehte hain. Doosri bhasha ke naam aksar chhote kar diye jaate hain ya badal diye jaate hain. Rishte se bulana kahin apna lagta hai, kahin door.
Aapke naam ke peechhe kya kahani hai, kisne rakha, aur ab kaun use is tarah bolta hai ki sunna achha lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Yaad rakhe jaane ka niyam #
Vichaar ke neeche koi niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Mera asar pada hota, to ye yaad rakhte,” ya “Naam yaad rakhna basic izzat hai.” Doosra hissa jaayaz hai. Pehla hissa har chook ko aapke baare mein faisla bana deta hai.
Kuch log ise har jagah naye bankar bade hone se jodte hain, kuch kisi aise bhai-behen se jiska naam hamesha pehle yaad rakha gaya. Jo bhi ho, aise niyam ko dheere-dheere dekha ja sakta hai.
Ye niyam kahan aapko apnapan mehsoos karane mein madad karta hai, aur kahan kisi anjaan ki yaaddaasht ko aapka paimana bana deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Bhoole hue naam ki keemat #
Keemat aksar chupchaap dikhti hai: agli get-together mein peechhe reh jaana, parichay kisi aur ko karne dena, doosri meeting mein na jaana kyunki pehli ek khaali, dostana nazar par khatam hui thi.
Kuch log nayi jagahon par thoda sikudne lagte hain, bhoole jaane se pehle hi uska intezaar karte hain. Ye intezaar us tarah ke rishte banana mushkil kar sakta hai jinmein naam tik jaate hain.
Haal mein bhoole hue naam ke ehsaas ki wajah se aap kahan peechhe hate, aur wahan kya aazmana chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Parichay ki ek shaam #
Ek saade, aam jamavde ki kalpana kijiye, jab “Logon ko mera naam yaad rakhna chahiye” zor se baj raha ho. Office ki party, birthday, school ka koi function. Isme kuch theek karne ko nahi hai.
Shayad kisi se teesri baar parichay ho raha hai, smile chadhi hui, naam chehekkar bola hua, aur lautte hue raaste bhar ye sochna ki aisa kyun hua.
Ye wo nahi jo hoga. Ye ek shaam hai, aur kabhi bhi alag rakhi ja sakti hai.
Us jamavde mein aur kya hua?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske baare mein aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Naam lagbhag sabke liye pakadna mushkil hai #
Bahut logon ko naam sabse mushkil cheezon mein lagte hain, chehre ya kaam se kahin zyada. Koi poori baatcheet, aapka kaam, aapki hansi yaad rakh sakta hai, aur naam phir bhi kho sakta hai.
Hum ye bhi sochte hain ki log hamein kam dekhte hain aur kam yaad rakhte hain. Bhoola naam hamesha bhoola insaan nahi hota; ho sakta hai bas aisi yaaddaasht ho jo sabse pehle naam chhodti hai.
Haal mein aapne koi naam bhoola ho to us insaan ke baare mein aapko kya yaad tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo log naam bolte hain #
Shayad kuch hain: gate par wo guard jo har subah naam lekar namaste karta hai, wo colleague jisne aapka naam sahi bolna seekha, wo dukaandaar jo aapki roz ki bread alag rakhta hai aur naam se bulata hai.
In par gaur karne se bhoole hue pal dard-rahit nahi ho jaate. Ye bhi usi zindagi ka hissa hain, aur paas se nikal jaana aasaan hai kyunki kuch bigda nahi.
Kaun aapka naam aise bolta hai ki apnapan lage, aur usmein aap kya gaur karna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Naam aapka hi rehta hai, bola jaye ya nahi #
Baat ye nahi ki maan liya jaye naam maayne nahi rakhte. Yaad rakhe jaane ki chaah ek garm, jaayaz chaah hai. Jo badal sakta hai, wo ye ki kisi ki yaaddaasht ki chook aapke baare mein kitna keh paaye.
Izzat aur suraksha ki ummeed kabhi zyada nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi aur jinse aap milte hain unke liye bhi. Jo aapke naam ka mazaak udaye, jaan-boojhkar bigaade, ya baar-baar sahi bolne se mana kare, ye bhoolna nahi hai; use gambhirta se lena chahiye, aur doori rakhna surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Yahi chhedchhaad, peechha, video banane, chhune-pakadne, bheed mein satane, ya pehchaan (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, viklangta ya kahan se aaye) par nishana banane par bhi laagu hai; ise gambhirta se lein. Hat jaana, savdhaan rehna ya madad lena surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Agle “Sorry, aapka naam kya tha?” ki kalpana kijiye, ummeed thodi dheeli rakhkar: aap apna naam kaise bolte ho, aur phir unse kya poochte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Naye kamron mein saath le jaane ke liye ek vaakya #
“Logon ko mera naam yaad rakhna chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log apna ek vaakya rakhte hain, jaise: “Yaad rakha jaana mujhe achha lagega, aur bhoola hua naam bhoola hua main nahi hota.” Purana vaakya reh sakta hai; ye bas paas mein khada rehta hai.
Us pal ye thoda bhaari lag sakta hai. Kuch logon ko haath milate hue chupchaap kaha gaya koi chhota, apna vaakya zyada jamta hai.
Agar aap khud koi sachcha vaakya likhein, to wo kya hoga, jo jaane jaane ki chaah bhi rakhe aur aapka naam aapka hi rakhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Chook darwaaze par hi reh sakti hai #
Har bhoole naam ko ghar par dohrana zaroori nahi. Use ek pal mehsoos karke neeche rakha ja sakta hai, jaise event ke baad utaara hua name-badge, ab bhi aapka, par ab seene par tanka nahi.
Yaad rakhe jaane ki chaah jitna chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Apne naam par baar-baar mazaak banaya jaana alag baat hai, aur gambhirta se lene laayak hai.
Aaj raat ise chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki ye sahi tha, aur isse kuch suljhta bhi nahi. Bas shaam aapki ho sakti hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar bhoola hua naam thoda naram pade #
Mann mein, ek pal ke liye: wahi jamavda, wahi khaali nazar, aur ummeed bas ek darja neeche. Aap apna naam sachchi smile se bolte ho, aur unke hafte ke baare mein poochte ho.
Shayad kuch chhota: thodi lambi baatcheet, is par hansi ki naam yaad rakhne mein sab kitne kachche hain, ghar lautte hue achhi baaton ki yaad.
Ye tasveer bas aapke liye hai, aur kisi se kuch nahi maangti. Aage: is ummeed se sulah ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur jo pehle se maujood hai.
Pehla chhota farq kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaun sa chhota badlaav aap pakdenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Apne liye kuch chhoti cheezein #
- Agli baar apna naam garm, saadi smile ke saath boliye
- Is hafte ek aise insaan par gaur kijiye jisne aapka naam liya
- Naam bhoola jaye to us ehsaas ke liye ek saada shabd khojiye
- Ek bhoola hua naam sochiye aur ye ki us insaan ke baare mein kya yaad tha
- Dekhiye ki chubhan bhoole jaane ki zyada hai ya naye hone ki
Jo aasaan lage, aazmaiye. Ye bas sujhav hain.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kisi nayi jagah sabse pehle kisne aapko naam se jaana hua feel karaya?
- Kaun aapka naam aise bolta hai ki hamesha apnapan lagta hai?
- Kaun si nayi jagah tab ghar jaisi lagne lagi jab log aapka naam jaan gaye?
- Bhoole hue naam thoda kam chubhein, to nayi jagahein kaisi lagengi?
- Aapki zindagi mein aap kahan pehle se achhi tarah jaane jaate ho, aur wo kaisa lagta hai?