Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ghera khula reh jaye to bhalai aisi lag sakti hai jaise gaddhe mein gir gayi.
Shukriya bolna achhe sanskaar ki nishani ban gaya.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Bhalai par kisi ki nazar padni chahiye,” ya “Main doon to wo kahein bhi.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Badbadana: “Achha, theek hai, koi baat nahi,” kisi ko nahi
- Tay kar lena ki agli gaadi ko raasta nahi denge
- Agli red light par bhi usi ke baare mein sochte rehna
- Misaal banne ke liye khud zyada zor se shukriya bolna
- Baad mein ye kissa sunana ki tameez ab bachi hi nahi
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Seedhiyon se utaari stroller
Mangalvaar ki shaam, Jaipur. Ghar lautte hue aap ek anjaan ki madad ke liye ruke, jise stroller station ki seedhiyon se utaarni thi. Neeche pahunchkar unhone stroller li aur bina ek shabd kahe jaldi mein nikal gaye. Aap ek pal wahin khade reh jaate ho, baanhein ab bhi zara uthi hui, aur ek chhoti, khatti-si mayoosi mehsoos hoti hai, jaise bhalai haathon mein baasi ho gayi ho.
Logon ko shukriya kehna chahiye
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Logon ko shukriya kehna chahiye.” Ye bilkul jaayaz lagta hai. Oopar se seedhi samajhdaari ki baat. Bas do shabd. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapki bhalai ko raseed ka intezaar karwata hai. Har achha kaam tab tak adhoora rehta hai jab tak koi use maane nahi, aur jab nahi maanta, to jis bhalai par aapko garv tha, wo galti jaisi lagne lagti hai.
Shukriya dekhe jaane jaisa kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki shukriya dekhe jaane jaisa lagta hai. Bahut log is niyam ka koi roop bachpan se lekar chalte hain, aur tab ye theek bhi tha. Shayad aapko har baat par, hamesha shukriya kehna sikhaya gaya. Shayad aap bahut dete ho aur kam sunte ho. Jo bhi ho, shukriya chaahna ghamand nahi. Ye chaah ki aapki bhalai nazar mein aaye, ise dosh nahi, narmi milni chahiye.
Har baar badhti khataas
Har na mila shukriya thodi khataas jodta hai. Ye dheere-dheere hota hai, isliye pakadna mushkil hai. Aap kam madad karne lagte ho, ya aah bharkar. Ghar ke raaste mein wo pal dohrate ho. Madad ki zehmat uthane par zara bewakoof jaisa lagta hai. Jo bhalai aapse aasaani se hoti thi, jokhim lagne lagti hai, aur sochne lagte ho ki bhala hona bhi theek hai ya nahi.
Kya shukriya ka intezaar theek hai?
Khud se imaandaari se poochiye: kya shukriya ke intezaar se aapki bhalai kabhi behtar lagi? Ya zyadatar achha ehsaas hi chala gaya? Log jaldi mein hon, ghabraye hon ya kahin aur khoye hon, to jo mehsoos karte hain wo kehna bhool jaate hain. Pakka koi nahi keh sakta. Jo bhi ho, na mila shukriya aapki bhalai ka paimana nahi. Kya ye niyam itna kasakar pakadna iski keemat ke laayak hai?
Apne aap mein poori bhalai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki tameez maayne nahi rakhti. Matlab ye ki aapki bhalai ko poora lagne ke liye ab raseed ka intezaar nahi karna padta. Aapne madad ki. Stroller seedhiyon se utar gayi. Wo achha tha, aur achha rehta hai. Shuruaat chhoti ho sakti hai, ek-ek pal se. Yahin kuch sukoon lautta hai: bhalai aapki rehti hai, aur shukriya, jab aata hai, ek pyaara bonus ban jaata hai.
If someone harasses, follows, films, touches or grabs you, or picks on you for who you are, it is worth taking seriously, and moving away can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleLogon ko shukriya kehna chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMeri bhalai poori hai. Shukriya bonus hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Aaj bas yunhi ek chhoti bhalai kijiye
- Din 2
Kisi jawab se pehle madad karne ka ehsaas dekhiye
- Din 3
Shukriya na aaye to muskuraiye aur aage badh jaiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Kiska shukriya, kisi ka bhi, kabhi ka bhi, aapke saath sabse lambe waqt se tika hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Aapne raasta diya, aur gaadi bas nikal gayi #
Jaipur, Sindhi Camp ke paas shaam ka jam. Ek scooter side wali gali mein atka hai, aap gaadi dheemi karke haath se ishaara karte ho. Wo khaali jagah mein ghus jaata hai. Na haath utha, na do baar halka horn, kuch nahi. Agle chauraahe se pehle hi baat aa jaati hai: “Logon ko shukriya kehna chahiye.”
Aisa sadak ke bahar bhi hota hai. Padosi ka parcel aapne le liya, lift ka button thaame rakha, khoya hua purse lauta diya. Bhalai ho gayi, aur uske baad chuppi, jaise kuch hua hi na ho.
Haal mein kisne is tarah shukriya kaha ki chehre par muskaan aa gayi, aur unhone asal mein kya kiya tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Dene ke baad chhota-sa dhakka #
Kuch logon ke pet mein halka dhakka lagta hai, jaise seedhi ka wo step pada jo tha hi nahi. Kuch ka jabda kas jaata hai, ya aisi hansi nikalti hai jisme maza nahi hota. Ye pehle pal mein aata hai, kisi tark se pehle.
Jis haath ne ishaara kiya tha, wo shayad ab bhi aadha utha hai. Body chhote-se len-den ke liye taiyaar thi, sir hilane ke liye, aur ab us taiyaari ko bina jagah ke neeche rakhna hai.
Pichhli baar jab aapki kisi meharbaani ka koi jawab hi nahi aaya, to sabse pehle aapne kya mehsoos kiya, aur kahan?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Shukriya ek chhota ghera poora karta hai #
Shukriya ki ummeed mein samajhdaari hai. Bhalai bahar jaati hai, aur shukriya lautkar aata hai. Ye chhota ghera dono ko batata hai ki pal dekha gaya aur anjaan log ab bhi ek-doosre ke saath achhe ho sakte hain.
Ghera khula reh jaye to bhalai aisi lag sakti hai jaise gaddhe mein gir gayi. Baat taareef chaahne ki nahi hai. Baat ye jaanne ki hai ki jo kiya, wo kahin pahuncha.
Jab koi theek se shukriya kehta hai, to bhalai akele jo nahi deti thi wo kya deta hai, aur kitni der tikta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Hisaab rakhne wali awaaz #
“Kamaal hai.” “Haath tak nahi uthaya.” “Aakhri baar, ab nahi karna.” Ye awaaz gaadi mein shuru hoti hai aur agle kaam tak chalti hai, har na mile shukriya ko ek andekhi list mein jodti hui.
Gaur karna kaam aa sakta hai ki thake dinon mein awaaz aur teekhi ho jaati hai. Achhe din mein wahi chuppi ek second mein nikal jaati. Lambe din mein wo ek aur cheez lagti hai jo duniya lautana bhool gayi.
Jab awaaz na mile shukriya jodti hai, to kaun si line dohrati hai, aur uski jagah kya sunna chahegi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Shukriya kehna kahan sikhaya gaya #
Kuch logon mein ye bachpan se ghonta gaya: mausi ki di har toffee par, school mein thame gaye har darwaaze par, “Bol, kya kehte hain?” Shukriya bolna achhe sanskaar ki nishani ban gaya.
Kuch aise gharon mein pale jahan apnon ko shukriya kehna atpata, thoda door ka lagta tha: “Apnon mein thank you kaisa?” Ek sir hilana, ek muskaan, ya ek cup chai wahi kaam karti thi. Shukriya alag jagahon par alag shakl mein aata hai: haath ka ishaara, do baar horn, haath seene par, ek jhat se “thanks”.
Shukriya ka asli matlab aapko sabse pehle kisne sikhaya, aur unka shukriya aam taur par kis shakl mein aata tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Dene aur paane ka niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Bhalai par kisi ki nazar padni chahiye,” ya “Main doon to wo kahein bhi.” Pehla hissa jaayaz hai. Neeche ka niyam chupchaap har bhalai ko aisi pariksha bana sakta hai jisme saamne wala fail ho sakta hai.
Aisa niyam aksar is parwah se ugta hai ki log ek-doosre se kaise pesh aayein, jo rakhne laayak hai. Phir bhi use busy sadkon, thake anjaan logon aur shukriya kehne ke kai tareekon ke bagal mein dekha ja sakta hai.
Shukriya wala niyam kahan aapke kaam aata hai, aur kahan aapki apni bhalai ko kisi aur ke jawab par tika deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Shukriya ka intezaar kis keemat par #
Chhoti cheezein, par judti jaati hain: agle mile tak kasa jabda, agle din tali hui koi bhalai, counter par baithe insaan ke liye thodi kam garmaahat, jisne kuch galat kiya hi nahi.
Waqt ke saath dena jokhim jaisa lagne lagta hai. Har bhalai ke saath ek chhota daanv lagta hai ki saamne wala kaise jawab dega. Daanv baar-baar haara jaye to kuch log kam dene lagte hain, aur dena yaad karte hain.
Kaun si bhalai jo aap pehle aasaani se karte the, haal mein mushkil ho gayi hai, aur use phir karna kaisa lagega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Shukriya ke ishaare ke intezaar mein ghar ki drive #
Ek aam aane-jaane ka raasta dekhiye jab “Logon ko shukriya kehna chahiye” zor se baj raha hai. Side ki sadkein, milti gaadiyan, aapki chhodi hui jagahein. Isme kuch theek karne ki zaroorat nahi.
Shayad aap ek gaadi ko raasta dete ho, koi haath nahi uthta, aur agle das minute ye dohrane mein jaate hain ki aap kya kehte. Shayad agli gaadi ko koi jagah hi nahi milti.
Ye koi andaaza nahi. Ye ek subah hai, aur aap jab chahein ise neeche rakh sakte ho.
Us drive mein aur kya ho raha hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhte hue sabse alag kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Shukriya ho sakta hai, aur chhoot bhi sakta hai #
Ho sakta hai driver ne sheeshe ke paar haath uthaya ho jo aapko dikha nahi. Kisi anjaan ne sir hilaya ho jab aap doosri taraf dekh rahe the. Kuch log chhote saamajik palon mein jam jaate hain aur shukriya ek minute der se yaad aata hai.
Inse ye sabit nahi hota ki shukriya tha. Bas itna ki na mila shukriya bahar se padhna mushkil hai. Ummeed jaayaz rehti hai; chuppi ka matlab kya tha, ye utna pakka nahi jitna lagta hai.
Shukriya jo-jo deta hai, unmein aapke liye sabse zyada kya maayne rakhta hai: dekha jaana, izzat, ya ye jaanna ki bhalai pahunchi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo shukriya aate hain #
Hafte bhar peechhe dekhiye to shayad zyada milenge: delivery wale ka angootha, kisi bachche ka sharmaya hua “Thank you aunty”, kisi colleague ka chat mein jhat se “Kya baat hai”, aage wali gaadi ki do baar jhapakti light.
Ye us gaadi ka khaalipan nahi bharte jisne haath nahi uthaya. Bas ye bhi hain, aur jab na mile wale zyada oonche hon to inse guzar jaana aasaan hai. Inke saath kuch karna zaroori nahi.
Kisi ka bhi kaun sa chhota shukriya, is hafte ka ya barson purana, aap thoda aur mehsoos karna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Bhalai dene wale ki apni rehti hai #
Tameez ab bhi maayne rakhti hai. Matlab ye ki bhalai aapki reh sakti hai, poori aur mukammal, chahe saamne wala ghera poora kare ya nahi.
Basic izzat aur suraksha chaahna kabhi zyada nahi hota, aapke liye bhi aur aaspaas ke logon ke liye bhi. Madad ke baad mazaak udaya jaana, chillaya jaana ya dhamki milna na mile shukriya jaisa nahi hota.
Koi aapko tang kare, peechha kare, video banaye, chhue ya pakde, bheed mein sataye, ya pehchaan (gender, jaati, dharm, rang, umar, viklangta ya kahan se aaye hain) par nishana banaye, to ise gambhirta se lena chahiye, aur hat jaana, savdhaan rehna ya madad lena surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Agle chauraahe par kisi ko raasta dene ki kalpana kijiye, ye ummeed halke se thaame hue.
Gaadi nikal jaati hai, koi ishaara nahi aata, aur steering par apne haathon ke baare mein aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Purane vaakya ke bagal mein rakhne ke liye ek vaakya #
“Logon ko shukriya kehna chahiye” ke bagal mein kuch log ek shaant vaakya taiyaar rakhte hain: “Shukriya sunna achha lagta hai, aur koi na kahe tab bhi meri bhalai gini jaati hai.” Ye pehle vaakya se behas nahi karta. Bas uske saath baithta hai.
Udhaar ka vaakya akda hua lag sakta hai. Kuch logon ko apne shabd zyada jamte hain, shayad agle chauraahe par kehne ko kuch chhota.
Aapka apna sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo shukriya ki chaah bhi rakhe aur bhalai ko aapki hi rehne de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Na utha haath sadak par hi reh sakta hai #
Har bina shukriya ki bhalai ka aaj raat jawab chahiye, zaroori nahi. Use dekhkar chhoda ja sakta hai, jaise glove box mein rakhi parking parchi, zaroorat ho to maujood, abhi nazar se bahar.
Shukriya paane ki chaah jitni der chahein nijee reh sakti hai. Madad ke baad bura bartaav, mazaak ya daraya jaana kuch aur hi baat hai, aur gambhirta se lene laayak hai.
Shaam ke liye ise neeche rakh dene ka matlab ye nahi ki chuppi theek thi, ya sawaal band ho gaya. Bas itna ki shaam kisi aur cheez ke baare mein ho sakti hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar ummeed ek darja neeche ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye: aap gaadi ko raasta isliye dete ho kyunki aap dena chahte the, jaise seedhi par kisi bachche ki taraf haath badhana. Koi ishaara nahi aata.
Bahut chhota ho sakta hai. Ek gaana jo sach mein sunayi de. Us pal ki chhoti yaad. Agli gaadi ko bhi raasta dena, kyunki aapke chalane ka tareeka yahi hai.
Inmein se kuch bhi kisi ko batana zaroori nahi. Aage ke cards is ummeed se sulah par aur us par dekhte hain jo pehle se yahan hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaun sa chhota badlaav aap pehle pakdenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein aazmane ko, sab nijee #
- Aaj ek chhoti bhalai kijiye aur pehle se maan lijiye ki wo poori hai
- Gaur kijiye ki kaun sa shukriya shabdon ke bina kisi aur shakl mein aaya
- Shukriya na aaye to mann mein us ehsaas ko ek saada naam dijiye
- Ek pal anjaan ke busy din ki kalpana kijiye, bina koi faisla kiye
- Gaur kijiye ki kaun si bhalai dena aapko bina jawab ke bhi achha lagta hai
Ek chun lijiye, ya koi nahi. Ye bas sujhav hain.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Kiska shukriya, kisi ka bhi, kabhi ka bhi, aapke saath sabse lambe waqt se tika hai?
- Anjaan logon ke liye kaun si bhalai karna aapko sabse achha lagta hai, aur wahi kyun?
- Jis ghar mein aapka bachpan beeta, wahan shabdon ke bina shukriya kaise kaha jaata tha?
- Shukriya ka intezaar thoda chhod dein, to dena kaisa lagega?
- Apni kaun si chhoti bhalaiyan aap bas apne liye aur zyada mehsoos karna chahenge?