“sab achha chalta hai toh kuch gadbad ka intezaar rehta hai” par log aksar kya karte hain?

Achhi khabar tab tak kisi ko na batana jab tak pakki na lage. Har achhi baat ke saath “Dekhte hain” jod dena. Shaant hafta yahi jaanchte bitana ki kya bigad sakta hai. Koi aur kahe, usse pehle apni jeet ko halka kar dena. Sabse bure ki itni taiyaari karna ki achha hissa nikal jaye.

Agle 3 din kya try kiya ja sakta hai?

Aaj ke ek achhe pal ka maza aage ki soche bina lijiye. Jo cheez achhi chal rahi hai, uska mann mein naam lijiye. Chinta aaye toh ek dheemi saans lijiye.

“sab achha chalta hai toh kuch gadbad ka intezaar rehta…

Andar

Andar kya chal raha hai #

Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.

Par jab koi mushkil sach mein aati hai, toh intezaar kiya ho ya na kiya ho, dard lagbhag utna hi hota hai.
Kuch logon mein ye us ghar se shuru hua jahan achhe dinon ke baad aksar mushkil din aate the: khushi ki chhutti ke baad tanav bhara hafta, achhe mahine ke baad bhaari mahina.
“Gadbad ka intezaar rehta hai” ke neeche kuch logon ko ek chup-sa saudaa milta hai: “Achhi cheezon ki keemat chukani padti hai.”

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Log aksar kya karte hain #

Achhi khabar tab tak kisi ko na batana jab tak pakki na lage
Har achhi baat ke saath “Dekhte hain” jod dena
Shaant hafta yahi jaanchte bitana ki kya bigad sakta hai
Koi aur kahe, usse pehle apni jeet ko halka kar dena
Sabse bure ki itni taiyaari karna ki achha hissa nikal jaye

Deck

6 cards mein poori kahani #

Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.

Ek achha Sunday, aur parchhai
Jaipur mein Sunday ki subah. Sab achha chal raha hai: nayi job achhi hai, ek dosti gehri ho rahi hai, raat ko neend achhi aayi. Balcony mein chai ka cup hai, aur maza lene ki jagah mann mein aata hai: “Ye tikega nahi, kuch bura aane wala hai.” Chamakti subah saamne hai, aur kandhe dheere-dheere upar chadhne lagte hain. Baaki sab kuch pal bhar ko chup ho jaata hai.
Achha chalne par gadbad ka intezaar
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Sab achha chale, toh kuch gadbad ka intezaar karo.” Ye saavdhaani jaisa lagta hai, shayad samajhdaari bhi, aur zyadatar log sir hila denge. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: achhe pal poore hone se pehle hi chura leta hai. Achha din maze ki jagah pehre mein beetta hai, aur khushi aisi cheez ban jaati hai jismein kabhi baitha nahi jaata.
Achhe din achanak kyun khatam hue
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki achhe din kabhi achanak khatam hue the. Bahut log is niyam ka koi roop saath lekar bade hote hain, aur tab ye aksar theek bhi tha. Shayad zindagi ne sikhaya ki shaanti ke baad mushkil aati hai. Shayad khud ko bachane ke liye chaukanna rehna seekha. Pehra bewakoofi nahi. Wo achanak pakde na jaane ki chaah se aata hai. Use narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har achhe din par parchhai
Har achhe din ke saath ek parchhai chalti hai. Ye dheere-dheere hota hai, isliye pakadna mushkil hai. Bahar se kuch nahi dikhta, par aap mehsoos karte ho. Maza lene se haath ruk jaate hain. Buri khabar ke liye kandhe kas jaate hain. Shaant zindagi mein bechaini hoti hai. Achhe pal aadhe dekhe guzar jaate hain, aur aise jeena shuru ho jaata hai jaise mushkil din aa hi chuke hon.
Kya ye intezaar keemat ke layak hai?
Imaandaari se poochiye: kya gadbad ka intezaar karne se kabhi mushkil aana ruka? Ya zyadatar achhe pal tab churaye gaye jab wo maujood the? Mushkilein bhi aati hain, achhe din bhi, aur pehra ye nahi badalta ki agla kaun sa hai. Shaant din agli mushkil ka paimana nahi. Kya is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadna uski keemat ke layak hai?
Achha din achha rah sakta hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye dikhawa nahi ki kuch bura kabhi nahi hota. Matlab ye ki achhe din ko achha rehne ki ijaazat hai, jab tak wo hai. Chai pi ja sakti hai aur chamakti subah ko chamakne diya ja sakta hai. Ye ek baar mein nahi hota, aur hona zaroori bhi nahi. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: achhe pal thehar paate hain, aur unmein raha ja sakta hai, sirf unki rakhwali nahi.
If the watching is because someone in your life can turn suddenly, or staying alert keeps you safe from harm or fear, that is something else, and worth taking seriously.

Palat

Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #

Purana ruleSab achha chale, toh gadbad ka intezaar karo.

Try karne ke liye naya ruleAchhe din ko achha rehne ki ijaazat hai.

Teen chhote din

3 din try kijiye #

Din 1
Aaj ke ek achhe pal ka maza aage ki soche bina lijiye
Din 2
Jo cheez achhi chal rahi hai, uska mann mein naam lijiye
Din 3
Chinta aaye toh ek dheemi saans lijiye

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Aur gehraai mein #

Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.

Yeh kaisa lagta hai

Kya kaha gaya

Achhi khabar ke saath aane wali soch #

“Sab achha chal raha hai, toh kuch na kuch gadbad hone wali hai.” Email mein joining letter padhte hue. Hafton baad pehle shaant hafte mein. Ya chachere behen ki shaadi mein, jab pehli baar kisi baat par kisi ki bahas nahi hui.

Ye aksar udaas nahi lagti, samajhdaari jaisi lagti hai: “Zyada khush mat ho.” “Dekhte hain.” “Nazar na lag jaye.” Ye saavdhaani jaisa mehsoos hota hai, jaise chalti bus mein haath railing par rakhe rehna.

Aakhri baar kab koi achhi khabar aayi aur aapne khud ko thoda rok liya?Is par baat kijiye ›

Us pal aapne khud se kya kaha, aur kya kisi aur ne ye dekha?Is par baat kijiye ›

Pehle kuch pal

Aadhi muskaan, phir brake #

Kuch log ise aadhi muskaan ki tarah pakadte hain jo beech mein ruk jaati hai. Khabar aati hai, seene mein halki uchhaal hoti hai, aur phir kuch peeche kheench leta hai, jaise koi haath awaaz dheemi kar de.

Sharir usi waqt pehre par reh sakta hai jab dekhne ko kuch nahi hota. Chhuttiyon mein kandhe chadhe rehte hain, shaant shaam mein phone baar-baar uth jaata hai, aur jeet ki raat neend der se aati hai.

Achhi khabar ke baad pehle minute mein aapka sharir kya karta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Khabar ko andar aane deta hai, ya turant gadbad dhoondhne lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Yeh kyun lagta hai

Ye hifaazat jaisa lagta hai #

Gadbad ka intezaar chot ko halka karne ka tareeka lagta hai. Kuch bigde bhi toh jhatka nahi lagega. Ummeedein oonchi rakhkar achanak pakde jaane se ye zyada surakshit lagta hai.

Par jab koi mushkil sach mein aati hai, toh intezaar kiya ho ya na kiya ho, dard lagbhag utna hi hota hai. Intezaar zyadatar achhe hisse ko badalta hai. Achha hafta darwaze ki or dekhte hue beet jaata hai, aur aadha hi jiya jaata hai.

Agar pehra isliye hai ki aapki zindagi mein koi achanak palat sakta hai, ya satark rehna aapko surakshit rakhta hai, toh wo kuch aur baat hai aur gambheerta se lene layak hai; wahan pehra ek asli kaam kar raha hai.

Agar buri khabar ka intezaar chot kam nahi karta, toh ye intezaar asal mein kya dila raha hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Aur achhe dinon se chupchaap kya le raha hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Andar ki awaaz

Wo awaaz jo achhi khabar ko darwaze par rokti hai #

“Ye tikega nahi.” “Kuch na kuch toh hoga.” “Nazar na lag jaye.” Awaaz naram aur samajhdaar-si lagti hai, aur kuch achha hone ke chand second mein bol padti hai.

Kuch logon ko lagta hai ki wo achhi baat ko tohfe ki tarah nahi, udhaar ki tarah leti hai, jo wapas maanga ja sakta hai. Isliye achhi cheez kabhi dabbe se nikalti hi nahi. Wo bandhi rakhi rehti hai, darwaze ke paas.

Ye kiski awaaz jaisi lagti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Aakhri baar ye kab sahi nikli?Is par baat kijiye ›

Aur barson ki imaandaar ginti mein, kitni baar kuch bura aaya hi nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›

Yeh kahan se aata hai

Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai

Pehra kahan se shuru hua #

Kuch logon mein ye us ghar se shuru hua jahan achhe dinon ke baad aksar mushkil din aate the: khushi ki chhutti ke baad tanav bhara hafta, achhe mahine ke baad bhaari mahina. Palatne ka intezaar karna ek bachche ke liye chatur baat thi.

Kuch mein ye kisi ek bade jhatke se aaya: achhi khabar jo bikhar gayi, aakhri waqt par badla hua plan, wapas le liya gaya nateeja. Ek tez giraavat insaan ko barson taiyaar rehna sikha sakti hai.

Achhi khabar ke saath sambhalkar rehna pehli baar kab zaroori laga?Is par baat kijiye ›

Tab uske baad kya hua, aur aapne achhi khabar ko door se thamna kab seekha?Is par baat kijiye ›

Iske neeche ki maanyata

Neeche baitha saudaa #

“Gadbad ka intezaar rehta hai” ke neeche kuch logon ko ek chup-sa saudaa milta hai: “Achhi cheezon ki keemat chukani padti hai.” Ya: “Agar dheel di, toh kuch chook jayega.” Pehla vaakya aadat hai; saudaa use chalata hai.

Ye saudaa kabhi samajhdaari tha. Agar achhe dinon ke baad sach mein mushkil aati thi, toh chaukanna rehna sahi tha. Un dinon ke liye ye achha niyam tha, bhale hi aaj tak duty par tainaat ho.

Kya inmein se koi fit baithta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Kya aaj aapki zindagi ki achhi cheezein sach mein bill ke saath aati hain?Is par baat kijiye ›

Kaun si aayi, aur kaun si bas aa gayi aur badle mein kuch nahi maanga?Is par baat kijiye ›

Iski kya keemat hai

Gadbad ke intezaar ki keemat #

Iska matlab ho sakta hai ek promotion jiski mithai kabhi nahi banti, ek chhutti jo office ka mail dekhte beeti, ek achha nateeja jo kisi ko nahi bataya, ya ek shaant Sunday jo poore waqt tanav bhara laga.

Kuch log kehte hain ki achhe din aapas mein ghul jaate hain, kyunki wo unmein poori tarah the hi nahi. Kuch ko lagta hai ki wo shaant daur se zyada sankat mein sahaj hain, kyunki sankat zyada jaana-pehchana hai.

Ye koi kami nahi. Sharir achhe palon mein bhi pehra deta rahe, toh aisa hi hota hai.

Pichhle saal iski keemat kya rahi: koi jeet jo manayi nahi gayi, koi shaam jiska maza nahi liya gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›

Agar yeh aisa hi rahe

Kuch saal baad ka ek aam Tuesday #

Ek tasveer ki tarah dekhiye, bhavishyavaani nahi: kuch saal baad ka aam Tuesday, jab “Gadbad ka intezaar” ab bhi duty par hai.

Shayad boss ki ek achhi baat, school se bachche ki achhi report, dhoop wala lunch break, aur har ek par halka-sa “Dekhte hain.” Kuch natakiya nahi. Bas achhe pal, jinhein door se thama gaya.

Yahan kuch sahi dekhna zaroori nahi, aur theek karne ko kuch nahi.

Din mein kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Kaun si achhi cheezein hoti hain, aur unse kaise mila jaata hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Us Tuesday aur uske chhote achhe palon ko dekhkar, agar kuch, toh aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka

Achha hafta udhaar nahi hai #

Zindagi mushkilein laati hai, aur achhe din unhein rokte nahi. Par achha hafta aur mushkil hafta koi len-den nahi hain. Wo aksar bas ek ke baad ek aate rehte hain, bina kisi ke hisaab rakhe.

Kuch logon ko ye samajhna kaam ka lagta hai ki kisi cheez ka poora maza lene se agli mushkil ki sambhavna nahi badhti. Tuesday ko khush hona kisi cheez ko nyota nahi bhejta. Wo bas ek khushnuma Tuesday hai.

Agar achhi khabar bina bill ke aaye, kuch dena na ho, toh aap use kaise bitayenge?Is par baat kijiye ›

Saavdhaan hissa lautne se pehle aap kya mehsoos hone denge, aur kitni der?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ise jaldi pehchanna

Dobara dekhne par log kya paate hain #

Gaur se dekhne par kuch logon ko dikhta hai ki jis gadbad ka intezaar tha, wo aksar aayi hi nahi. Nayi job bas job thi. Shaant mahina bas shaant tha. Pehra phir bhi poore waqt chalta raha.

Kuch ye bhi dekhte hain ki jab mushkil aayi, tab intezaar ne use roka nahi, aur aasaan bhi nahi kiya. Tab kaam ki cheez kuch aur thi: koi dost, thoda aaram, thoda waqt.

Pichhle achhe daur ko yaad kijiye.

Gadbad aayi kya?Is par baat kijiye ›

Aur agar baad mein koi mushkil aayi, toh kya us saare intezaar se usmein madad mili?Is par baat kijiye ›

Isse sulah

Pehra band karna pehli shart nahi #

Is yakeen se sulah ka matlab saari saavdhaani band karna nahi. Thodi yojana samajhdaari hai. Maqsad ye hai ki pehra kamre ke kone mein baithe, darwaze par khada na rahe.

Saavdhaan hissa reh sakta hai, aur achhi khabar ko bhi uska pal mil sakta hai: ek cup chai, kisi dost ko phone, ya mann hi mann chupchaap “Achha hua.”

Kaisa lagega agar ek achha pal das minute ke liye bas achha rahe, aur saavdhaan hissa bahar intezaar kare?Is par baat kijiye ›

Is hafte kis pal par aazmayein?Is par baat kijiye ›

Ek zyada sachcha vaakya

Paas rakhne ke liye ek sachcha vaakya #

“Gadbad ka intezaar” se bahas karne ki jagah kuch log aisi line paas rakhte hain: “Achhe din bhi aate hain, mushkil din bhi. Ye din jab tak hai, iska maza liya ja sakta hai.” Purani line se ladna zaroori nahi.

Shuru mein ye sach na bhi lage. Kuch logon ke liye aisi line se achhe ka thoda aur hissa kamre mein tikta hai. Kuch ke liye koi aur line baithti hai. Dono theek hain.

Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo ye bhi maanta ho ki mushkil din aate hain, aur achhe dinon ko bhi kuch ginne de?Is par baat kijiye ›

Kya rehne dein

Jab pehra laut aata hai #

Kuch din pehra zor se lautta hai, aksar kisi bahut achhe pal ke theek baad. Ye purani aadat hai jo wahi kar rahi hai jo usne seekha tha. Iska matlab ye nahi ki kuch aane wala hai.

Kuch logon ko naam de dena kaam ka lagta hai: “Lo, phir aa gaya pehra.” Wo kamre mein reh sakta hai. Bas use shaam chalani nahi hai, na din par aakhri baat kehni hai.

Aaj raat ise neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki chinta bekaar thi, ya baat suljh gayi. Bas itna ki aaj ki achhi cheez ko bhi thodi jagah mile.

Wo jagah kaisi dikhegi?Is par baat kijiye ›

Agar yeh dheela pade

Aur agar pehra thoda bhi dheela ho #

Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki pehra ek darja dheema hai. Mushkil din ab bhi aate-jaate hain, par jaanch shuru hone se pehle achhi khabar ko andar jagah mil jaati hai.

Kai log pehle chhoti baatein batate hain: achhi khabar usi din kisi dost ko batayi gayi, chhutti jismein phone bag mein hi raha, shaant shaam jo bas shaant lagi.

Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai, aur gaur karne layak hai. Agar ise theek se dekhna chahein, toh baatcheet bas ek tap door hai.

Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›

Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›

Try karne ki chhoti cheezein

Try karne ke liye kuch

Kuch cheezein jo logon ko kaam ki lagti hain #

Achhi khabar aaye toh “Dekhte hain” kehne ki ichha par dhyaan dijiye
Aaj ki ek achhi baat ko ek minute ke liye bas achhi rehne dijiye
Jab awaaz kahe “Ye tikega nahi”, usse poochiye: tumhein kaise pata?
Aaj ka ek shaant pal bina ye jaanche dekhiye ki kya galat hai
Chhoti jeet ko mann mein chupchaap “Achha hua” kehkar chinhit kijiye

Chhote aur sab apni marzi se. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.

Ek sawaal chuniye

Baat kijiye #

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Mann mein baar-baar “sab achha chalta hai toh kuch gadbad ka intezaar rehta hai” kyun aata hai?