Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Ye aur chubhta hai jab hamesha wahi chand log safai karte hain.
Kuch log paate hain ki ye us ghar se shuru hui jahan subah-subah dehleez dhulti thi aur seedhiyan sabki zimmedaari thin.
Andar kahin ek niyam baith sakta hai: “Sabko apna phailaya khud saaf karna chahiye,” ya “Main na karoon, to koi nahi karega.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Khud saaf kar dete hain, aur andar hi andar chidhte hain
- Jaan-bujhkar pada rehne dete hain, dekhne ke liye ki koi aur uthata hai ya nahi
- Building ke group mein bina naam liye ek tasveer daal dete hain
- Saleeqe ka ek note chipkate hain, phir kam saleeqe wala doosra
- Dekhna band kar dete hain, taaki kam chubhe
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Seedhi par phir kachre ki thailiyan
Tuesday ki geeli shaam, Ludhiana, Model Town ka flat. Lambe din ke baad aap thakaan liye lautte ho. Saajhi landing phir bikhri hai: seedhi ke paas kachre ki thailiyan, toota chhaata, har taraf joote. Aap saamaan liye aah bharte hue sab bachakar nikalte ho. Apna taala kholte-kholte ghar aane ki saari khushi utar jaati hai, aur kasa hua chidh-sa reh jaata hai.
Saajhi jagahein saaf rakhi jaayein
Iske neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Padosiyon ko sabki jagahein saaf rakhni chahiye.” Ye poori tarah vaajib lagta hai. Saajhi jagahein sabka kaam hain. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: har baar ghar lautne par landing aapka mood tay karti hai. Aap apna darwaza paar karne se pehle hi kheejhe hote ho, saamaan ke saath kisi aur ki gandagi bhi dimaag mein dhote.
Saaf pravesh-dwaar izzat kyun lagta hai
Hum ye niyam isliye pakadte hain kyunki saaf pravesh-dwaar izzat jaisa lagta hai. Shayad aapka bachpan aise ghar mein beeta jahan sab subah apni dehleez dhote the. Shayad aap hamesha apna phailaya sametate ho, aur chupchaap doosron se bhi wahi ummeed rakhte ho. Saaf saajhi jagahein chaahna sanak nahi hai. Wo sukhad ghar lautne ki chaah se aati hai, aur use dosh nahi, narmi chahiye.
Kiska kachra hai, ye ginna
Har bikhra din thodi chidh jodta hai. Aap ginne lagte ho ki kis thaili ka kachra kiska hai. Apne hisse se zyada saaf karte ho, aur shaam bhar kudhte ho. Seedhiyon par hi kas jaate ho, landing dekhne se pehle. Ghar lautna raahat nahi lagta, kisi behes mein ghusne jaisa lagta hai jiske baare mein kisi aur ko pata hi nahi.
Kya ye ginti iske layak hai?
Imaandaari se puchhiye: kya landing par chidhne se wo kabhi saaf hui? Ya zyada-tar ghar lautne ki khushi hi gayi? Logon ko gandagi bahut alag-alag jagah dikhti hai, aur jo ek ko chubhe, doosre ko lagbhag dikhe hi nahi. Jo bhi ho, landing aapke ghar ka paimana nahi hai. Kya is niyam ko itna kaskar pakadna uski keemat ke layak hai?
Ghar apne darwaze se shuru
Chhodne ka matlab ye maan lena nahi ki gandagi theek hai. Matlab ye ki ghar lautne par landing ab aapka mood tay nahi karti. Aap usse aage nikal sakte ho, taala khol sakte ho, aur use bahar chhod sakte ho jahan wo hai. Yahin se thoda chain lautta hai: aapka ghar apne darwaze se shuru hota hai, aur andar ki shaam phir bhi achhi ho sakti hai.
Rubbish that blocks a fire exit, draws pests or makes the stairs unsafe is a safety matter, not a hope to loosen; it is worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleSaajhi jagahein unhein saaf rakhni chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleGhar mere darwaze se shuru hota hai. Landing bahar reh sakti hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Ghar pahunchkar darwaza kholne se pehle ek saans lijiye
- Din 2
Apne flat ko achha lagane ke liye ek kaam kijiye
- Din 3
Ek padosi par gaur kijiye jo cheezein saleeqe se rakhta hai
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aap kahan rahe ho jahan sab achhi tarah sambhala hua lagta tha, aur kyun?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Seedhiyon par phir kisi ka kachra #
Landing par kachre ki thaili phir tapak rahi hai, aur seedhiyon se neeche kuch chipchipa-sa nishaan chala gaya hai. Aap usse bachkar nikalte ho, phir aah bharte ho, saamaan rakhte ho, aur khud uthakar neeche le jaate ho. Upar lautte hue shabd aa jaate hain: “Padosiyon ko sabki jagahein saaf rakhni chahiye.”
Kuch logon ke liye ghar apne darwaze se shuru nahi hota. Wo gate se shuru hota hai, seedhiyon se, galiyare se, saajhi rasoi se. Jab wo jagahein gandi hon, to lagta hai ghar khud chhota aur bikhra ho gaya.
Koi aisi building, hostel ya saajha ghar yaad kijiye jahan saajhi jagahein theek rakhi jaati thin.
Wahan kya cheez kaam kar gayi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Sikudi naak, kasa hua jabda #
Kuch logon ki naak sikud jaati hai aur jabda kas jaata hai gandagi dekhte hi. Kuch ko ek jhatke ka gussa aata hai, aur phir bhaari thakaan, kyunki pata hota hai ki uthana kise padega.
Sharir aksar dimaag se pehle harkat karta hai: ek kadam peechhe, ruki hui saans, padosiyon ke darwaazon par ek nazar. Lambe khayal aksar jhaadu lagate ya thaili neeche le jaate hue aate hain.
Pichhli baar jab koi saajhi jagah gandi mili, tab kisi bhi khayal se pehle aapke sharir ne kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Saajhi jagah sabka ghar hai #
Saajhi jagahein saaf chaahna jaayaz hai. Seedhiyan, galiyare aur saajhi rasoi wahan ka hissa hain jahan aap rehte ho. Gandi landing ek saleeqe se rakhe flat ko bhi kam apna bana sakti hai.
Ye aur chubhta hai jab hamesha wahi chand log safai karte hain. Jise parwaah ho, use istemaal hota mehsoos hone lagta hai, aur wo ehsaas kachre se bhi bhaari ho sakta hai. “Maintenance toh dete hain, phir bhi” wali baat yahin se aati hai.
Kisi achhe din agar sab apna chhota hissa karein, to saajhi jagahein kaisi dikhengi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Seedhiyon par bolti awaaz #
“Sab mere hi zimme.” “Kya inke ghar mein bhi aise rehte hain?” “Har koi sochta hai koi aur utha lega.” Ye awaaz aksar seedhiyon par bolti hai, jab haath mein kachre ki thaili ho.
Kai log paate hain ki awaaz aadhi gandagi ke baare mein hoti hai aur aadhi insaaf ke baare mein. Gandagi asli hai. Hamesha wahi parwaah karne wale rehna bhi asli ehsaas hai, aur alag se gaur karne layak hai.
Seedhiyon par jab ye awaaz bolti hai, to wo sabse zyada kya chahti hai ki baaki padosi dekh lein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Saajhi jagahon ki parwaah kahan se aayi #
Kuch log paate hain ki ye us ghar se shuru hui jahan subah-subah dehleez dhulti thi aur seedhiyan sabki zimmedaari thin. Saajhi jagahein saaf rakhna achhe padosi hone ka hissa ban gaya.
Kabhi ye hostel, saajhe flat ya bhare hue gharon se aati hai, jahan gandagi jaldi jama hoti thi aur kisi ko aage aana padta tha. Baar-baar wahi bannne ke baad, kaun karta hai aur kaun nahi, is par tez nazar ban jaati hai.
Aapki zindagi mein kisne saajhi jagahon ki aisi parwaah ki jo aapko achhi lagi, aur wo roz kya karta tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Apna hissa karne ka niyam #
Andar kahin ek niyam baith sakta hai: “Sabko apna phailaya khud saaf karna chahiye,” ya “Main na karoon, to koi nahi karega.” Pehla vaajib niyam hai. Doosra aapko bina kahe building ka muft safaiwala bana sakta hai.
Saaf ki samajh logon mein bahut alag hoti hai: wo kaise pale, kitne vyast hain, aur unhein kya dikhta hai. Kuch ko wo gandagi dikhti hi nahi jo aapko dikhti hai.
Apna hissa karne wala aapka niyam is building mein kahan baithta hai, aur kahan aapse sabka hissa karwa deta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Gandagi kya le ja sakti hai #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai har baar andar aate chidh, doosron ki gandagi par beetta waqt, ya baghal walon ke liye ek thanda ehsaas. Ek-ek karke ye ghar lautne ko bojh-sa bana sakte hain.
Ye aapko bhi andekha-sa mehsoos karwa sakta hai. Agar parwaah karne ka matlab hamesha zyada karna ho, to parwaah rakhna mushkil ho jaata hai, aur aapka wo hissa jise cheezon ki dekhbhal pasand hai, thakne lagta hai.
Pichhle mahine mein kab aap saaf, achhe-se pravesh-dwaar par lautey, aur wo kaisa laga?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Landing par aur thailiyan #
Ek pal ke liye ye drishya sochiye. Aage kabhi aap ghar lautte ho aur seedhiyon par phir kisi ka kachra milta hai, aur aap phir utha lete ho.
Shayad gharwalon se tunakmizaji, building ke group ke liye likhi lambi post, lift mein kisi padosi ko ek thandi nazar.
Jo chahein is tasveer se le lijiye, baaki chhod dijiye; ye poorvanumaan nahi hai.
Us shaam ka baaki hissa kaisa hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us shaam mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhte hue sabse zyada kya ubharta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Alag aankhein, alag gandagi #
Kuch padosiyon ko sach mein waisi gandagi nahi dikhti jaisi aapko dikhti hai. Kuch lambi shiftson, chhote bachchon ya kisi ki dekhbhal ke beech bhaag rahe hain, aur seedhiyan unke khayal mein sabse aakhir mein aati hain.
Isse ye insaaf nahi ho jaata, aur saajhi jagahein saaf chaahna vaajib hai. Ho sakta hai gandagi unke din aur aadaton ki baat ho, aapko bheja gaya koi sandesh nahi.
Agar aap gandagi ko kisi vyast, thake padosi ki nishaani ki tarah dekhein, to seedhiyan tab kaisi dikhengi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jo pehle se sambhala hua hai #
Gandagi ke baghal mein kuch cheezein shayad aapke paas pehle se hon: koi padosi jo kabhi jhaadu laga deta hai, hafte mein aane wala safaikarmi, galiyare mein kisi ka zinda rakha hua gamla, aur apne darwaze ko sundar rakhne ka aapka apna tareeka.
Inse gandagi vaajib nahi ho jaati, aur saaf saajhi jagahon ki ummeed jaayaz rehti hai. Ye bhi sach hain, aur aapki building ka hissa hain.
Aapki building mein kya pehle se kuch sambhala hua dikhta hai, bhale thoda, jise aap aur gaur se dekhna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Parwaah rakhna, sab kuch dhoye bina #
Is sulah ka matlab ye maanna nahi ki gandagi theek hai. Bas itna badalta hai ki ghar lautne par landing aapka mood tay na kare. Jo kachra fire exit roke, keede-choohe bulaye ya seedhiyan asurakshit kare, wo suraksha ki baat hai, chhodne wali ummeed nahi; ise gambhirta se lene layak hai.
Agar koi padosi dhamkata hai, pareshaan karta hai, aapka saamaan todta hai, peechha karta hai ya nazar rakhta hai, ya aapko isliye alag karta hai ki aap kya ho (dharm, jaati, rang, kahan se aaye ho, ya koi viklangta), to ye kuch aur hai, aur gambhirta se lene layak hai; saavdhaan rehna surakshit raasta ho sakta hai.
Aap jo ho uski wajah se doosron ke liye safai karwaya jaana, ya building ka naukar samjha jaana, wo bhi safai ka sawaal nahi; ise gambhirta se lene layak hai.
Jahan aap rehte ho wahan buniyaadi izzat aur suraksha “bahut zyada maangna” kabhi nahi hai, aapke liye bhi aur padosiyon ke liye bhi.
Is ummeed se sulah karke ghar lautne ki kalpana kijiye: apna darwaza kholte hi sabse pehle kya dikhega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Landing ke liye ek line #
“Padosiyon ko sabki jagahein saaf rakhni chahiye” ke baghal mein kuch log rakhte hain: “Mujhe is jagah ki parwaah hai, aur kitna dhona hai, ye mere chunne ki baat hai.” Pehli line vaajib rehti hai. Doosri aapki parwaah ko bojh banne se bachaati hai.
Shuru mein ajeeb lag sakti hai. Kuch log ise chhota karke “parwaah hai; sab dhona nahi hai” kar lete hain. Kuch apne mutabik koi line dhoondh lete hain.
Aapki apni sachchi line kya hogi, jo building ki parwaah bhi rakhe aur aapki apni had bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Aaj raat gandagi kisi aur ki ho sakti hai #
Seedhiyon ki har thaili aaj raat aapko hi uthani ho, zaroori nahi. Use dekha ja sakta hai, usse bachkar nikla ja sakta hai, aur is ek baar kisi aur ke haath ke liye chhoda ja sakta hai.
Saaf saajhi jagahon ki chaah reh sakti hai. Suraksha ke khatre, dhamkiyan, pareshaan karna, nuksaan, peechha ya nigraani, ya aap jo ho uski wajah se alag kiya jaana, kuch aur hai, aur gambhirta se lene layak hai; saavdhaan rehna surakshit raasta ho sakta hai.
Chhod dene ka matlab ye nahi ki sab sahi hai. Matlab ye ki aapki shaam seedhiyon par shuru hona zaroori nahi.
Aap use kis cheez se shuru karna chahenge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar landing thodi kam bhaari ho #
Usi shaam ko sochiye, ummeed ko thoda narmi se thaame. Aap utha lete ho, ya is baar chhod dete ho, aur seedhiyan chadh jaate ho, bina mann mein behes chalaye.
Kuch ke liye ye apna darwaza halke mann se kholna hai. Kabhi ye rasoi ki table par aaram se pi gayi chai hai.
Isme se kuch bhi kisi se baantna zaroori nahi. Agle cards is ummeed se sulah ki or jaate hain, aur uski or jo pehle se maujood hai.
Kya alag lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaun sa chhota badlaav aap sabse pehle pakdoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Koi ek saajhi jagah notice kijiye jiski dekhbhal ho rahi hai, bhale thodi
- Mann mein tay kijiye ki aap kya karne ko khush hain aur kya nahi
- Dhyaan dijiye kab awaaz kehti hai “sab mere hi zimme”
- Sochiye ki koi vyast padosi gandagi ke paas se bhaag raha hai
- Mann mein ek cheez ka naam lijiye jo ghar lautne mein aapko achhi lagti hai
Nijee, chhota aur apni marzi ka. Ek kaafi hai.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Aap kahan rahe ho jahan sab achhi tarah sambhala hua lagta tha, aur kyun?
- Aapke jaanne walon mein saajhi jagahon ki achhi dekhbhal kaun karta hai?
- Apni jagah ko sundar banane mein aapko kya achha lagta hai?
- Agar seedhiyon ki gandagi aapko kam khalti, to ghar lautna kaisa lagta?
- Ghar lautna pehle se kis cheez se achha lagta hai, bhale chhoti ho?