Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Logon ne pyaar jatana bahut alag gharon mein seekha: kisi ke yahan din bhar kaha aur dikhaya jaata tha; kisi ke yahan kaam karke dikhaya jaata tha, chhukar ya bolkar kam.
Kuch logon ke liye ye nani se aayi jo sabka haath thaam leti thin, ya us mausi se jo har phone kisi meethi baat par khatam karti thin.
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Sach mein chahte to jatate,” ya “Chhoti nishaaniyan nahi hain to garmahat chali gayi.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Chhote ishaare karte rehna aur ummeed rakhna ki ve pakad mein aayenge
- Ishaare karna band kar dena, aur intezaar karna ki koi pehle lautaye
- Aadhe mazaak mein gale lagne ya “Dhyaan se jaana” ke liye kehna
- Garmahat doston, gharwalon ya kisi pet mein dhoondhna
- Khud se kehna ki farq nahi padta, aur phir bhi mehsoos karna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
Chhate mein saath-saath wo jodaa
Wednesday ki shaam, Indore. Lautte hue bus mein aap dekhte ho ki ek jodaa ek hi chhate mein hai, ek hanste hue doosre ko paas kheench raha hai. Ghar par partner phone se nazar uthaye bina “Hi” kehte hain. Khaana theek hai, shaam theek hai. Par aapko yaad nahi aata ki unhone aakhri baar haath kab thama tha, aur seene mein chupchaap khaalipan-sa utar aata hai.
Care chhote dhang se dikhti hai
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Partner ko chhote-chhote tareeqon se pyaar jatana chahiye.” Ye jaayaz lagta hai. Ek cup chai, thama hua haath, dopahar ka ek sandesh: ye baatein maayne rakhti hain. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapko pehredaar ki tarah garmahat ki taak mein bitha deta hai. Har aam shaam nishaaniyon ke liye jaanchi jaati hai, aur jo bina unke guzarti hain, saboot jaisi lagne lagti hain.
Chhote ishaare itne saaf kyun lagte hain
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain ki chhote ishaare chahe jaane ka sabse saaf dhang lag sakte hain. Shayad aapka bachpan aise parivaar mein beeta jahan gale lagna aam tha. Shayad aap khud apni care chhote-chhote dhang se dikhate ho aur wahi lautne ki ummeed rakhte ho. Jo bhi ho, garmahat ki chhoti nishaaniyan chahna mohtaji nahi hai. Ye roz ki zindagi mein chahe jaane ke ehsaas ki chaah hai. Ise narmi chahiye, dosh nahi.
Har aam shaam ki khaali jagah
Bina chhoti nishaani ki har aam shaam thodi khaali jagah chhod jaati hai. Aap apne rishte ki tulna bason aur filmon ke jodon se karne lagte ho. Aap kam haath badhate ho, chupchaap intezaar karte hue ki ve pehle badhayein. Jinse pyaar hai unke paas rehkar bhi akelapan lagta hai. Jo garmahat maujood hai, wo anjaani lagne lagti hai, kyunki aankhein ek hi tarah ki nishaani itni shiddat se dhoondhti rehti hain.
Kya ishaare ki raah dekhna sahi hai?
Imaandaari se khud se poochiye: kya chhote ishaaron ki taak mein rehne se kabhi ve zyada mile? Ya shaamein zyada-tar aur khaali lagin? Log care kai alag dhang se dikhate hain: koi shabdon se, koi nipataye kaamon se, koi waqt dekar. Har kisi ka matlab kya hai, ye pakka koi nahi keh sakta. Jo bhi ho, ek chhoota ishaara is baat ka paimana nahi ki kya maujood hai. Kya is niyam ko itne kaskar pakadna sahi hai?
Care, kai roopon mein
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap garmahat chahna chhod do ya dikhawa karo ki farq nahi padta. Matlab ye ki bina thame haath wali shaam ko ab kuch saabit nahi karna padta. Aap us care ko dekh sakte ho jo doosre roopon mein aati hai: theek kiya gaya nal, bachakar rakhi gayi thaali, office tak chhodna. Yahin se kuch chain lautta hai: aap pehra dena chhodte ho, aur jo pehle se hai use dekhne lagte ho.
Being checked on, put down, threatened, hurt, pressured about sex or affection, or frightened of them is something else, and worth taking seriously; staying careful can be the safe choice.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleCare hoti to chhote dhang se dikhti.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleCare kai roopon mein aati hai. Unhein dekh paana mere haath mein hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Dekhiye ki partner care jatane ka kaun sa chhota tareeka apnate hain
- Din 2
Aaj apne liye koi ek chhoti garm cheez kijiye
- Din 3
Jab tulna shuru ho, ek dheemi saans lijiye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Jab aap chhote the, tab roz ki garmahat aapko kisne dikhayi, aur kaise?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Chhoti-chhoti garmahat wali baatein #
“Partner ko chhote-chhote tareeqon se pyaar jatana chahiye.” Ye kisi aam din ubhar sakta hai: WhatsApp ka jawab bas “ok”, subah darwaaze par chaabiyon aur bagon ke beech nipta hua alvida, ya ek hi sofa par shaam jisme beech mein poora cushion rakha ho.
Kuch logon ke liye baat bade izhaar ki hai hi nahi. Baat roz ki nanhi nishaaniyon ki hai: “Dhyaan se jaana”, bina kahe bana di gayi chai, bheed mein dabaya gaya haath, koi bewakoof-sa pyaara naam. Garmahat aksar inhi chhoti cheezon mein rehti hai.
Aapki zindagi mein kisi ki or se garmahat ki kaun si chhoti nishaani aapke saath reh gayi hai, theek-theek kya thi wo?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Haath badhana, aur uske baad ki chhoti chuppi #
Kuch logon ko halki-si doob mehsoos hoti hai jab chhota jawab lautta hai, ya jab badhaya haath thama nahi jaata. Kuch aur khud ko agla chhota ishaara rokte paate hain, ye dekhne ke liye ki pehle udhar se kuch aata hai ya nahi.
Ye pal bahut chhote aur tez ho sakte hain, is soch se bahut pehle ki saamne wala bas busy tha ya apne dhang se pyaar jatata hai. Kareebi ki chaah aur hamesha akele pehal na karne ki chaah ek saath aa sakti hain.
Pichhli baar jab aapka koi chhota ishaara poora lautaya nahi gaya, tab us pehle pal mein aapne kya mehsoos kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Garmahat aksar chhoti cheezon mein rehti hai #
Ye chaah samajh mein aati hai. Bade mauke saal mein kuch baar aate hain; beech ke aam din chhoti nishaaniyon se bharte hain. Jab ve nahi hoti, to rishta sahi chalta hua par thanda lag sakta hai, jaise saleeqe se chalta ghar jisme heater band ho.
Logon ne pyaar jatana bahut alag gharon mein seekha: kisi ke yahan din bhar kaha aur dikhaya jaata tha; kisi ke yahan kaam karke dikhaya jaata tha, chhukar ya bolkar kam. Isse aapki chaah chhoti nahi hoti; bas ho sakta hai nishaaniyan aisi bhasha mein hon jo aap dono ke beech abhi share nahi.
Kisi aam din garmahat ki kaun si chhoti nishaani aapke liye sabse zyada maayne rakhti hai, aur wahi kyun?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Wo awaaz jo chhoti nishaaniyan ginti hai #
“‘Dhyaan se jaana’ kehna itna mushkil tha?” “Hum hi hamesha pehal karte hain.” “Shayad bas roz ki bhaagdaud hai.” Ye awaaz aksar subah darwaaze par bolti hai, ya shaam ko sofa par.
Kuch log dekhte hain ki awaaz sirf zyada dhyaan nahi maang rahi. Wo aksar poochh rahi hoti hai ki roz ki aapadhaapi ke neeche garmahat ab bhi hai ya nahi, aur kya wo dikh sakti hai, sirf maan li nahi jaati.
Jab awaaz kehti hai “Hum hi hamesha pehal karte hain”, to wo sabse pehle kaun si chhoti nishaani dekhna chahti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Roz ki garmahat ki tasveer kahan se aayi #
Kuch logon ke liye ye nani se aayi jo sabka haath thaam leti thin, ya us mausi se jo har phone kisi meethi baat par khatam karti thin. Roz ki aisi garmahat din ke chhote paharon mein pyaar paane ki ek tasveer chhod jaati hai.
Kuch aur aise ghar mein pale jahan pyaar kam jatayaa jaata tha, aur khud se vaada kiya ki apne kareebi rishte in chhoti nishaaniyon se bhare honge. Dono itihaas roz ke pyaar ko bahut ahem bana sakte hain.
Aapki zindagi mein kaun chhoti, roz ki garmahat mein sabse achha tha, aur usne aisa kya kiya jo aapko ab bhi yaad hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Pyaar kaisa dikhta hai, is par bana niyam #
Andar ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Sach mein chahte to jatate,” ya “Chhoti nishaaniyan nahi hain to garmahat chali gayi.” Zubaan par chaah ishaaron ki hoti hai; niyam tay karta hai ki har aam din ka matlab kya hai.
Isme sachmuch wazan hai; roz ki garmahat ki ummeed jaayaz hai. Par yahi niyam us garmahat ko chook sakta hai jo doosre roopon mein aati hai, aur ek busy, bikhre hafte ko poore rishte ka faisla bana sakta hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko ghar mein pyaar jatayey jaane ke dhang tak le ja paate hain, kuch nahi.
Pyaar wala niyam kab aap par sahi baithta hai, aur kab bahut tang lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Chhoti nishaaniyon ki taak mein rehne ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai subahein jo alvida mein matlab dhoondhne mein beetein, sandesh jo garmahat ke liye parakhe jaayein, aur sofa ki shaamein jo thodi thandi lagein. Din kareeb hone ke mauke se bhara ho sakta hai, phir bhi ajeeb tarah se sapaat lage.
Mahinon mein kuch log dekhte hain ki ve apne chhote ishaare rokne lagte hain, pehle lautaye jaane ki raah dekhte hue, aur ghar thoda aur thanda lag sakta hai. Jo garmahat chahi thi, use shuru karna kisi ke liye bhi aur mushkil ho sakta hai.
Apni kaun si chhoti garm aadat aapko sabse zyada pasand hai, chahe wo kisi ke bhi liye ho, aur aap use kab karte ho?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Saalon baad bhi nishaaniyan padhte aam din #
Kuch saal aage ka ek aam Tuesday sochiye, jab “Chhote tareeqon se jatana chahiye” wala khayal ab bhi chupchaap chal raha hai. Bas ek tasveer, sudharne ko kuch nahi.
Shayad saath-saath ghar lautte hue sochna ki haath badhega ya nahi; ek sandesh jo garmahat ke liye do baar padha gaya; khade-khade pi gayi chai.
Ek khaaka, poorvanumaan nahi, aur jab chahein sameta ja sakta hai.
Usmein kya hai: darwaaze ka alvida, sandesh, sofa, chhote ishaare jo diye gaye ya roke gaye?Is par baat kijiye ›
Subah se raat tak wo Tuesday kaise beetta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek kadam peeche hatkar dekhein to us din ka kaun sa pal apni kisi garm cheez se bharna aap sabse zyada chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Pyaar ek hi bhasha mein nahi bolta #
Kuch log shabdon se pyaar jatate hain, kuch chhukar, aur kuch kaam karke: gaadi mein tel bhara hua, pasandida namkeen kharidi hui, chhata darwaaze par rakha hua. Kuch ko jatane ka koi raasta hi nahi milta, aur wo fasla asli hai.
Inmein se kuch bhi aapki chaah ko zyada nahi banata. Bas itna ki “Chhote tareeqon se jatana” mein kai ummeedein ho sakti hain: ek shabd, ek sparsh, ek chhota kiya hua kaam, ya bas ye nishaani ki garmahat ab bhi hai.
“Chhote tareeqon se jatana” ke andar kaun sa roop aapke liye sabse zyada maayne rakhega: shabd, sparsh, ya kiya hua kaam?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Aapke paas pehle se kya hai #
Thande dinon ke paas kuch garmahat pehle se aapki hai: dost jo phone kisi meethi baat par khatam karte hain, pet jo darwaaze par swagat karta hai, aur chhote ishaaron ka aapka apna hunar jo doosron ke din thode halke kar deta hai.
Ghar mein garmahat ki chaah jaisi hai waisi rehti hai. Hafte mein jo garmahat pehle se aap tak pahunchti hai, wo phir bhi pahunchti hai, aur uska jaisi hai waisi lutf uthaya ja sakta hai.
Aam hafte mein garmahat aap tak kahan se pahunchti hai, aur kis hisse ko aap zyada dekhna chahoge?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Har alvide ko padhe bina garmahat #
Is chaah se sulah ka matlab hai ki ek chhota alvida tay nahi karta ki garmahat chali gayi hai. Buniyadi izzat aur suraksha kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi hain, aapke liye bhi aur unke liye bhi. Pyaar jatana kisi bhi taraf se zaroori nahi thahraya ja sakta, na us par zor daala ja sakta hai.
Bahut alag baat hai jab: nazar rakhi jaaye, password maange jaayein, phone ya messages khangaale jaayein, paise par kabza ho, kaagzaat rakh liye jaayein, doston-gharwalon-kaam-padhai se door rakha jaaye, neecha dikhaya jaaye, chillaya jaaye ya unke mood ka dosh aap par aaye.
Waise hi dhamkiyan, chahe khud ko, aapko, kisi aur ko ya pet ko nuksaan ki hon ya private photos failane ki, dhakka dena, pakadna, kisi bhi tarah chot pahunchana, sex ya nazdeeki par dabaav, ya unse darr lagna. Ye kuch aur hai, gambhirta se lene layak, aur saath chalna ya savdhaan rehna surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Wo garmahat jo zyada-tar kisi daravni baat ke baad aati hai, us list mein aati hai, is chaah mein nahi. Chhoti roz ki nishaaniyon ki chaah jaayaz hai, aur reh sakti hai.
Kisi aam subah ki sochiye jisme thodi garmahat ho, jahan se bhi aaye: wo kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Darwaaze ke liye ek pankti #
Kuch log “Partner ko chhote-chhote tareeqon se pyaar jatana chahiye” ke bagal mein ek vaakya rakhte hain: “Mujhe garmahat ki aur chhoti nishaaniyan chahiye, aur mere hafte mein garmahat ek se zyada jagahon se hai.” Kisi ko jeetna nahi hai.
Shuru mein ye zara chhota lag sakta hai. Kuch ko lagta hai aisi pankti ek chhote alvide ko subah bigadne nahi deti; kuch ise badalte hain jab tak sachchi na lage. Apne shabdon mein koi bhi roop chalta hai.
Aapka apna vaakya kya hoga, jo garmahat ki chaah bhi rakhe aur aapke aam dinon ko bhi garm rakhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Ek chhota alvida bas ek alvida ho sakta hai #
Ek jaldbaazi wali subah ko rishte ka faisla nahi banna padta. Kuch ko jaane diya ja sakta hai, jaise darwaaza band hote waqt aayi thandi hawa: ek second mehsoos hui, phir din chal pada.
Inmein wo nahi aata jisme pyaar par zor daala jaaye, nazar rakhi jaaye, password maange jaayein, phone ya messages khangaale jaayein, paise par kabza ho, kaagzaat rakh liye jaayein, doston-gharwalon-kaam-padhai se door rakha jaaye, neecha dikhaya jaaye, chillaya jaaye ya unke mood ka dosh aap par aaye.
Waise hi dhamkiyan, chahe khud ko, aapko, kisi aur ko ya pet ko nuksaan ki hon ya private photos failane ki, dhakka dena, pakadna, kisi bhi tarah chot pahunchana, sex ya nazdeeki par dabaav, ya unse darr lagna. Ye gambhirta se lene layak hai, aur savdhaan rehna surakshit chunav ho sakta hai.
Ek alvide ko jaane dena chaah ke baare mein kuch tay nahi karta. Bas itna ki subah ka baaki hissa aapka ho sakta hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar nishaaniyan padhna zara dheela ho #
Bas ek tasveer ki tarah, ummeed ek paaydan dheeli hoti hai. Chhoti nishaaniyon ki chaah ab bhi hai, aur garmahat ab bhi kai jagahon se aa sakti hai.
Shayad shaam ki hawa chehre par lekar ghar lautna aur tahalne ka hi maza lena, ya kisi dost se lambi garm baatcheet jo hamesha meethi baat par khatam hoti hai.
Yahan kuch bhi kisi ko kehna nahi hai. Jo ubhre, aapka hai. Aage: is chaah se sulah ka matlab kya ho sakta hai, aur aapke paas pehle se kya hai.
Farq sabse pehle kahan dikhta hai, halka-sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapke liye pehli chhoti baat kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch private cheezein aazmane ko #
- Dekhiye ki garmahat ki kaun si chhoti nishaani aapke liye sabse zyada maayne rakhti hai
- Is hafte apne liye ek chhoti garm cheez ka lutf uthaiye
- Doston ya gharwalon se jo garmahat aap tak pahunchti hai, use dekhiye
- Roz ki garmahat ka koi pal yaad kijiye jis par aap ab bhi muskurate hain
- Dekhiye ki care ke kaun se roop ho sakta hai chhoot rahe hon, bas apni jaankari ke liye
Sab private, sab marzi ka. Jo sabse halka lage, wahi chuniye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Jab aap chhote the, tab roz ki garmahat aapko kisne dikhayi, aur kaise?
- Kisi ka kaun sa chhota ishaara aapke ek aam din ko behtar kar gaya?
- Apne chaheton ko aap kis tarah ki chhoti garmahat dena sabse zyada pasand karte ho?
- Agar chhoti nishaaniyan padhna zara dheela ho, to aam din kaise lagenge?
- Hafte mein garmahat aap tak kahan se pahunchti hai, aur kahan aur chahoge?