Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Bada badlaav paas aate hi shak badh jaana aam baat hai, aur parivar ke sawaal theek unhi shakon par aakar baith jaate hain.
Kuch logon mein ye kisi dost ke maa-baap ko nayi shuruaat manate dekh kar bani: naye kshetra mein pehle din ke liye mez par rakha cake.
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Parivar ko mujh par bharosa ho to wo har himmati kadam ka saath dega,” ya “Unki chinta ka matlab hai ki wo maante hain ki mujhse galti hui.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Naye kaam ke baare mein itna batana jitna kisi ne poochha bhi nahi
- Sabse badi company ka naam pehle bata dena, ki sawaal shaant ho jayein
- Ghar par sirf achhe hafte sunana, aur dheeme hafte doston ke liye rakhna
- Har phone ke baad poora faisla phir se tatolna
- Ghar par is vishay se bachna, aur phir us khaali jagah ko mehsoos karna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
“Itni achhi naukri thi”
Sunday ko aap ghar par batate ho ki accounts chhodkar graphic design mein jaane ki soch hai. Papa chup ho jaate hain. Mummy kehti hain, “Itni achhi pakki naukri thi.” Bhai hans kar poochhta hai, “Ab chitra banaoge?” Aap baat badal dete ho. Lautte waqt jo plan subah itna chamkila lag raha tha, ab nadaan lagne lagta hai.
Parivar naye raaste mein saath de
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Parivar wale mere career badalne ka saath dein.” Ye jaayaz lagta hai. Parivar ko aapke saath hona chahiye. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: apne chunaav par aapka bharosa unki manzoori ka intezaar karne lagta hai. Naya raasta mumkin lagega ya nahi, ab un logon par tik gaya jo shayad purana, surakshit raasta hi jaante hain, aur jo aapke liye dare hue bhi ho sakte hain.
Saath suraksha-jaal jaisa kyun lagta hai
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki parivar ka saath suraksha-jaal jaisa lagta hai. Shayad aapne bachpan mein suna ki kaun si naukriyan pakki maani jaati hain, aur ab us raaste se hatna chahte ho. Shayad aap hamesha unka garv chahte the, aur ye use jokhim mein daalna lagta hai. Jo bhi ho, saath chahna kamzori nahi. Ye chaahat hai ki sabse achhe se jaanne wale aapke peeche khade hon. Ise humdardi milni chahiye, ilzaam nahi.
Plan jo chhota lagne lagta hai
Har shak bhara vaakya aapke plan ko thoda chhota kar deta hai. Aap khud par shak karne lagte ho. Ghar par uski baat karna band kar dete ho. Raat ko jaag kar sochte ho ki kahin wo sahi toh nahi. Dheere-dheere naye raaste ka utsaah unki chintaon ke neeche dab jaata hai, aur aap apne sapne ko isse naapne lagte ho ki wo parivar ki mez par kaisa sunai deta hai, isse nahi ki andar kaisa lagta hai.
Kya unki haan chahiye hi?
Imaandaari se poochhiye: kya unke saath ka intezaar karne se aapka plan kabhi saaf hua? Ya zyadatar aur dagmaga gaya? Parivar aksar badlaav ka jawab chinta se dete hain; us chinta ke peeche kya hai, ye wahi jaante hain, aur naya raasta shayad unhe bas anjaana lagta hai. Jo bhi ho, unki chinta aapke chunaav ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itna kas kar pakadna aapko jitna deta hai, usse zyada leta hai.
Unki chinta pyaar hai
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap ummeed karna chhod dein ki wo maan jayenge. Matlab ye ki aapka bharosa unki manzoori ka intezaar nahi karta. Unki chinta ko pyaar ki tarah suna ja sakta hai, aur apna raasta kadam-kadam chala ja sakta hai. Yahin thodi shaanti lautti hai: aapka plan chamkila rehta hai, aur unka saath, agar baad mein aaye, tohfa banta hai, darwaze ki shart nahi.
Being threatened, hurt or frightened, watched, kept in or kept from people, having money used to control you, or being pressured to change who you are is something else, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleParivar wale mere career badalne ka saath dein.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleUnki chinta pyaar hai. Raasta phir bhi mera hai.
Teen chhote din
3 din try kijiye #
- Din 1
Bees minute apne naye hunar par lagaiye, bas khushi ke liye
- Din 2
Ek wajah sochiye ki ye raasta aapke liye kyun mayne rakhta hai
- Din 3
Ghar ki ek chintit baat ko “hum tumhe chahte hain” ki tarah suniye
Is par baat karni hai?
“Raasta badalne par kisne sabse zyada hausla badhaya, aur theek-theek kya kiya?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Badi khabar ke baad aane wala vaakya #
“Parivar wale mere career badalne ka saath dein.” Kuch logon ko ye pehli baar video call par mann mein sunai deta hai, naye kaam ka naam zor se bolne ke baad, jab screen par chhote-chhote chehre pal bhar ke liye tham jaate hain.
Ye ummeed kam aur aam insaaf zyada lagti hai: ek bada, socha-samjha faisla hua hai, aur sabse kareebi log shayad taali bajayenge, ya bas poochh lenge ki pehle hafte kaise rahe.
Naye raaste ko lekar parivar se ye chaah aakhri baar kab mann mein aayi thi, aur us waqt kisne kya kaha tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Beech vaakya mein aane wala sawaal #
Kuch logon ke kandhe sawaal poora hone se pehle hi chadh jaate hain: “Aur pakka hai ye?” “Jo itna padha, uska kya?” Safai apne aap shuru ho jaati hai, ye sochne se pehle ki kisne poochha aur kyun.
Kuch logon ko ek halki si thandak mehsoos hoti hai, aur agli baar khabar chhoti rakhne ka faisla ho jaata hai. Jo utsaah ek ghante pehle kisi dost ya colleague ko batate waqt tha, wo parivar ki mez par thoda shaant ho jaata hai.
Career badalne par parivar ke sawaal ka jawab dene se theek pehle aapne kya mehsoos kiya, aur wo kaise dikha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Himmat wale kadam ko taali ki ummeed rehti hai #
Is ummeed mein sachchi samajh hai. Raasta badalne mein himmat lagti hai, mahinon ka tol-mol lagta hai, kabhi-kabhi pad mein ek kadam peeche hatna padta hai. Isliye ye chahna ki aapko sabse achhe se jaanne wale is himmat ko dekhein, bahut aam chaah hai.
Bada badlaav paas aate hi shak badh jaana aam baat hai, aur parivar ke sawaal theek unhi shakon par aakar baith jaate hain. Wo shak koi bhavishyavaani nahi; kuch logon ke liye bada kadam andar se bas aisa hi lagta hai.
Agar parivar is badlaav par kisi ek chhote tareeke se taali bajata, to ek aam din wo kya karta?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Raaste ki safai deti awaaz #
“Kisi ne ek sachcha sawaal nahi poochha.” “Cousin ka hota to mithai bant jaati.” “Har faisle ke liye wajah kyun deni padti hai?” Ye awaaz aksar naye kaam par jaate raaste mein bolti hai, ya ghar ke phone ke baad jo “achha, phir baat karte hain” par khatam hua.
Ye chahna ki parivar bas dekh le ki badlaav ke peeche kitni soch thi, bahut insaani hai, par isse unhe andaaza lagana padta hai. Tol-mol ka zyadatar hissa aapke apne dimaag mein hua, aur unhone bas surkhi suni.
Jab ye awaaz career badalne ki safai deti hai, to faisle ka kaun sa hissa parivar ko sabse zyada samjhana chahti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Taali bajate parivar ki tasveer kahan se aati hai #
Kuch logon mein ye kisi dost ke maa-baap ko nayi shuruaat manate dekh kar bani: naye kshetra mein pehle din ke liye mez par rakha cake. Doosre parivar ne jo kiya, wo chupchaap parivaron ke karne ki tasveer ban jaata hai.
Kuch mein ye ghar se aayi: barson suna hua “jo mann kare wo karo”, jise hausla samjha gaya, ya kisi chacha-dada ki kahani jisne dhandha badla aur saraha gaya. Kuch parivaron mein pakki naukri ki taareef sabse zyada hoti hai, aur badlaav par pehle sawaal uthte hain.
Aapki zindagi mein sabse pehle kisne dikhaya ki raasta badalna himmat ka kaam ho sakta hai, aur unhone kya kiya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Kise taali milni chahiye, iska niyam #
Neeche ek niyam baitha ho sakta hai: “Parivar ko mujh par bharosa ho to wo har himmati kadam ka saath dega,” ya “Unki chinta ka matlab hai ki wo maante hain ki mujhse galti hui.” Pehla sentence wo hai jo log sunte hain; neeche ka niyam tay karta hai ki har sawaal kaise padha jayega.
Aisa niyam kam hi apna elaan karta hai. Wo aam insaaf jaisa lagta hai, aur isiliye aaj ke parivar aur naye kaam ke saath, achhe aur dheeme dono tarah ke hafton ke saath use dekhna kaam ka hai.
Kuch log aise niyam ko bachpan tak le jaate hain, kuch nahi. Dono tarah se ise dekha ja sakta hai.
Taali milne wala niyam kahan aaj bhi baithta hai, aur kahan nahi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Raaste ki safai dene ki keemat #
Iska matlab ho sakta hai naye kaam ke achhe hafte ko aadhe vaakya mein nipta dena, Diwali ki mulaqat dalil dohrane mein bita dena, koi chhoti asafalta chup rakhna ki kahin kisi ki baat sahi na sabit ho jaye. Har ek chhota hai; saal bhar mein kaafi jagah bhar dete hain.
Jab parivar ka har sawaal faisle par vote jaisa sunai de, to naye kaam ka maza lena mushkil ho sakta hai. Kuch log dekhte hain ki wo us chunaav par shak karne lage hain jis par pakke the, bas isliye ki uski itni baar safai deni padi.
Naye kaam ka koi aam pal sochiye: us par iska kitna rang tha ki parivar kya kahega?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Paanch saal aur, “pakka hai na?” ke saath #
Ek aam Tuesday ki tasveer banaiye, us din ki jab “parivar wale mere badlaav ka saath dein” zor se baj raha ho. Kisi ko is par kuch karne ki zaroorat nahi.
Shayad ghar ke phone par aap kisi project ka zikr karein aur vaakya poora hone se pehle “aur pakka hai ye?” sunai de; achha review ek pankti mein simat jaye; shaam faisle ko phir se tatolne mein beete.
Abhi kisi jawab ki zaroorat nahi, aur tasveer jab chahein rakhi ja sakti hai.
Usmein kya hai: naya kaam, ghar ke phone, messages, aur unmein jo chhoot gaya?Is par baat kijiye ›
Us din mein kya bhara hai, aur kya intezaar mein hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Use dekh kar, agar kuch, to aapko kya dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Saath dena, to kis shakl mein? #
“Saath dena” mein kai cheezein aa sakti hain: padosi se garv se baat karna, kaam ke baare mein sachcha sawaal, aur sawaal band kar dena, ya ye bharosa ki agla kadam bhi aapka hai. Inmein se kuch is par tiki hain ki parivar us kshetra ko kaise dekhta hai; kuch nahi.
Parivar ke kareeb hona aur apna raasta chunna saath chal sakte hain. Kuch log paate hain ki jo maa-baap badlaav par sawaal uthate hain, wo bhi naye kshetra ka lekh bhej dete hain, ya naye colleague ka naam yaad rakhte hain; kuch ke yahan aisa nahi hota, aur dono sach hain.
“Saath” shabd mein jo kuch bhara hai, usmein se aapke liye sabse zyada kya mayne rakhta hai, aur kya pehle se maujood hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Ghar se jo jaisa hai, waisa aata hai #
Jis taali ki aapne ummeed ki, uske saath ye bhi dekha ja sakta hai ki parivar se pehle se kya aata hai, chhota ya ooncha-neecha: koi bhai-behen jisne aapka pehla project aage bheja, koi maa-baap jo poochh lete hain ki aajkal aam din kaisa hota hai, koi relative jo naye pad ka naam thoda galat par pyaar se leta hai.
Inmein se kuch bhi chukane ka bill nahi, aur inhe dekh lene se taali ki chaah naajaayaz nahi ho jaati. Niraasha aur ek bhala ishaara, dono saath sach ho sakte hain.
Abhi koi misaal na soojhe to wo bhi asli jawab hai.
Aapke parivar mein koi aapke naye raaste ke liye pehle se kya laata hai, jise thoda aur yaad rakhna chahein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Isse sulah, aur naye kaam ke liye jagah #
Is ummeed se sulah ka matlab ye tay karna nahi ki parivar par taali bajana banta tha, ya ki chaah zyada thi. Matlab ye ki jis saath ki aapne ummeed ki aur jo mila, unke beech ka faasla ek aam din naya kaam kaisa lage, ise tay karna chhod de.
Iska jaayaz hissa reh sakta hai: himmat wale kadam ko dekha jaana chahna, apni wajahon ko seriously liye jaane ki chaah. Buniyadi izzat aur hifazat kabhi “zyada ummeed” nahi hoti, aapke liye bhi aur unke liye bhi.
Agar apna kaam chunne par dhamki mile, bahar kar diya jaye, nazar rakhi jaye, ghar mein band rakha jaye ya logon se kaata jaye, ya paise band kar diye jayein ya aapko kaabu mein rakhne ke liye istemaal hon, to wo kuch aur hai, aur use seriously lena theek hai; filhaal saath chalna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Is ummeed se sulah wali ek Monday subah ki kalpana kijiye: naye kaam ke kis hisse ka intezaar hoga, aur usi ka kyun?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Naye kaam mein saath le jaane ke liye ek vaakya #
“Parivar wale mere career badalne ka saath dein” se ulajhne ki jagah, kuch log taiyaar rakhte hain: “Taali ki chaah thi, aur ye badlaav phir bhi mera hai, iska anand mera hai.” Ise jeetna nahi hai, bas purane vaakya ke baghal mein khada rehna hai.
Shuru mein ye patla lag sakta hai. Kuch ko apna vaakya istemaal se aasaan lagne lagta hai; kuch ko wo kabhi theek nahi baithta, aur wo theek hai, kyunki doosri line hamesha aazmayi ja sakti hai.
Aapke apne shabdon mein sachcha vaakya kya hoga, jo ummeed ke baare mein imaandaar ho aur naya raasta aapke haath mein rakhe?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Kuch sawaal agli mulaqat tak ruk sakte hain #
Naye raaste ke har sawaal ka jawab isi hafte dena zaroori nahi. Kuch ko ek baar suna jaye aur rakh diya jaye, jaise darwaze ke paas rakha laptop bag.
Kuch parivar abhi ise poora samajh nahi paayenge, aur ise parakhne ki zaroorat nahi. Agar ghar par koi sachmuch buri tarah pratikriya deta hai, to use seriously lena theek hai, aur filhaal saath chalna surakshit chunaav ho sakta hai.
Aaj shaam is khayal ko neeche rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki wo achha tha, ya baat nipat gayi. Bas itna ki purane sawaalon ko kal kaam par aapke saath nahi jaana hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Aur agar pakad zara bhi dheeli ho #
Sirf tasveer ki tarah sochiye ki ye ummeed ek darja dheemi hai. Taali ki chaah ab bhi hai, par “pakka hai?” ek sawaal hai, poore faisle par faisla nahi.
Chhoti cheezein kaafi ho sakti hain: naye kaam ke baare mein vaakya poora kehna, kisi dost se ya sirf khud se; achha din bina saboot jama kiye manana; ya purana sawaal baad ke liye chhod dena.
Yahan kisi se kuch kehne ki zaroorat nahi. Jo bhi aaye, wo aapka hai. Agle cards mein dekhte hain ki is ummeed se sulah ka kya matlab ho sakta hai, aur pehle se kya maujood hai.
Sabse pehle kya alag lagta hai, zara sa bhi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Aapki pehli chhoti cheez kya hogi?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Kuch chhoti cheezein jo log aazmate hain #
- Career ka sawaal uthe, to jawab se pehle aane wale ehsaas ko dekhiye
- Is hafte naye kaam ka jo ek hissa achha laga, us par dhyaan dijiye
- Aaj ki ek cheez chuniye jo aapne chahi, chahe kitni bhi chhoti
- Chupchaap poochhiye: kiski manzoori ka intezaar ab bhi baaki hai, aur unhi ki kyun?
- Dekhiye ki mann mein banta jawab is sawaal ka hai ya kisi purane sawaal ka
Chhoti, nijee aur apni marzi ki. Jo aasaan lage, wo aazmaiye.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
Kisi ek par tap kijiye. Dr. Thoughts ke saath chat usi sawaal se khulegi: free, private, shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi.
- Raasta badalne par kisne sabse zyada hausla badhaya, aur theek-theek kya kiya?
- Naye kaam ka ab tak ka kaun sa din aapko sabse achhe se yaad hai, aur us din kya hua?
- Naye kaam ka kaun sa hissa aap chahenge ki parivar ek aam din mein dekhe?
- Agar parivar ke saath dene ki chaah thodi dheeli pade, to sabse pehle aapko kya dikhega?
- Aapke naye raaste ko ghar se ya kahin aur se, pehle se kya thoda sahara deta hai?