Andar
Andar kya chal raha hai #
Teen baatein jo aksar in shabdon ke neeche hoti hain.
Kuch gharon mein bado ki baat ka bahut wazan hota tha, aur kuch log wahi wazan paane ki ummeed liye bade hue.
Kuch zindagiyon mein ye us dada-nana se shuru hui jinki baat par har gharelu behes khatam hoti thi, aur jinke kisson ke liye sab chupchaap baithte the.
Khayal ke peeche aksar ek niyam hota hai: “Umar izzat kamati hai,” ya “Chhoton ko bado ki sunna chahiye.”
Reactions
Log aksar kya karte hain #
- Mez par kisse sunana band kar dena, taaki jhuke sir na dikhein
- Awaaz oonchi karna ya baat tab tak dohrana jab tak koi jawab na de
- Apni umar ya tajurbe ki yaad dilana: “Humne baal dhoop mein safed nahi kiye”
- Chup ho jaana aur baaki din mann bhaari rakhna
- Mobile aur aajkal ke bachchon ki shikayat karna
Deck
6 cards mein poori kahani #
Chhe chhote cards, us pal se chhod dene tak.
“Ab zamana badal gaya hai, Chacha ji”
Indore ke ghar mein chhat ki seelan par family meeting hai. Aap chalis saal ghar sambhalne ka apna tajurba batate ho. Bhateeja sir hilata hai, phir kehta hai, “Ab zamana badal gaya hai, Chacha ji,” aur apne phone par mud jaata hai. Chhote online quotation par baat karte hain. Kursi par peeche tike, aapko achanak purana aur kinare kiya hua lagta hai, jaise aapke saalon ki yahan koi ginti nahi.
Umar ke saath baat ki qadar ho
Neeche ek niyam baitha hai: “Umar badhi hai to meri baat ki qadar honi chahiye.” Ye jayaz lagta hai. Tajurba barson mein kamaya jaata hai. Par dekhiye ye karta kya hai: aapki keemat ka ehsaas chhoton ke jawab se baandh deta hai. Izzat mil rahi hai ya nahi, ab aisi duniya par tika hai jo bahut tez bhagti hai aur aksar rukkar poochhti nahi ki pehle kya tha.
Saal samajh kyun dete hain
Hum ise isliye pakadte hain kyunki saal samajh dete hain aur hum chahte hain ki uski qadar ho. Shayad aap aise ghar mein bade hue jahan bado ki hamesha suni jaati thi, aur apni baari par wahi ummeed rakhi. Shayad aapne itne mushkil raaste se seekha ki doosron ko wo takleef bachana chahte hain. Sune jaane ki chaah ghamand nahi. Ye mayne rakhne ki chaah se aati hai, aur narmi ki haqdaar hai, dosh ki nahi.
Ghar ki baatcheet mein chup rehna
Har taali gayi baat aapko thoda aur chhota feel karati hai. Aap family discussions mein chup rehne lagte hain. Tez nayi duniya se taalmel toota laga hai. Itne baras baad aap sochte ho ki jo aap jaante ho, uski kisi ko zaroorat bhi hai ya nahi. Dheere-dheere un baatcheeton mein jinhein kabhi aap chalate the, aap shisht mehmaan jaise lagne lagte ho, aur aapki samajh bheetar band, unistemaal rehti hai.
Sune jaane ka intezaar kitna zaroori?
Imaandaari se khud se poochiye: kya umar se izzat ki zaroorat ne kabhi unhein zyada sunaya? Ya zyadatar aapko aur kinare feel karaya? Chhote aksar naye tareeqon ki taraf bhagte hain aur peeche dekhna bhool jaate hain. Jo bhi ho, unki jaldi aapki samajh ka paimana nahi. Is niyam ko itna kasakar pakadne ki keemat wo hai jo ye aapko deta nahi.
Aapke saal ameer hain
Chhodne ka matlab ye nahi ki aapka tajurba mayne nahi rakhta. Matlab ye ki aapki qadar ka ehsaas ab doosron ke maangne par nahi tika. Aap jaante ho ki aapne kya seekha hai. Jagah ho to use halke se baantiye, aur na ho to garv se apne paas rakhiye. Yahin thoda chain lautta hai: suni jaye ya na suni jaye, aapke saal ameer aur poori tarah aapke hi rehte hain.
Being mistreated, threatened or frightened by anyone is something else entirely, and worth taking seriously.
Palat
Purana rule, aur try karne ke liye ek naya #
Purana ruleUmar badhi hai to meri baat ki qadar honi chahiye.
Try karne ke liye naya ruleMere saal ameer hain, sune jaayein ya na sune jaayein.
Agli baar ke liye
Agli baar try kijiye #
- Kadam 1
Koi ek cheez sochiye jo seekhi hai aur jis par khushi hoti hai
- Kadam 2
Kisi chhote se koi ek chhoti nayi cheez seekhiye
- Kadam 3
Aaj koi ek kaam kijiye jisse aapko saksham lage
Is par baat karni hai?
“Aapki zindagi ka kaun sa kissa sunana aapko sabse achha lagta hai?”
Free aur private. Shuru karne ke liye sign-up nahi. Chat isi sawaal se khulti hai.
Yeh deck jo kuch jaanta hai
Aur gehraai mein #
Yeh kaisa sunai deta hai, kahan se aata hai, iski kya keemat hai, aur ise dekhne ke doosre tareeke. Har sawaal par chat khulti hai.
Yeh kaisa lagta hai
Kya kaha gaya
Mez par shuru hui kahani, aur jhuke hue sir #
Sunday ka khana. Aap wo kissa sunane lagte ho ki purani dukaan kaise band hote-hote bachi, jisme asli seekh hai. Beech mein teen sir mobile par jhuk gaye. Koi kehta hai, “Haan-haan, pata hai, pata hai.” Tab ye baat chupke se chubhti hai: “Umar badhi hai to meri baat ki qadar honi chahiye.”
Ye office mein bhi ho sakta hai, jahan chhote saathi baat ke beech mein bol padein, ya bank ke counter par, jahan sawaal ka jawab dheemi aur oonchi awaaz mein mile.
Aapki zindagi mein kaun sach mein dhyan se sunta hai, chhota ho ya bada, aur wo aisa kya karta hai jisse ye dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Pehle kuch pal
Wo vaakya jo beech mein reh jaata hai #
Kuch log awaaz ko dheema padte aur vaakya ko adhoora chhootte feel karte hain. Kuch ko tez garmi lagti hai, aur “meri baat suno” chahe jitna na chahein, zor se nikalna chahta hai.
Kabhi ek chhoti, dukhti-si bhaavna bhi hoti hai ki hum purane pad gaye, jaise kamra kisi aisi zubaan mein baat karne laga jo humein sikhayi hi nahi gayi. Ye kisi bhi khayal se pehle aa jaata hai.
Aakhri baar jab aapki baat kati gayi ya taal di gayi, pehle hi pal mein aapki awaaz aur chehre ka kya haal tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kyun lagta hai
Saalon mein sachchi samajh jama hoti hai #
Is ummeed ke peeche kuch sach hai. Saal tajurba dete hain: galtiyan jo karke seekhi gayin, cheezein jo chhoton ne abhi dekhi nahi. Inki qadar chahna apni zindagi ki seekh ko ginaana chahna hai.
Kuch gharon mein bado ki baat ka bahut wazan hota tha, aur kuch log wahi wazan paane ki ummeed liye bade hue. Kamra jab wo nahi deta, to aisa lagta hai ki jo jagah vaade mein mili thi, wo chhin gayi.
Aapke saalon ne aapko kya sikhaya hai jo aap chahte hain ki aas-paas ke log jaanein aur sambhalkar rakhein?Is par baat kijiye ›
Andar ki awaaz
Purane pad jaane wali awaaz #
“Inhone sab pehle sun rakha hai.” “Inhein lagta hai mujhe kuch nahi pata.” “Hamare zamane mein log sunte the.” “Kahin sathiyane ke din toh nahi aa gaye?” Ye awaaz chot aur gusse ke beech jhoolti hai, aur aksar tab bolti hai jab koi vaakya ansuna reh jaye.
Aksar ye awaaz wahi maanne lagti hai jo kamra kehta dikhta hai: ki saalon ka gyaan purana hai aur ab kaam ka nahi. Ye yakeen agli baar bolna aur mushkil bana sakta hai.
Jab purane pad jaane wali awaaz bolti hai, to wo aapke gyaan ke baare mein kya maanti hai, aur kya chhod deti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Yeh kahan se aata hai
Yeh kahan se aa sakta hai
Bado ke samman ki tasveer kahan se aayi #
Kuch zindagiyon mein ye us dada-nana se shuru hui jinki baat par har gharelu behes khatam hoti thi, aur jinke kisson ke liye sab chupchaap baithte the. Bade hone par yahi milna hai, aisa mann mein baith gaya.
Kuch log aise daftaron mein bade hue jahan saalon ki naukri ka matlab rutba tha, aur kamre mein bade ki awaaz ka intezaar hota tha. Kamre badalte hain, aur sunne ki aadatein unke saath badalti hain.
Bachpan mein aap kis bade ki sabse zyada sunte the, aur unki sunne ka mann kyun hota tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iske neeche ki maanyata
Umar aur izzat ka niyam #
Khayal ke peeche aksar ek niyam hota hai: “Umar izzat kamati hai,” ya “Chhoton ko bado ki sunna chahiye.” Bahut se ghar isi niyam par chale hain. Par iska matlab ye bhi hai ki mez par har mobile aapke khilaf faisla lag sakta hai.
Kuch log is niyam ko apne bachpan se jodte hain, jab wo bado ke saamne chupchaap baithte the; kuch lambe career se. Jo bhi ho, aise niyam ko narmi se dekha ja sakta hai.
Aapki zindagi mein umar-aur-izzat ka niyam kahan sach baithta hai, aur kahan har tokna aapko faisle jaisa lagta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Iski kya keemat hai
Iski kya keemat hai
Sune jaane ka intezaar kya chheenta hai #
Kisse ansune reh jaate hain. Salah mann mein dabi rehti hai. Kuch log ghar ki baatcheet mein shaamil hona hi band kar dete hain, jisse unke paas bhi aur parivaar ke paas bhi kam bachta hai.
Kuch logon ka dukh teekha ho jaata hai, aur wo jo kehna tha usse zyada ye kehne lagte hain ki koi sunta nahi. Isse aas-paas ke logon ke liye sunna aur mushkil ho jaata hai.
Aapne haal mein kaun sa kissa ya salah rok rakhi hai, aur kiske sunne ki sabse zyada chaah hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Agar yeh aisa hi rahe
Phone mein beh jaane wale vaakya #
Ek aam family bhojan dekhiye, jab “umar badhi hai to meri baat ki qadar honi chahiye” zor se baj rahi ho. Mez, thaaliyan, unke paas rakhe phone. Ye bas ek khaaka hai, dekhne ke liye.
Shayad mez par vaakya shuru karna aur dhyan ko screen ki taraf behte dekhna, kissa beech mein katna, baaki bhojan chupchaap katna.
Ye ek bhojan hai, koi poorvanumaan nahi, aur aap kabhi bhi isse hat sakte hain.
Us bhojan mein aur kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya alag dikhta hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Ise dekhne ka doosra tareeka
Sunne ki shakl badli hai, sirf disha nahi #
Bahut se chhote haath mein phone ke saath bade hue. Screen par ek nazar aadat ho sakti hai, anaadar nahi. Kuch log paate hain ki chhote rishtedaar bheed bhari mez se zyada akele mein, sair ya gaadi mein behtar sunte hain.
Isse beech mein kata jaana theek nahi ho jaata, aur apne saalon ki qadar chahna jayaz rehta hai. Bas itna ki mez par jhuka sir aapki baat ki keemat se zyada aadaton ke baare mein kuch keh sakta hai.
Chhoton ne aapko kab achhe se suna hai, aur us pal mein kya alag tha?Is par baat kijiye ›
Jo pehle se hai
Jab aapki baat sach mein pahunchi #
Kuch pal shayad pehle se hain: koi chhota rishtedaar jisne wahi purana kissa dobara sunane ko kaha, koi junior saathi jo salah ke liye lauta, koi padosi jisne kaha “Aap sahi the.”
Inhein dekhne se mobilon se bhari mez nahi badalti. Ye unhi hafton mein hain, aise pal jab aapke saalon ka kisi ke liye matlab tha, aur jab aapki baat aakhri baar kati, to bhoolna aasaan hai.
Kiske sunne ko, haal ka ho ya purana, aap thoda aur dekhna aur saraahna chahenge, aur unhi ka kyun?Is par baat kijiye ›
Sulah
Baat ki keemat kamre ki khamoshi se nahi #
Sulah ka matlab taal diya jaana maan lena nahi hai. Apne saalon ki qadar chahna jayaz hai. Matlab ye ki aap jo jaante ho wo kehne layak hai ya nahi, iska faisla kamre ka dhyan na kare.
Izzat aur suraksha chahna hamesha jayaz hai. Kisi ka chillana, mazaak udana, aapke apne paise ya faislon se door rakhna, logon se kaat dena, ya darana, parivaar ka ho tab bhi, ye kuch aur baat hai. Ise gambhirta se lena chahiye, aur wahan saavdhaan rehna hi surakshit raasta ho sakta hai.
Agle family lunch ki kalpana kijiye jisme ye ummeed halke haath se thaami hai: aap wo kehte ho jo kehna tha, aur keh dene ki kaun si baat aapko achhi lagti hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Ek zyada sachcha vaakya
Bheed bhari mez ke liye ek pankti #
“Umar badhi hai to meri baat ki qadar honi chahiye” ke baghal mein kuch log aisi pankti rakhte hain: “Jo mujhe pata hai wo kehne layak hai, chahe poora kamra sune ya nahi.” Dono mein kisi ko jeetna zaroori nahi.
Toke jaane ke baad ye bahut shaant lag sakti hai. Kuch log apni hi pankti dhoondh lete hain, shayad wo jo unke apne bade kehte the.
Apne shabdon mein aap kya rakhenge, aisi pankti jo aapke saalon ka mol banaye rakhe aur aapki awaaz aapki hi rehne de?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kya rehne dein
Ansuna kissa behtar waqt ka intezaar kar sakta hai #
Har ansune vaakya ko aaj raat dohrana zaroori nahi. Use waise hi dekha ja sakta hai jaisa wo hai aur daraaz ki chitthi ki tarah rakha ja sakta hai, sahi sunne wale ke liye.
Sune jaane ki chaah aapki hi reh sakti hai. Kisi ke dwara bura bartaav ya daraya jaana bilkul alag baat hai, aur ise gambhirta se lena chahiye.
Ise baad ke liye rakhne ka matlab ye nahi ki taale jaana theek tha, ya kuch suljh gaya. Bas itna ki ye shaam aapki ho sakti hai.
Agar yeh dheela pade
Agar kamre ka dhyan thoda kam mayne rakhe #
Bas ek tasveer ki tarah, wahi mez sochiye, par ummeed thodi narm. Aap vaakya phir bhi keh dete ho aur kehne ka maza lete ho, chahe koi dekhe ya nahi.
Shayad kuch chhota: kissa poora hua, koi chhota jisne aakhir mein nazar uthayi, baad mein tehelte hue koi jo aur sunna chahe.
Jo bhi dikha wo aapka hai, aur use kisi darshak ki zaroorat nahi. Agle cards is ummeed se sulah par hain, aur us par jo pehle se yahan hai.
Pehla chhota fark kya hai?Is par baat kijiye ›
Kaun sa chhota badlav aap notice karte?Is par baat kijiye ›
Try karne ki chhoti cheezein
Try karne ke liye kuch
Chupchaap aazmane ke liye chhoti cheezein #
- Jo vaakya kehna tha wo keh dijiye, aur keh dene ka maza leejiye
- Is hafte us ek insaan par dhyan dijiye jisne dhyan se suna
- Jab aapki baat kate, to us bhaavna ko ek shabd ka naam de dijiye
- Koi ek kissa sochiye jo sunana hai, aur wo shaant pal jab wo fit baithe
- Dekhiye ki chubhan shabdon ki hai ya izzat ki
Jo theek lage wo aazmaiye. Istemaal karein ya na karein, dono theek hain.
Ek sawaal chuniye
Baat kijiye #
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